Embrace the feeling of “I’m about to cum” or ignore it in search of subtler feelings?

I keep getting very pleasurable feelings that feel just like I’m about to have an ejaculatory orgasm. They feel great and can get pretty intense sometimes but ultimately they never really lead anywhere, and I’m left I unsatisfied. Now I’m wondering if I’m actually paying attention to the wrong feelings and if I should actually look past those “I’m about to cum” feelings and into something subtler. Especially since people keep saying that prostate orgasms aren’t like penile ones, and these pre-orgasm feelings feel just like the build up to a traditional orgasm. (Except just inside my body near my balls rather than in my dick)

I once felt a small subtle tingle in my prostate that was unlike anything I’ve felt before or since, and I’m wonder if maybe I should just continue looking for that feeling again rather than letting the pre-orgasm feeling sweep me away. (The problem is I haven’t been able to find this tingle since that first time).

I feel like Ive been stuck at this stage for months now and I don’t know what to do to get further.

Where should the aneros touch the prostate? Is my prostate too shallow?

I’ve seen diagrams showing the tip of the aneros in contact with the prostate, but from feeling with my finger while the toy is inserted my prostate seems to be significantly more shallow than that. I have pretty much every model and this appears to be the case for all of them. From what I can tell the massagers currently touch the prostate on the middle hump, causing some stimulation, but I feel like I have been stuck for a while.

Is it possible that my prostate is too shallow for the massagers? How can I properly check if they make contact where they are supposed to?

I have recently modified a MGX Trident by shortening the insertable part and the first session seems to be promising, from what I can tell the tip now is touching the prostate. Is this a good approach? Tips?

Headrush, flying feeling

Wondering if anyone else experiences this…

I get multiple types of orgasms from prostate play. Some are completely centered in my groin/cock area. Some are more full body, tingly with the groin and cock area going nuts.

The best ones I get are more of like a “headrush” where the sexual energy just sends me into orbit. They are VERY intense and the only thing I can equate it to is like taking off in a spaceship or plane. It almost feels like pleasurable g-force. It’s like the opposite of falling. They are shorter than the groin/body ones and I cant seem to chain them together or duplicate by MY GOD….they are insane. It takes my breath away.

Just wondering if anyone else has similar experiences or tricks to get them more regularly.

Next Toy to get

Okay so, thinking of my next toy to get and I’m pretty set on it being an aneros model (I’ll save the Njoy for later)
My thing is I want it to be a long term investment so I’m not sure which I want to get. I don’t think a Progasm is for me, I prefer gradual build up and have heard the progasm can be a tad solid and rough.

I’m divided between the Eupho and the Helix. I wanna lean toward the Eupho because I’ve heard it’s amazing for gradual build up and fine control to produce some of the strongest orgasms. But I’ve also heard it mainly for experienced users and I’m not entirely sure if I am or not.
I’ve had amazing sessions both with and without toys, and I’ve even had a HFWO. I definitely have awareness of my prostate, even when just sitting down. I also don’t mind if it takes a while, but I’m just not sure cause if I commit to it I wanna be sure it will get results that keep me excited using it. Gould I get input on users of it when you knew you were ready for it?

Squirting orgasms

Last night was mind blowing. It is scary how much pure bliss and pleasure I experienced.

First I had maybe 3-4 full body dry orgasms but then the pleasure was overwhelming and my prostate just exploded.

No aneros even. All aless. I squirted 5 or 6 times, thought I was peeing but it was actually prostate fluid. I experienced contractions that were weirdly familiar to contractions that happen when you’re throwing up. It was a very intense feeling but it was definitely one of the craziest sexual experiences I’ve ever had.

It seems like after using the aneros a bunch of times in previous sessions I was able to train/activate my prostate and now I can aless whenever I want. So crazy and kind of scary to be honest.

Oh my fucking god it was insane. I didn’t think it was possible for men to squirt. Ive heard of it before but assumed it was just pee.

After it happened I was able to confirm that it was not pee. It was the same consistency of pre cum just a lot of it. Very mind blowing experience.

What helped me: nipple stimulation, lots of weed, erotic audio, lot of practice

I don’t even know what to say I can’t wait to do it again. Thank you to everyone in this forum for helping me experience this amazing pleasure.

