Throwaway for privacy issues… So I bought the helix syn and have used it twice. I put it in watch my desired porn or browse my desired reddits and just kind of sit there and relax. I do the contractions and eventually go faster and faster. I get a really good feeling that is hard to describe but it feels great and I try to focus on that. Both times I have had a regular hands free orgasm where I ejaculate. Im guessing this isnt a prostate O or a super O.(Not sure if there is a difference) Both times I stopped after I ejaculate. Do I need to keep going after I cum? Or should i be doing something different. Basically I am contracting my muscle and feeling it push against my prostate which feels amazing, but I am not sure if maybe I should be doing something different?
Tag: Relaxation
No Aneros: Better Developments
TL;DR:
* No Aneros for two months.
* No nipple stimulation.
* Slower building orgasms = better.
* Now partying in the o-zone.
* Orgasms that reach far inwards.
* Faster building orgasms = not as good.
I'm not using the Aneros for roughly two months. Since two days ago I'm half way there, in fact! Abstaining will hopefully rectify the itches and pains in and around the ass, as suggested by a member. I'm itching a lot less now, so there's some good signs.
But wouldn't I know it: I've had some amazing times up to this point! What gives?
Rewiring further — in ways I wasn't aware of. My previous entry appears to be the onset of all this. However, holding off from the devices and nipple stimulation has allowed the sensations to dig and expand further inwards.
To be more precise, I think nipple stimulation has the tendency to short circuit the arousal. It creates a 'release', in the same vein as ejaculating, preventing that crucial energy to build over time. It blows arousal in quick bursts, rather than allowing all of it to gradually build in larger waves. Nipple stimulation may have gotten me far before, but I've been using it as a crutch. )Though it borders on addiction, too(
I achieved MMO after two weeks. Posting my methodology in case it works for someone.
There is a lot of advice out there on achieving Multiple Male Orgasms that works to varying degrees for different people. I have heard that it takes some people months or years to achieve MMO, so I figured I would post my experience and see if it is of any help.
When I first got my Progasm, I was beating up my prostate with it because I had the misconception many people seem to have that a prostate orgasm works the same way a regular one does. It took me a bunch of failed attempts to get the message that no, I was not guaranteed an O just because I started messing around down there. The worst part about it was that it really feels like you are making progress when you are doing that, and if you keep working it as hard as you can, that "hurts so good" feeling will turn into super O's. They never do.
The first session.
)This post was first written for posting on the Aneros subreddit. Any formatting errors are likely due to the discrepancy between Reddit's and the Aneros site's methods of handling certain kinds of text.(
Just so I don't set up bad expectations for people looking to get into things with an Aneros, let me set down the ways in which I had kind of a leg up on getting the most out of the Aneros experience. And there are quite a few ways.
I have been maintaining kegel muscle tone through casual use for about 15 years
I have experienced hands-free orgasm before without the aid of any sort of toy, tool, accessory, or substance
I am incredibly relaxed person–massages do nothing for me because there simply isn't any tension to massage out )side note, the bafflement of people who try to give me a massage anyway is priceless(
Since puberty my most frequently consumed sex-related viewing material by far is fairly academic in nature–I know a lot of things about a lot of parts, and a lot of ways to be safe in sexual situations, including ones that I frankly never plan to be involved in
So, my girlfriend tripped across mention of the Aneros online, sent me the info, and so today I received my Helix Syn. What follows is a pretty detailed account of how I used it for the first time.
Aneros Helix user
I've been using the helix for about 3 months now. I never got the Super O yet, but feel I'm really close. I tried laying on my back with pillows under my legs. I get the best feeling on my knees bent over with my head down. I've tried something different last week. I bent over on my knees leaning into a computer chair and that felt good too. I'm not sure if this is working against my relaxing though.
After coming close for about a two hour session, I used a massager on the helix and that worked out pretty good. After about an hour of that, i sat in the chair with the helix in and used the massager on my prenium. I held the massager tight against my prostate from the outside. I suddenly had an orgasm which hardly had any cum. It was definitely different. Was that a regular traditional orgasm or something close to the Super O?
