Tag: Prostate Massagers

Can’t believe it happened already

I bought an aneros four days ago. Until now I was never interested in anal play, but I've seen some videos of men using it and it looked fun (and a little bit scary, with all the twitching and stuff). I also bought a simple prostate massager, because I was in an adventurous mood that day. I read a lot about having to wait a long time to "cross over" and reach an anal orgasm (or Super-O), that's why I was pleasantly surprised when today, after four days and four sessions only, I had an experience that can only be described as "prostate ecstasy". Calling it "orgasm" is not really correct, because an orgasm ends, but what I experienced was continuous. Wave after wave of pleasure. Even at "low tide" the sensation was strong enough to lose almost all control over my body. I was shivering, gasping and laughing all at the same time. And even now, after more than 4 hours the beautiful feeling echoes.

What I felt today was more intense than any orgasm I ever had and that's why I decided to post my way of achieving it, hoping it might help someone else. Read more »

My First Aneros Helix Syn Experience…where do I go from here?

I don't know how it came up, but one day for some reason I decided that I wanted to buy a prostate massager. I had never had any experience with anal play at all, not even fingering myself during masturbation because I was always afraid of it. Never ever having ever heard any thing about prostate massagers I started to research them and quickly realized that aneros is one of the best ones to buy. One thing led to another and I kept researching and reading, researching and reading and a week later I took a leap of faith and ordered an Aneros Helix Syn.

For someone who had never experienced any anal play before I was very eager to try it out. First impressions out of the box, it did not appear as intimidating as I had thought it would be. It was much smaller than I was expecting it to be, which was good because I was afraid it would be too big and scare me off and that would be it.

From what I found from all the research I did before I had these few things in mind: 1. I wasn't expecting anything to happen during the first session, I was just expecting at most to get used to it and maybe have a nice masturbation experience 2. I needed to make sure that I had set adequate time aside to relax before and for the session as well Read more »

My Sexuality, My Fantasies and the Tao of Eros

Tao: the unconditional and unknowable source and guiding principle of all reality; the process of nature by which all things change and which is to be followed for a life of harmony. The Tao is the path, the art or the skill of doing something in harmony with the core meaning of life.

It is 20 years ago that I began this journey of sexual discovery; after all this time I now realize that my purpose has been to pursue the Tao of Eros; but it didn’t start out that way. When I began walking in this path of sexual discovery, my simplistic goal was to seek higher levels of arousal. Along the way I came to the realization that I also wanted to better understand female sexual response so I could be a better lover.

I discovered the opportunity of the Tao of Eros when I discovered Tantric Sex Practice in the first year or so. With my new knowledge I sought out eastern thought and philosophy as the first steps along the path. I read books and I did retreats in Tantra, Zen and Taoism; I studied some of the theory behind Kundalini Yoga. I read books on Extended Male Orgasm and Male Multiple Orgasm.

Those early intellectual efforts years ago opened my mind to so much more than kinky means to seek arousal. As I looked to increase my libido I gained sexual proficiency, instead of pushing horniness to new heights, instead I discovered new pathways to orgasm. Finally I discovered the power of eroticism and subsequently became a sensual man who followed the Tao of Eros. Read more »

Am I doing it right? What feelings should I be getting? Xpost /r/ProstatePlay

I've been trying prostate stimulation for a while with little success. A couple of months ago I got a good sensation by putting a condom on the handle of a hair brush and using it in my ass. After about 10 minutes I could start to feel a small, not painful but pressing sensation. Was this me hitting my prostate? I soon started to feel the need to pee and started to drip pre cum. I stopped because I wasn't sure I was doing it right. So I decided to buy a prostate massager online. I can't remember the name of it right now but I'll edit the post when I do. So I used this vibrating massager and had a few sensations but nothing amazing. I am waiting a few days before trying again from now. What things should I do to experience a proper and full prostate orgasm? How deep should I have this massager and what feeling should I be getting to focus in during, both for the hairbrush and vibrating massager? Thanks.

Beginner Prefers Progasm to the Progasm Jr.

