I've not had chance to have a session recently, and this has given me a bit of time to think about my previous sessions. I've come to the conclusion that I'm not relaxed enough during sessions, and that there's too much going on inside my head.
I've been reading the forums a lot lately, especially some of the older posts. I saw one thread in which a poster was talking about using Kelly Howell's 'Ecstasy' recording during their session and they spoke of how it helped them relax and focus, producing amazing results. Lately I've been thinking about using the Hypnaerosession recording again to see if it helped me, but I opted for this new recording during my session this evening. Definitely a good move! It was such a good session. So many new feelings and sensations. I was able to relax very quickly, and I was able to concentrate on my breathing much more, whilst being able to concentrate on the feelings being brought on by the Helix.
Tag: Porn
First ever Dry-0
Just wow, I'm speechless, after over 2 years of practice I had my first dry-O this morning, it was unreal. I admit I had become slightly sceptical but now, I get it.
So began my build-up to the session, with an BM, then a bath and some shaving. A couple of hours later I pre-lubed with a unrefined shea butter bullet and left it melt for around 20min before applying a thin layer of Vaseline to the Eupho I had warmed between my thighs.
I inserted and began to relax to some porn. After around 20min of yogic breathing I switched off the porn and put on the I-doser CD and read some erotic stories. My session I started by holding Kegals for a minute on and a minute off, which I continued for about 40min. Got a few involuntaries here and there. It was pleasureable but not great.
I got a bit distracted by the drop of pre-cum and sat up, soon the Eupho was milking the cum out of me. It was then I made the decision to lie back down and log onto the chat here. It turned out to be a great decision.
When I jumped on Slimjm was giving advice to another member MMO_RpgLOL who was also riding, I decided to follow along. I was glad I did, Slimjm really helped me identify the muscle set I should be using, ie gentle contractions of the PC muscle, concentrating at the front/back of the bladder area, rather than the sphincter and anal muscles I had been using.
Rumel`s Ruminations – Part IV
To Whom It May Interest,
Over the last few years I've posted numerous comments in other peoples threads and authored a few threads of my own. In hopes it would aid in the understanding of the Aneros Journey I've decided to consolidate some of the more salient posts of my thoughts here.
from "Do Nothing" What does that mean? [https://www.aneros.com/forum/discussion/14347/do-nothing-what-does-that-mean/p1]
Hi Guys,
Frequently mentioned on this forum is the "Do Nothing" method but what does this really mean? It doesn't mean stick an Aneros up your butt and stop thinking about it as you go about your daily activities, nor does it mean you should ignore its presence as if you were anesthetized. It is really about taking a very passive approach to your Anerosessions. It is one of the techniques found in the Relaxation group versus Sexual frenzy group.
From the Aneros WIKI <http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Advanced_Skills#Do_nothing> The "do nothing" technique is mostly for the Aneros only. The idea is to dispense with thinking about holding contractions, controlling your breathing, conscious relaxing, or anything else for that matter, in favor of just lying there and letting the pleasure and Aneros do their thing. This technique is probably best after you have at least started feeling pleasure from the Aneros.
I'd like to expand upon that description a bit. Most descriptions of techniques one may employ during their Anerosessions are of the Sexual frenzy group and involve rhythmic [or mixed rhythmic/static] contractions of different pelvic floor muscles combined with breathing techniques and stimulation of "erogenous hot spots". These are what constitute very active approaches.
Weekend Alone – BIG fun!
So every couple of weeks my parents leave to spend a weekend at the log home we recently had built upstate, and my sister tends to find something to do without such "restrictions" being present. I have quickly learned to appreciate this time I get to myself which is generally sparse after returning home from being on my own at school after the past five years. So Friday I fully cleaned out and spent a solid hour with my njoy fun wand. I started out with the beaded end slowly teasing myself, reveling in the sensations of each bulb stretching and moving through my sphincter, stimulating my prostate as well. This might have been the best sessions yet I have had with this toy, now I know how to properly use the toy for best results. After about 15-20 minutes of that, I switched to the other end favoring a more direct prostate massage. Fantastic – with the right amount of pressure I carefully but firmly massaged the entirety of my prostate for the rest of the time. I finished the session feeling very happy with the experience.
Now Saturday I decided to have a session with the progasm in the late afternoon. The past few weeks I have been using the helix exclusively so I figured it was time for a bit of a switch up. Emptied out, got myself revved up with some porn and erotic touching and slowly inserted my warmed up progasm (in water) with silicone lube. By the way, my favored position with the progasm is on my back with a pillow underneath and my arms underneath the pillow – I feel it gives me great prostate contact as well as contact with the k-tab, plus I like the feeling of my arms being "restrained". The whole session lasted for about an hour and was very pleasurable, just as good as any other i'd say. As always I love the fuller feeling, the rounded p-tab, and the wonderful k-tab. Things settled down so feeling content I ended it, toying with the idea of doing another later simply because I have the whole place to myself still and why not.
