Tag: Prostate

Does anyone else watch porn while using the aneros?

I have seen a bunch of people say not to watch porn during your session. However my mind seems to wander a lot especially after a while of using my aneros. I found that keeping a video going on my phone and looking at it to get to close to what I think is a prostate orgasm and as I see feel myself drifting off to be helpful. Does anyone else do this? I have only tried once and it seemed to be helpful but I am not sure if I will be hitting a wall that allows for prostate orgasms but not a super o. Although if I continued I feel like I might have had a super o.

This session was the first in a while that I even watched porn before, normally I just get aroused with breathing and nipple play.

How do I increase my arousal enough to use the Aneros, rather than vice versa?

I know this is a strange question, but I’ve gotten a lot of advice saying I need to be moderately aroused before inserting the Aneros inside me.

Problem is, I think I am so focused on achieving pleasure and proving to myself that I can get there with a prostate toy, that it’s more like a “mission” to experience pleasure, rather than just enjoying the moment. So this leads to me beginning every session without any real arousal, just watching porn to increase it during. This, instead of being aroused already, and masturbating for the release instead of simply the boredom or pleasure.

So is there any way to escape this mindset and make myself aroused enough to masturbate, instead of vice versa? Do I abstain for a few days, watch more porn?

Thanks guys

Finally getting somewhere very good.. Helix Syn

After trying on and off for several years with a progasm ice I purchased a Helix Syn (thought it would be a bit small in comparison) after lurking here and reading a good bit about rewiring relaxation and not expecting too much (not difficult given prior lack of success)… I can now say my prostate is both rewired and very much awake.. 50yrs old and can’t believe I’ve had my first set of prostate orgasms today.. about 13+ of them in 90mins.. holy mother of god.. I can still feel my prostate and perineum twitching gently… Making a habit of allocating 30+ min per day over the last 2 weeks and just trying what felt good while listening to some relaxing music (no porn – I found it distracting and made me want to focus on my penis) seemed to work for me initially lying face down legs apart, but by the end of todays session I was coming lying on my side on my back and still when I stood up at the end.. this is very addictive…
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Pardon my formatting (it’s poor) but if you are struggling keep going and you’ll find the way to push that button for you.. I’ve still to reach the mystical super O but if I can bag orgasms like this morning again I’ll die a happy man (all dry rolling sparking twitching joyous spasms)… Thanks to all the helpful posters on this forum who provided insight and experiences.
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Last thing – for me gently tightening the muscles used to stop piss and then very gently doing anal contractions connected the Aneros to my prostate perfectly. Your mileage may vary, but too aggressive contractions seemed to feel good but not get me there….

First good sensation last night, was it the “awakening”?

I’m happy to say I felt something noteworthy for the first time in my session last night, but I have zero idea what it was.

I started sensing it about halfway through my session but up until that point I had felt nothing, which is normal for me. I noticed a very slight tingling feeling around the tip of the (helix syn) trident and I had just enough time to think “what…is that?” before the area exploded. It didn’t feel like an orgasm or but rather just fuzzy. It reached halfway up my back and all the way down to my feet. It lasted about 15 seconds and at its peak It was so overwhelming that I couldn’t tell where I was or what position I was in. After it had passed and for the rest of the session, I could feel my pulse on and off in the area. I really don’t know what that was but I can only think that that was my prostate awakening? Anyone else experienced something similar or know what I’m talking about?

I have some questions about contractions

I don’t know if this information is important or not but I have a helix syn trident and I use it for about 30-45 minutes per session and I have used it around 10 times. I am brand new to this, I started about two weeks ago.

First question, am I flexing the right muscles. I read that you’re supposed to use the same muscles that you would use to stop peeing but when I try it I feel like the only parts that are moving are my penis which is flicking up and my anus which is trying to close or go into my body. It doesn’t feel like the trident is moving much if at all. Maybe that’s because I’m not accustomed to the feeling of it being on my prostate or not but it seems wrong to me.

Second question, what is an anal contraction, rectal contraction, and abdominal contraction and what’s the difference between them? The getting started page references them but doesn’t explain what one or the other actually is. Should I focus on one over the other to start or build on all three for some variety?

Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Using Aneros has definitely made me more sensitive in my daily life.

Since using aneros toys and only using my muscles to controll them im definitely experiencing new sensations on my daily life that I have never felt before for example.

I was driving today and I could feel that I was having a little bit of a bowel movement when suddenly I felt a little tingle and then WOAH a kinda tingle or shiver washed over me (I may have let out a little OH! hehe🤭)and I could feel a little pressure on my prostate. Before I really wouldn’t have felt much at all but now its really like I’ve started to feel whats happening down there. Im so happy! I’ve recently been finally making so headway with the Aneros Helix Sin so hopefully its a step in the right direction for good things to come ( heheh pun not intended)

And anyone relate to these sensations since exploring with Aneros toys?

