Last summer I was buying a few toys on amazon and needed an extra toy to get free shipping. I heard about aneros and came to this subreddit, when I saw the reviews of it I was so excited to give it a try! It came in the mail with a few other toys, and I got more into those than the aneros, it didn't seem to hit my prostate very well, it was a bit bi to just slip in without some preparation, and I couldn't focus or get into the mindset very well. However, tonight I had been watching porn for an hour and hadn't touched my dick at all yet, so I figured now was the best opportunity to give the aneros another try. I'm so glad I did! The other times I had tried it I had to finger myself a bit to get it to fit, and then when it did go in well it didn't give me much sensation even after an hour of trying. Tonight though, it slipped right in (I've taken some bigger toys by now) and immediately was pressing right against my g-spot, it felt incredible, and within 10 minutes I was on my bed bucking and clenching my ass right around the aneros, leaking precum and having an incredibly hard anal orgasm. I went on that way for about 20 minutes, tried to get up and couldn't feel my legs. I feel so satisfied now, and I can't decide if I should go to bed or keep on with it to see how much longer I can keep the orgasms going 🙂 Anyways, thanks aneros! I'm sorry I ever doubted you! This just goes to show some skeptical people who have bought theirs that if you go into it in the right mindset without grand expectations, it may help you stimulate yourself way more
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My Second Encounter
Last night in a chat with Brine he asked me to do an entry describing my second liaison with a guy. Brine and a few others have asked about my twice venture into male – male sexual intimacy in the last two years. It is difficult to describe the experience without putting it into context. In a recent chat Brine and few of us were explaining MMO / Super O to a newbie. Brine commented that it was an integrated physical – mental – spiritual thing. He is absolutely right.
For the last 20 years I have been engaged in a discovery process to understand my sexuality. I dipped my toes into Tantra, Zen, Kundalini, edging, anal penetration and erotic massage to name a few. There were also workshops, strip clubs, gay bars, books, pod casts and myriad toys and porn. The frustration of all of them was that they all seemed to fall short or they required a life change to really engage. I was not ready to become a monk or a sex worker LOL.
Then 8 years ago quite by chance I was surfing the net looking for porn when I wound up on the Aneros site. I ordered my first toy exactly 8 years ago this month. That following year was dedicated to learning to use it. When I had ben successful for 8 months or so the rewiring process started. I am guessing that by the end of that year I was rewired. My sexual response, spirituality, physical – sexual capability, and mental state were all synched and in a sense I was sexually reborn.
COMPLETE BREAKTHROUGH: TIFU by trying to relax at home, after overeating at a New Year’s Eve party
The best I can do about describing this is going to be simple and a little bit clinical, and graphic if you don’t like toilet humor. (It’s essential for the plot though.) I’m still incredibly turned on and a little embarrassed by remembering this, but I want to be exact so that I can remember it properly. Is it weird to want to start tracking this stuff, the success stories? Here we go…
I’m a huge introvert. Small gatherings are easy – family dinner or whatever. For larger things (parties, formal occasions, etc.) I can do fairly okay, but I need to decompress afterwards. I’ve always loved having a day off. My home is small and cozy and a place to be safe.
When I’m finally home from an exhausting social event I like to take the rest of the night off (or the next morning, or whenever I can set this all up) for a "spa day" sort of thing, doing things I like to do to relax, and usually doing as much of them together as possible.
The usual: shower, settle in pajamas on the couch or at the PC, maybe order takeout or make something to eat, maybe have a drink or light up, and enjoy myself. Sometimes I watch porn, and I put out towels and masturbate or use sex toys, and clean up after.
Can ejaculate HF but not sure next step
Hi! 21 yr old male here.
I've had the helix classic for a while now. I like it a lot and it has always made my traditional orgasms a whole lot better but recently I have been trying harder to get hands free orgasms (HF) or super O's or prostate orgasms or just more powerful orgasms in general.
I can make myself ejaculate and orgasm without touching my dick but I don't think I'm doing it correctly. I put in my helix after not masturbating or having sex for a few days and then go through the process of letting my sphincter adjust and then the deep breathing and clenching and all that jazz. And it feels good, especially when I start with light holds and just try to hold those as long as possible. Then I watch porn and browse some of my favorite dirty sub reddits (all the while not touching my cock- I lie on my left side with my knees up or I lie on my back with a pillow underneath me to boost up my butt) and I try to focus on the feelings in my prostate. It all feels really really good but sometimes I have a hard time making sure to keep my sphincter clenched or I find that I'm flexing my cock instead of my ass or my abs instead of my ass. Regardless I feel something welling up inside of me and if I put my balls in between my thighs (really just separate my cock from my balls via my thighs) and extended my legs or sometimes just by squeezing my thighs I ejaculate. Sometimes I don't even need to do that, it happens anyways It feels amazing and I love it, but I know it's not a super O.
An easy way towards a new type of TO (involving stimulation of the FRONT side of the prostate).
I have to say that I am surprised by how popular some of my recent threads have been ("priming the prostate" "societal pressure" etc.). Not sure how to feel about this, except to say that I hope my threads have been useful to you all.
Along those lines, I thought that I would mention another phenomenon that I discovered by trial and error. Well… actually there was a fair amount of logic involved – and my intuition just happened to be right. Let me explain.
During a recent session (which I have since duplicated), I got to that familiar point, where I could feel that my prostate was extremely aroused. I had not achieved a Super O yet, but I did get some good P-waves in. By that point, I felt that things were really started to drag on… so I decided to end the session in typical fashion: with a traditional orgasm (TO).
