After 2 years of trying i had my first hands free orgasm.

Just sort of gushing here, im really happy about this, so im commemorating it with a post.

I got into prostate play 2 years ago when my gf bought me an aneros (helix syn). Ive used a lot of toys since then, but yesterday i had a session with my aneros first, then the lelo hugo, turned it up and within about half an hour i had one. Never been able to have one with a single toy, but the aneros followed by the vibrations of the lelo made for a really good winning combo.

Happy to answer any questions if anyone has them.

“Eupho Dance & HOWO”

What a session! First, a little background. I had been ‘dosing’ on some penis stimulation binaurals for about 45 minutes so I was hard, wet and horny. Since it still was early AM, I decided to “do” a quick non-stimulating ‘session’ with my Eupho and maybe finish-off with an ejaculation later-on. What could be the harm? As it turned out, plenty! Let me explain……

I lubed-up, got the Eupho where it belonged and turning over on my favorite right side position, I relaxed and waited. Well, about 3 minutes in, the Eupho made up its own mind that IT was going to “finish-me-off” whether I liked it or not. So for the next 40 minutes or so, it was a quiet march for me to the ‘edge–of–the-cliff’! Let me further explain……

Continuous contraction got me to orgasm rather than rhythmic contraction

The typical beginner method that people seem to follow is rhythmic contractions. However, I found I wasn’t getting anywhere with rhythmic contractions. I wasn’t getting *any* pleasurable sensations from the massager and I couldn’t tell whether the massager was even contacting my prostate.

I did some reading and I discovered that the intent of the rhythmic contractions is to tire out the anal muscles so that they naturally spasm. The muscle spasms then result in a positive feedback loop for stimulation, hopefully leading to orgasm.

Since I wasn’t getting anywhere with rhythmic contractions, I decided to employ continuous contraction instead. I kept a continuous contraction going for about five minutes, at which point my muscles tired out and started spasming. I then quickly found myself having a full body orgasm!

I think continuous contraction works for me because there’s significantly less to focus on and it’s easier to control, so I can completely relax. With rhythmic contraction, I found that I had to focus on the contractions in order to control them, preventing me from actually relaxing.

So if you’re having trouble with rhythmic contractions, maybe give continuous contraction a shot instead? I’d say it’s worth a shot if you haven’t been making progress otherwise.

“Deep Subconscious Relaxation: An Adjunct to Aneros”

Following a day of sexual “tension”, I felt it was necessary to “cool-down”. I searched for some ‘relaxation’ audios and discovered one by Paul Santisi: “Deep Mental Subconscious Mind Relaxation Massage”. It was about 1 hour and 10 minutes long. I didn’t know what to expect and I have never listened to anything like this before. But I decided to “do it”! I set the headphone volume VERY LOW, got comfortable on a nearby sofa, turned off the lights, closed my eyes, and began to relax.

“Relax” is not the right word for what I experienced. This audio, as I discovered later, contains the so-called ‘Solfeggio Frequencies” as well as binaural and high-alpha beats. Also included are soothing water, rain, wind and thunder sounds. The combination of soothing sounds sure does relax the inner mind. It is hard to describe–you have to experience it. Near the end of the ‘session’ I began to experience ‘visions’ of people I long forgot (but must have been buried in my subconscious mind!). For example, past friends, neighbors, lovers (!) and so on. It is as if these long-forgotten memories were brought to the surface in a most quiet way.

When this session was over, I felt completely at ease both mentally as well as physically. I can truly say that this was one of the most relaxing moments I have ever experienced. What is amazing is that this is not self-hypnosis. It is a truly calming, inner mind experience and I would recommend it highly. I certainly will do it again!

“An Experiment: Male Arousal—How Far Can I Wind The Clock?”

Following a successful Peridise session, I had the opportunity to “try” a ‘non-stimulating’ ‘do-nothing’ short session with my Helix. I lubed-up and inserted and–wow!–it felt good!. I decided in advance that this was to be a ‘short session’ perhaps 30 minutes or so and would involve no effort on my part. I couldn’t be more wrong! Right away, I could feel my heartbeat through the Helix. And almost immediately, the Helix went into ‘auto-fuck’ mode All I could do was ‘ride-it-out!’ In between auto-contractions, I was able to ‘sneak-in’ some of my own. But not too many! These autos continued for the duration of this session, probably 45 minutes or so. I did not experience any prostate orgasms from this ride, however. I decided to end the session and call it a night. Note I did not ejaculate at this time.

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The following morning, I decided again to ‘dose’ on binaural beats — for male arousal and then for ejaculation. Perhaps it’s just me, but I like the way I feel from these audio sessions. I expected to ejaculate during the second listening session, but I dd not. So I thought to myself, since I am already aroused (I had a LOT of precum from these binaurals) why don’t I get back into bed and perhaps do some anal and PC contractions and see where that leads me? So I got back into bed and started to do some very light (whisper) contractions. What happened next blew me away!

“Making Up For Lost Time”

Wow! A full week off from Aneros and it feels good to "ride" again!

Nothing special about this ride, in fact, no Dry-O (perhaps a Mini-O). But as soon as I started with Helix, it was on auto-pilot all the way. I just had to get on-board.

After about an hour and a half with Helix, I switched to PS-NEW and got quite a bit of p-fluid out. About 30 minutes more, no discomfort at all.