Well approximately five or six hours passed as I spent my time with other activities to occupy my time by which point it was around two in the morning. I considered going to bed but ultimately decided I was really in the mood for another session – not like I had to wake up early or do anything the next day. So in goes the progasm and I spent the first 10-15 minutes relaxing with the do-nothing approach to let my body adjust. As I breathe and focus on relaxing, I notice the pleasure in my prostate grow – now this is not an uncommon occurrence but the magnitude was surely a new experience! From no contractions and just the contact alone I was getting so excited and the pleasure was mounting up to such a high level that it was VERY orgasmic. After enjoying that for a few minutes I began light anal contractions which very effectively teased and stimulated my prostate – in fact the entire region including the prostate, anal canal, and sphincter (the thick stem is soo nice on the progasm) were incredibly sensitive. I slowly began to increase the strength and duration of the contractions and my pc muscle became integrated as well. Soon I became very loose and the involuntaries took control. OMG it was so intense as I tried to limit the movements of my body to the pelvic area and quiet the rest of my body, with great results. This period of great intensity lasted maybe 10-15 minutes before it settled down a little. As i caught my breath and continued to slowly stimulate my prostate, I became increasingly sensitive and was appreciating the calm unending orgasmic sensations. And then it happens again except many times more intense this time – it was absolutely wild. My breathing was heavy all the while my pc and sphincter muscles were contracting hard and sporadically! I became very vocal, more than I have ever been and it seemed to increase the pleasure and keep things going. While it is hard to tell (or care) when things get to this point I would say that the ecstasy lasted for approximately another 15 minutes. I then entered a very relaxed state, just reveling in the intensity I had just experienced. My pc/sphincter muscles still lightly twitching and throbbing, still pleasing me. I lay there marveling at what had just come over me for a while longer before I decided to call it for the night before daylight crept in.
Fall 2011 – Early learning
After receiving my MGX in September 2011, I began doing regular sessions, twice a week, of about 20-30 minutes each. Initially, I found the feelings uncomfortable. The fullness was unfamiliar to me, and I had a few cramps. It was very difficult for me to get comfortable, to relax. But I did press on, convinced there was something to the concept of separating ejaculation and orgasm, but also in part because I believed it to be good for my prostate.
As the months rolled by, I continued my regular sessions. I began watching porn, and enjoyed the build-up of arousal. I began ending all of my sessions by masturbating to ejaculation. That felt good, and I slowly began having an expectation of an enjoyable solo sex session whenever I used my MGX.
I read the through the archived forums with fervor. As I read through thousands of postings by the Aneros community, I learned and tried new things. I read CaveOfMystery's "Quick and Dirty Path to the Super-O," and began exercising my PC and sphincter muscles daily. I would do Kegels while sitting at my desk at work.
These exercises soon yielded results: I began having tingling sensations. I enjoyed my work more than ever!
By December 2011 I had tried smoking a tiny bit of cannabis during a session. I also played music by "Liquid Mind" or other ambient or hypnotic artists. The combination was excellent, and I began having contractions and pleasure waves on a regular basis. I had fewer and fewer "dud" sessions.
New Year, New Breakthroughs
To start off with I've never done a blog, so this should be an interesting experience. After chatting with many of you over the last month of so, and receiving an abundance of information for which I am grateful to all of you. I figured this would be the best place to share my most recent breakthrough.
Over the last two nights I have had two sessions on opposite sides of the spectrum from each other. Night one was my first session in over a month. This was due to the holidays, staying with family, and lack of time to devote to my toys.
To start off with I thought it would be a great idea to reaccuaint myself with my toys by not masturbating for a week. When I jacked off last weekend I told myself that I would not do it until after I had my sesssion. I later found out that this was not a great idea in that my first session back with my prograsm was a big dud. The first 30 minutes of it were great, but then it just fizzled out and my mind, penis, and testicles were too occupied with releasing. After facing disappointment I relieved myself, took out the progasm, and went to bed wondering what happened.
On Saturday, I came to the conclusion that I was probably too horny to have a session, there has to be a balance. I posted this question to the forum, and rumel was kind enough to redirect me to Brian's manual.
