pretty sure it just happened

https://www.reddit.com/r/aneros/comments/3up2qf/weird_feeling_just_wanna_know_what_stage_im_at/

so this was my last post 2 months ago. going by what was described reading about it, it feels exactly like a wave. I wouldn’t say its like an traditonal orgasm imo it feels different and I wouldn’t say its overly crazy where I would just lose it. I would describe it as my brain blinking on top of the wave metaphor.

as to how I got there I would had tried many things from listening to binaural hands free audio as mentioned here. watching videos and stimulating nipples. my relaxed position would be sitting up against a pillow with legs bent. both of these while feel good didn’t quite push me over.

my last session would be my 7th day abstaining from masturbating. I did the usual but I took a few breaks from watching porn and just rested with legs splayed out flat. I kept the audio going, and I found after awhile what triggered something was thinking about something totally unrelated. like shopping online or imagining walking through somewhere. I was able to replicate this maybe 3 – 4 times lasting a minute on average, I’m thinking maybe if I keep at it something further would happen. anyway I got tired and just took a rest, overall it took me maybe 3-4 hours.

I’m not sure if its a mini-o maybe? are mini-o’s similar to a super-o just on a smaller scale?

So i got a Aneros Helix Syn (first time user)

Better late than never. So i finally ordered a helix syn, being a newb and all.
I’ve located my prostate using my fingers before, but could not really make something of it. It’s a bit tingly initially when fingering it, but then i fades away. Plus, i can never find a comfortable enough position to do that for very long.

So during my first session with the anreos i initially used water based lube, but then switched to coconut oil because it seemed it could move more freely what way. I watched some porn and did some nipple play, since that usually gets me going anyway.
Then i started doing contractions and at first it felt tingly, like i’ve felt before but it didn’t fade away like it usually does. It’s sort of the same tingly sensation like from nipple play which is rather nice. After like 45 minutes it started to feel different. With every contraction there was a sensation much like the crest of an orgasm, not very intense at all but still very nice. Comparable to having good sex, but without the actual orgasm. I’m not completely sure but at some point i think a could vaguely feel a buildup, but i couldn’t make it continue, but it’s a step in the right direction i suppose. Anyway, after 2-3 hours i gave up chasing anything more and just finished myself off the ordinary way.

I’m kinda satisfied with those results for it being my first time. Could only get better from here i guess.

Best way to keep warm without getting in the way?

Hi all, I am a newbie, have tried a few sessions, no result yet. The situation is my place is old and cold and cranking the heat up doesn't help. I usually wear 2 layers or more. For porn watching it's fine as I am aroused and all but the aneros asks for relaxing, and when I lie there for many minutes without pants, it gets cold and I get distracted. Can I be fully clothed? Use blanket? Will that obstruct the movement? What do you guys usually wear?

10+ orgasms in one session (follow-up)

I didn’t count them, but I just had more than 10 orgasms in one session with my Aneros Helix SYN and it was awesome!

This is a follow-up to my first post and my second post.

Experiments with coconut oil

After my last post I started to experiment with coconut butter but I didn’t like it very much and soon returned to water based lube. I may try coconut oil again in the future. This tip from anerothon was helpful. I can recommend to prepare some scoops in the fridge or freezer. Keeps the fingers from getting too sticky. Using the freezer may be too cold, be careful!

No progress

Since my last post I tried multiple sources for audio stimulation. I tried some moaning from /r/gonewildaudio because I like to hear moaning (even though I don’t really moan myself). But at some point I always lost my horniness. I also listened to different binaural beats. The ones with deep bass worked best. But sometimes it didn’t work at all. I often got a bit frustrated and changed the audio in the middle of my session. This didn’t help at all. I decided to start over with the do nothing technique and this time I would do it right. I needed to relax.

Progress -Trying new things with my sessions

Ive had several sessions since my last post- a few were noteworthy for one reason or another.
On one occasion the anticipation of having the house to myself was such a delicious feeling. I began having aless in the car on the way home just thinking about the session I was going to have. When I had finally prepped I remember really savouring the insertion of the progasm- my ass was SO HUNGRY for it and at about halfway it just sort of gulped and pulled it in tight and involuntarily clenched down on it. It was all I could do to try to relax and breathe.
Another session I used the HypnoAneros tracks for the first time instead of watching porn and found it to be a real turn on.
All of my sessions now culminate in heavy leaking without erection, many p waves and deep aching deliciousness and euphoric surges often with a wonderful warmth in my heart region. Many times I will let the progasm do its thing while I concentrate on breathing deeply-and then at some point manually stimulate my perenium to climax.
I always enjoy aless for a day or so after my sessions now too.
Am seriously considering adding some variation with a new model -perhaps a Eupho or Helix Syn . Will be trying shea butter as a new lube instead of the KY and other things I have tried. Coconut oil has been good to me too -but I have cleaned out my wifes supply in a short time..

