Tag: Prostate

“Chastity, Celibacy and Aneros”

Introduction
I was browsing online this morning for ideas and definitions of chastity and celibacy (and abstinence too). And one of the take-aways was that it was important to practice regular prostate massage when undertaking these activities, particularly when combined with semen retention and resultant fewer ejaculations. It is important to prevent prostate issues such as cancer. A prostate massage (initially a few times a week then perhaps twice a month minimum) was recommended. That seemed to resound in my head, and the next thing I knew, I was headed up to my bedroom to perform a quick “therapeutic” prostate-massage session. I haven’t had one in a while.

Session
I selected rather quickly my Helix-Trident, lubed it up and began the session. And just as quickly, I fell-into a ‘matter-of-fact’ medical fantasy: I am preparing for a checkup in my urologist’s office and he wants all his patients now to ‘prep’ with a prostate massage. So I obliged.

The Helix went-in very easily and before I knew it, I had started the session. It wasn’t too long before I began to experience an ‘auto-f**k’ feeling within; very slight PC contractions which felt amazingly good. Every now and then, there was a more (involuntary) anal contraction. The doctor told me that this ‘prep’ was to be 15 to 20 minutes minimum; I stopped after 20 minutes. This was probably one of the best sessions I have had with the H-T in a while. And I am only in Day 2 of SR! I was wearing my XO ProCup during this session and several times during this ‘therapy’ I felt a ‘pump or two’ of something (turned out to be precum). An amazing feeling and an ever better prostate ‘prep’! Read more »

Full speed ahead

Since I have written a long blog post and got logged out before it could be posted (my fault), I’ll keep this post brief.

Currently my sessions involve erotic audio (I find that soft sensual moans helps me to relax and drift into the right space), circling around but not directly on the nipples and lying on the back with knees pointing up position. It’s been working well and my past 10 sessions or so have gotten increasingly and distinctly better each and everytime (hope I dont jinx this with the too much expectations haha).

The pelvic muscles have gotten stronger, the prostate orgasms last much longer. I find that I can get into that orgasmic state much quicker too. At this point I can safely say the prostate orgasms are just as intense as regular TOs without the penis stimulation and ejaculation.

With some mild clenching and letting the audio moans kick arousal into the prostate, I feel the unmistakable orgasm coming on and it does. At some points the orgasm gets so intense and the Aneros strokes the prostate so intensely I think it could hurt me but it never did! Sometimes there are large strokes and sometimes really small spasms when things get intense. The orgasms come in different lengths and intensities. There was once I came off an orgasm and I felt the Aneros stroke me, it felt exceptional and I started cumming again within 5 secs. Read more »

Not long enough or what? (semi gross warning)

I had a two hour session that really didn’t lead to much other than a weird contraction spasm thing that happens when i clench my pc muscles. But afterwards I had to take a dump and when I did, it seemed to stimulate my prostate a lot and I got what seems some people refer to the butterfly’s in the stomach or tingling but it was relatively intense. It was a really good feeling that I would like to replicate with an aneros but ive not had too much luck.

So was that proper stimulation because the shit reaches deeper/wider or am i over thinking it.

“Cup or No Cup? It’s Your Choice!”

Introduction
Slept in my PJs overnight without a cup. Yes, only in Day 3 now of SR. Several times, I was awakened following an NPT. Towards morning, however, I developed a very strong, no-turning-back urge to start ‘petting’ my scrotum and cock. Using my fingernails, I lightly and gently started stroking the soft, semi-crinkly skin on my scrotum, sometimes reaching under towards my perineum and sometimes reaching up towards the underside of my cock. And know what? I couldn’t stop! The feeling was sublime and although I didn’t want to ‘edge’ myself to an ejaculation, I somehow felt that if I continued doing this, I would. So what to do?

The Solution
I had to make a choice. Either continue with the scrotal stim and get close to the PONR and ejaculate, or stop. What did I do? I stopped! Knowing that the solution was at-hand, I reached for my Mueller ‘chastity cup’ and put-it-on. And immediately, I began stroking the curvy, sexy cup of plastic! I could not feel any of the previous sensations, but that didn’t mean that I didn’t feel anything. Let me explain….

