“The Call Of The Eupho: A Wild Ride!”

Since I have not had an Aneros session in almost 2 weeks, I have been getting my stim through other means, usually porn or erotic auditory stim. Early this AM, I began to search for and listen to erotically-stimulating music. One in particular which I liked was called “Erotic Massage”. It was about an hour long. I had the time, I settled-in for a nice relaxing ‘listen’, set the volume very low and began to sink-into the relaxing melody. I didn’t realize it at the time but this audio track must have contained some very-carefully embedded ‘tones’ which were very stimulating. Not so much as for a penile erection (I know the feeling well) but it was a more ‘all-over’ erotic feeling. I became very aroused ALL OVER MY BODY. I felt the need to caress my nipples and torso and other parts of my body. Yes I was feeling it in my groin and had a mostly-full erection (about 3/4 I believe). But near the end, I felt ready for sex! Since it was early AM, and I was still feeling unfulfilled and horny, I decided to go for an Aneros session (for which I have longed for a while). My body was ready.

I retreated to my bedroom, selected the Eupho (somehow I knew this was the one), lubed-up and laid on my usual right side position.

My Sexuality

It is a real challenge to describe this sexual journey I have been on for more than 20 years now. Each year brings a new set of experiences expanding the envelope of my erotic mind. Things that were avant garde to me 20 years ago are routine to me now. The things that titillate and arouse me now seem to have gotten edgier and edgier year to year. Clearly a major turning point for me was rewiring. With the enervation of my prostate and the mind – body awareness that came with it, came expanded sexual response and an interest in sexual intimacy with men. It started as a prurient attraction to gay porn on line; first with pictures of attractive cocks arched in erection, then to videos of ejaculations with semen erupting from swollen cock heads. Eventually I began to seek out video sex scenes of guys frotting and cumming on each others cocks and ultimately videos depicting a guy on his back legs spread as his asshole was drilled by another guy. I watched in fascination, my own cock stiff and throbbing as the perpetrators ass clenched as his partners anus received him, stretched to accommodate his girth. As the receiver grimaced in sweet agony his anus clutched the intruding penis that was penetrating it. As he was being fucked the penis that sank deep into him was forcing is face to contort in the familiar confused anguish of erotic ecstasy. Watching the receiver’s face grimace and contort as the sweet ecstasy of anal orgasm consumed him made the precum drool from my erection in a stream wetting the chair I sat on in my nudity
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When I reached the tipping point of men having sex that was when my own craving to male sexual intimacy reached a fevered pitch. Since then my experiences have been very limited but they have been very satisfying. I have not been disappointed.

“An Erotic Aless Fantasy”

I was awakened in the middle of the night with a rock-hard erection and couldn't get back to sleep. I decided to get on the PC for a while. Since I was still hard, I decided to "dose" on some binaural beats (penis) and watch some porn (gay massage). Before long, I got the idea that it would be nice to take this feeling back to bed with me, so I started doing some light anal contractions to see if I could get my prostate 'quivering'. I did this in rhythmic fashion for about 5 minutes and began to feel a slight tingle. I decided to take this "feeling" back to bed and try to continue the contractions…….What happened next was unexpected and blew my mind!

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I continued to do the light, rhythmic contractions. I began to start lightly moaning and before long, I experienced something new! NIPPLE STIMULATION! I began to lightly stroke my left and then my right nipple until they became very hard and sensitive. I noticed how the lightest touch on them would send a 'quiver' right down to my penis and prostate. I liked this feeling so I continued….

Before long, however, I began to be enveloped in a most-realistic fantasy…….

[Be advised: this WILL get graphic……]

Background and before the Aneros

I'm excited to be here and have already had some promising progress, but in the interest of completeness, I'm including some background info in case others may relate or find it otherwise useful.

I've never really had hangups about sticking things in my ass. Even as a teenager, my search for trying anything sexual that I could had me sticking things up there in the hopes that it would feel good. I remember actually buying a dildo and just shoving it on up there. I didn't really know what the hell I was doing, I remember it feeling vaguely good, but in my cluelessness, I just kind of jammed it in and out and wondered why it didn't feel better. Even still, I do remember getting hard when that dildo was up my butt, but never really experiencing much pleasure. After brief periods of that exploration, I just kind of moved on to other things.

20+ Years later, I find myself browsing porn videos online and clicking through to videos of men enjoying "no-touch" orgasms and I was intrigued. I started googling things like prostate milking and thinking "Damn, why not give it a go?" And there I was, looking at a date with a condom wrapped drumstick, trying to just see if I could just tell where my prostate was.

Repositioning for Success

I’ve been an Aneros user for about six months and made good progress after the first couple of weeks. I’m in my 50’s, professional, active, divorced, went through a stint of online dating where I slept with a lot of very horny, willing women (I thought that only happened to younger men) before settling down with one girlfriend. Anyway, about three weeks in (a dozen sessions or so) I progressively reached the Super-O plateau. Sometimes it’s intense, lasting for a few minutes. Other times it’s less so. Sometimes I get nothing.

It depends on how much time I have and how focused I am. There seem to be a lot of variables. Mood, stress, a lot on the mind, horniness, etc.

Lately it’s been almost impossible to reach the Super-O plateau and I thought about calling it quits after nothing for six sessions. I figured I’d grown out of it. Or gotten too old.

Was I in for a surprise.

My last time I settled in for a two hour session to really work on it. I have an MGX (my favorite), a Progasm Jr. and a Eupho Syn. I use Shea Butter Oil with a personal lube launcher with a coat of vaseline on the Aneros, except for the Eupho, which is silicon. I started on my side, then my back watching some porn, in a dark room with a fan running. A little twitch here and there, but nothing else.

