Ok so I’ve been getting into prostate stimulation for about a year and a half now.
Only recently have I gotten to the point where i get “the shakes”. I’ve gotten it with an Aneros, as well as with other toys.
I actually shake pretty violently, and I’m pretty sure I had a full body orgasm at one point.
I say “pretty sure”, because i started shaking more and more, until I shook really violently and then it kind of subsided.
The problem is, I didn’t feel any pleasure!
It was like my body was moving ahead of me and having a grand old time, but my brain didn’t send out any pleasure stimulants.
Does anyone recognize this, and what do you suggest I do? I’m worried my prostate is “broken” in the way where I don’t feel the pleasure everyone else is feeling. Or maybe I’m just impatient/not relaxed enough/not focusing on the right thing?I’d appreciate any advice!
Tag: Prostate
First Time [Probable] Prostate Sensation: Holy Cow, What Just Happened?
I… I am simply trying to grasp what happened. Sorry this is long but I need to type this out.
Introduction. Bought an Aneros years ago. Couldn’t figure out how to enjoy it properly. Put it away for a few years, brought it back out every once in awhile to try again but still, no luck. About 2 months ago I decided to really put some effort into it, really practice, so I started placing it in during the later evening and just relaxing. Vaping some weed, sitting on the couch and just letting myself be.
Then for the first time ever, after about an hour or so, I felt something. Something different. It didn’t feel good per se, but it was a sensation in a region of my body I never had felt before. The first few times I did this, I thought, “I’m just high, this is all in my head. I’m pretending this sensation is there.” But with more times just sitting there with it in and high, it started pinpointing it more. One night, I had dozed off with it in, and suddenly woke up to something pulsing underneath. It was pleasurable, and I suddenly realized that this was not in my head. Went and sat on my bed and just let it happen. It felt good, but I didn’t feel rushed. You know how when you’re stimulating your penis, and it feels so damn good, but if you stop, it just feels… wrong somehow? Like it’s almost upsetting, you HAVE to keep going or you’re the experience will not be worth it? You just NEED to keep going? This sensation is different. It’s like, and I’m synesthetic so bare with me here, penile sensation is sharp, pointed and linear: it demands more and more. But this new sensation? It felt more circular, spherical, like a soft bubble floating up from the depths and pushing my insides. I didn’t care if it increased, it just felt really nice. For years I had never understood how my wife (and other women) could say that sex felt great *even if they didn’t orgasm*. It just didn’t make sense! How could you not want to finish? Doesn’t it make you feel antsy, almost angry if you don’t?
Knowing when the right spot is hit?
Is that tingling sensation I’m feeling when I’m doing a “kegel squeeze” the prostate being stimulated? My last session I tried having my feet off my bed and propped up on a box (imagine the happy baby yoga pose) and was feeling a lot more sensation. Anyone else have that? Also that urination/ejaculation feeling, should I back off and relax more as I start to feel that? I feel like I’m getting closer towards this next level but I’m falling a little short each time.
In what point (milestones in the text) you are on your journey with Aneros?
And what model(s) you have? And how much time you’ve been on this journey?
I have the Helix Trident and the Progasm and I’ve been on this journey for around a year. I would say I’m at the point of Definite pleasure produced by contracting, but not always.
First insertion
No P-tab discomfort when relaxed
No internal discomfort when relaxed
No P-tab discomfort when contracted
No internal discomfort when contracted
Generally comfortable when inserted and relaxed
Observation of slight good feelings
Slight sense of leaking
Slight sense of needing to urinate (contact with prostate)
Identifiable contact with prostate
Doing a set of contractions comfortably
Holding light sphincter contractions
Integrating deep breathing
Definite leaking produced by contracting
Definite pleasure produced by contracting
Definite feeling of contact on prostate
Identification of “sweet spot”
Pleasure at “sweet spot”
No longer believing that “…this model doesn’t fit me…”
Arousal amplification by vocalization, breathing, manual stim of secondary erogenous zones or held contractions.
Observation of slight involuntary contractions
General pleasure throughout session
P-wave
Successive P-waves
Rock hard erection
Twitching
Pleasure at voluntary pelvic thrusting
Integrating pelvic thrusting and contracting
Large muscle quaking (no pleasure)
Continuous internal pleasure
Definite sense of ongoing subtle involuntary contraction
Sense of pleasure caused by blood pulse internally
Significant large muscle quaking with pleasure
Real excitement at thought of next session
Sustained pleasure during sessions
Pleasurable tingling in pelvic regions outside of sessions
Ability to grow pleasure outside of sessions
Ability to leak outside of sessions
Sense that the Aneros is satisfying a special prostate “itch”
Very significant pleasure during sessions
Moaning during sessions
Sense of arousal moving toward something
Surprise attack of very serious pleasure
Involuntary clamping, without sense of climax
Involuntary clamping with hint of climax
Involuntary clamping with definite feeling of light orgasm (Mini-O)
Ability to maneuver the Aneros to control placement of pleasure internally
Intensely pleasurable involuntary clamping that is clearly a Dry-O
Chain reaction Dry-Os (O-zone)
Disbelief that this can actually be for real
Very deep orgasm distinctly centered in rectum: anal orgasm
Extremely intense prostate orgasm
Dry orgasm without Aneros (chair orgasm)
Aneros moving distinctly on its own, creating unexpected pleasure
Aneros moving in long strokes (auto-f***), creating intense pleasure
Unexpected extremely strong orgasm that knocks the reality out of you: Super-O
Continuous Super-Os directed at different parts of the body
Full body Super-O
Multiple, sequential full body Super-Os
Ability to have Super-Os on demand
Difficulty relaxing, not feeling much
So I have had about 6 sessions so far. I have been trying deep breathing and kegels with the Helix syn. I can feel it touching my prostate if i play with my muscles but nothing comes from that. If i focus more on relaxing, the only passive feelings I get are my heartbeat felt through the toy. Every time something starts up, I get distracted thinking of something completely unrelated or I hear a noise that gets me off track. I just can’t get my mind to STOP doing that. I have tried sleeping with it in as well which was fully comfortable, but didn’t lead to anything pleasurable.
