I have used a variety of the aneros toys and stopped for about 2 years and recently got a helix trident. any and all tips on using it to get p-waves or that warm body feeling i have read about would be greatly appreciated. advise on how often to use, technique, and positions will be helpful. also i am not looking to use any uppers or other stimulus to help relax.
Tag: P-waves
How to progress from involuntaries
Hi there, I’ve been new to this game and over the last 6 months on and off I’ve attempted possibly 10sessions since I first purchased the helix trident syn.
I’ve attempted and tried a number of the tips that are commonly posted here and have made some progress strengthening the PC muscles etc. The stage I am currently at is that I can (without much effort) cause what I believe to be extended periods of involuntary contractions. These involuntary contractions usually lead to periods where I feel very aroused but that is all. If I focus on these involuntaries sometimes (with my eyes closed and focusing on my breathing) I can cause myself to start spinning but not in a dizzying way. These two results of involuntary contractions are the only progress I have made. I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong, what sensations I should be focusing on to try and achieve p-waves.
I’ve also considered the toy isn’t working for me. When I have tried or my girlfriend has used a finger inside me it has felt like my prostate was actually being stimulated and besides being a nice feeling using the toy and having the involuntary contractions I don’t feel it actually stimulate my prostate or any sort of build up of pleasurable feelings in that area. Where exactly should the pleasure or p-waves originate so I understand where to focus and cultivate them?
Any help anyone can give would be most appreciated.
Let me tell you a story all about how…
My concept of orgasm got turned upside down.
I’ve made a few posts in this forum but they’re not a good summation of my Aneros journey so I’ll try to sum it all up here and I’ll start with this morning..
Wake up at 0350 with not much sleep and a 60+ hour work week just finished feeling a bit wrecked from it all. Not a lot to do at this time of day so thought I’ll have 3 or 4 drags on a joint and have a go at an Aneros session and given the above and the fact I had sex two nights ago I wasn’t expecting much from it.
Was I ever wrong.
20mins into the session and I’m at maybe my fifth pgasm and I can feel myself melting into the joy coming from my prostate and sphincter area with escalating waves of pleasure pouring out into my thighs groin and abdomen.
Experienced users, what would you say the difference is between a P-gasm, P-wave and a super-O?
Wondering because I think I may have had my first full P-wave tonight. Was just relaxing thinking about something random with the toy in and all of a sudden felt this warm jolt go through my body for a good couple seconds, then disappear. After that nothing else really happened but I’m happy with the result, I had this same feeling a month or more back but it only lasted for like a second or maybe less, so I’m glad I’m making *some* progress. I just wish more could have happened after it, and am wondering if this is what maybe hitting a plateau means?
Aless Guidance
So I have gained some experience with the Aneros Helix Syn. I am able to have small pleasurable p-waves.
Unfortunately, I am unhealthy and my blood circulation is very bad. Working on it to get better (stopped smoking, doing cardio). However, when using the Aneros nowadays, my prostate goes numb after a few minutes.
So in order to still have sessions, I am switching to Aless for the moment. I did not find very useful tips yet. Has anybody got experience with Aless and can please help me?
First Progasm PGasm in over 3 weeks.
Hey guys.
So, managed to PGasm with the progasm for the first time in over 3 weeks.
The last time was during the 4 days of my initial PGasm success about 4 weeks ago.
Since then i have managed one session of full PGasm whilst A-Less (OMG, on many levels) and another A-Less session with PGasms that were awesome but definitely of lower intensity.
This mornings session with the Progasm though was great. it was about an hour with about 4 distinct periods where pleasure rose up to trigger Pgasm 4 times.
Over this past month i have definitely learned a lot.
When i had my first A-Less PGasm about 2.5 weeks ago it really allowed me to chill the fuck out about managing to repeat my initial PGasm successes. ever since then i have been happy with whatever pleasure cums my way during a session. Much more chilled.
I have also been able to really just experience what is happening. When i am thinking about this out of session i think a lot about that multiple orgasm graph that i am sure we are probably familiar with. The graph shows peaks and valleys of pleasure over time that eventually reach the peak of orgasm, dip down and then reach orgasm again (and again).
I can really see the accuracy of this graph now.
Involuntaries – medical explanation?
Hi, everyone!
I sent a similar DM to u/butt_munky who gave me some great pointers, but also suggested that I make a general post.