Ask me anything you like I can try to help if you are struggling to find your pleasure.

crazy ride

On friday, 14.1 I had an incredible ride with my mgx trident and I still wonder what I have experienced.
This is what happened:
I was lying on my back with my feet on the bed. I listened to a binaural soundtrack to relax. After about 20 minutes I was only slightly aware of the Aneros and it gently stimulated my prostate but nothing out of the ordinary. Then I noticed my face contorting without being able to control it. First I squeezed my eyes tightly shut, starting with my right eye, moving on to my left, and when they loosened, it moved on to my mouth. The whole thing felt like a circle. It felt strange but as I was letting myself go without questioning, I did not ended it willingli. It happened a few more times which is why I had to film myself. I found it very strange but also exciting and funny at the same time. All the while, I felt the Aneros still pleasantly pressing against my prostate.
Then, without warning, my stomach muscles tightened. I could release this tension willingly, but I just wanted to let go, so I did nothing of the sort. But I got to the point where my abdominal muscles started to hurt because the tension didn’t release. So I relaxed them. But shortly afterwards it happened again and again for longer and longer. Sometimes I could hardly catch my breath, but it felt very exciting as I was getting used to it I learned to breath through this contractions. Then, in addition to my abdominal contraction, the pelvis also started to move as if the Aneros was pushing firmly in and out of me. It felt like i was getting fucked by someone. That also felt very good. Throughout this time I kept feeling my prostate pulsating and sending out a kind of wave throughout my body (in all directions). Sometimes I noticed that for a millisecond a kind of bright spark is ignited in my prostate or penis and it felt marvelous. This state went on for 27 minutes.
To ad more pleasure I also teased my nipples. As they are getting more sensitive since I use the aneros.
Then, when I no longer wanted to just let go and had slight hopes that today was the day of days, my changed the position and lied on my left side with one leg up. Unfortunately, it didn’t feel so good anymore and I turned back onto my back after ten more minutes. Then I resumed my breathing technique (deep into my belly) and it all started again first strong contractions in my belly, down to my hips and suddenly the Aneros pulled deep into me and my PC muscle tightened very tight. To my astonishment, then the opposite tension occurred and my body tried to push the Aneros out again. But the Aneros didn’t move at all, even though I thought it was about to fly across the room.
Now I felt that everything around the Aneros was slightly swollen and became very sensitive.But that also felt very pleasurable. All this happened again three or four times in short intervals and I only remember that waves of pleasure were sent through my whole body again and again.
But they were definitely not mini orgasms. I would have known the difference. However, I am very grateful for it.
Because the contractions were getting stronger and stronger and I was feeling that I would soon no longer be able to stand it I needed to try something out. Sometimes it helps me if I adjust the Aneros tab. I moved it slightly from the middle to the right. This felt a lot like a building up orgasm, so I moved the P-Tap very slightly from one side to the other. It felt like I was edging my prostate. A building up orgasm that never goes over the edge but gets stronger and stronger. Every time I thought I was going to come, it peaked even more. This went on for hours. Well it felt that way. When I watch the film I know now that it was for 8 minutes.
Then the orgasm was inevitable and I had a wet orgasm. It was strong and amazing. Like no orgasm i had befor. Right after it, a second peaked up and I ejaculated a second time. The ejaculations were just after another. It might was 5 seconds in between.
The good thing was that I kept moving the p-tap from side to side and it tickled my prostate a lot. I said to myself that I was still feeling an other orgasm and had uncontrollable fits of laughter. I have never experienced anything like that before. I felt stupid, but it was just too funny. This state went on for another 14 minuter till i could feel anoter building up orgasm. This time it went longer. Another 22minutes to e exact.
But to finally trigger the third orgasm I had to touch my frenulum with one finger. I did not massage it but i pushed a bit against it and i ejaculated again. After that I lied on my bed very quiet and was hoping that I was not to loud form my neighbours. So much pleasure in one day. That really amazes me and was a very cool experience. Quiet spiritual and I dont want to repeat it right away. I think I need some time to think about what i have experienced. When I read again, what happened i still can feel my prostate. I really hope to be able to experience all that again.

6th Anniversary

Today is my 6th anniversary of initiation to prostate play and encounter with my very first Aneros, the Classic Helix Syn. It’s been quite the journey beginning with all the frustration typically experienced by most newbies.

With time, patience and especially the help and guidance of my fellow forum members, I’ve been able to escalate the level of pleasures to an indescribable level. I feel I’m far more educated on my newfound pleasures and my whole body.

At 67 years of age, I’m in the best shape of my life with regards to male sex and prostate health.
I’ve also been fortunate enough to have made good friends along the way which is a great way to share details of a journey that cannot be shared with anyone else outside of the Aneros brotherhood.

I look forward to the future!

