Tag: Relaxation

“Rediscovering Male Nipple Stim”

I kind of stumbled-onto nipple stim during this session quite by accident. I was finished with my usual musical interlude for this morning. I needed some rest without any headphones on, so I just laid back down on my stomach and started to relax.

For some reason, I began to dwell on my nipples. Now in the past, they never really factored-into my genital play. However, I soon discovered some facts about my own nipples. Now, I realize that not every guy will have the same response as me, but here is what I discovered this morning…..

—It takes time! In the past, if I performed nipple stim for a minute or two, then that was it! It didn’t seem to do that much for me. What a mistake! What I did this morning was about 25 minutes or so. I took my time and boy the feelings continued to build.

—There is a direct link between the nipples and the prostate. Oh my! With continual gentle nipple stim, and combined with some easy kegels, the sexual response can be mind-blowing!

—I discovered with nipple stim, I brought-on an erection! Oh yeah! What a feeling! Read more »

“A Helping Hand: An Erotic Fantasy”

A very interesting fantasy…..I am now in Day 10 of SR and awoke about 1 AM with an erection and an arousal feeling that led me to believe that I would have to end this SR campaign. So I retreat to the sofa where I get in position with my safety towel and begin this edging session. But deep down inside, I didn’t want to end at Day 10. What happened next is unbelievable even to me but I will relate it as it happened…

I am in the company of a young woman (perhaps we met at a bar?) and conversation seemed to drift toward my SR. Believe it or not, she understood EXACTLY what I was going through at this time! And she “offered” to help! Now, when she offered a “hand” I thought that is would be just a stimulating, orgasmic hand-job. But that is not what she did. Let me explain…..

She suggested that I relax and put-on some headphones, lay down and she would take-care of the rest. She found a suitable couple of tracks (on YouTube: I discovered later that they were “Buddha Bar 2013” and “Buddha Bar 2015”). She laid-down next to me and reached under my silky red boxers and re-positioned my safety towel just around my extremely erect cock. What she did next kind-of blew me away! She grabbed my cock, completely encircling it, including the towel, and began to squeeze. Ohhhhh!! She is putting pressure directly on the frenulum, and I feel a tingly sensation right down to my groin. She tells me just to completely relax; she told me that if I feel the semen rising up to the tip of the penis, that’s okay. If I feel an ejaculation coming, that’s okay also. She just wanted me to relax and let the feelings pass. Read more »

“A Very Relaxing Surfing Session”

Since I am still practicing semen retention (SR) and am currently in Day 9, I felt no pressure to ejaculate this morning. I discovered a new music track on YouTube: “DJ Fotis L – Music for Sex (Round 5)” which just came out a few days ago. I started to listen using my earbuds instead of headphones–they are comfortable and I can move around on the pillows freely.

During this session, I poked and prodded my erect and swollen members, being careful to stay away from the frenulum. But mostly, I just relaxed and listened and basked in a wonderfully, erotically-charged feeling that comes with semen retention. I am also now in very good standing with my wife and we are beginning a regular night-time routine of cuddling and more. I feel that I can be a little more aggressive in bed and will see how that progresses. I’m not sure if my wife is ready–I’ll know tonight if she’s receptive.

Anyway, the music was so relaxing that I swear I was starting to see colors during some of the sounds. I’m not sure if I was dreaming or awake but it was a neat but fleeting sensation. The one-hour track was over already and I am feeling just great today. I did not feel any urge to ejaculate even in spite of some obvious horniness. What will be the SR “magic number” this time? Time will tell…… Read more »

“An SR Temptation”

I am in a new Day 8 of SR and as expected, I awoke with an extremely hard erection (way beyond 90 degrees!) Anyway, I decided to listen to some erotic music. It took a while, but I finally settled on “Erotic Affairs Porn Lounge Sensations (FULL ALBUM)” on YouTube. It was a full hour and thirty minutes and was perfect for this relaxing, erotic session.

I am beyond my boost in testosterone from Day 7 and I am really feeling it. As I begin to listen, I am falling-into a fantasy. My lover (girlfriend?) knows that I am practicing semen retention and she is “teasing” me. She begins to caress my firm balls through my red silky boxers and gently makes her way up to the shaft of my very erect cock. I warn her to stay away from the underside near the frenulum. But she gently pushes on it and squeezes it ever so sweetly. She keeps doing this while the music is playing and I am getting more and more aroused.

Finally, she whispers in my ear: “I just want the head of your glistening cock in me!” By this time, I am starting to leak precum and she sees that I could easily penetrate her. But I resist, because I know that if I penetrate her with only the head, I could easily cum within her with just a few strokes. So I maintain my resolve and say “No!” She continues…”Fuck me” she says. “Cum within me”. I can hardly hold-back. Now she has positioned herself on top of me and starts to straddle my erect, glistening cock. She makes contact with my head and I feel the sensation of starting to glide within her. She is wet too. It was so easy…. Read more »

Tuesday morning session, October 11 : Tug-of-War Technique and Aneros Elasticity

Hi guys,

Early this morning we had a low of 44 degrees, so I wore my sweats to bed last night and had one of my most soundest sleeps in months. I woke up at 7:15 a.m. thoroughly rested and listened to the news on the radio til 8 o’clock.

