Tag: Prostate

Rumel's Ruminations – Part I

This Blog is in two Sections : Part II is my periodic blog of experiences (most recent at the top), Part I (this one) is just copies of some of my earliest Forum entries (oldest at the bottom)

12/17/07 : I read in the newspaper today about the death of singer-songwriter Dan Fogelberg at the age of 56 due to advanced prostate cancer, boy did that bring a twinge of pain to my heart. He was an artist that I grew up listening to with a gentle thoughtful style I regularly enjoyed. It certainly gives me pause to think how fortunate I am that my own cancer was detected early enough for effective treatment to commence. I now have a very good prospect of becoming a long lived cancer survivor. To any of you guys who may read this blog entry, I strongly urge you to begin getting yearly PSA tests (especially if you are over the age of 50)to monitor for potential prostate cancer. It is a simple blood test, I would never have discovered my own cancer were it not for that finding of an increasing PSA level. Hopefully, upon conclusion of my own treatments, I can get back to enjoying the wonderful Aneros journey I began back in April. Read more »

Yowsa!

I had two sessions this morning. Prior to the first session, I took some Avena Sativa, L-Theanine, and ate a small piece of dark chocolate, which one of the forum members recommended to increase the intensity of the experience. The first, shorter session, was so-so. It was pleasureable, but was only a portent of what was to come.

I gave it about an hour and a half rest and then started up again. This time, it built up to a high plateau. I used my favorite position – on my back. At first I just lay quietly and tweaked my nipples. That gave me a real tingly feeling in my crotch tha grew in intensity. The defining characteristic of this session was that I felt as though I was perched on top of the Aneros, that it was deliciously teasing me. I wanted to be deeply penetrated, but stayed with the teasing and it was as though the Aneros was dancing on my prostate.

I had a lot more twitching in my anus this time, as though it were sucking the Aneros in an out rapidly. At the peak, I was breathing in small sharp breaths and writhing in ecstasy. I guess maybe this qualified as multiple "mini Os", because it sure felt good. I finally ended the session, thinking I could go on like that all afternoon. But I'm sitting here in the warm afterglow of my session, looking forward to future trysts with Mistress Aneros.

Morning Session

Spent a lovely hour and a half with mistress Aneros. I started out with the Progasm. It was easier to insert today and less painful. I started out with it to try to avoid any more tenderness the MGX might contribute. Again, my impression of the Progasm is that it really fills you up. It doesn't move much, but seems to work on the prostate more. I suspect that if it moved more (and perhaps it will as as I work with it more) it would really be a wild ride.

Switched over to old faithful MGX. I think I'm getting the hang of it's idiosyncrasies because each session is a bit more lively and lovely than the last. It's like a roller coaster, building up to a peak and sliding down before heading up another peak. If precum is any indication of good sessions, I am having them, because there is a lot with my sessions.

Ended up standing with the MGX. You seem to get a more solid contact on the prostate and can bear down a little to increase the sensations. Grinding your hips helps also and I've found that if I lean against a counter, I seem to have a little more control. Read more »

Enjoying but still wondering

Well I will say that I have been pleased with what aneros has bestowed upon me. I have had the chance on several occasions to start with the Helix, and work with it for an hour or so, achiving, great shutters in my body, very heavy breathing, pleasure definately, but nothing that "feels" like a penile orgasm. Have I missed the point here? I do love the feelings I get, (even though I find it takes a great deal of physical activity), I have on occasion had a magnificent erection caused by the stimulation, (although I knew of the erection only by brushing my hand against my penis, and not from the feeling of the penis), a good supply of precum, and an amazingly short time to feel the prostate pleasure, (sometimes within a minute of inserting the aneros). I do love the movement I find in the Helix, and as I said I can feel the gratifying effect very very quickly. I also love the feeling of the Progasm for it's size and the take charge feeling it seems to have over me. (I do love the full feeling). Read more »

Reports from an Asstronaut

I am new to the Aneros, having used an MGX for three weeks and just having gotten a Progasm today. The MGX has been a lot of fun and has given me much pleasure, though I haven't achieved the legendary "Super O". I am, however in pursuit of it.

I do have a serious problem with the Aneros. It is so pleasurable that I have a hard time refraining from using it every chance that I get. For example, this morning I had a really nice session with the MGX. Then the Progasm got here and I just had to try it out.

The only problem I had was that my sphincter was pretty sore from the workout it had already gotten. But I lubed the Progasm up well and took my time and in a little bit had it in place. I have to say that the Progasm has a qualitatively different feel to it. I had gotten it because I wanted to experience having a bit more "up there". Nor was I disappointed.