The Trade-Off
Wearing a cup, then, obviously takes-away the temptation to masturbate completely. But in the process, it introduces a new sensation: stimulation from the cup. Since the cup provides some pressure all-around the groin and the male package, it has a unique, sexy feeling. And because the cup wraps-under the perineum, some pressure is put on that part of the male anatomy as well (including the prostate). This combination is (for guys that have never tried it) uniquely and specifically male-enhanced. It is somewhat strange and ironic that the absence of stimulation (from masturbation) can cause stimulation (from the cup). But not enough to elicit an ejaculation. That is the advantage (IMO) of wearing a cup! Touche’. Read more »

Blog Introduction

An introduction to myself and any progress I make with the Aneros.

I am new to blogging in general and am still trying to figure out how to use this blog.

I am 67 years old and weigh about 280. I have been diagnosed with an enlarged prostate (BPH). Research on this condition brought me to the concept of prostate massage for prostate health reasons and particularly to the Aneros massagers. Upon learning that prostate massage could also lead to multiple and enhanced orgasms, I became especially interested. wow, what a great side benefit.

i am retired and married with 2 children, 7 grandchildren and 1 great grandson. I gotta say that embarking on the Aneros path and all it can bring to me seems a little strange considering my age and station in life.

Some things for you to expect from my blog… I expect to note any and all progress. This includes new things I have tried and failed to produce results. This is progress also.

I don’t expect to create a blog entry on any particular time schedule. If I have made some progress, I’ll create an entry. Otherwise, I will likely remain silent. I don’t think it would be fair to make an entry just to report “nothing changed”. that would be a waste of my time and more importantly a waste of your time. Read more »

“It Just Feels Better With A Cup!”

[Thanks to @BigGlansDC for his continuing support of wearing cups in bed and during Aneros sessions]

Intro
Went to sleep wearing only PJs and didn’t even think about the NPTs that would be coming during the night. Sure enough, I awoke about 3 AM with an arousing erection and firm balls. I am currently in Day 8 of semen retention and I have felt that “boost” in T-level for sure! I am not ready to ejaculate yet. What to do?

Solution
I quickly decided to put-on my Mueller cup because of the way it feels. And once I did, that ‘comfortable’ feeling just got me thinking…

Forget Chastity
What I realized is that, throwing-out all I know about male chastity, putting-on that cup just felt better! Need more synonyms? How about improved, exceptional, superior, desirable, more useful? Take everything I have written about male chastity and just put-it-aside for now. Concentrate on the comfort and the relief that the cup provides. It just ‘feels better’!

Scenarios
Once back in bed and feeling more comfort from the cup, I began to think about other ways that guys feel ‘better’ while wearing their cups. And a few examples quickly came to mind….
• Baseball players wear their cups for sure to protect their ‘equipment’ from errant balls and field-play. No fan would question their choice of protection; the ‘bulge’ in their pants attests to their commitment.
• Some male police officers wear bulletproof cups (groin guards for females) particularly for SWAT teams. I don’t think anyone would deny a police officer’s choice to wear a bulletproof vest, so why not groin protection while on duty?
• Male and female wrestlers and kick-boxers routinely wear groin guards to protect their vital organs during matches. Fans would expect no less.
• Can you imagine an ice-hockey player not wearing a cup? I can’t either. Read more »

“Hey Guys, We’ve Got A Bulge!”

While taking a shower this morning and doing a testicular self-exam (which I do monthly), while examining my soft scrotum, I thought about this topic. Now I’m not here to state the obvious. But it dawned on me that rich or poor, tall or short, all guys have a bulge. And it is bigger when our cocks are erect. Females don’t have this “condition” so their normal “bulges” (more like curves) are the same size all the time.

Then I got to thinking some more…..

Some guys like to show-off their bulges by wearing tight jeans or even bulge-enhancing underwear.
Male athletes will display their bulges by wearing jockstraps with or without cups as part of their uniform.
Male swimmers and divers will naturally display their bulges through their tight-fitting suits.
Male wrestlers will show their obvious ‘packages’ through their skin-tight singlets (usually with a jockstrap or compression shorts).
An aroused male with a large package will approach a willing female and she can’t help but notice if she is in the mood.
And so on……

Where am I going with this?…. Read more »

“Does Anticipation of a Session Make For a Better Session?”