I have been really struggling to figure out what the involuntaries are, as they seem to be crucial to making progress to good feelings with the Aneros. I have some medical training, so have been trying to figure out exactly what these are, to know if I have been getting them or if I need to redirect my training.
If, as some have suggested, I try to hold PC contractions at various levels of intensity, the muscle will eventually fatigue. This is just like trying to hold an arm curl with a dumbbell for a long period of time. The muscle will start to shake because it has run “out of gas,” going into something called “tetany.” It can be pretty exhausting (as with the dumbbell) to hold this level of contraction, and the muscle trembling is not particularly pleasurable. If I really concentrate, I can sometimes force my mind to think that this is pleasurable, maybe with an occasional very brief “zing” of what I assume might be the start of a P-wave. Most writers don’t seem to indicate that their sessions are exhausting.
Was this a “calm seas” PGasm?
Hey guys.
recently i have been really enjoying ALess sessions. They have been getting really intense and the last full PGasm i had was Aless (just over a week ago, i think).
Of the full PGasms i have had the orgasms have been intense with the prostate contractions feeling like “BAM BAM BAM BAM BAM BAM!!!!!!!” etc… with this going on for minutes.
So, last night I was having a really nice ALess session and i could really feel it building with the PWaves getting higher and involuntaries really feeling more intense and focused on my prostate. It was really nice and i would have been happy just enjoying that before i went to sleep.
Anyway, shortly after that my prostate began contracting A La PGasm but this felt different. Instead of the “BAM BAM BA-BAM BAMBAMBAM, BBBBBB-BAM….” it instead felt a lot more gentle and slow. like my prostate was being lovingly and rhymically squeezed. My heart was beating harder but not like it has before for my other Pgasms.
This was most definitely my prostate contracting and it felt totally amazing but this was not the same as before.
I have heard about the “calm seas” orgasms and i think that this maybe sounds a bit like that. What do you guys think? I stopped after about 15 minutes cos i needed to sleep but i really feel like i could have kept that going indefinitely.
It was less intense for sure but not worse. Just different.
Aneros Progasm awakened my prostate
23 y/o here. Bisexual so no stranger to receptive anal stuff. Prior to buying an aneros I had been messing around with a vibrating kegel ball, and although it felt great I wasn’t getting prostate orgasms from it. Regardless, I am still aware of the muscles down there and how to get pleasure from playing with my ass.
Last Monday the progasm finally came in the mail. I was so excited because I had been reading up on these forums and the aneros website prior, so I had an idea of what I was doing. Also they say that progasm isn’t best for beginners…I beg to differ!
So Monday night I finally got around to using the aneros. After popping it in it feels extremely pleasurable and filling. I was using it on and off for a couple hours, but then when I finally went to bed the real fun started. I was in bed with the progasm in, and smoked some weed prior. This seemed to be the key. After doing the light contractions and feeling p waves, things began to escalate. My body was shaking and the toy was moving by itself. Then before I knew it, my PC muscles are stuck in the “tug of war”. My whole body was shaking and the pleasure was coming in strong waves. My PC muscles were quivering uncontrollably and the P tab of the toy felt so good pressing into me. This basically continued til I got tired. I was satisfied in achieving a prostate orgasm even if not a super o.
My first P-waves!
So for context: I’ve lurked a while but decided to make my first post after my first major breakthrough. I owned the helix trident until I lost it on a trip recently like a fool. I never had a great experience with it. Minor sensations, comfort, but nothing crazy. This is entirely due to user error and a poor fit regarding what I need.
Which brings us to Monday. I ordered a progasm and peridise to replace my lost model and was excited to try them out. I warmed up with the peridise by using it manually (just rubbing it on the prostate, not the right way to use it but sue me). This was the first thing that really helped me level up, I wanted a better warm up and I got one. It was easy and felt great.
Then came the progasm. I opted for a YouTube link that hotel guy used for binaural beats, slipped it in, and tried to clear my mind. My plan is usually to do nothing for a while, then start manually operating it with my pc muscles if I feel like it. The do nothing portion was not like my helix sessions at all! Usually, my butt clenches involuntarily and randomly at the beginning of the session. The progasm was so snug that I had more control over what happened, thus no involuntary squeezes. I also felt less sensation at the beginning, which was weird. I felt it helpful to have this new found control because I could also squeeze with more intention.