Cannot Super-O, because I’m out of shape. Suggestions on a regimen?

I've been experimenting with prostate massage (very occasionally ) for quite some time, about 10 years now (I'm 30 now). Just recently figured out how to make it feel good. Even had a wet orgasm from manual stimulation with the njoy pure wand, which is when I really started getting the hang of it.

Problem is, if I use the Aneros or Nexus Revo Stealth, I eventually become fatigued just when it starts to get good.

My back and neck muscles often are clenched because I don't know how to relax them while I'm focused on other parts of my body. Is this normal or is there a trick I'm missing?

I eventually will have back and neck spasms, and heart(?) spasms and will start feeling weak. I won't be able to finish. I worry I am even putting too much strain on my heart because my heart will be working overtime for quite awhile up to this point. Normal masturbation does not do this to me, but that's because the orgasms are much shorter and therefore less energy required.

I'm pretty light weight, about 5'7 and 130 lbs. Diet, sleep, and exercise habits not good on a consistent basis. Obviously I should be better about that but I'm trying to understand the problem better, as well as my own body.

My Journey with Prostate Massage

Barely into my 20s, I experimented with solo masturbation. Meaning, I was already well-versed in jacking off, but…was there another way? One night, under cover of darkness (ha) I tried something new. I noticed when I jacked off, something "inside" would tighten. This, together with "rubbing" would produce the desired result. So, I figured, how about if I just "tightened"; no rubbing? It took a while, but paid off in a most sublime climax, lengthy and…peculiar. Delightful. It seemed to take a lot of effort, and what seemed like an hour, as delightful as it was, I wouldn't be going back there for a little while. My normal second-hand forays would have to do. And so they did. Of course, often after that, would you believe 40 years?.. I'd try to recapture that same feeling, with the same climax. The "feeling" was possible to recapture but it never crescendoed once into it's desired result. Not once.
Into my 60s I was going through a rough time romantically, sexually. One time, getting ready to have nap, I flopped down on the bed, on my side, knees bent. That "feeling" was there, quite strong. I realized it had something to do with my position (lying on left side). I noted this.
I noted this and "concentrated" on this feeling and while experimenting one day, my feelings rose to a pitch where it hovered and crossed over a point of no return and I dry-orgasmed. It was delightful. Aha! It was back. I tried over and over, over perhaps a year and had many pleasant experiences. I noted two major requirements: Concentration and Time. They usually took an hour to accomplish. Something I could only do if I had time and was alone. Business trips were good. I'd lie down for a nap and go to town.
My procedure was to lie down, on left side, remove pants and underwear, and bend my knees. And not do anything, but concentrate on the feelings, and perhaps let erotic thoughts waft into my head. Most times I'd get off, trip into a dreamy dry orgasm land and have multiple soft, gentle climaxes. Some sessions were better than others. Some were duds, one or two were so powerfully erotically, I have not been able to supersede them, even with a device up my butt.
I began to look up this phenomena on the web and somehow I got hooked up with Aneros and High Island. The experiences they portrayed sounded like mine, so I made the connection.
To backtrack a little. When I first started to experiment again, in my 60s, I was going through a rough spot even with my sex life, as I began to have lovemaking sessions with my wife that 'didn't work". First time ever, as for our 30 years or more this had never been a problem. Seems like my member, though initially it was eager, soon dried up sexually, with interest, excitement gone. So, this revelation was welcome. Somehow it kick-started me into being more turned on, more active, so it helped and to this day, thank God, that impotency problem has hardly every returned.
OK, so I discovered the Aneros website and wanted to "try one of those". I felt like I knew what they were capable of. All the talk of "rewiring" I immediately understood, as I had been, in a sense rewired.
I now have 5 models, the SGX, MGX, the Eupho, Heli and Prograsm Classic. And I still occasionally go device-less with comparable results.