Background
I had a nice session with Helix Trident yesterday. Slept in my Safe-T-Gard Cage Cup overnight; I am now in Day 7 of SR. Lying in bed early this morning (about 5 AM) I began to contemplate a short session using my HIH 950.

Anticipation
In my mind, I was going ‘through-the-motions’ of prep: lube, insertion, relaxation and almost was ready to advance. In my mind, I could ‘feel’ the massager begin to work on my prostate. I ‘felt’ the soft but compelling glides of the slippery tool against my aching gland. Then, I ignored the whole idea. Why?….

Better Next Time?
I discovered that by building-up the anticipated Aneros session in my brain (I almost accomplished it) I was already on a path to prostate pleasure. It’s a little bit like anticipating an ejaculation through edging. But the edging never happened. Likewise, the prostate massage never happened. Yes, I was disappointed. But the anticipation caused a ‘rush’ in my arousal that is hard to describe. I can now feel a gentle ‘pulsing’ in my prostate, almost asking me: “When next?”

Analysis
As I entered this blog post, I am performing nice, gentle PC contractions and definitely starting to feel it in my prostate. Perhaps it will reward me with another great real session sometime? Touche’.

PS I can’t liken this inaction to a form of chastity . The anticipated session was real from the start. So I never anticipated that it wouldn’t happen. In chastity, you know that you are always denied the pleasure. This ‘mind-game’ is worthy (IMO) of further inspection. Read more »

The typical Aneros question; Helix or Eupho?

Hello everyone, I’m going to purchase an Aneros Peridise, along with one of this two prostatic stimulators: The Helix Syn or the Eupho Syn. Important: I’m not willing to purchase the two toys, just one of them. Buying the Helix and then the Eupho would mean investing almost 140€ in toys, and my idea is to buy and use just one of them.

I’ve read the Eupho Syn is more enjoyable as it moves more in the rectum, and may provide greater stimulation. However, the Helix is always recommended as a first toy, and I’ve never bought an Aneros toy. I’ve had small anal plugs, but that’s all, nothing prostatic specific.

The Aneros Eupho Syn is actually 15€ cheaper than the Helix Syn on the on-line store I’m going to purchase it, 55€ the Eupho Syn Vs 70€ the Helix Syn.

I’m going to get the Eupho along with the Periside (which is actually very cheap), unless some of you insist me on getting the Helix.

My anal canal is pretty tight, but I’m afraid the Eupho will be too thin to notice it, or not point properly towards the prostate.

For those recommending the Helix over the Eupho, please list the reasons. Same for the people who will recommend the Eupho over the Helix.

Finally: Is it true that the Eupho is only for experienced people? Will I be able to learn only with the Eupho? Read more »

A Simple Chastity “Trick”

Introduction
Sometimes, even while wearing a “chastity cup”, I can sometimes fall-into a fantasy where I end a semen retention “run” with a female-assisted slow edging and an ejaculation. If I am not “ready” to ejaculate but do anyway, have I failed in chastity?

The Solution
While starting to listen to a nice track this morning for prostate health, I made sure that my box of tissues was completely out-of-reach. Usually, I put the box close-by “just-in-case”. But invariably (and I am now in Day 6 of SR) I could be tempted to rub-one-out. So I was sure not to have tissues or a towel or anything else nearby with which to clean-up. And guess what? It worked! Following an early-morning dream sequence, I awoke with a very arousing erection and felt like I could want to ejaculate. But still wearing my Mueller cup and feeling the pressure building-up underneath from my stiffening cock, there was nothing I could do but to remain in chastity! It was very frustrating yet at the same time so rewarding!

Conclusion
At any time, but especially in later-day SR, removing all ejaculation “assists” will greatly help to remain in your self-imposed chastity! I know from experience that having clean-up materials nearby can be very risky! So just keep them away! Remove the temptation!

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