Tag: Kegel Exercises

This is insane

Hi everyone!

I posted some questions yesterday after a few unsuccessful attempts to use the aneros syn helix. Two folks replied (thanks to you two!) and gave some really complete answers with a few tips, like getting high on weed (something I already do daily in Canada, where it’s legal), listening to binaural beat and relax. Well, I didn’t though this was going to be so effective!

I did try once putting the syn helix when high before. I remember really well having a weird feeling down there while listening to some music and back then, I decided to remove it, thinking the toy was rubbing too hard on some part of my rectum. I now know how wrong I was and what I missed back then. Read more »

What am I doing wrong?

I bought a Progasm a few years ago and it pretty much just feels like a glorified butt plug. I don’t even know what prostate stimulation is supposed to feel like. Because of this, I rarely use it. I do do kegels regularly, even have an app for it that tracks exercise and reminds me. But still nothing.

aless orgasm help?

not in a position where I can get an use an aneros, but I’d like to experience an aless orgasm.

Some background – I’ve used stiff anal beads to have orgasms where I aggressively toy prostate and basically empty my bladder amidst endless full body orgasm.

I’ve been practicing as much as possible throughout the day sitting and doing kegels, the rolling ones from asshole to cock. i’ve gotten close but.. what am I doing wrong?

(Finally) Achieved a HFWO! How to progress to dry-O’s?

Hey guys! Been an aneros user for about 3 months. Started with the Helix Syn Trident, then progressed to the Progasm Jr 3 weeks ago. The Progasm Jr was the one that finally brought me over the edge. The build up and everything was soooo goooooooood, but I was honestly thinking I was going to achieve a Dry-O, or perhaps even a super orgasm! Unfortunately, I got this sensation of cum spurting out and lo and behold – it did. A bit disappointed I had to stop the session there, since after 5 minutes after I came and was still riding some p-waves, I just wasn’t horny anymore.

I can’t really remember what I did differently to achieve the HFWO, but I was doing it mostly how I usually did it, except this time I edged for a week. I got myself super horny and put on some porn before I put the Progasm in. The moment I put the progasm in, I knew my body was in for a treat since I immediately started to feel good and started to moan. Usually I would try to relax, but the feelings were already making my ass contract immediately after insertion, so I did some light kegel exercises for about 2 minutes, then I just made the toy do the work since it was already doing a fine job inside me. I think the one thing I did differently this time was to find a contraction that felt good and rode the wave, keeping the contraction there. 50 minutes later, I feel something building up, my lower half shaking. I start to feel that “point of no return” feel in my prostate (or cock), and thats when I had the wet orgasm. Read more »

My first success?

I’ve been experimenting with my Helix Trident Syn for about 3 months now with some underwhelming results, up until tonight that is. I was watching scary movies at night with some friends when I thought I would practice some kegels to see if I could get myself in the mood for later. At this point I truly was not seeking a pleasurable outcome from these exercises because I was around other people, and I think that is exactly why I was able to feel something new. I finally stopped chasing after it, and that’s when I found it.

I was practicing the standard breathing techniques for about 30 minutes at this point when I started to feel a pulse under the base of my penis and around my perineum. A warmth started to develop and it felt like something grabbed a hold of me and my muscles started contracting violently on their own. I had already begun to orgasm before I was able to force myself to stop, and it took me a couple of minutes to calm myself down and stop leaking.

I’ve always had a hard time understanding if I was targeting the right muscles during my contractions, especially after so long of nothing. Is it normal to feel pressure under the base of my penis as well as my perineum, or is that considered to be stimulating the penis directing and something to be avoided?

Experience after sex with wife

So I just got the helix last week and I am completely new to this prostate massage business. I had a couple decent sessions this week, the second one I think I might have reached prostate orgasm, although I’m not sure if I can distinguish it correctly (it felt really damn good). Anyway tonight I told my wife about this and then we had sex while I had the Aneros in my ass. Once I knew she was satisfied I let myself cum and had a fantastic regular orgasm which absolutely drained me! My wife went to the shower as I just relaxed on the bed, so I thought I would do some Kegels for the sport of it, not expecting anything. Within a minute or two I was already trembling. By the time my wife got back from her shower I was going wild and I told her to get over and hold me tight! She didn’t know what the hell was happening but we shared the experience. I was feeling this full body tingling sensation for probably ten minutes or more and it was incredible. Can anyone tell me if this is the actual Super-O I keep hearing about or am I getting close or what stage am I at? Anyway, for those of you learning this like I am, maybe this is helpful.