Does anyone have tips to relax for someone who is wayyyy too active and can’t focus. I can’t use weed as others have suggested due to my job either.
Took lsd, achieved my first orgasm – a super prostate orgasm
So I’ve got first aneros 6 months ago, been doing a lot of sessions. Last week I took lsd and decided to have a session. I used aneros helix trident.
I never achieved any kind of orgasm before even tho I’ve been getting close lately. That’s why I knew lsd would help me get over the edge.
I closed my eyes, put on some meditation music and got into deep meditation. Didn’t really do anything special. Lsd allowed me to experience sensations through visuals (for example I was able to see orgasm as a shining ball of light inside space).
After I achieved first orgasm I was amazed, but then something different happened. Different body parts were starting to get unlocked, I felt energy flowing there and they were starting to shake. I took some time to get energy flowing in all body parts. I was shaking in various frequencies and felt as if I was being pulled on strings like a puppet.
Then something happened where I started visualize train station and railroad. Then I saw bright lights as if I was in a tunnel of light and felt I was aligning the “rails” of light, then super orgasm hit me and I shook like crazy. It’s hard to describe, but I felt I was channeling pure cosmic energy, or achieved nirvana. I didn’t feel myself at all. It was just energy and pleasure. Every time the peak orgasm would hit me I would again see the “light rails” aligning as if I was aligning my chackras or something. I don’t know how long I was orgasming or how many of them I had. All I know is that I saw God.
Toegasm
2 weeks into progasm ice, last few sessions was getting involuntary leg twitches by tug of war method but not building pleasure. Today crossed over to prostate orgasm that manifested In the spasming on one toe in particular. I guess I was looking for pleasure in the wrong place. So bizzare but felt amazing, like an orgasm on cruise control. So thats prostate and anal orgasms covered. Not sure about how to trigger hfwo though.
Avoiding the dick or edging before a session?
I’ve been playing with my Aneros (Helix Trident) for7-8 months now, every now and then, and I never achieve a hands free orgasm. I will try new postures and maybe I’ll buy an Eupho, but I’d like to know if I should try a different strategy.
So far, what I do is refraining for masturbating for 3-4 days, sometimes even more than a week, and without never touching my dick, get very aroused with porn and go with it, playing with my Helix Trident. I never get to the point, never. Sometimes I’m more relaxed, sometimes I’m less, sometimes I get more pleasure, sometimes less… And lately, sometimes I barely feel pleasure. It depends on the day, but I never get to any kind of resolution or great pleasure. I can notice when I get more aroused, rarely my prostate swells, and I feel more pleasure. But no orgasms of any kind.
So now I was thinking… What if I watch good porn and jerk off for a while until reaching the edge… and then rest for a bit and get into the prostate play with my Aneros? Would that be more effective than avoiding my dick? Or it could be cheating in order to get a penile-induced orgasm more easily?
I’d like to hear your thoughts or if anyone has tried this approach instead of the total deprivation of penile stimulation.
Thank you.
Three entirely different experiences in a week? How do you guys get in the mood?
So I’ve been playing with the aneros helix syn trident for about a week now, and
Session 1
Wow, what an introduction. I was nervous but excited. The toy was probably the smallest thing I’ve put in my ass besides my fingers, so it slid right in. I laid down on my side and just gently breathed in and out, doing weak kegels with the toy inside.
It felt…interesting, but I started to shake. I shook HARD. I started to get pretty emotional, and I just shook a lot. It was a weird feeling because I wasn’t feeling definite pleasure, but I was shaking and I did feel a rush of warm emotions and stuff. It’s like I felt an orgasm without the pleasure, if that makes any sense at all.
I went at it again, and again until my body gave out. I started to slow down and contract my muscles. I started to shake less, and instead I started to feel a bit of pleasure mixed with the urge to pee. I did this until I calmed down and washed up.
I still liked it, and I’m like…VERY excited to experience what a real orgasm is like. It only made my desire stronger.
Session 2
How do I know which Aneros toy to get?
How do I know which toy I should get? There’s various different shapes and sizes, but I don’t know which one is more likely to work for me. The website “suggest a toy” is mostly for how experienced you are with prostate play, nothing else. Do I need to find and estimate where my prostate is then make a guess on what to get based on that? How did you choose which to buy?