Kind Regards

C

I Think I’m Making Progress

I’ve gotten to the point where I EASILY get a lot of involuntary contractions but with little to no pleasure. I’ve been in that phase for a VERY long time which frustrates me. It’s weird, because even though I’m not really feeling pleasure, I still precum a lot during it.

Recently read a post about someone who used the p-tab to wiggle the aneros back and forth very fast which lead them to their super o experience. So I tried the same.

Inserted aneros and started wiggling the p-tab back and forth while rubbing my nipples (I’ve always played with my nipples since my very first fap). Felt pleasurable. Then I proceeded to let the aneros do its own thing without the wiggling or nipple play. Got to the involuntaries again as usual with a ton more precum, but this time, I felt a faint pleasure building. You know the point just before regular orgasm where you feel the fluid/pressure begin to build in your penis? It’s just before the point of no return. I felt that coming on… then it faded. Then I got to that point a few more times, then it faded again. Then finally I hit the point where I was feeling no pleasure at all cause my prostate felt on fire/tired/exhausted.

So I ended it there. Thoughts?

i think i need something bigger

so last week, i got my helix syn. ive only used it about 3 times and it just doesnt hit my prostate the way i want it to. i want a decent amount of pressure simply having it in, and doing the pc exerises increase the pleaseure. the helix syn only barely touches and there really isnt any pressure. i know that i still need to practice with the exercises and with the toy itself, but its simply too hard to relax fully. even though im pretty young, i feel like im just too emotionally unstable to really let myself go and relax all the way. before i got the aneros i used a 6in makeshift toy and it hit my spot way better. but because of its shape and being plastic, it would start to hurt. once i start getting the pleasure going, im able to relax a lot more. i can only do about 2-3hr sessions so its been a struggle so far. do you think an upgrade would be good and if so, what are some good toys including and excluding the aneros lines for a resonable price(around $40-$70).

Progasm Ice: success on the first try!

Hey everyone!

I decided yesterday to buy the progasm to try something different, since I had little success with the Helix Syn. I thought that maybe a bigger and harder toy could do the try but I was a little apprehensive as the toy is labeled for experienced users. Well, I’m glad I didn’t stopped because of that.

So, yesterday night I thought I could at least try it to feel the difference with the helix syn. I was not expecting much to be honest: the toy seems to be less movable than the helix, I had a penile orgasm while having sex with my partner the day before and I wasn’t aroused at all. But being impatient, I decided to stick it in and went vaping some weed while sitting in my sofa. At first I was surprised how smooth and comfortable the progasm is even though it’s made of hard plastic (the size didn’t bothered me as I was wearing a quite bigger toy for a few hours before putting the progasm). But as soon as I sitted, I felt one of the tab pressing quite hard on the skin. While I was vaping I couldn’t stop feeling a bit of pain from that tab, something I was not quite a fan of. After that, I decided to start a binaural beat videos, lie down on my sofa and get a warm blanket on me like I do usually when I try to play with the helix syn (with an emphasis on *trying* as I’m still learning the technique to get these Os coming). At first I didn’t felt much difference from the helix but after 20minutes, I decided I would trust my lower body a little while contracting my base muscle and I started rubbing my nipples through my clothes, something I’m trying to combine with the aneros. I tried concentrating at first on my prostate but I thought I could try something else as it never worked for me. I placed my attention instead on the little pleasure I had from my nipples and I resisted stopping, something I tend to do when I play with them since it feels more like tickling than anything else… Read more »

I’m Stuck, But I’d Like to Offer My Progress.

Hi there, I’m a lurker but I’ve decided to share my progress in hopes of getting some advice in what to do next in order to progress. This could also help others too.

So far the most successful method I’ve done is this:

1.) Put it in and relax completely, not even PC contractions. Remember to breathe deeply and with each exhale let go of all tension.

2.) I keep doing it until it feels like I don’t have a toy up my butt. I heard some get a sort of “tickle” in that general area. I don’t get a tickle but more of a noticeable change in feeling.

3.) Now this is when I start playing with my PC muscles. For me, I keep the same rhythm of breathing deeply and slowly, with each inhale I slowly contract then hold. Then with each exhale I slowly relax. After doing this 10-20 times I’ll relax from a contraction and start getting mild involuntary contractions.

4.) Once I get there I just hold the level of contraction that started the involuntaries. I found that playing with my nipples here had great results.

5.) Now here’s where I’m stuck. Once I’m holding that contraction the involuntaries start to feel better and better. The problem is that once they get to a certain point, my PC muscles start contracting like crazy, and I don’t know whether to just let it happen or to try and relax back down to the point that started them. I’ve tried both, and the feelings never got any better. I’m yet to have a prostate orgasm, that I’m sure of. Read more »