“An Easy Choice For Chastity”

Background
I write often about male chastity. In particular, the use of an athletic jockstrap with a hard cup, what I like to refer to as a “chastity cup”. It is such a part of my daily “routine” that most nights, I either wear one throughout the night or only part of the night.

Why Chastity?
Wearing these cups assists me in many ways. For starters, they absolutely prevent masturbation with a resultant ejaculation! That is a major benefit with an arousing erection, especially since I have trouble keeping my hands to myself! By keeping my “zone” off-limits, I can’t pleasure myself.

I have tried a “cock cage” for a while; I have a genuine CB-6000S and wear it from time to time. But when compared to the cup, there is much more preparation for use and maintenance required. Aside from the possibility of having a “keyholder” (which I did not do), there is not much more that I can recommend the cage over the cup. Yes, it is probably easier to “hide” a cage out in public (which I’ve done) because wearing a cup can definitely cause a “bulge” which may be noticeable. Also, the cages (whether plastic or metal) are significantly more expensive than a cup.

Another advantage of wearing a “cup” is daily management. Putting-on a cup is as easy as putting on a pair of underwear. Hygiene is simple too: for me, usually a weekly washing is all that is required. With about six cups in rotation, they all stay quite fresh and clean throughout the week.

[Advice] Anal Training – What is working best for you?

I'[m] moving more and more into anal play,

I honestly think i’m still a novice in this journey (prostate play) but i’m at the stage where fingers are not enough anymore and I might went a bit big on the last toys I got… [Rock Off Bad boy](https://www.amazon.com/Rocks-Off-Bad-Boy-Black/dp/B00CM893HO) and [Aneros Progasm](https://www.amazon.com/Glass-Aneros-Progasm-Prostate-Stimulator/dp/B00AH6TPGW) but not by much. Love how they are filling me but still uncomfortable a bit and not fully enjoying my sessions.

What worked best so far for you in terms of stretching exercises?

Ie: Buttplug sessions, relaxation, natural lube (coconut oil VS industrial lube)? etc etc…

not a super o but pretty good ones

after a month or so from my last go, i had a bit of time to try again. I had abut 45 min or so. Once inserted, it only took a few minutes to start… – i have been in chastity on and off since last Friday. I was nn my bed, just doing nothing, breathing and feeling the sensations on my P spot. Slow movements started and flexing trying to find the right area.. and i a had an O. Not a major one, but pretty good. And for some reason i got out of bed and laid on the floor. Knees up and feet against the wall. that felt good.. i could feel it building again , and i laid on my side.. yep… here we go.. it happened again.. i bit stronger, and lasted longer. i was dripping precum pretty good. But i did not ejac. I do know i was out of breath. and it happened. I was a bit tired after.

Is My Erection Distracting Me?

I’ve been using my Helix Syn for about two months or so now, though somewhat infrequently due to lowered libido from meds. Despite that though, I’ve been making noticeable progress with each subsequent session.

Last night, for instance, I had some pretty strong twitches all over my body, though it lacks any pleasure to go along with it. From what I can tell, this is normal, and sooner or later I’ll begin feeling something from it.

The last two sessions, however, I noticed a slight problem: As soon as things begin getting good, I’ll become erect. This wouldn’t be an issue (actually I think it adds a lot to the experience) except that whenever that happens, all pleasurable feelings cease. My best guess as for why this is happening is that when I become erect, my attention turns to my penis instead of my prostate, thus causing me to lose all feeling.

I’m curious to know if this has happened to anybody else, and if there’s any advice for me, or if it is similar to the spasms in that it will get better in time.

Any and all help is appreciated.

Thank you.

“Keeping It Out Of Reach!”

Background
Yes, only in Day 3 of SR now but still experiencing wildly arousing erections during the night! Last night, I went to bed without wearing a cup; but in the middle of the night, I woke-up rock-hard and honestly felt like I needed to ejaculate! Not wanting this, I quickly decided to put-on my SD Ultra Pro Carbon cup which is quite confining and secure. I went back to bed. After a while, I began to experience that nice, gentle stimulation on my perineum and before long I developed a full-blown erection which seemed to get me closer to the PONR. I enjoyed that feeling for perhaps 15 or 20 minutes, then it began to subside.

Listening Session
After a while, I decided to retreat to my sofa and listen to some audio tracks. The one I selected was a gentle binaural for prostate issues; this was about an hour long and I listened to the entire track. It did seem to gently ‘massage’ my prostate with the sound and I could almost feel another erection starting to develop. But the stimulation was probably not that intense and so I did not experience another erection.

