MMO or SUPER-O – Either way, I reached a new plateau

It’s been a while since I posted my updates,

Since buying my Progasm a month ago, I have hardly put the thing down. It feels amazing and my progress towards Super O were well on their way. About every week I was reaching a new Milestone – involuntary contractions, pushing the Aneros into my prostate, Involuntary movements of the Aneros the next week, deep pleasure the next week, and so on.

Although last week something changed, I was using my Progasm on Saturday night and into Sunday morning. Although enjoyable, I still had not reached the Super O. I got up for a shower. I decided to masturbate whilst in the shower. I still had the Progasm inside me, it felt good whilst standing in the warn shower. Suddenly I look at my penis and I was ejectulating! It was weird as there was no sensation, no enjoyment, I was cumming and lots of it. I thought it was the involuntary result of all the Prostate massage I had been doing, although I was surprised by the lack of sensation.

During the week that followed, I lost all interest in trying to achieve my Super O, I tried inserting the Progasm as usual, but nothing really happened. It was like my body did not care for the continued search for the elusive prostate orgasm. It felt boring having the Progasm inside me – nothing, I was worried because I had been making huge progress, then this happens. I thought all the “re-wiring” had come undone, all my efforts were wasted – .perhaps I had short-circuited something.

“MMO – 10, Ejaculation – 0”

After reading “The Multi-Orgasmic Man”, I wanted to experience edging with prostate orgasms but without ejaculation. I thought I would have to ejaculate once or twice to experience this. Was I wrong! Let me explain…….

I am now into Day 12 of SR and, as usual, went to bed with a towel tucked beneath my silky boxers. I had started to get aroused in bed with my wife but it was getting too late for any serious fun. So I just rolled-over and was headed to dreamland.

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Several hours later, I was awakened with the most INTENSE ERECTION possible. I am laying on my stomach and feel myself “pumping” my erect cock into a lover. OMG! Was this the start (or the middle) of a wet dream? Not sure now, but I realized that if I continued this for much longer, I would be quickly ending my recent semen retention challenge. With every twitch and every breath, I seemed to be inching closer and closer to the release. Yes, I wanted it. I felt completely mesmerized by this feeling and wondered if I was awake or asleep? Could I be headed for an involuntary ejaculation? Definitely, YES! (I am now feeling a twitching down in my prostate).

More Milestones reached – the pleasure is getting stronger and stronger

I thought I would share some more of my experiences thus far. I have found the Wiki referred throughout this site, an extremely helpful guide and I would not have discovered this amazing wealth of pleasure without it, or the many posts on this site.

Although I have always enjoyed the pleasures of shoving things up my bum, I did not really know how deep the pleasure could go. I used to masturbate while objects were there. I knew there was pleasure in anal play, I knew about the nerve endings and the Prostate. But I did not know my body could be taught to ‘rewire the circuitry’ to achieve such amazing pleasure.

My journey started a few months ago when I decided to buy some sex toys. I had always wanted to buy these things but I was too embarrassed and didn’t really know where to get started. The change for me came when my wife was planning a business trip away for a few nights. I organised one of those Postal delivery services so I could go on-line, order what I wanted and have it waiting at the post office rather than delivered to my home. I was all set, so I went on-line and purchased a few toys – I chose the cheaper rubbery things and a plastic prostate massager – it looked like an Aneros but it wasn’t a genuine one. The stuff arrived and my wife went on her trip and I started to play.

Natural Movement

Early on the journey to achieving Super-Os it’s very important to understand the concept of Aneros-driven “Natural Movement.” Massages can be given in a variety of ways but what’s common to every kind of massage is the repetitive cycle of pressure and release. One needs both for pleasure, tension release, and muscle relaxation, and in the case of the prostate, stimulation. Prostate massage is no different – a prostate massager needs to be able to firmly apply and release pressure on the prostate for effective and pleasurable stimulation. The Aneros was designed to do this in the most natural way possible – hands-free only through the body’s own anal sphincter muscle contractions, with “natural” being the key word.

The general shape of Aneros knock-off prostate massagers is like ours but due to a lack of true understanding about the male anatomy users have to manipulate these products by hand. Manual massage is still a method of massaging and therefore can provide stimulation but there are huge differences between a manual massage and the hands-free stimulation that our models provide.

The first and obvious differences are comfort and ease of use. When you have to manually use an anal device you are limited to a certain number of comfortable positions. Hands and knees? Well, one hand and knee is fine until you realize that you need to do more one-armed push-ups to stay in that position for longer. With an Aneros prostate stimulator you can use your bedroom as a Twister board of possibilities for enjoying a session because all you need to do is contract and relax your anal sphincter muscles. The more relaxed and comfortable you are, the more conducive the environment is for amazing pleasure.

Did I do it right?

So I had a lot of success last night. With some help from this forum, I correctly lubed up my helix and put it in…relaxed for an hour…and then got the urge to buck my hips to the point of orgasming…lots of cum…dribbled out…is this something that’s supposed to happen? Did I do it right? I don’t remember if I felt the “involuntaries” but while I was relaxing my prostate was very prominent and I could feel the contact. Advice?