My New Reality

Years ago I fantasized that it would be amazing to experience orgasms that lasted more than several seconds; the idea that I might experience an orgasm that lasted an hour or two was the stuff of science fiction in my mind. Yet here I am in 2015, not in a Ray Bradbury novel experiencing them. I (we are) am very – very lucky to have developed this ability and have these mind blowing experiences every few days; for some of us its more frequent than that.

For me and many of us the experience of an MMO is like surfing. I am continually discovering some nuance in technique or mental context that modulates, amplifies and intensifies the orgasms. I have been at this for 9 years now and each session I do I learn something new or have some amazing new sensation or combination of sensations. Aside from the ecstatic sensations of MMO part of my addiction to it is the kaleidoscopic arrays of ecstatic orgasms that they bring.

Two nights ago I had yet another session that revealed to me the profound pleasure of MMO. This session was also a landmark session which was why I chose to do this entry. Its noteworthy achievement was that it was the longest session I have ever endured. I do not use the word endure lightly here. This 4 hour experience pushed the envelope in MMO for me; it was excruciatingly pleasurable lifting me to a state of agonizing rapture.

How do I know if the p-tip is in its right place?

I feel like the p-tip of my aneros helix sync isn't in its right place. I think it needs to be closer to the penis and I can't really adjust it that way. Its supposed to put pressure on the prostate from the outside, right? I dont think it hits that spot at all. Sadly I am one of those guys who can't even achieve p-waves, yet. But I'm not giving up, just trying to make sure that all the boxes are checked for it to even work physically.

New Toy

I got a new toy off of Amazon. Its not an Aneros product, so it may technically be off topic here.

The price was cheap, and being silicone, I though I would give it a shot. I'm glad I did.

The flexible nature of this makes it much more comfortable than the hard plastic of the Aneros models that I have tried. Yet it is still firm enough to make its presence known, and it does that very well. One thing I noticed right away. It isn't drawn into the body the way the Aneros does. It needs to be pushed firmly into place, but it can be pushed too far. Don't use vaseline as a lube. It is too slick, and this toy will fall back out. A little bit of olive oil injected with a lube shooter seems to do the job quite nicely.

This doesn't have the P-Tab of the Aneros. It has these ticklers that apply little if any pressure. I don't really notice them, and don't think they do anything, but at least they don't hurt like the P-Tab does at times.

This is sold as both a prostate and anal massager. The anal part is incredible. The compressible nature of the rubber is causing a little tug of war, as it is squeezed and bounces back, causing these unbelievable spasms. It is being squeezed so hard at times that I've actually found it somewhat difficult to remove.

More Spinal Orgasms

This morning, woke up and started idly fingering my dick as I started thinking about the day, but pretty soon it was hard and a few minutes later went into an orgasm, so I changed plans :-) and enjoyed that for a while.

I threw in some nipple stim and was enjoying myself, then figured I'd try moving the orgasms to my spine (get crazy ideas now and again..), and it worked (?!?)

While either penis stim or nip stim, I took the other hand and rubbed it against my spinal valley on my back. Started at the tail bone, and tried various other positions from as far up as i could reach behind me to down a few inches up from my anus.

I think one of the big contributors is that whereever the pwaves were coming from, I kept trying to mentally focus them toward my spine as that always seems to make them super intense…

Went into orgams after a few min just about everywhere I tried… I got external Butt orgasms and anal orgasms by touching around my tailbone and lower. Tailbone was a hotspot. And I got some kind of shest/back orgasm from the small of my back which seemed like a hotspot too…

These orgasms involved muscle spasms and pleasure waves in the target area along with the requisite prostate pwaves. Some with rock hard erections, some flaccid. I got the feeling though that none of the higher back orgasms were as pleasurable as something in the groin area, nip, penis, or anal orgasm, but pretty unique!

