Tag: Porn

I’ve been trying for a few years and I’m still hardly getting any pleasure out of it.

Technically it would be more accurate to say it’s off and on for a few years. I tend to give up on it for a while or not be able to for a long time for one reason or another.

I’m using the “do nothing” or the “try not to orgasm” approach. Try not to orgasm is a nice one because then if pleasure stops I’m less likely to get frustrated. I’ve tried intentionally moving the aneros inside me but it never works more than a tiny bit. Any attempt to directly control the movement of the aneros or the feeling of pleasure itself leaves me worse off than I started. Fine. I just won’t do that.

I’m still at the stage where the sensations are mild and never last more than a few seconds. A couple times I’ve gotten better than that but I haven’t gotten back there in about a year. As soon as I want it to feel better than it does in the moment, all pleasure stops, which is extremely frustrating.

I’m not focusing entirely on the possibility of the super O. I’ll be satisfied once I get to the point where it feels better than regular masturbation. I can’t explain why but I have a feeling that once I get to that point I’ll advance pretty quickly. Even if it doesn’t, I can be patient about how good it feels as long as it satisfies my need for it. I don’t think I’ll be bored once I get the fundamentals down. Read more »

“Chastity Groin Cup: A Fapstronaut’s Friend”

Background
I am surprised that I was unable to find a connection online. While abstaining from PMO in NoFap*, it is easy for me to avoid porn (P). In fact, I have done so for over 60 days already! Yes, I will get urges and a few thoughts remembered, but in general, I am abstaining from porn for the long-haul. I can do that!

The night-time erections are starting to return stronger than during the last ‘flatline’. In fact, I had a couple of automatic, spontaneous erections during the day yesterday that really surprised me. They were so strong that I was starting to leak some precum.

Groin Cups**
Now, what does all this have to do with groin cups you may ask? Well, for me, it is only natural that I control my urge to masturbate and ejaculate (MO) while practicing NoFap. To just “will it” and keep my hands off sometimes is too difficult, especially when the arousal is strong and my SR days are increasing. To counteract the urge, during those times, I find that putting-on an athletic hard cup (groin protection) is the best solution. It doesn’t matter which one I choose, they all will completely prevent me from making contact with my package and that will prevent me from masturbating. Read more »

“Yet Another Flatline?”

[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]

Background
Stats: SR Day 3 NoFap PMO Day 59. My last SR run ended at Day 9. I wasn’t really feeling the ‘blue-balls’ (yet) but I just wanted to ‘clear the pipes’. I did a weekly prostate massage with my MGX Classic. What an awesome ride! About 30 minutes and I thoroughly enjoyed the therapy! I am pre-lubing before insertion and that is making a world of difference in my sessions! I’ll be sure to keep it up!

I still feel the need to prohibit any tendency to masturbate by wearing a cup, usually in the early-morning hours after I awake with an erection. I just find that the hard cup keeps my hands away from my package and, yes, it just feels so good!

Flatline?
Why do I think I am entering yet another so-called flatline? My night time erections are still there but they don’t seem as plentiful, or rather, they are not waking me up like before. I really don’t feel close to the PONR like I have. During the day, I have zero erections. I’m not complaining, but it would be nice to get a little bit of a rise once in a while. Read more »

Can we lose the magic?

I’ve started the journey there is about 3 months. The beginning was very encouraging, I started to have super pleasant feelings after 3 sessions.

I got to the point where I had amazing, super sweet, very long (like 3 to 5 min) orgasms every sessions. I don’t know if it’s what you guys refer as a super O but anyway I was very happy with it. I tried things like thrusting and touching very slowly my cock and I got some of the best penile orgasms of my life (like crying intense).

The things is all sensations started to fade away at a point where each sessions were less intense than the one before. I’ve read forums and all and learned that thrusting, touching my cock and watching porn could be detrimental. So I stop all of this and tried techniques like the relaxing a lot and “do nothing”, I tried to lower my expectations and enjoying the present moment. It is most of the time kind of enjoyable, I have involuntary contractions and trembling very quickly, but nothing comparable to what I had before and I feel quite frustrated.

Did anybody go through a similar situation? If so, how did you get the magic back?

“NoFap Erections: Dancing Around A Wet Dream”

[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]

Background
Now at SR Day 6 and NoFap PMO Day 54. My night-time erections (since NoFap) have been incredibly strong. I feel like I am oh-so-close to a wet dream! I know that I probably will not have one when I am awake, but I have been having rather vivid dreams lately, mostly of a non-sexual nature. Just last night, while awake with a steel-hard erection and not wearing a cup (yet!) even a very slight movement while on my stomach nudged me ever-so-close to the PONR and, potentially, an ejaculation. All without using my hands at all. I honestly believe that I am headed for a wet dream any night now. I still must relieve my ‘blue-balls’ with an ejaculation but the stimulation is less than I would received from a HJ. Technically, not really a relapse since I am completely abstaining from porn now (and binaural beats as well).

