How close am I getting and how can I go further?

Hopefully someone can tell me what I need to be doing to get past this tingly stage so I have detailed my sessions as best as possible.

There have been around 10 or so times now during sessions where I will get to the point of a warm tingly feeling building up for a few seconds and then fading.

But yesterday I was using my Nexus Revo 2 with the fast pulse mode while watching porn, it had been about 2 hours and nothing major had happened. Then I started to feel more sensation through my prostate, and had the tingly warm feeling build up, instead of fading within 5 seconds, my hands became tingly and were twitching (like a nice pins and needles), this lasted about 20 seconds and left.

The way I got there was by using the pulse settings on the second speed, lying on my back with my legs slightly raised and practiced flexing my PC muscles and holding them. This is what usually makes me feel sensations increase in my prostate. After doing this for a little bit I get semi involuntary twitches in my abs and occasional involuntary humps. After about a minute of this I start to feel a build up but quite often quickly lose it.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

Holy shit! I think I finally did it!

This literally just happened. I've been using Aneros products on and off for the better part of a decade, and although I've enjoyed the feeling and had some great super-ts, I've never been able to achieve a full on super-O. Today, that changed. I've been really getting more into of the "hands-off" approach to my sessions for the last few months, and I've come close but never been able to break through. Today I had my third session of the week with my Helix Syn after taking some extra prep time to trim the hedges and clean up real good. I took my time and relaxed thuroughly while inserting, and after taking a few minutes to get adjusted, began breathing deeply and lightly alternating my pc and sphincter. This time however I kept telling myself in my head, "you're not going to super, and that's ok." Also I tried to get a rhythm going so the contractions were happening naturally rather than something I had to actively concentrate on. After just a few minutes I started to get some involuntary buzzing, and slowly that buzzing began to spread throughout my entire body, growing in intensity. At it's peak, my abdominal muscles were fully contracted, and entire body was tingling very strongly. I would relate the feeling to the tingling that happens in your face when you hyperventilate, plus the buzzing numbness you get in your hands after mowing the lawn for a while, but both over my entire body. It kept going like that for probably five minutes or more, I feel like I could have kept it up, but I was getting exhausted at that point, so i let it idle down.

Egg )or some other protein( on face…

Well, I maybe can see why the old timers say not to touch your penis…

Argh, frustrating. I had a "quickie" session yesterday evening with my Helix. I shouldn't have had the session anyway, since I'd had two in 1.5 days and I think I really needed some groin R&R.

But I'd had such success with incorporating penis stimulation in A–Less sessions so I tried this time too with the Helix. However this time, I ended up ejaculating just when I thought it might be escalating toward something like a super–O. Nope. That wasn't what was going on. Was a strong regular orgasm though!

I didn't do my normal prostate warm up because I didn't have a lot of time. And, all it took to start pwaves was on nipple touch since it was so soon after my last session.( But I know I've found in the past that if I hurry things along and don't let the prostate really get properly aroused, then any penis stimulation turns into just jacking off.

So, me newbie. I'm beginning to wonder if stimulating the penis isn't just a dead end rabbit trail since I've heard it cautioned over and over not to use your penis…

I know also that in the past, when the Helix is inserted, there's so much more stimulation going on just by it being there, as opposed to an A–Less session.

First involuntary twitches during a Dry-O

Last night tried to have an Aless session and nothing worked. Dud.

This morning, was just feeling up my penis like I often like to do )enjoy feeling the shapes and different skin types, folds of skin, etc(, and noticed a pwave! So figured I oughta check it out.

Rubbed & tickled the outside edge of the glans for a minute and went into a mild penis dry–O, so figured the power's on! So enjoyed that one for maybe 5 min, then had 4 – 5 more really intense ones over 45 minutes. Testicals started turtling if I rubbed my frenulum or front of the glans )which for me always leads to ejaculation )or blue balls ARGH( (, but not if I only played with the left and right edges and top of the glans.

These Orgasms started with a strong PC contraction and pulling in of my groin, then thrust out with solid erection, then slow moving grinding/thrusting in/out, rolling side to side, etc. No semen, but drop or two of pre–lube with each orgasm or each major grind. My testicals weren't turtling up either.

Was really satisfying and pleasurable. Didn't need to stimulate my pee–hole this time to cause them, but the times I did, that would set off another round. During one of these, I spent like 5 minutes solid with a hard erection, just slowly moving my groin in and out with several drops of pre–lube coming out of the tip.

Tight butt requires a smaller toy

I'm getting Eupho and worry that it's still too big, bulgy, long or whatever as I can get very ecstatic with this.

I inserted it about 2.75" (index finger size) in with brush part upwards (brush side out of course!) and it turned sideways right away so I let it. If it didn't fall out when the intensity ramped up (involuntary) I'm pretty sure I would orgasm. It's 0.5" thick and it wobbled up and down and it fueled my arousal extremely, I was dripping precum more than ever.

This is a final proof that Helix, SGX or anything of similar size is a waste of time for me. The idea was that didn't know what's wrong with them – each didn't work in their own way. I was thinking about how MGX could make things better and the other option was Eupho but I worried that it looks too much like Helix except size – and so I had an idea.

Refute people who say you need to stick with it, there is a technique but you can't do it with a wrong tool. Even if you don't orgasm it should feel so pleasurable that you don't want it to stop! It feels like your prostate is tickled by a feather and not pounded.

I was considering Peridise too but I'm not sure how much the design is important to mobility and if it would be enough. Please let me know If you know about other products that are not as big or you use them (information which Aneros you are successfully using regularly and how it compares would be great).