Think I’m getting close / How long should you contract for?

In my session today I tried to contract my sphincter muscles for as long as I could at a medium pressure. It was around a minute or so.

Doing this with a rolled up towel under my hips gave the tip of my penis a vibrating sensation along with some involuntary contractions. This was definitely the most pleasure I’ve gotten about of the syn so far. However the involuntary contractions would go away when I would stop contracting.

However I’m worried that A: I may be contracting for too long? Could I hurt/damage anything? and B: the good feeling was almost entirely in the tip of the penis. Didn’t notice too much pleasure coming from the prostate.

tips/thoughts?

“Back In The Saddle Again”

An unexpected Super-O! Here’s how it happened……

Following the 21-Day Challenge which ended for me on Day 14, I thought I would have a significant refractory period. Perhaps for ejaculation, but apparently not for prostate orgasms! Let me explain……

I awoke fairly early with a rock-hard erection. It honestly felt like I could be headed for an involuntary ejaculation so I placed a towel again beneath my boxers and laid back down. In a little while, I decided to “dose” again on the prostate health binaural which I like. I continued to feel an incredible pulsing in my prostate and continued this for probably 35 minutes or so. I then switched to some relaxing but erotic lounge music. I still had the towel beneath my boxers and it seemed perfectly fine to start a fantasy…….I am with a female companion and she begins to caress all the erogenous parts of my body, especially my underarms, nipples and scrotum. My penis was not particularly aroused at this time. I remember her saying to me that “we have all night” with regard to the tantric cuddling! Since I already had a towel present, I didn’t have to worry about anything! Following about 30 minutes of cuddling, I felt ready and aroused enough to continue this “session” upstairs in my bedroom. Not knowing what to expect, I laid a large towel across the bed, lubed-up the helix, “mounted it” and started this session. I laid down on my right side initially then quickly moved over onto my stomach which felt better. I decided to start this session with a “do-nothing” approach.

One Step Closer – Involuntary Convulsions.

Since my Progasm Ice arrived 10 days ago, I haven’t really slept that much. Every night, starting around 11:30, I have inserted the beast and tried for the Big O. I know I am not supposed to chase it, but I can’t help myself. Reading all the experiences on this site have made me determined to try. So, I insert it every evening, I have practiced the breathing and PC muscle contractions – this I have learnt to do now and my muscles down there seem strong and responsive. I usually leave the Progasm in all night, which causes me to wake up several times and start the PC exercises again.

A few days ago, I left work early and went home. As I was alone with several hours up my sleeve, I thought I would do everything right. I bought a douche when I purchased my Progasm, along with some gel type lube. I had never used a douche before and found the experience interesting, but I was nice and clean. I lubed out, syringing heaps right up in-side me. I inserted the Progasm and spend several more hours, learning and enjoying – but no Big O.

Last night I continued again, lots of lube, (I am still clean from the douche a few days ago). I have read on this site by many successful members, that the Big O usually follows the anal muscles doing involuntary contractions and that this is out of the persons control – like the body takes over and knows what it needs to do. I had not experienced this, so last nights mission became – ‘I want to experience Involuntary contractions”.

Tricking brain by imitating sensation of orgasm by contracting on the aneros?

After 2 months abstinence from anything sexual, each contraction collapsing on the aneros is mind-blowing. It’s good enough to make my eyes roll to brain involuntarily. There is **this itchy place that can be scratched over and over again**, and every time it’s like 2 sec orgasm.

It makes me think that perhaps I’m not stimulating prostate at all, but pelvic floor muscles responsible for orgasm. Orgasm is a series of involuntary contractions. What I do when contracting on the aneros is imitating exactly that, over and over.

I imagine a lot of you have had related thoughts on your journeys. So I wanted to ask you at least if this is a possibility? Because I’ve had a lot of sessions and I can never ever feel anything by tickling prostate. It’s all about contractions, preferably with legs stretched out as far as possible. I’ve never had prostate orgasm.

Hopefully someone has anything to say about it. Eliminating or confirming the possibility I’m not stimulating prostate at all would be of great help.

“Semen Retention: No-Spill Zones”

For those of us navigating through “Semen Retention”, know that it requires a great deal of discipline and focus. As noted in previous blogs by myself and others, one needs to “channel” the sexual energy (fire) into other parts of his life. We males do not live in a sexual vacuum, most of us are not celibate and we must cope with sexual stimulation every day of our lives.

Here are some examples how, when practicing SR, we must navigate through the “No-Spill Zones” —-
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First, as most of us males know, we have an average 3 to 5 erections every night. That means that usually at some point in time (in the middle of the night or early morning) we will awaken with a boner. How we manage these erections while practicing semen retention becomes the first test of our focus and discipline. Do we feel the need to masturbate and ejaculate? Do we want to have sex? You bet! But semen retention requires a more focused approach, a rejection of the normal male sexual response if you will, if we are to progress along the path. In time, the erection will subside and we will return to normal.
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