well, it's not as easy as i thought that it would be–thought i had it cracked the other day but i'm still a long way from being there–still worth the effort though–tried the methods of fleshjoe and thicktop4u, pushing the p tab as far towards the anus as possible and rocking the hips like climbing the stairs as described–helped some but nothing that takes off by itself and keeps going–there are some promising feelings of about 5 or 10 seconds duration, but they don't loop back on themselves–it's still mostly contractions and holding a very slight contraction while relaxing, hoping i get tired and go into involuntary contractions–but like i said when that happens it lasts only 5 or 10 seconds, but i know what it feels like so i know what i'm looking for
Tag: Relaxation
ed's journey
boy!–everyone always said subtle was the word but i never guessed it would take such a subtle touch–i thought that the aneros movement would be felt as an in and out stroking movement, even if it were subtle, but to me, it is just a buzz in my ass hole around the massager–it doesn't feel like a movement but rather like a tickle–and i have to control it with my breathing because everything else is too gross a stimulation–it feels good though and i can hardly wait to progress to the point where i can call it heavenly–so now i know that only a very slight contraction is needed and has to be held while i control the movement with my breathing, all the while being as relaxed and focused as i can– i have the most success on my back with my hips pressed into the bed but i think the handle is contacting the bed, inhibiting the free movement of the aneros–more learning and practice is definitely needed but it looks as though it will pay off in the future–i think that when i get there i will probably look back and think it was obvious all the time and why didn't i know sooner
ed's journey
i was at my local sex shop and they had the helix so i bought one–this was not a snap decision like when i bought the progasm while i was waiting for my mgx to arrive–i have read and thought a lot about getting the helix because of all the comments about its greater mobility and more robust massage than the mgx–i figured since i was having such small reactions with the mgx, maybe the helix would be better–anyway i tried it that same day but it was very like the mgx sessions–i figure i need a few days rest before i have another session as i have had many days in a row and quite a few with more than one session–i think i need to recharge and to"rewire"–i can tell right away now by how long it takes for some involuntary shivers to start after insertion whether i will have a profitable session or not–i'm still upbeat–only good things can happen cause nothing much has happened yet–after rereading the forum i see that complete relaxation will stop any motion, even if i imagine it starts motion–i think i have to do a voluntary contraction so slight that it is just about no contraction at all in order to start involuntary ones, that's probably why i thought that i was completely relaxed and why i couldn't relax any more when they started–sure wish though, that they would link together and start me flopping on my bed!!–ede_1943
ed's journey
since my last post i have had many sessions–sometimes with several days in between, sometimes daily and sometimes more than one each day–they are at least 1 hour in duration, usually 1 1/2 hours or more–also i've tried various times of the day–i've tried all kinds of different methods and at last i'm getting some results that indicate i may be on the right path at last–i've tried to force involuntary contractions by holding a contraction till i'm fatigued, which never happens–i've tried voluntary contractions till i spasm, but never reach that result–i've tried breathing and total relaxation, i've tried trying to sleep –and i've tried various combinations of all of these methods–my reward has been a totality of nothing to a bunch of shivers and tics–but these shivers and tics are what i'm after and i've noticed that they come only with total relaxation, with no forced contractions or motion on my part–some of the shivers and tics have been longer in duration, giving me another lesson, namely that they can't be controlled in any way to try to make them last longer–my problem is that when they take over i find it impossible to remain relaxed enough to permit them to continue as my legs in particular start to tense up–i think this is the way for me, namely total relaxation through to shivers and spasms–well, no one told me it was going to be easy–also i can't seem to remain aroused while i go for total relaxation and if i try to raise my arousal i become tense and feel nothing–the "feeling" of something happening only returns after i'm relaxed again, with the lessening of arousal–i think that the way i read the aneros instructions and the help on the forum caused me to believe that i could consciously control my contractions and that this would lead into the involuntary phase, which does not happen for me anyway–ede_1943
ed's journey