Thanks for listening, I don’t know who else to tell!

Nipple orgasm help?

Ive been playing with my nipples every other day or so to increase sensitivity. I had a nice session the other night where i was rubbing my nipples up and down and felt a nice build up. After awhile i couldnt feel anything and it died. Ive heard you can experiance prostate like orgasms from nipple play with experiance. Ive used nipple play with aneros and thats made those sessions a lot better.

When it builds up i feel some throbbing in my taint, but it dies soon afterward. Should i apply kegels or not move at all? Any tips to help me improve?

First Hands Free Wet Orgasm

Just had my first hands free orgasm tonight and holy shit it was incredible! Easily one of the best orgasms of my life! I was laying there for like a good 10-15 minutes post nut, just trying to gather my thoughts of what just happened. I guess what tripped me out was the fact that I have only used the aneros less than 5 times, and I already achieved a handsfree wet orgasm. So I am by no means a pro at this, but here are a few tips that I follow that helped me achieve this….

1.) Warm up your ass and get yourself in the mood.
(I try and work up to 2 fingers before I slide the toy inside.)

2.) Take a nice hot bath/shower to relax yourself.

3.) Get rid of all expectations. Just go in with the mindset of imma relax and if anything happens, well than that’s a plus. (It’s all about mindset!!!)

4.) BREATHE!!! Make sure you take nice big breaths to help you stay relaxed and focused. (Even during P Waves and Dry Orgasms)

5.) Don’t over do it with the Kegels. This is completely subjective and it works for me, but I personally just let the toy do all the work. I will however, do some light Kegels to get things going but after that, I let the aneros do what it does. Basically, don’t be doing non stop Kegels and wonder why you’re not feeling anything. Let the toy do its thing. Read more »

Question about a-less orgasms

I’ll write more about my session below, but in case of TL;DR I’ll get to the point: I get that having an Aneros device inserted leads to prostate stimulation (physical stim), but what drives A-less orgasm/stimulation?

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So like a lot of people, I saw the pandemic lockdown as a chance to make some progress on my journey. I’ve had a handful of good sessions over the past two years, 2 I suspect reached super-O levels; but overall it’s been pretty inconsistent. There’s also a lot of other barriers (roommate; mental health struggles causing me to struggle to clear my mind; find it hard to have a good session without weed and my supply dried up for a while), and to top things off I ended up with a case of gastro.

Yesterday was the first day I was feeling over the gastro, enough that my entire body didn’t feel out of whack, but not *so* over it that I thought douching and playing with the toy would be a good idea, even though I’ve really been craving a session for a while.

By late night, after I’d chilled out and blazed up, I was feeling kinda horny but wasn’t hard, so decided I’d get comfy, put on a tried-and-true porn film, and started working on kegels, not expecting much. However, it ended up being epic, even though it was completely a-less. I don’t think it was quite as pleasurable as past sessions – I would describe it as overall pleasurable, but muted – and I wonder if that’s because there was no toy. That got me wondering exactly what happens when someone has an a-less session, like what is the cause of pleasure without a toy. Read more »

What to do after getting involuntaries?

I’ve been trying to explore more feelings with my Progasm Ice. I seem to be able to get to a point where I’m feeling pretty relaxed and able to manoeuvre the Progasm around handsfree. I am able to trigger some involuntary spasms in doing this which I believe to be a step in the right direction. It feels ok but I can’t seem to break through to anything further.

After a while I get either bored or it starts to feel onerous in continuing moving my kegels. Then I find it tricky to maintaining flexing kegels and therefore can’t relax.

I sometimes feel like I’m getting some tiny flecks of pleasure, but I think this is more of a kind of placebo effect, I’m expecting pleasure so constantly looking out for it.

Can anyone help me move on from getting involuntaries?