As large as it is, the Progasm doesn't move as much as the MGX. But it definitely hits the prostate more solidly. I had a pretty nice session with the Progasm, discovering that on the back is my best position for it. By the time I finished, I had a nice buzz going on with my backdoor. Read more »

Have now tried Helix and Progasm

Well I have now had the chance to try out my new models. The Helix, and the Progasm. Let me begin by saying I have only had minimal success with any model. The very first time I tried the SGX I got a nice tingling in my anus and a kind of light kissing response from my anus, but was never able to repeat that. I have read so much about aneros taking over and doing its own thing to massage the prostate, but never really understood what that was like.

Last session I cleaned up used marksman lube as an interal lube and then lubed the Helix with ID Millenium (found it to stay slipprier longer, even if it takes more to clean it up) I inserted Helix and relaxed. I started slow clenching of the anal muscles and found that there were more muscles I was using, I guess they are called the PC muscles, the ones by the Perineum. It took about 15 or 20 minuets but then I began to feel a kind of pulsing in my penis, not my anus or the PC muscles but in my penis like it was bobbing on my body. I have to admit I wanted to get back to the body shutters I had experienced the very first time I used the SGX, (nothing since)so I concentrated very hard on what I was doing. The pulsing in my penis began to grow very slowly, and I could start to feel something, what I was not sure in the area of my prostate. It was vague and undefined. After about 40 minutes I decieded I was not free enough so I put a pillow under my bent leg (legs were in position as noted in the instructions). It began to feel much more comfortable, and I could feel myself relaxing even more than I had been. I felt a quiver in my body much like I had the first time I used the SGX, not as strong, or as long lasting but definately there. Read more »

My journey begins………

So, I thought I'd share my journey of discovery here to hopefully contribute to the collective, as well as learn from other users.

I have had my Helix for about a month now, and have had about 5 sessions with it. I have not yet experienced an orgasm, but have definitely noticed some wonderful sensations and have begun discovering some of the more subtle muscular movements.

SOME HISTORY:
I have been very sexually-oriented person since childhood, and started masturbating at the age of 5, in the form of rubbing on my bedpost. Since then, I've tried just about everything under the sun, but, of course, the majority of it was (is) "penile-centric".
I'm now 41, married to the same woman I started dating 22 years ago, and we are mutually expanding our sexual horizons.
I started reading books on Tantric / energetic / spiritual sexuality about 5 years ago, and began experimenting with perineum massage in combination with penile masturbation, which is what spawned my desire to learn more about prostate and perineum orgasms.
I also began learning about the incomprehnsible scope of the female orgasm (beyond the normal orgasm) at this time, and have learned of the female prostate in the process. Although the female prostate (g-spot) is located in a different place (it surrounds the urethra), it can be massaged in much the same way that the male prostate can be massaged to bring on new levels of enjoyment, beyond the typical rocket-O associated with the g-spot.
It is interesting that I am now a fledgling student in this pleasure for myself, after having learned (and continuing to learn) how to bring about ecstatic prostate orgasms for my wife. Read more »

My KIT arrived and wanted to report

Well after nearly two weeks of waiting my aneros kit has arrived. was able to find time almost immediately to try the SGX. First thing I must state is that I was very surprised at the size of the SGX and for that matter of the MGX. I have to admit I have had anal play with other items and both of the aneros seemed so small. I thought this can't possibly make me feel anything. Well I followed the guides on the package, the instructions from this sight, and all the advice I had read before receiving my toys.(I use the term toy loosely, because I see now this will be more than a play time, but a total adventure in mental and physical control)

I just finished cleaning up and wanted to write so thoughts are clear and to the point. But first thing I saw was a blog from Ashlen, and he let me see some of what didn't work for me on this first try. Patience being the biggest problem, being able to focus, and knowledge about contractions, (how long how hard etc.) Read more »

god's truth now

ok I have to admit it now, cause I need to be open and honest, I am afraid of aneros because I am keeping it a "secret" from my partner. I know I shouldn't but I don't want to have him think I am weird or that I am off on some wild tangent. I want so much to discover the pleasure of the prostate adventure, so I can share it with him, but I have to prove it to myself first. Still waiting for it to arrive.
I have made many refreences to it in our talks but not told him completely about ordering it, or that I will want to try it for a while before I let him know about it. any suggestions?

Mwhoim

An update

Hi all, I have not gone away. Thanx to rumel I found my blog I had thought had been removed. Anyway, today I posted the below to the forum when it really was meant to be here. I just wanted all to have the info, and the experiences I felt today.

I don't believe I have ever posted to the forum. I did have a blog that I started late spring, or early summer 07, but think it's been removed because of lack of use. I didn't want to post negative experiences to the whole group feeling there are way more negative users then positive ones.

My journey started with the Helix. I had no luck at all with it. Maybe because I do have anal experience with the real thing if you know what I mean. I'm not gay, or bi, but I am very bi curious. I believe it is a very natural feeling in both sexes. Some of us accept, and some don't, no problem! Read more »