This time, however, I decided to switch up my TO technique a little bit. Whereas I typically reach TO like a normal person (stroking my entire shaft, and the head), I decided to see what would happen if I had a TO that was induced by stimulation of the base of my penis only. Hell, why not? That whole area was already engorged.
Some sensations
Some progress today, after a two hour session I sit here smiling with some good feelings still.
This is going somewhere, and that somewhere is forward.
Used the HypnAerosession-cd to get to relaxation,
and after a while I added some porn to the tracks,
since my mind has a tendency to drive off-track after a while it helps keep the focus.
I did as the voice in the track told me to, speaking of conntractions and such, and sometimes I got good feelings spreading from my stomack outwards to my entire body.
Nothing mindblowing and nothing on the edge of an O, but good still. Experimenting with contraction intervals and strength, I got to the point where I really wanted an O, but it just didn`t happen. Heart was pounding heavily, feelings where good, but I guess I tried too hard.
Beeing new at this I still have much to learn, but I sure know that this is for real.
Can`t wait for next session, dunno what`s gonna happen!
Andy.
Another twist in the road of my journey – late July and early August
Since this is more of a journal I'll be updating my experiences semi-regularly. Skip to the end of the blog for the latest entry.
I found that I had unintentionally hijacked the topic in the"weed" forum discussion with my Salvia Divinorum experiences and thought that my descriptions of my experiences were more appropriate in a blog. So here it is. I'll keep updating it as I go.
June 25
salvia divinorum looks interesting; quick acting, short duration, not addictive, meditative affects, no hangover. I'm going to try it.
Wikipedia says "Mazatec shamans have a long and continuous tradition of religious use of Salvia divinorum, using it to facilitate visionary states of consciousness during spiritual healing sessions.[1] Most of the plant's local common names allude to the Mazatec belief that the plant is an incarnation of the Virgin Mary, with its ritual use also invoking that relationship"
June 26
Here's a poetic description of the Salvia Divinorum experience from the Pharmako/poeia by Dale Pendel:
"It's like a mirror with no frame: some don't see it at all; some do, but don't like what they see.
It's like cat paws, soft cat paws pressing, or like a bunch of bird tongues lapping the mind. Or like tiny fingers, the way ivy fingers reach out to climb a wall . . .
Burning arousal in one go
More and more, it begins to dawn on me that Aneros isn’t really all that necessary for some good hands-free orgasms. Frankly, it’s been that case since half a year into my journey. Today, I had roughly an hours worth of crazy Dry-Os — letting it finally ignite from a spark of arousal. The spark in question often develops initially from innocent glimpses of anything eye-catching — like a pin-up girl, or a throw-away sex scene in a film. Crap like that are plastered all over the net and TV. It flies past my mind, but about five days after the refractory period, libido hits its peak. It becomes increasingly tough to ignore that imagery.
And Thursday was such a case — it felt amazing. My perineum, prostate, ass… all were warm, tingling and buzzing; just like what users on the forum report! Tumblr also proves its a fantastic source of porno, as much as funny posts and awesome projects. I precum’ed a little too, and although one shouldn’t, I see it as a barometer on how active the prostate was. Quite a bit, from the looks of it.
One nice aspect about Anerosless sessions is the ease of experimenting on stimulation. The device isn’t in there having a party and making some noise, so it’s easier to see what works on creating unique sensations. I practiced different hums to see which effects the abdomen, for instance. I also touched around the body and neck, varying between rubbing and tapping — the neck certainly gets the prostate active.
Vice Love
Last week I wanted to test myself. I went a whole 5 days with out riding or having a wet orgasm. The only thing I allowed was a less rides that came by just building up energy. It was rough but I learned a lot about my sexual appetite.
Firstly I learned that i watch to much porn. I consume a lot and even though that porn does not always kick start my sessions it is always a factor in the ending results. With not stimulating my self consistently I had more time on my hands. But still even with out watching porn the images were still in my head which kicked started a lot of my a less rides. My jock straps got soaked up a ot from all the pre cum that poured from energy flowing through my body and me just letting it flow with no budges or stopping to calm down. I let each orgasm flow at its own pace.
Also with the stopping of cumming and jerking I started back working out. That also gave me a few hard on's. Who knew jogging and jumping jacks would turn me on. I mean i was doing them in loose fitted basket ball sorts with no underwear underneath. (i workout first thing in the morning and i sleep nude so free balling is kind of my thing) My meat just flopping around also brought on a few a less rides and mad pre cum sliding down my leg. Also sleeping on my stomach had to start. I rode a less ride a little to long and almost came. it felt so good though.
God vs. Aneros
As for my first entry I want to give a Minister/Pastor's perspective on use of the Aneros and Anal play.
Who an I?
I am a Christian Minister/Pastor that spend a number of years in full time Christian ministry. I am mid 40's, married with young kids. I have a active relationship with Jesus Christ.
Why this blog entry?
I have come across a few posts of people unsure if Anal play runs against their Christian beliefs. Â
It is most definitely a controversial topic, and if you asked me 6 months ago that I would be writing such a blog entry, I would have said that you are nuts. Even though I moved in circles that teaches that anal play/sex is "wrong". I always wondered about it and as a result went on a search to find out why anal play is "wrong" from a scriptural perspective.
I must say that my perspective changed a lot since I swapped the stick I had up my butt for a Helix Syn!
Is there anything in the bible that is against anal play/sex?
No, there is not. I have seen many people use bible verses out of context to try and prove that it is wrong, but all failed in my opinion.
That is the short of it. If you are interested in a more detailed explanation you are welcome to read on.