Prostate Massage and Hand Job

Last weekend was the first “down time” weekend in our house in several weeks. The relaxed time paved the way for some together time watching TV and cuddling on Saturday night. That kind of contact in a relaxed environment always translates to intimacy in bed later in the evening. By 10 PM there was no doubt that when we both got in bed later that night, sex was in the offing. I am lucky in that J relishes exploratory foreplay and extended intimate tantalizing.

So on Saturday night with candles burning and the bed turned down with both of us naked, kissing the tender cuddling turned decidedly sexual in a relatively short time. It started with her taking my soft nipple in the tender grip of her lips. She drew my softened teat into her mouth, pinching it between her lips and flicking it assertively with her tongue. My dark pink nub hardened to the taunting prodding of her tongue. When my nipple was throbbing, tingling and hard it rigidly protruded begging for more stimulation. She released her pinching clasp and drew my entire nipple into her mouth, firmly stroking it with her tongue as she kept a gentle tugging suction on it. Jolts of erotic pleasure shot directly from my nipple to my prostate. Since rewiring there is a hot wire connection between the two. The erotic shock made my prostate harden and begin to throb. With my nipple and prostate throbbing in arousal my cock was warmed and awakened to join in the glowing chorus; it stiffened and lengthened as I closed my eyes and surrendered, suckling her and sliding into a nipple induced erotic stupor.

Some basic info and some sexy thoughts

I’ve thought about starting a blog so many times. This incredible family of devices has taken up so much of my thought and effort in the past four years. There is so much to say.

First, some basic info about me and my style of play.

Late 30s. Northeast USA. Happily married. Heteroamorous but newly cock curious (you can read my forum posts to find out more about that).

Routine =

Coconut oil.

Nest. Must create a restful, comfortable environment. Mostly clear mattress. Lots of pillow props and – this is really useful – a heating pad!

Position. Lie on back. Legs out a bit, sometimes splayed. Like to put either left or right leg up on a pillow.

Prelube (coconut oil) and insertion. The smaller models are best for me. I own all, but mgx and ProJr have the best effects.

Do nothing technique. Complete and utter relaxation is necessary. Any hint of contraction kills all sensation. It has to build naturally.

Wait and Enjoy. Then just wait patiently for forty-five minutes and let the sensations build. The best part is that I let my mind go and I hallucinate the craziest things. Sometimes its images and sometimes even sensations or memories or smells.

When it’s happening it’s like I fall into a realm of pure sex. Every fantasy I ever had or could have comes to life. Sometimes I experience it first hand and sometimes I can almost see myself in the midst of the action.

It Owns Me

Yes, i'm still here. it's been so long since my last entry, because i'd basically concluded that i'd reached the pinnacle of solosexual love and lust. my Aneros was giving me hours of pleasure. i'd ride the waves of lust, going the full range from a satisfying warmth deep in my hole to full-body convulsions. i could hit peaks where i'd have a dry orgasm for what seemed like 20 minutes, hanging suspended between aching balls and orgasm. it was great. it was awesome. it fulfilled every promise the Aneros had made. or so i thought.

what i realized, however, was that my autoeroticism was still penis focused. success meant having a hard-on at the moment i orgasmed — or at least subtly manipulating my cock as i involuntarily pulled my Aneros deeper into my hole. but about 2 years ago, it all changed. i saw a posting on tumblr from a guy who said he had been totally "cunted" by a Master. (To those who object to this word, my apologies.) The guy wrote that he hadn't ejaculated by jerking off for several years. all his orgasms were induced by the manipulation of his hole.

A Perspective – 10 Sessions In

After about 10 Aneros sessions, I feel I should list some observations (in no particular order):

The idea of regular insertion of anal toys is something all Aneros users have to deal with. After a while, however, this seems to become routine and actually becomes rather sexually stimulating in itself.

It definitely makes for a better session if one is aroused, if not physically, then at least mentally. If I wake up in the middle of the night, for example, with a hard erection, I can either masturbate or Aneros. Now I prefer to Aneros. Since starting with Aneros, sometimes my erection is so strong and rock-hard, I feel that my prostate is signaling me that it is in need of some massage.

Although Aneros may be considered a sex toy, it really is much more than that. Yes, there is a VERY LARGE pleasure element associated with it and, unlike a penile ejaculation which may last seconds, the P-waves and Orgasms associated with prostate stimulation can go on for HOURS. It is very difficult to describe the feeling but you guys should know what I mean. There is nothing like it in the world and it feels SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO GOOD!
I remember when I used to masturbate for a very long time, edging toward an ejaculation. It's a similar feeling.

It is interesting and a little counter-intuitive that the PENIS really does not become part of the normal Aneros prostate stimulation. It will, on its own, decide to join in the fun! I have had fairly long sessions without any penile engagement.

Success after much trial and error. Don’t give up!

Hello everyone,

I got my first aneros a little more than a year ago, and my experience with it has definitely had it’s ups and downs (heyo). I have the original helix classic as well as later acquiring the progasm (I’m rather tall so I figure it might hit my prostate better). Anyway, I essentially tried pretty much everything in the book: do nothing, contractions in rhythm with my breathing, taking a bath/yoga before a sesh, hypnosis, etc. You name it, I’ve probably tried it. Having seen many posts about not trying to force the issue and what not, I decided to get really serious about the process and refrain from any sort of penile contact for a week. In this time period, I did about 2-3 aneros sessions (without any sort of climax) before eventually getting too aroused and finishing in the traditional way. This week definitely did help “awaken” new sensations.