Journeys
Realized that 3 years have come and gone without me logging any events. Time flies. For the first couple of months aneros really didnt do much for me and but kept remembering what I had read in the aneros blogs and discussions so I pushed forward. As most folks the water based lubes were not good for me and took over a year for me to make the change to silcone lubes and now coconut oil. I had a reaction that created digestive problems and flared up gaseous problems to point I thought I was having a heart attack and had difficulty breathing. The doc said I had acid refllex, but after several visits and different types of acid meds it was something else- took trial and error on my behalf to figure it out. So now after using coconut oil it seems better. My aneros days I thought were over.
Now after three years I'm starting to actually have a better feel of the aneros and think I have a better understanding on what I should be concentrating on and when to stop. Starting to have better sessions now. In the past I focused to much on trying to get sexually excited vs paying attention to what the aneros was doing. I also listen to trance music (electronica) while on my knees and butt up in the air so it better hits the prostate and to totally relax and let the aneros do it's thing. I usually stick my helix in the freezer for a few minutes and the apply the coconut oil so the oil stays in place during the session. I also now take t- booster supplements daily and drink with pur-erh tea with maca and ginseng. I'm 56 years old and the sexual drive needs a boost.
Touched for the very first time
I decided to start a blog here so i could someday look back on my experience and also to share with the aneros community how it goes for me. I'm Brazilian so my english won't always be what it might need to be, so i ask for your patience on it.
I'm a 31 years old, straight, married guy.
I bought recently my first Aneros which was a Helyx Syn, and had my first session with it last tuesday.
The forum is very helpful and i understood i shouldn't have expectation as result might take time.
The Helyx Syn is very smooth. i was surprised how bendy the P-tab is. I heard the P-tab could be painful, and i doubt that it is the case with the Helix Syn. Also thought it was smaller than the pictures.
I don't like the whole idea of an enema, and i didn't do one. I won't Wax, won't enema….
I was somewhat aroused by the new experience that i was about to undergo but not highly aroused.
I used water based lube and the aplicator, and lubed the helyx too
I was impressed on how easy insertion was. It wasnt disconforting even though i don't have experience in the anal departament. About half way through insertion it was sucked in by my ass unintentionally. It was like it said "Give me that!!" and i was like "what the fuck?!?"
It wasn´t disconforting with it in me
I tried to breath throught my belly and relax as much as i could but sometimes when i thought my esfincter was relaxed it was really not, it kept coming back to a somewhat tense mode.
The aneros kept poking me inside, sort of like ringing a bell constantly, especially when i relaxed more the esfincter. That didn´t feel neither good nor bad. The orgasm did not feel like answering the door. But i was impressed it did that inside me, as i thoght nothing would happen, i thought it would just sit inside me, i thought to myself "That shit is alive for sure"
Tried some positions and it seemed to move more when i'm on my stomach
I was hard about two times which was dificult lying on my stomach, made a disconfort pressure. It moved faster inside me when i was hard.
There was a moment i thought i was gonna shit myself. Thank god it was not the case.
I tried some light contractions, that did nothing for me that time.
At some point, my ass started to throb a little, quick ones. It was a nice small feeling. Like i get when i stop myself so i won't cum when i'm just on the edge to, or the one when i´m having a dry speel and in need for sex )i don't know if that is common or not(
I thought i did not have any pre-cum, but found evidence otherwise. But it was not much at all.
It was an overwall surprising experience, but i would't call it good. I was happy with it. I wanted to stay with it more time but it was past 1 hour of session and i was a good student. The Wiki said don't overdo it, 1 hour in the begging tops, and i did not want to have bad consequences as i was just starting with that, so i called it quit. Afterwards I did not feel like finishing it off the usual way.
As i did not do an enema it came out dirty, and no matter how much i cleaned it, it stayed with a bad smell. I won't do enemas anyway.
The next day i got a feeling. You know when you are on the see for a while and you come out and you still feel the waves are moving even though you are not in the see anymore? I got kind of a feeling the aneros was moving there. My ass was hangover, it was neither good or bad. I wasn't hurt there either.I did want to have a session that day but thought it would be wise to take it easy, especially with whatever the hell was happening there.