Since I had such a great session in the noon hour yesterday, my body hankered for another session this morning which lasted about an hour with MGX, Maximus, and Progasm ICE. It was an absolutely beautiful, and just thinking about it right now makes me extremely horny and my Aless to have surges of pleasure!

I have become very fond of MGX in recent weeks because he ranks in the same class of Energizer Bunny as Maximus and Progasm Classic! So this morning, I inserted him while lying on my right side and he went immediately to work, with hardly an effort on my part.

Now I consider my Aneros collection as a stable of horses. When an Aneros model such as MGX, Maximus, or Progasm Classic is in Energizer Bunny mode, that is a horse in a gallop. However this morning, MGX, Maximus, and Progasm ICE were horses in a trot. Here their massage was slower and more determined, but just as pleasurable! Read more »

First time hands free!

I’ve owned my Helix for a couple of years now, but usually it aids sex, blow jobs, or a fleshlight like icing on a cake.

But tonight I was exploring and said I keep it hands free. I had low expectations, and the first 5 minutes was relaxing and trying different muscle techniques.

I guess it was working? I felt my heart rate go up and breathing deeper but I wasn’t feeling much, I still felt confused.

But I changed my position, and put both feet flat on the bed and started rocking my hips up and down, and within 2 minutes I felt the pleasure of my prostate right before I had the strongest most breath taking orgasm unlike any I’ve ever had before.

I literally can’t believe it! I’ve been saying I’d try this for years, I can’t believe I figured it out in 15 minutes.

Anyone who hasn’t quite got it yet, try different positions and make sure you’re relaxed.

A New Beginning

Last night was my third straight night having a Aneros session and my tool of choice was my Progasm Ice. I had used my Helix Syn for both previous nights.

What differed last night is that I dedicated my entire session to the ‘Do Nothing’ method. This is the second time I tried this and the results were pretty well the same; nothing. My theory was to completely let my prostate do all the work or at least some work rather than me doing Kegels, contractions, fantasies, nipple stim. and etc. I should not say I got nothing; the exercise did not give me waves or twitches or anything else but it did make me feel the direct contact of my tool was on my prostate and it made me realise how relaxed I can get if I really try.

This was enough of a discovery or I should call it a new beginning or better yet, an new option for course of action for some future sessions. There is something there to pursue but I just ran out of time. The P-Ice is probably the best tool for this type of session. I plan to continue to explore the ‘Do Nothing’ method which proves to be successful with some of my co-members on the Forum.

Session 30/09/2016

When I’ve started writing this blog days ago, it has been many months since I had a “good” session. By good I mean getting something more than the background pleasure.

I had a good session yesterday.

Like most of my sessions, when I have them during the week, it happened after dinner, because before I was at work. This brings a problem – I’m tired. Most of the sessions I try at night end up with me falling asleep, and today the same happened but not before I got good things.

On the problem of being always tired and why I think in the last years things have regressed/stalled I will explain a next post, let’s go now to yesterday’s session.

In the last weeks when I attempted sessions I’ve been using Maximus. After pre-lubing inside (which I only rarely do) with Johnson’s baby oil, I used vaseline and a coat of a slippery silicon lube named Millennium, I inserted Maximus.
I watched just a little bit of porn in the form of other guys using aneros, just some minutes. The guy was using Progasm and I was like, why not use Progasm Ice again? In my last tries with it it didn’t gave me anything, which is “normal” for me, so after a while I switched to Progasm Ice, lubing the same way.

I fought a bit against my sleepiness but I was able to keep awake. Read more »

Change

Just over a week ago, I decided to change to the Vice that I purchased about month ago. At first, I didn’t like the Vice much, the vibrations were a distraction, but because I enjoy sitting at my computer with an Aneros inserted, the Vice (without the vibrator inserted) is the perfect partner As it doesn’t have those stick-up bits that can hurt. So I inserted it whilst doing my Tax on the computer, and WoW, I started having mino O right there. I would have to stop work and just enjoy the waves of pleasure flowing through me. It is easier, whilst seated, to move the Vice inside me, to stimulate the prostate.

On the Monday, I was travelling for business and decided to take my new found friend (Vice) with me. I enjoyed a week of imence pleasure every night with MMO after MMO, 4, 5, or 6 MMO’s. These were all less intense than the SuperO i had recently, but none the less, very enjoyable.

The place where I stayed had a swimming pool and I wondered what it would be like to swin with the Vice inserted. I thought about the hygene aspect, for other people who would also be using the pool. But the Aneros would seal the anus, preventing anything from coming out, so I inserted it, using a gel lubricant and went down to pool. Read more »

Instant involuntaries?

First off I do not have aneros product but something similar, and seeing as this subreddit it is active I thought this would be the best place to ask. I have done a few sessions and each one gets better and better, but last night was weird as soon as I got relaxed with the toy in, my legs and body started shaking, almost shivering like I was cold but I wasn’t cold. Is this what involuntaries are? I haven’t had any of the shaking in any previous sessions and find it weird that it started almost as soon as I put it in. The shaking got a bit more intense but after awhile I moved and they stopped coming so I got impatient and ended up climax the normal way.

Also I have heard that vibrating products are a bit overkill is this true? The one I have does vibrate but I did not have it on vibrate at first to get comfortable with it in.