She'll be coming 'round the corner when she coms…

Another near successful evening.

Felt new sensations with a tightness developing and extending through my front pelvic area and into my cock. Could practically feel the mimicking prostate thrusting pressure at the tip. More precum than normal and several little Os.

I think i found my sweet spot and its incredibly important to do so! I need it extended slightly so i am considering mod'ing it for. 1/8-1/4 inch ptab. Maybe i try tomorrow – have several free quiet hours so less thinking on time.

No release either- so two sessions of excitement and I am still full of nervous energy.

Cant wait to enjoy the ride tomorrow.

Exercise to improve normal orgasm

Hi guys,

I was wondering if the aneros can also help with normal p-in-v orgasms? I have no problems with getting aroused or erections, but it takes a real long time to come when I have sex with my fiance. Possibly this could be due to being circumcised or death-grip-masturbation techniques. I often have the feeling that I'm just about to come during sex, but then at the final moment it's like I lose it. This can go one for a few cycles until I finally orgasm.

Do you think the aneros can help with this? Maybe just by training the pelvic muscle. I'm not really interested in multiple orgasm via prostate, just looking for a way to have better sex with my SO. Any particular set of exercises with the aneros helix syn would be highly appreciated. Thanks!

Some ramblings… Don’t try to force an orgasm, just enjoy the sensations

I just finished a really good session with my Nexus Revo 2 – my best one yet actually – and as I had an amazing time with it I thought I'd post a few ramblings about how to improve prostate play if anyone is feeling demotivated or that they aren't having as much fun as they'd like to have.

First of all, I should say that I've seen loads of posts talking about how brilliant it is to have a prostate orgasm. That's great, but I've found that actually focusing on having an orgasm isn't the way to get the most out of your sessions. I've been practicing for about 4 months now and haven't had one yet, but I've found that my sessions are so much better when I'm not thinking about whether I'll orgasm and instead thinking about fantasies and desires. Before I was getting really hung up on trying to orgasm and it was making my sessions worse. If anyone is in that position as well, don't worry about whether you'll orgasm. It might happen, it might not – who cares? It doesn't matter. Do it for the fun of it, not to reach a goal. Read more »

The Glow

Helps to have the day off, so I planned to chase my ride from 2 days ago. It was a "reclaim consistency" day, and I was ready to blow my load. After hitting the gym at noon, I unsuited and plugged in the Pro Jr.

Having the better lube definitely helps )Swiss Navy water base(, and I was well on my way to anal heaven within minutes. Normally, I don't watch videos during a ride, but I had come across this bearded guy milking his prostate with an njoy Pure Wand. He really got into it, leaking major precum and milky prostate fluid. I love that idea, the cock like a tap in a maple tree making a slow leak.

I think Aneros is just not compatible with my anatomy…

So I started off with a Helix Syn as my first Aneros and hated it with passion. No matter what I did all it resulted in was a sharp pain.

So I moved on to a progasm. I figured since I enjoy plug and dildos I would have a better time with it due to its size. And I was right, as soon as I put it in it was as comfortable as could be. But I have run into another issue.

I just dont think my anatomy is compatible with Aneros toys. While the progasm is comfortable to the point where it will feel like its not even there at all lies the issues. It feels kinda nice when initially sliding it in but after its in I have ZERO sensations at all. To the point where if im sitting there not touching myself I will eventually go soft and thats it, and nothing will happen and eventually the lube starts drying and removal becomes uncomfortable.

So i decided to try willing it around. Nothing. However I did finally find something. I have to pull the toy out by 1/3rd or so and push firmly forward with the tip of it. I found a spot that I can only assume is my prostate. Grinding against that spot gives the slight sensation of needing to urinate in the tip of my member. Continuously working this spot just ends up with drops of semen leaking out but no real sensation other than the urination feeling. I would have kept going longer but I again run into the lube drying and not long after that really cramped hands/wrists. Letting it go and naturally settle into place leaves me again with the no sensations at all. I think it just pulls into me too deep. Read more »