Alone time with my 1st Aneros

I woke up yesterday morning with that full feeling in my pubic area, my prostate feeling full and ready for some attention. I drank my coffee, worked out and showered and still the feeling was there. I had a few items to take care of around the house, but my state of arousal was making it difficult. I decided I wanted to build up even more arousal before starting a session. I have a small butt plug, that has some sort of bead in it that rolls around with movement. It works wonders for loosening my hole up and getting me super relaxed and ready. After working It in I threw on t shirt, and my jock strap I occasionally use for sessions. I did my business around the house, I could feel the arousal building. I grabbed my vice 2, powered it up and put it to work. Unfortunately, I forgot to charge it after last use. It made about 10 minutes and died. Great. I grabbed my lelo Loki and well it was dead as well. At this point im well aroused, and honestly just want something up my ass and touching my prostate. Wanting something larger I picked up my Progasm. Oddly enough this was my 1st aneros toy. I knew little in the day, bigger was better or so I thought. I just didn’t know how to properly stimulate myself.
It had been awhile, and it felt very nostalgic. I forgot how aggressively the toy touches my prostate. I began some kegals, and it took about 5 minutes for the involunatarys to start. Loving the ride I rolled over onto my stomach. Let it keep going. after about 45 minutes I had a couple small prostate orgasms, but was still crazy horny and ready to ejaculate. I relubed the progasm, and began touching my nipples, inner thighs and balls. I layed my hand against my sack letting my fingers touch all the way to the back, where it connects to my perineum. I gripped my self and slowly worked my hand upwards my tip. and then headed back down. It didn’t take long and I exploded. And when I say exploded, I managed to ejaculate a very large load all the way to my face. Thats rare for me.

something new…

Hello Together

At my last session I chose the Aneros Helix Trident. Unfortunately I only had 1.5 hours to myself, but it’s better than having no time at all.
I took all the necessary precautions so that I could enjoy the Aneros to the full.
First I used enough lubricant and then I inserted the Helix Trident. Then I tidied up everything I no longer needed and couldn’t wait to get into bed. The Helix Trident felt very pleasant and stimulated my prostate a lot already. I’ve never had such a good start. As usual, I lay on my back with my feet flat on my bed. I used to watch porn for this, but this time I didn’t need it to get going. I just did my breathing exercises (nice in the belly) and let myself go with the feelings I was experiencing, which I guess is really the key.
After about 20 minutes or more, just like last time, my stomach muscles started to contract. The Aneros made itself independent again at this time and slid into me, out again and in again. The contractions again spread over my hips and they moved up and down rhythmically. Then it felt like the aneros is pushed outside of me as my body contracted more but i could feel that it is drawn deeper inside of my body and against my prostate. That felt very good. My prostate swelled and glowed (at least that’s how it feels to me) until a pleasant warmth spread throughout my body. Next, something strange happened that is difficult to describe. But it felt like I had a light orgasm that spread from my prostate to my urethra. It built up like a thin wire and I felt like I was ejaculating. But when I looked, I couldn’t find anything, which amazed me. Immediately afterwards, this wonderful feeling built up again. But now that I wanted to force it, it disappeared.
After that, I had a few more violent contractions and breathtaking sensations. But the orgasm didn’t happen, which I didn’t find too bad because I had a lot of fun. I assume that I couldn’t relax enough because, as I said, I knew that I only had 1.5 hours.When I removed the Aneros my prostate glowed for about 30 more minutes and it felt like the Aneros was still stimulating me. Now I can’t wait to play with my Aneros again.

Super O session review

Last night I had a super session of about 2 hours of constant floating in bliss… each “session” lasted about 30 minutes then I came out of the trance state.. had some water and went back into it.

A few times the calm seas started to turn into rough seas where I started to tense up and twitch… both times this happend I just took super deep breaths and really tried to relax and was able to turn off the rough seas and into calm pure bliss… its almost as if when rough you are clenching the aneros onto the prostate and building pleasure… when you now release all the pleasure built up leaves the prostate and into the body.

So think as a couple others said here it’s very much mental and learning how to control the pleasure that comes and understanding it (if you can have aless that proves its mental as there is no physical contact on the prostate). 

(Note thus was a thc session so pleasure is already 10x what it is sober)

I made a mental note yesterday to just always relax at the start and always have the aneros at base level doing nothing and tried to just relax non stop anytime I felt any contracting. The pleasure builds slowly and is not so bang bang. And if the pleasure got big I tried to turn it into calm pleasure and not so intense (the buzzing I wanted to be melow and not in your face).