Erection Quality with NoFap
I believe I have entered and exited at least two (maybe three) so-called NoFap “flatlines” since starting NoFap. Sometimes, I will have erections during the day, other days, I will not be aroused at all. But the real ‘magic’ now seems to occur at night when I will be subject to the regular NPTs. It is just that these erections seem to be different from the ones I remember prior to NoFap. I honestly look forward to going to bed now, in anticipation of those erections! Read more »

LongTimeComing

Yesterday, after finishing a productive morning at home, I wanted to cap off the morning by enjoying my MGX. I took a long hot shower, squirted about 5 ml of oil-based lube into my anus, and shea butter on the MGX, and inserted. I went downstairs and sat in a rocker for about 45 minutes watching a few arousing high quality porn scenes. The couple in the scene were clearly beginning to get off on each other, which got me revved up, too! I noticed a fluttering feeling and I started to squeeze a bit harder but slower, gently rocking my hips to feel the MGX rock back and forth. I precum a fair amount, and this time was no exception. The man in the video was pounding out his orgasm inside a beautiful wet hole, and I felt—for the first time ever—the point of no return!! I orgasmed too, man! Then I replayed the last few minutes of the video one more time, and came again! And AGAIN!

It’s raining today and I’m ahead of schedule, so guess what I’m going to do today….;-)

“It’s All For Prostate Health!”

[This blog was inspired by @Lth0ms0n, thanks!]

Introduction
I had read an interesting question on the Forum from @Lth0ms0n this morning, having to do with involuntaries. What are they? And that got me interested and intrigued. So the next thing I know, I am prepping for a ‘therapeutic’ session with the HIH 950. Here are the details……

Session
I am currently in Day 9 of SR with no hint of blue balls (yet). I am also into Day 49 of NoFap ®. I’ve only had an occasional ejaculation, about every 10 days to control my blue balls. Other than that, no masturbation for me, period. And no porn, ever again. But I still need to keep my prostate healthy. So this morning, I got ready for a nice session with the 950. I was already wearing my Mueller cup to prevent an unintentional ejaculation; it worked. I lubed-up with SSG not only the massager but my opening as well (it made a big difference!)

I started-out on my side. Before too long, while just relaxing and performing the ‘do-nothing’ technique, I began to feel a ‘twitch’ deep-down in my prostate. No, it did not feel like a fatigued-muscle spasm since I had just started the session. But it was something I just could not control. Around the same time, I remember, I had this erection develop as well as an uncontrollable whole-body ‘shudder’, almost like a jolt of electricity running all through me. Let’s not mince words here; these actions were ENTIRELY out of my control! And that IMHO is the essence of involuntaries—-by definition*, you do NOT CONTROL them! Just as you are ‘forced’ to excrete waste by involuntary muscular contractions in your colon, you are likewise ‘forced’ to experience the nuanced ‘pleasures’ of a prostate massage. Read more »

Have I Entered A So-Called NoFap “Flatline”?

[Note: NoFap is a registered trademark owned by Alexander Rhodes and NoFap LLC]

Background
Currently, I am at Day 7 of SR and Day 40 of NoFap “P” (no Porn). I still ejaculate (me or my wife) to control the blue-balls. My night-time erections (NPTs) are still quite strong and persistent. But one aspect which seems to have changed is my libido throughout the day. Let me explain…..

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The NoFap “Flatline”
Thanks to “Fapstronaut Maz20” for this concise discussion about the “flatline”—-

“Flatline is just the “limbo” state wherein (1) you’ve done NoFap/no-pmo long enough to be weaned away from it, but (2) at the same time, for whatever reason not compelled to gratify your sex drive otherwise by having actual sex.

*Edit — more background if necessary:
The purpose of nofap/no-pmo is to orient/reorient your sex drive to pursue actual sex instead of PMO.

To put it shorty, the problem with PMO is that it is technically “a” way of (somewhat) gratifying the sex drive. But, it is not “the” way 😉

Or, to put it more detail — sane people are generally aware of what is make-believe and what is not. Same with PMO — consciously, you know it’s not real. But, subconsciously (and sex drive is somewhat a subconscious thing anyway), pmo can have quite the “hallucinogenic” effect on your sex drive here — really blurring what is perceived as real, triggering things that should really only be triggered from actual sex (and/or the pursuit of it, etc…), thus ultimately “disorienting” you from it. Read more »

Needs help

I have been using Aneros products for about two or three years.

Used relaxation, breathing, PC contraction, listening to erotic sounds, no feeling after 2 hourss.

Later,I started playing with the nipples, and the lower part of the body felt a little tickling.

After a long time, I didn’t anything feel and back to traditional ejaculation end.

Later used to watch porn videos,slowly there will be a feeling of sexual excitement,Aneros also continues to PC contraction and relax.

I have the feeling of climax before ejaculation,then start playing nipples.

The climax before ejaculation continues to increase and is very comfortable.

I will continue to speed up the PC contraction and relax Aneros,Keep the feeling of comfort.

Js this the prostate orgasm?