That night i woke up to a feeling of pleasure going from my ass to my balls going through my perinium, when i contracted,)it scared me( it went away. That happened sooo fast that i am not even sure that it happened. did it happened, was it a dream… i'll never know.
Testicular Orgasm?
Again in my journey I had to arise and blog. Things ended a little different this time and the buzz is so gentle its special.
I began with cleansing out my anus and inserting a large portion of coconut oil. I wanted Maximus to be fluid and the fluid nature of things to last a long time. Coconut Oil does this and has an added benefit of feeling so smooth inside. Well we settled in together and soon max took over.
As I concentrated on his cycle he would touch and squirm inside me. I started to breath much slower and deeply keeping in tune with him. Max started a series of p-waves much quieter than before, so relaxed as he would touch different areas of me. I decided to try moving my cramaster muscles this time just to see what would happen. I soon felt it was just to be a learning experience, but Max decided to reward me.
My balls began to feel as if they were pulling upward into my groin. As the feeling repeated itself a tingling from the very core would radiate from each of them. Each time I relaxed a new wave of these radiating tingling vibrations would hit my scrotum. It felt as if semen were flowing from them yet it wasn't. After at least five or six of these new sensations that were focused only on my balls came to a climax they settled down into a calm and blissful rest.
Pretty darn good second session (same day as first)
I decided to abstain from orgasm for a few days because I haven't done that in a while and it feels really nice when I finally let it out. About day 3…I was really horny and impulse bought a helix, and had to wait a few more days for shipping which was like torture because at this point I'm super excited to try this thing on top of being horny. When it finally arrived I had about an hour to try it out before other people came home. Long story short I was too excited and didn't get very far, but I'm really glad I didn't just decide to cum because later that day I had another chance to try it.
The second time I made a better attempt to relax and take it slow. I was laying on my bed with an eroge on my TV (Japanese erotic visual novel), using a controller and JoyToKey to control the mouse. I can understand plenty of Japanese for the voiced parts to make me really aroused. I relaxed for a while and then started slightly contracting. After a little while the pleasure started and I was able to hold onto it for a long time as long as I stayed aroused. During a few really sexy scenes I was able to get some really nice pleasure and leaking. I'm not sure but I think a had some involuntary contractions, or it was at least quivering when I slightly contracted. If I understand correctly that's why there's so much emphasis placed on small contractions. A couple of times I had a kind of double-vision and slight feeling of faint from the pleasure. I could make that feeling last a few seconds, but couldn't get to an orgasm. I kept going for about 2 hours. There was totally enjoyable pleasure the whole time as long as I stayed aroused and I just kept wanting to get to one more sexy scene to try to take it further. I have trouble visualizing and the visual novel helped tremendously. Eventually I decided to end the session and I really wanted to cum so I went for a super-T which felt amazing.
My Second Encounter
Last night in a chat with Brine he asked me to do an entry describing my second liaison with a guy. Brine and a few others have asked about my twice venture into male – male sexual intimacy in the last two years. It is difficult to describe the experience without putting it into context. In a recent chat Brine and few of us were explaining MMO / Super O to a newbie. Brine commented that it was an integrated physical – mental – spiritual thing. He is absolutely right.
For the last 20 years I have been engaged in a discovery process to understand my sexuality. I dipped my toes into Tantra, Zen, Kundalini, edging, anal penetration and erotic massage to name a few. There were also workshops, strip clubs, gay bars, books, pod casts and myriad toys and porn. The frustration of all of them was that they all seemed to fall short or they required a life change to really engage. I was not ready to become a monk or a sex worker LOL.
Then 8 years ago quite by chance I was surfing the net looking for porn when I wound up on the Aneros site. I ordered my first toy exactly 8 years ago this month. That following year was dedicated to learning to use it. When I had ben successful for 8 months or so the rewiring process started. I am guessing that by the end of that year I was rewired. My sexual response, spirituality, physical – sexual capability, and mental state were all synched and in a sense I was sexually reborn.