well my mgx arrived and i've been using it instead of the progasm–it's been very tough going with not much to show–i've tried the breathing with the anal contractions–the held pc contraction–the do nothing and relax for an hour–the try to sleep with it in–i don't touch my penis–i do get a lot of precum but no orgasm feeling or feeling of well being–nothing seems to be working–i thought that i may not be aroused enough at the beginning–i try not to think too much–i try different positions– i took several days off in between sessions–maybe finally something is happening–twice in the morning when i woke up without the mgx in i have felt something new which i can not explain–it sort of feels like a twitch somewhere down in the groin area, although i cannot locate it precisely–i know that it's not my anal group–i feel a slight twitch which i sort of think is in the head of my penis, or sometimes i think it is in my right leg next to my scrotum–sort of like the bump i get when i have the mgx in and i twitch my pc group–but not exactly the same–i cannot make it happen myself–it has to happen by itself–anyway it is nice to finally be getting something unexplained–the first time i woke up to this i did a session but nothing really much happened–today i woke up with the same feeling but i have not had a session yet–i'm trying to put at least two days between sessions and it's too soon yet–maybe tomorrow i'll try it again–hope i awake with the same or a new feeling–my first sessions were every day and hours long–maybe that affected the results, or lack of results–maybe there is some "rewiring" taking place and it needs time to happen–i'm still optimistic–ed
ed's journey
today i thought that i would relax entirely and try to go to sleep to see if anything would happen like some other posts have said has happened to them–in other words, don't try to force anything but just let it happen–well i think that part of my problem may be that i am not aroused enough or at all when i insert the progasm and then nothing happens–so many posts talk about relaxation that i think i overdo it and not only am i relaxed but i am not aroused either–anyway when i get my mgx i will try to get a lot more excited before i do the insertion cause the laid back relaxation technique isn't leading anywhere–ed
ed's journey
well the next day i gave it another try–spent most of my time relaxing with nothing happening and then contracting and holding it and waiting for something to happen–nothing happened–decided i was contracting too much so tried holding a lesser contraction –spent most of my time trying to sort out the various muscle groups so i would know what i was doing–thought i felt some funny flutters down in my feet and ankles but who knows?
ed's journey
i am a 64 year old male with everything in working order–i was reading the web about the male g spot when i came across the name of aneros–well, all i can say is that reading the posts and threads, etc i ordered the mgx–while waiting for its arrival i was in a sex shop and asked if they had any aneros massagers–i wanted the helix but all they had was the progasm, and at a good price–i thought about it and said no, went to lunch, thought oh what the hell and went back to buy it, even though i didn't think it would be right for me–i was right–i'm a first time anal play guy and it was not right for me–anyway after a lot of difficulty inserting it i tried to follow the aneros directions and those of the forum–not much happened–i had trouble identifying the different muscle groups i needed to control and had trouble moving the progasm–mostly i tried to relax and then tried a few contractions but didn't know an anal from a pc contraction–but i will try again another day
mttron's blog
Since this is the first entry i shall introduce myself. I allready did that in a forum post, so i'll just copypaste that:
I don't know if this is that unusual, but I discovered this whole meditative hands free prostate stimulation thing on my own, before I even heard about the aneros. I was 15 or so. English classes were very boring, but my teacher was hot. So i stared at her, undressing her in my mind and flexed those muscles. What I discovered changed my life. Finally I had a meaningful activity I could do in school. Since I spend a lot of time in school, I really could improve my technique.
When I'm really horny and relaxed the sensations I can archieve are similiar to what aneros users discribe. I get those involuntary convulsions and my state of mind is completely altered. I feel like I am just a big prostate and there's nothing on my mind but that incredible buzzing and twitching. Unfortunately this state isn't very sustainable after 20 min or so it goes away. I don't think I already experienced what you call the Super-O. I just need something that helps me to keep going; something that pushes me over the edge.
Big Submarine
I got the Maximus recently to round out my collection. The only one I don’t have now is the SGX which I don’t plan to buy. I was curious to know whether I would feel anything different with the slightly larger size as compared to the MGX. The Maximus is in the middle of the range size-wise between the Progasm and the other smaller models. I knew from the similar design of the MGX that it would dive in pretty deep and I wasn’t disappointed. I call it the Big Submarine while the MGX is the Little Submarine. Perhaps the SGX could be called the Tiny Submarine!
Since I have used the Progasm before, inserting the Maximus only required a little more patience and waiting for my muscles to relax than when inserting the smaller models. Once inserted though, it dives right in and really presses into the perineum. Unlike when I first bought my MGX though, I didn’t feel any pain from the pressure. It felt very comfortable and full but not as full as the Progasm. I also liked how the diameter of the stem where it meets the base is small like the MGX. This seems to provide more gripping power and less likely that it will be expelled.
I laid on my right side as usual and felt the twitching of my left pectoral muscles. This is usually a precursor to the pelvic contractions that I experience. When the contractions started, they were strong and fast and lasted about a half a minute before dying down. I didn’t feel as much post-contraction tingling as I have in the past but it was still there.