I purchased a Progasm Jr. a couple of weeks ago. I based that purchase off of comments on the forum and reviews of the products. After three sessions of nothing, I was disappointed but undaunted. It seemed as though the Jr. was providing very limited stimulation to my prostate. I had tried the passive relaxed method along with multiple positions and contractions, but hardly felt any sensations. I decided that because I am 6' 2" that perhaps I needed more length and girth (I'm slim, but the Jr. was so easy to insert and didn't seem to result in any particularly full feeling).
So I ordered the larger Progasm and was rewarded with much improved results. After a shower, I had no trouble inserting the Progasm. It provided a much fuller feeling and the urge to urinate that I had not experienced with the Jr.
I used the relaxed right side approach and after a period of breathing I moved to some contractions. It took awhile but after 30-45 minutes I was rewarded with some very pleasant sensations that intensified with additional relaxation and contraction cycles.
I did not experience an orgasm, but I had an excellent session with the promise of an orgasm on the horizon. And in any case, the sensations were some of the best I've felt in who knows how long.
I think I disagree with the concept that the Progasm is for experienced users. With the right lubrication it was easy for this beginner to insert and provided better feedback than the Jr.
I'd advise beginners not to shy away from the larger Progasm from fear of its size. Size may be just what the beginner needs. I'll probably give the Jr. another try after I have really mastered the Progasm. But for right now I am going to be concentrating as much of my time as possible on the Progasm.

Not sure what to call this one

This now feels slightly out of place in a blog about using the aneros, but the journey started when I opened that box, and it has taken me in a very unexpected direction.

I have read about spiritual awakening and I can recognise a lot of it happening in myself. I am letting it happen to me. Emotions and thoughts keep washing over me. I imagined myself telling my father that I loved him )it's complex( and broke down in tears as I drove into work. It struck me how similar it was to having an orgasm, the process was out of my control, my breathing seemed to push it further on and my body convulsed slightly and I felt a tension being lifted. I didn't crash. There is some circularity to everything that is happening now.

After this morning it all went quiet. I had a calm day at work. There's probably more to come I just need to wait.

Then I read more about chakras. I'm still slightly confused about them. My friend knows a lot and is keen to guide me, and she knows people who know even more. I will be asking her for more guidance soon as things progress. Read more »

Anal Orgasm

Friday night after an early dinner J went to my daughter’s house about an hour away to go to a late movie near her house and stay overnight. It’s been nice that the two of them have become movie buddies; they go to chic flicks on a regular basis. I am happy that my daughter is able to spare me from going to movies that I would rather not see. It was a 9:20 PM showing so J decided ahead of time to spend the night in my daughter’s apartment which is 10 minutes from the theater rather than drive the hour to come home. So I slept alone that night.

After chatting with some friends on line and doing some minor work related writing I headed up to bed. Alone time in the house or in a hotel is always time that I use for prostate massage. Most of my MMO sessions are done with nothing inside me with J in the bed next to me; the sensations from a massager less session are lush and deep and subtle. Massager-less sessions are lower to build up but they never fail to get my precum flowing profusely when they are in full bloom. I love doing them. Read more »

New guy here, any tips?

I've never done any anal or prostate play, other than an occasional finger when I was discovering my body years ago. I got the helix on the suggestion of a friend who said it worked wonders for him. I've got good tone in the muscles down there, I wa into yoga for years and kegels have an esoteric use and I learned how to use those muscles well.

I've read some explanations of how to use it, and that I'm supposed to relax and let the muscles do their thing. Any tips for a beginner?

I'm not on a quest for the super o right off the bat, I'm more just interested to feel new sensations. Should I try it with an erection? Should I stick to being flaccid when I use it? How much time realistically should I set aside for a session? I usually read erotic stories when I masturbate, which isn't very often. Would that help me relax and make things go smoother?

Edit: more questions. Is there a different methology to getting dry orgasms? Is it okay to have a regular one while working with the prostate massager, or does that kind of mess up the rewiring process? How exactly does the milking thing work?

Vibrating vs. Classic

Looking to find which type of prostate massager gives the most intense stations the fastest. I know reaching the super o takes patience and a lot of time but I'm just curious to hear what you all have to say.