Wanted more anals so I switched again to Peridise (Large) and it felt amazing.

Wanted STILL more so I got my set of silicone anal beads and finished the session with a strong E while removing them. As I said, it feels GREAT to "ride" again!

PS Interesting but prostate is NOT "BUZZING" today! Not sure what this means for an orgasm? Perhaps I need MORE SESSIONS! We'll see…..

PS Only a day later and my prostate is "quivering" again! It is a great feeling! Already had a "chairgasm" and some extended full-body O's in bed. Looking forward to more "regular" sessions. I can't wait!

“Male Pleasure Chamber”

[Note: This story is graphic but should be fine for most guys]

I started this "ride" with Eupho and no expectations, basically starting with a "do-nothing" ("do little") approach. After about 10 minutes or so, I began to experience auto-anal contractions that just would not stop! I started to feel some "fluttering" in my prostate and a sense of impending further sensations. I buried my head under my pillow and began to quickly "fall-into" this fantasy……..

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I am at a hotel and have just completed a few days of intense business meetings. I am feeling very 'horny' today and need some 'relief'. So I went up to the hotel concierge and discreetly asked him if he could help.

"I sure can", he responded. "But would you like to try something just a little 'different' tonight? Maybe even a little 'kinky'"? I didn't know what he meant, but I said "Sure, I'm willing to try it!" He explained that this new 'Male Pleasure Chamber' is located off-site a short walk from the hotel. He would make the arrangement. He handed me their 'business card' (it looked quite official) and said that he would call over to schedule me… "How much is it"? I asked. He responded: "$150 but this is for an all-night 'session'. You can pay me".

“New Aless Experiences: Erotic Hypnosis and Binaural Beats”

I recently "discovered" two "additions" to my repertoire. One is "erotic hypnosis" and the other is "binaural beats". Each one has their pluses and minuses. I want to detail my limited experiences with each one so far.

EROTIC HYPNOSIS –
These videos (they are really audio files) are readily available online. Some are better than others. The ones I am interested in generally lead me towards an erection with an ejaculation. For the most part, they work and they are mind-blowing. I do feel though that I usually am NOT in a sufficiently relaxed state to experience all that these videos have to offer. But the experiences in general are very relaxing and stimulating. They can even stimulate to ejaculation if you are in the right frame of mind. One in particular simulates intercourse and is extremely realistic. It actually brought me to ejaculation (with just a little bit of help on my part). I would recommend giving them a try. Keep in mind that you are always in control of yourself during these hypnotic "sessions". You can turn them off at any time (but who would want to?)

I don't see too many "negatives" for them at this time. Give them a try and see for yourself! Most run for about 45 minutes to 1 hour or more.

BINAURAL BEATS –
Oh my! Where to start? These "audio doses" as they are sometimes called are readily available online. They are truly powerful and I feel it is necessary up-front to caution non-users (and I am f*****g serious about this):

Birthday Aneros Session, March 30, 2016

Hi guys,

Today I am celebrating my 67th birthday. I observed it in part with my first Aneros session in over two months. There are two reasons for this long hiatus between sessions. First, we had a rather cold winter, and second, lingering affects from the flu. I just did not feel up for sessions on cold winter mornings. I felt despondent about thrown into old age.

I decided to have a birthday session, nevertheless as good luck for the coming year in some many ways, especially as to my general health.

The major take away from this morning's session that after long Aneros usage, you never quite forget how so good the various models feel working away in you. I call this Aneros muscle memory.

I used my most favorite Aneros models this morning: Helix Classic, Maximus, Tempo, and Progasm Classic.

Helix Classic for a long time has been a session opener. I began my Aneros journey in early June 2012 with Helix Syn which I believe is a good introduction to anal play for guys totally unfamiliar to that experience as me. I like Helix Classic better because that model provides more direct stimulation. This morning I opened myself up to new sensations from Helix Classic and was richly rewarded.

Next Maximus worked his magic in same fashion. The pleasure grew as the session progressed. With both these models, I began with lying on my side with my legs in sitting fashion, but switched to lying on my back with my butt placed on a pillow. Lying on my back, I've discovered, provided even more direct stimulation to my anal musculature and prostate.

Oh My! What A “Do-Nothing” Ride!

Oh My! Where to start? I found myself alone in the house for at least two hours so I "planned ahead" for an uninterrupted "ride" on Progasm Jr. I had not really used it much to-date since I usually felt that it "filled me up" a little too much. Tonight was different.

I decided in advance that I would make this session a "do-nothing" session and I just planned to relax with Progasm Jr. nicely snuggled in my you-know-what. I lubed up nicely and took my time with insertion. It is a little more difficult than the helix or eupho. Once in, I just turned over on my stomach and relaxed for about 15 to 20 minutes.

Very relaxing so far…..and I got an almost immediate erection with precum. Not a bad feeling!

But then, something happened to disturb this peaceful ride…..

I began to auto-contract ever so slightly. I could feel the Pro Jr. very slightly "tickling" my prostate with P-waves and I could even feel it with every pulse.

Every now and then, also, I began to experience a powerful abdominal spasm. Oh yeah, the moaning, THE MOANING seemed to be non-stop during this ride. Since I was alone in the house (except for the dogs) I didn't have to muffle my moans and I didn't. The moans became so loud at times that I believe that they actually helped increase the auto-contractions.