Ten sessions, two dry-O, variation and kitchen appliances
I now have had myself ten sessions with an Aneros over a period of 52 days. At least I think it is 10… There has been mostly Helix but also mixed in some Beginner Peridise; once with the larger and twice with the smaller. Each session has lasted 3 to 5 hours and they seem to play out differently each time. Many have been nice but calm. Some sessions I have fallen asleep with the toy (and always wake up cold), many times I have a bathroom break.
The eight session was a week ago during the night starting at one o'clock and not ending before six (sex, we say) in the morning. I prepared myself watching some good porn for quite a while seated in the armchair and then lubed for a moment with my faithful rod of beads. Having tried watching porn during one earlier session, I found out in the forum that I could try a slideshow of more or less naked women instead, giving more room for my aroused mind. I also added some relaxing 1-hour CD music, which I restarted three times during the night.
This was the first session after my Peridise debut, and the improvement was very noticeable. My involuntaries with the Helix had been rare before Peridise, but now they came way easier and also returned over and over during the entire session. After laying on my back for an hour enjoying these, I restarted the CD and turned on my left side instead, with my legs in a more restful position.
Becoming a seasoned vet
Well I have to say that my body has made this transformation and I have become very familiar with the process of reaching a prostate orgasm. I find the process pretty much effortless and very satisfying to say the least. My journey has passed through so many levels and I do continue to reach different levels on a weekly basis. I have tried everything from manually moving my Aneros tool to adding e-stim at one point. Each attempt added new sensations and brought me down different paths. In the end I have found using just my Aneros toystools to be the most satisfying experience to date. I have found lately that is I rotate my Aneros models during use I reach the most exquisite levels of satisfaction. I usually start with my Eupho and after driving me to unimaginable levels of ecstasy I then insert my Helix and again off I go on a completely different ride and to new heights. I am truly amazed at what these tools do to the male human body. Not only do I feel a great inner peace but also a total physical well being. I never look at porn or anything else to reach these levels. My body now is excited enough just looking forward to my sessions. Usually within 10 minutes prostate contractions begin with just relaxing and letting it happen. Recently I had a partial ejaculation during a session and I didn't even know it happened until I looked. The feeling was intense. I always follow up my session either being with my wife or taking care of myself. To me it gives me total releasesatisfaction. I have not been here much lately basically because I have needed less and less support here. I just want all here to know whatever your reason for being here……….enjoy this journey that we call life!!
A change
So I've been in somewhat of an Aneros lull lately, likely due to events going on in my life right now that are stressful. So I've hardly had any Aneros sessions all month long. And likewise have not masturbated very much at all either. So today I felt aroused enough to try an Aneros session after looking at some porn on the computer. My Progasm strangely hasn't been doing much of anything for me lately. So I experimented by starting with my Helix in hopes that a different model would produce some pleasurable sensations. And boy was I right!
Something has changed during this lull that I don't think I noticed until today. I basically haven't been having any tingling in my perineum or butt buzz like I've normally been having both within and without a session for many, many months now. But today I noticed when I started looking at the porn and getting aroused. I felt this new energetic sensation in my prostate that was different than what I've felt before. And when I started my Aneros session with the Helix, I found by just relaxing and doing absolutely nothing, this pleasurable energetic sensation would grow and gently radiate through me. It was a very nice feeling and had none of that sense of urgency to make it "over the top" in terms of orgasm/pleasure. I just relaxed, enjoyed it, and eventually dozed off, and felt very rested when I woke up. I found myself surprised that there really was something to the relax and do nothing approach! LOL
Finally – my first session
So, here I was, my body had something boiling, buzzing, pounding, swelling, arousing trapped on the inside. Relaxing helped a little but it still was intense and returned by itself. I even got myself an awake hands-free ejaculation for the first time in my life. This happened as I laid on my back and was using only my breathing. It felt good of course, being a new experience, like having a sex dream while still being awake.
My Aneros Helix arrived quickly on the Wednesday after my order was placed, but I didn't rush to pick it up. By this time I hadn't slept more than one nights worth for five days, so I asked a doctor about it. Luckily he was discreet on the topic and advised me to use my old insomnia medicine which I hadn't needed for many years. So I did, and after two nights with these pills, I fell asleep without it on the third night. I also picked up the Helix package the same Friday, and it had been delivered in good order.
I used the weekend and some more days this week to regain some lost sleep and avoided further anal or prostate stimulation. Today was Friday again, and I had the entire afternoon free, so I decided to finally try my Helix package. I took a twilight walk, prepared my bed with towels and stuff according to the wiki, and turned on a couple old porno movies in the background. I use these mainly for the nice moaning sounds, to get in a good mood. Already five PM, it was time for personal preparations.