My body doesn’t allow initial 10-minute relaxation period anymore.

Very recently (within the past 3 sessions), my body doesn't even allow me the initial 10-minute relaxation period anymore.

For the past few times, I've inserted the Aneros when I can feel my prostate begging for it. I'll be sitting in a chair or on the couch and start to feel things twitching at a more rapid pace than I've ever experienced. It's as if I'm sitting on the railroad tracks as a train is approaching.

So when I feel this begging, I begin a session but my body immediately starts going crazy…not Super-O crazy, as I've yet to cross that threshhold, but my PC muscle, sphincter muscle and everything in between just starts this crazy dance of pleasure. It will get pretty intense, which forces both my PC muscle and rectal muscles to involuntarily contract all the way. After each extreme contraction, it seems that the involuntary dancing that's going on gets less and less intense until…….nothing. Well, almost nothing– once in awhile I'll have a minor twitch, but that's about it. It's almost as if my session is going in the reverse direction of how it's supposed to.

My question is, should I try to stop my body from those extreme contractions, or does this have nothing to do with the "calming down" of everything? Is it that my body becomes used to having something in there and the initial shock of a foreign object creates that crazy dancing? I usually give myself around an hour or so of not doing much of anything after the twitching stops.

Am I doing it right?

It’s my first time posting here and I’m very glad to see there’s an Aneros community presence here on Reddit. I first invested in an Aneros (MGX) maybe 6 years ago, but never really gave it a chance. I would overthink every motion, became frustrated and put it into a drawer to be forgotten until about a month ago.

My boyfriend has the same model and has had the amazing, desired results from it—not only can he quickly experience a Super-O every time, but when I rub his perineum, it sends him down the same path even though there’s no Aneros inserted. That being said, it definitely re-piqued my curiosity to work my way up to that point. He says much of it is exercise… that building up your PC muscle is a great way to get things going down there, just because when it’s a bigger muscle, it’s rubbing against the prostate more. So he basically would do a kegel and then a sphincter contraction (with the Aneros in, toward the beginning of his journey) to build up and better separate these muscle groups. Now, he has very sensitive nipples, so rubbing them would basically activate the PC muscles without thinking, which is a big bonus. I have noticed that his perineum area is larger than mine and rock hard when he has a hard-on. I’m guessing this is due to his exercising of that area.

So Far Best way to Warm Up Prostate

So far it looks like the best way for me to warm up and get my prostate hard is to lay on my left side and do a bunch of PC contractions and lower ab pushes until my prostate starts to feel electric shocks like a chiropractors muscle machine. Then I can seek to find a muscle state that keeps the buzzing on constant, then really get good orgasms.

Sometimes, it really magnifies the contractions to take my hand and pull on my top butt–cheek to spread the cheeks apart. Don't know why this works, but it makes it really easy to feel every muscle movement inside my groin. Maybe it's just a mental thing or maybe it tightens up the muscles around the prostate.

Had the most intense dry–O's so far last night. Had tried yesterday morning to get my prostate to have the electric buzz, but no matter what I did, it just wouldn't go there. It was definitely being aroused, but something was blocking it.

That night however, it was different. Took 15 minutes of warmup, but then my prostate got rock hard – like I could feel a bulge inside my groin. I really want to refer to this state as the prostate having a hard–on. It really feels like that. In this state, it's super easy to generate an Orgasm…

Reliable Quick A-Less Dry-O's & more

Recent A–Less sessions with Dry–Os.

So far it looks like the best way for me to warm up and get my prostate hard for lots of Dry–O’s is to lay on my left side and do a bunch of PC contractions and lower ab pushes before I even start stimulating my nipples. I do this until my prostate starts to feel electric shocks like a chiropractors muscle machine. This can take 1 to 20 minutes depending on my body and mental state I guess… Then I can seek to find a PC/Ab muscle state with nipple stimulation that keeps the buzzing on constantly, then work with slow movement contractions to discover good orgasm positions.

I’ve also been able to go into orgasm mode without a constant prostate buzzing, but it takes a lot more work…

Sometimes, it really magnifies the contractions to take my hand and pull on my top butt–cheek to spread the cheeks apart. Don't know why this works, but it makes it really easy to feel every muscle movement inside my groin. Maybe it's just a mental thing or maybe it tightens up the muscles around the prostate….??

Had the most intense dry–O's so far last night.

Had tried yesterday morning to get my prostate to the electric buzz, but no matter what I did, it just wouldn't go there. It was definitely being aroused, but something was blocking it.

Trouble getting aroused with Aneros (Helix)

Ok, so this seems to be my biggest issue or blocker. I am comfortable with it but any erection soon goes away. There's a short period of time when Aneros itself can get me hard and going but then it stops working.

I had some successes but they are quite elusive even when I do the same things. I had a pretty good series of P-waves (early in the session), this was what I was going after when I discovered it with another toy. Most notably I had woken up to a REM sleep boner and pretty serious involuntary contractions but it didn't lead nowhere. That was also my only success by lying on the bed.

Looking at porn doesn't seem to work but I had biggest success and hints of success while watching it. I could easily jerk off to it but it'll be 7 days since my last real orgasm. I don't get aroused easily throughout the day either which I would expect (maybe it's because of release by massaging?).

Any thoughts? I've been doing "do nothing" but sometimes I feel that I should pull my sphincter muscles together and hold to increase the intensity. On the other hand I worry that it actually might be too aggressive for me since I got it going at night with nothing inside and that's what prevents/stops my boner.