desire and new technique

Holidays are over, kids back to collage today, finally a opportunity to be totally alone. Until now my desire has been to insert the aneros and wait or try to make something happen. Since i have had no alone time for a while I have been practicing a less techniques in bed at night and early in the morning. i have become much more in tune with this practice and could not wait for the opportunity to have a session. For the first time my desire was not to have a session and make something happen, i had a strong desire to just have the Aneros inside of me. It had been so long I was mentally and physically craving for it. This went on for about a week until today when I finally got the opportunity. Thanks to a blog from Lingaman I have been practicing a technique he describes in his last blog. (Thank You again) I practiced the technique a less while I was waiting for my opportunity to be alone. Today it Happened! The desire was there, the arousal was there and I just wanted to get the Aneros inside of me and enjoy, and boy did i! Did not try to make anything happen just let the Aneros fill me up and do its job. I started in the usual position on my side one leg up per protocal and the pleasant pulsing started. This has been the norm for me at the beginning of my sessions so i just laid there and let it go. The feelings subsided after about twenty minutes like always for me. This is when I usually try and make something happen and spend the next hour or so overthinking the whole process. Today I rolled on to my back and decided to go with ligamans technique I have been practicing a less for the last week. I took a small piece of coconut oil and placed it on the underside of my cock just below the tip and rubbed ever so lightly in small circles, I also did the same thing to one of my nipples and rubbed both at the same time in rhytham very lightly with a thin film of slippery coconut oil. It took a few minutes and then i could feel something building in my prostate and cock. I had several involuntary prostate pulses and then my cock started to warm up and it felt like i was going to cum. I continued the circles even though I thought i might ejaculate. To my supprise i did not ejaculate and had a nice but not powerful dry o. First time for me! I started again same results a slow build up felt like i was going to cum and a nice dry o again. Not as intense as a regular orgasam but similar in that my prostate and cock pulsed several times and no ejaculation. There was a good amount of precum the second time and my cock was about half hard now. I rested a few minutes and started again I was able to use the pre cum and the coconut oil to create a slippery surface and started the small circles and the nipple circles, after a couple of minutes the wave built again and felt like it was going to be stronger this time. I thought for sure i was going to ejaculate but did not care i wanted to see what was over this edge and it had been about a hour and a half since i started. My prostate and cock pumped away and this time i had two strong anal contractions that startled me. This ended the orgasam and no ejaculation, just more pre cum. I was about three quarters hard at this point and very supprised. I decided to end my session because i have been having a minor hemroid problem recently and i was afraid i would aggrevate the situation. Looking back I wish i would have tried one more time. Getting back to the begining of my post i can finally channel my desire into the Aneros and let it do its job with just a little stimulation to set things off. Can not wait to try again. Thanks again to Lingamans creative writing and helpful tips.

Ridiculously high heart rate + other questions…

I've had my Helix Syn for about a year now but only just now started to use it regularly. I'm progressing pretty quickly and feel like I'm getting in tune with the subtleties, sensations and how to react to them. I feel like I can just get to below the crest and no further so I will keep trying and listening to my body more. But I have a few questions:

-When I begin to feel waves and respond to them my heart begins to pound harder and faster than it ever has in my life. I've never experienced such intense heart pounding, in fact it's a little bit distracting during the session. I haven't seen much about this here but wanted to see if it happens to others or if it might go away as I get more used to it.

-Tips to maintain focus during the waves? I try hard to keep my mind clear and focus on my body during the waves and build ups but frequently random unrelated thoughts pop into my head and throw me off. Any tips to avoiding this? I smoke weed before the session which seems to help me go to 'another world' during my sessions.

-I don't feel the P-tab much. I've found that using my finger to put pressure on the perineum has helped a ton and increases the force that the Aneros puts on the prostate. I can feel the contractions very easily here, and try to respond to them but I wasn't sure if this is a best practice. Could this mean that I might need to upgrade to a progasm? I like the stronger force much more but would love to keep my hands away from the area. Read more »

Would it be a noticeable ‘upgrade,’ to move from the Aneros “Helix” to the “Helix Syn?”

Is there any value in upgrading from the Aneros "Helix" to the "Helix Syn?"

A bit of background; I've never yet experienced what I would call a "Super-O" or a "Hands-Free O" (despite spending a fortune on prostate toys of varying intensity and size). I am still holding out hope for 'someday,' and trying to remain patient and positive.

That said, I do like to change things up, once in a while! Variety is the spice of life. In that regard; is the Helix Syn noticeably better or more comfortable than the "classic" Helix, or would it not make a noticeable difference?

10+ orgasms in one session (follow-up)

I didn’t count them, but I just had more than 10 orgasms in one session with my Aneros Helix SYN and it was awesome!

This is a follow-up to my first post and my second post.

Experiments with coconut oil

After my last post I started to experiment with coconut butter but I didn’t like it very much and soon returned to water based lube. I may try coconut oil again in the future. This tip from anerothon was helpful. I can recommend to prepare some scoops in the fridge or freezer. Keeps the fingers from getting too sticky. Using the freezer may be too cold, be careful!

No progress

Since my last post I tried multiple sources for audio stimulation. I tried some moaning from /r/gonewildaudio because I like to hear moaning (even though I don’t really moan myself). But at some point I always lost my horniness. I also listened to different binaural beats. The ones with deep bass worked best. But sometimes it didn’t work at all. I often got a bit frustrated and changed the audio in the middle of my session. This didn’t help at all. I decided to start over with the do nothing technique and this time I would do it right. I needed to relax. Read more »

back in action

As expected the holidays meant a full house and little time or privacy for a session. I also learned that alcohol is a deal buster. The one or two times I was able to try a session was after a night of partying, not excessive but enough. Sessions usually started out good but quickly faded and often I fell asleep. In fact i made myself sore after falling asleep with the helix in and removing it about 4 hours later. I had to give it a rest for a week. Had the chance to be alone and sober the other afternoon and lubed up and relaxed for a session. Still no big O for me but learning along the way.The first 30 min. are the most pleasurable for me at this point. I am now experiencing multiple pulsating sensations in my prostate as my body adjust to the Aneros being in. After about thirty min. it subsides and not much else happens. I then try different positions and some contractions to try and get something going. Last time around I tried just relaxing not thinking about the Aneros at all and gently rubbed my nipples they got erect and it felt pretty good. I then noticed my prostate woke up again and started the faint pulsing I usually get in the beginning of a session. My heartrate was increasing and it felt like some pleasure was about to happen and then it faded away. I had been at it for about one and a half hours and decided to stop because I had to be somewhere soon, but I am encouraged for the next session. Hopefully I will have a more exciting and interesting post the next time around.