Still on the Journey

Hey everyone,
I'm still on the Journey and only a few minor things to report.

Firstly, I have sessions nearly everyday but the weekends are a family bust- which makes the Monday or Tuesday a little special.

Secondly, I continue to not obtain the erection and the mental excitement is less fantasy and more direct visual (eg searching for the right porn) which is a distraction but fun too since I can tie p-waves directly with the right visual.

Thirdly, have had several HFWOs – running probably 10% but seem to be more frequent- about 1/2 of those generate an actual moan of pleasure and the distinct feeling of ejaculation from my penis tip is amazing- and a mix of amazing pleasure and disappointment that its wet (but hey! Still HF). I try to limit my hip thrusting which brings on the HFWO along with nip stim, and move internally.

Most importantly, there is progress as the buildup of sensations is within a few minutes vs the previous normal of about 40.

I really look forward to my sessions and try not to super-T but once or twice a week.

Happy hunting!

An Amazing Night

The calm before the storm is the best expression I can think of for this next ten days before Christmas. Last night conformed eerily to that description. It was deathly quiet in the house, none of my friends were on line, the dog was sound asleep on the futon next to me in my office where I sat cruising on the computer. J was upstairs in her studio working on a project. It has been several years now that all the kids are gone from the house; the current quiet has become the norm. The term “empty nest” has real meaning around here, it is very quiet at night. Add to that, early darkness and no one on line; it is no wonder that evenings have become a time for me to ruminate and write. So at 8 PM I began writing a section of my next erotic book.

Against this backdrop of the mind numbing calm, my rich inner sex life has become like the lights of Broadway. Last night was no exception; the events of last night were so amazing that I needed to get them written and posted before I forgot them. So instead of doing my work this morning I am taking this diversion to get this written so I can post it.

New Beginnings and big sensations

Id like to share my experiences with you all and journal them here –although I’m only six months into my journey with aneros-some recent developments have convinced me there is really something to all this- and that the aneros is something like a key that opens a whole new world beyond the sexual – but more on that later.

Some summary background before I begin: I have enjoyed masturbating with anal toys for many years although only encountered the Aneros six months ago when I purchased my Progasm Ice.

About three tears ago I read a book on Taoist energy and the male reproductive systems which changed my whole approach to masturbation. I learnt to retain my semen throughout ejaculation. And the benefits to my life in general were almost immediate. I had more energy and enjoyed a better state of mind in general.

Now six months in with the Progasm, sessions have yielded varied results-mostly subtle but also at times sublime! I tried like a noob does in the beginning to actively work at inducing results utilizing various positions and kegel excersises and weed and porn but have now ultimately surrendered to more or less one position with my focus on breathing. Porn and weed definitely help to get me in a hot frame of mind though heh

Gay porn = best porn

Let me break this down into a purely logical argument:

-We are trying to master prostate orgasms.

-A necessary first step is to get aroused such that one's prostate swells up against the Aneros.

-As empathetic and visual creatures, our prostates become aroused when we see or imagine another prostate becoming aroused.

-Gay porn (and to a lesser extent, pegging porn) features prostate/ass play heavily.

-Everything is about male, erotic pleasure. There are plenty of dicks and male asses for us to identify with. For instance, you can find videos of bottoms getting pounded until they cum uncontrollably. Isn't that kind of what we are after?

-Therefore, gay/bi porn is an objectively superior medium for revving up the prostate.

When you think about it this way, it's not even gay or whatever. It's purely physical. Who gives a shit, have fun.

[advice] I’m lined up to have a massive session tonight but could use some pointers/tips

I was out of town since Friday, sharing a hotel room with family, so I haven't gotten off in about 72+ hrs. I typically ejaculate at least once a day before I get out of bed in the morning, so this is rare for me and my sexual energy has been building and building. This evening I will get the place to myself for a bit, so it's basically the perfect storm to have a monster session. So I'm asking for advice:

During your best session(s) what are some things you did before/during/after the experience that really made a difference in separating it from a normal experience to an amazing one. Things that brought on really hard super os, or rolling orgasms, or multiples with short lag periods, etc.

I'm thinking about things as simple as a hot bath before hand, to more complex things like a very specific body positioning or listening to music or porn. Just about anything that really made a difference for you that I could easily replicate.

I'll be using the helix syn but I also have the progasm, eupho syn, peridise, MGX, and Maximus. I also have some Lelo products and dildos that are fun to use after I've been riding the aneros for a bit.

Thanks