Rumel`s Ruminations – Part III

The following is a copy of the Personal Message I try to send to new Forum members (updated March 3, 2019)
“Hi Guys,:)

Welcome to the Aneros Forums, your best source of information for learning about the multiple benefits and joys of using the Aneros prostate massagers. There is a wealth of information to be obtained on this website. If you are not familiar with the concept of multiple orgasms (dry-O’s), I encourage you to view these two videos by Dr. Joy Davidson discussing “Ways for Men to Have Multiple Orgasms” (Part 1 & Part 2). While she doesn’t mention the use of Aneros massagers as one of the methods a man may employ, the information presented was accurate and informative for men seeking this level of experience and is completely in line with the techniques we discuss on this Forum everyday.
Additionally, you may find these two videos (Learn to Do a Prostate Massage and Learn all the enjoyable things to do with his Prostate) taken from a DVD video, formerly available on the Aneros website, interesting and informative as well.

Finally, I encourage you to listen to the podcast#9: Prostate Massage & Super Orgasms (Seriously) With Forrest Andrews of Aneros.

“A Long Time Ago In A Galaxy Far, Far Away….”

[Thanks to the ‘Star Wars’ opening crawl (and to George Lucas and Dan Perri) for the title of this blog post]

Introduction
According to my blog posts, it has been 11 days since my last session. Why did I wait so long? Well, for one thing, I believe it is the same reason that I practice semen retention (SR). That period of abstinence only makes the sexual event more special, more powerful. Just as withholding ejaculations can make them more potent, withholding Aneros sessions (I believe) can make them better and stronger. Was that the case for this morning’s session? Let me describe the session…..

Session
I selected the HIH 950 for this session, because I really wanted a “therapeutic” prostate massage session. I want to keep my prostate healthy and help with BPH symptoms too. Of course, I knew in advance how the massager would feel pressing against my prostate, but since it has been so long, the anticipation of that feeling became exquisitely erotic. I couldn’t wait. So I lubed-up the 950 with SSG and inserted it quite deeply, making sure that the perineum-tab was pressing firmly against my perineum. I went to lie-down and relax.

Anthem and my Prostate

Well…I have a new videogame obsession. Anthem!
So last weekend while leveling I started to do my kegels through the long loading times.After a while this started to feel good. As a gamer I typically have all day sessions on my days off especially for a game I like. Therefore about 30 mins into this gaming session I was practically entrapped in orgasmic waves of pleasure while playing this game. My fingers and eyes had one task and my prostate and PC muscles were creating another task on their own.

I wanted to intensify this so about an hour in every loading screen I would drop the controller and start diddling my nipples. Oh gawd…super-Os during every pause in the action to which I would gradually come down from that high while playing the game. It was quite awesome.

Abstinence did play a role in my prostate play quality

I used to brush off that abstinence does not affect the quality/pleasure of my prostate play at all. My mood was the main factor. But recently i discovered that I was wrong. If I tried to have an aneros session or any prostate massage session with my wife on the day that I had a normal orgasm, the quality of the session will go down the drain. It feels empty and i could not have any super-O, or even had a problem achieving mini-O. The only pleasure that I get is the initial high that the aneros slides in and touch my prostate. That feeling diminished fast. So fast that I am bored after 2-3min into the session.

Rumel`s Ruminations – Part IV

To Whom It May Interest,

Over the last few years I’ve posted numerous comments in other peoples threads and authored a few threads of my own. In hopes it would aid in the understanding of the Aneros Journey I’ve decided to consolidate some of the more salient posts of my thoughts here.

From Aneros and an ‘Optimal’ mind state?
Hi guys,
I was recently asked by a member [quote]…about how to get into the right state of mind to encourage a prostate orgasm to happen…[/quote]That’s a good question which deserves some thoughtful responses from our members. First off, let’s dispense with the word “right” and it’s implied antonym “wrong”, the semantics of which imply too much moral judgment attached to their use. I prefer to use the term “optimal” in lieu of “right”. Second, we need to identify what constitutes this “optimal” state of mind. I think I have a pretty good idea about this but it is just my opinion. Third, we need to identify those practices which will help us get into that “optimal” state of mind. Some of this was alluded to in the thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/7967-identifying-facilitators-to-progress”]Identifying Facilitators to Progress[/URL][/U] so this post could be considered an addendum to that thread. This also ties into [USER=”7188″]rook[/USER] ‘s thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/5228-whole-body-whole-mind-the-mental-side”]Whole Body/Whole Mind – the mental side[/URL][/U] & [USER=”7244″]SteelColdiron[/USER] ‘s thread [U][URL=”https://www.aneros.com/community/forum/general-discussion/6775-aneros-the-essential-mind-state”]Aneros: The Essential Mind State[/URL][/U]