Orgasmic Confluence

Over the last few years the dimensions of my sexual response have come together to intertwine and deliver excruciating pleasure. I have found myself thinking a lot about the nature of my sexual response in my new state. So it was earlier this week on my drive home from a meeting that my thoughts turned to the erotic. Day dreaming as I drove a prodigious erection resulted accompanied by the expected flow of precum that soaked my underpants. I had plenty of time to ponder on the complexity of my experience of erotic bliss. The inspiration was an intimate liaison J and I had a few nights earlier.

In the past I was biologically programmed to see erotic pleasure as an external thing focused on my cock, like most guys. My psyche was hard wired to experience pleasure as an external physical event, in both visual and physical perspectives my sexual pleasure was experienced through my arousal stiffened penis, outside of my body. The sight of J alluringly nude, sensually exposed, always elicits an immediate visceral response; my cock hardens and lengthens and the welcomed erotically warm desperate itch of arousal licks at my cock and tugs on it sending waves of erotic delight to my brain.

Aneros Peridise

I though I would try something new. I'm glad I did. First of all there is absolutely no discomfort at all with this inserted. I believe I will try to sleep with it in.

I don't know IF I will be Able to sleep, as I am already experinencing Super-O's. This is only my third session since it arrived today. I did cheat, using my Helix in a mini-session to jump start my prostate.

I will have to experiment without the jump start later. I also did a better lube job. Heh.

This could be my new favorite. I am using the smaller size.

I wonder if I will be able to have my walks with this in. I've been trying to get more exercise. This could make things much more interesting if I can keep things under control.

It will be raining for a few days, so I won't be able to for a while.

Pleasure

Came home today and she was in the shower. Stripped down and joined her. She was finished so she lathered me up and bathed me. Paying special attention to every part of my body.

I grabbed the coconut oil and laid on the bed.She went for a glass of wine and gave me 15 minutes or so to warm up. I put a generous amount of oil on the Evolved You Too. It had been a while since my last session. I lubed myself and slowly inserted the device. As it slipped past my sphincter I could immediately feel the pleasurable vibration inside. I start flexing and dong kegels and the sensations intensify. I had my right legs straight out and my left bent in a triangle. As I worked the massager with my muscles, on the furthermost push outward, the vibes hit right on my prostate. I had the massager on the forth setting which is pulsing medium. Those sensations caused me to moan and tense up with the over whelming pleasure. The top vibe caressed my scrotum and sent wave up my cock. The more I squeezed the device , the more aroused I became.

My eyes were closed and I was enjoying the erotic state when I heard her enter the room. She laid down beside me and kissed me lovingly. She touched my cock and lightly jacked me. She used her tongue on my right nipple as the slowly jerked me. She lowered her head and took me in her mouth. She sucked on my cock as the intense vibrations continue inside of me. I was bucking and moaning in wave after wave of orgasmic feelings.

Weird Science!

Weird Science !!

So much to write, so little time.

For you Catholics out there, “It’s been 1.5 days since my last orgasm…” (grin)

During that last go–round 1.5 days ago, I had an intense 2 hr session with a Helix, then another 1 hr one A–Less. Unfortunately toward the end of the A–Less session, I felt like I had been arousing my penis too much and had an inkling that I’d get to a wet orgasm if I didn’t stop. But you’re never sure. Anyway I just didn’t want to stop so eventually, I think I came to the point of no return for a wet orgasm. My penis was rock hard, and I ‘d let up on the dry–orgasms, but I could just feel an ejaculation coming, so lay back and relaxed and came, then cleaned up and went about my business. Ejaculations during regular Dry–O’s have a frustrating quality in that the semen, whether it surges out or not, always continues to dribble out drop by drop for a few minutes afterward. I go commando, and a drop of that stuff makes a visible wet stain, and just starts to smell like old semen after a while. Uugghh.

So anyway to today. I’d started feeling pwaves while driving yesterday and figured my body was ready for more, so I’d planned a Helix session last night (Figured I’d try the Helix again after the last intense one). But as the evening went by I started feeling sick to my stomach. Something I’d eaten?. So I went to sleep without any orgasm activity at all.