I bought the aneros prograsm because I thought that the size would work for me – and it indeed does! The size seems perfect for me, very filling, I don’t feel I bought the wrong one as I’m experienced in anal play. I just seem to have trouble with the clenching process. My first session wasn’t perfect, but I don’t at all go in with high expectations I just relaxed and did a few contractions. I am just wanting some beginner advice, how long to wait and how much effort I should put into the contractions. Are there any positions which are particularly magical? For me the knees down and lying down seems most effective, but I’d like to try others. Would love to hear if given that my first session was ok (but I had to kind of vibrate the thing with my hand, and rub my dick a bit, so a more conventional orgasm) that it is possible for me to get there?
Tag: Relaxation
Vice 2 Review
I haven’t really written much lately. I wrote a really good one on a session with the helix, sadly the body never saved. I purchased a vice 2 last week and have since tried it out a few times. Im not going to spend a lot of time going over the specs, or vibration modes, Im going to skip to what everyone wants to know. The stuff the don’t put on the website, the dirty little details that vary slightly to everyone. The not so pg stuff.
I purchase the vice 2 locally. Got it home and immediately started charging. It also comes with a remote that must be charged. 2 hours of waiting in anticipation made for some really nice build up. My thoughts at this point. This toy is somewhat large vs other toys in the aneros line up. Honestly it was a little intimidating, for someone with a rather tight hole. Im not a big large toy fan. I like finger size or a little larger. This toy is really nice to look at, and visual inspection will tell anyone familiar with their body that this toy will hit the right spots. Its insertable length is a little longer than most other aneros toys or some of the lelo toys. For me this isn’t a bad thing. I find my prostate is a little bit farther back than 2-3 inches. Maybe 3.5 or so.
Do Nothing. How much nothing is the right amount?
So I’ve been trying the Do Nothing method a lot lately and I’ve had some great results, but I know there’s more, and I also know that I’m constantly over analyzing what’s happening while it’s happening because I’m not sure what contractions I should let happen versus which ones I should be fighting.
For me once the pleasure starts to build at all a number of different things start going on. My PC muscles will try to clench as well as my anus, my left leg/butt tenses up, and my hips start to thrust more and more forward. These are all somewhat involuntary in that they just happen automatically, but I can try to fight them off and relax. But I don’t know if I should.
A lot of the advice is to surrender to the experience, which to me means that I should let these things happen. But a lot of advice also advocates being totally relaxed, which to me means that I should try to keep my body from tensing at all. I’m ver confused.
Is there some tensing up that’s ok? Or should I fight to keep every muscle relaxed? What’s the right way to do this?
Newbie – 4th session P waves
Hi thanks guys for a very informative group.Just got my Helix Syn V. First impression was “is this going to fit okay”. Not a problem. First two sessions short then a long 3 hour session after mindgasm lesson still just a few tiny good feelings. Then tonight went thru the motions and after a while decided to do it in the doggy position got into a rythm of 30 slow thrusts and a 30 second hold and release. Felt like bubbles forming in my anus and then a great feeling and its subsides. Same routine same result Happened about 14 times, had vibrate on low setting. During session had plenty of legs and hands shaking uncontrollably and after the session (Is this a good sign ?). As soon as I thought about my swimsuit fetish the perineum tab woke up and gave me a tingling feeling starting another wave .Any idea if this is a good indicator and any tips on going beyond the good feelings .Pc muscles are still very weak but excercising 3 x a day. both muscles. With good feelings and waves do i just relax or should I thrust and hold to retain the good vibes.
Have been prescribed viagra but have not used it yet will be keen to see if it enhances my journey.
Your thoughts would be appreciated
Unintentionally have more success A-less. How to make it repeatable?
Anyone else have this happen to them? I had a more powerful orgasm aless basically out of nowhere than I have ever had when using either of my aneros.
I have been having pretty good sessions lately with my helix syn and progasm. A couple times a week. Each session seems to be better than the last or if I don’t get the same sensations I learn more about my body and what to do/not to do. Overall I’m happy with my progress.
Two days ago though I had a more intense prostate orgasm aless than I’ve ever had with either of my aneros inserted. I had vaped some weed(normal for me) and had a rare night with the house completely to myself. Normally the only alone time is in the early morning before work. I had taken about a week off since my last session and about 4-5 days since my last traditional orgasm. I was sitting on the couch watching sports, not horny at all, and all of a sudden I feel a tingle and a slight warmth radiating from my prostate.
2nd try!
Hi there, I’ve been lurking on the thread for a few weeks after regaining interesting in prostate play. I started a few years ago with anything I could find to no avail obviously clueless. I decided to get a helix syn this week and had my first session but nothing as I was struggling to relax and weed is a no go for me. Just had my 2nd session and after abit of nipple play I began to get rock hard for a few minutes then nothing. Then it happened again and my head went fuzzy and then got a bolt of fuzz all over my body 3 times then nothing… Any ideas what that was and any tips moving on? I cant seem to get involuntaries.
Something that worked for me
I have had a lot of success recently with wearing PJs or sweatpants during a session instead of nothing. The pants add the slightest pressure that keeps the aneros from coming out. This has allowed me to fully relax/push out more and really figure out what feels the best.
Btw I have the Helix Syn. Would a different model help with keeping it from coming out without it being too uncomfortable?
Great experience
Sorry for the long post, but I need to get this out.
Had such an excellent experience last night, culminating in first HFWO.
Started off with a delta-8 edible, when that started to hit I lubed up, inserted my Helix, and listened to some ASMR erotica.
Within probably 5 minutes of laying there “doing nothing” my asshole started spasms and making the Aneros dance and tickle my prostate. Then I felt my world start spinning.
I mean like someone turned off the gravity and I was free floating, it was wild, but I didn’t fight it and just let it go on. My heart was racing, breathing was increased, and I felt warm pulses through my body.
Then my arms/hands starting quivering and that led into full on convulsions of my wrists and hands! It was nuts! But I tried to let it go and not fight. The spasms and twitches worked into my pelvis a little bit and I felt some nice warm tingles in my perineal area, (Are these p-waves??) at this point I hadn’t done any voluntary pelvic contractions. Eventually this subsided and I stammered to the bathroom for a drink of water (cotton mouth).
Slid back into bed for another go round. Popped the headphones back in, relaxed for a minute and then started doing light contractions of my PC muscle. Within a minute or two I was convulsing again, and pumping out precum with a massive erection.
This time every major muscle in my body started started, it was wild, but I let the ASMR voice guide me. Felt like I was falling down a well, which was great!
Now is when it got crazy- I got deep into a trance like state, I was moaning so loud, and my whole body was violently shaking and my cock was flopping all around, to the point I was somewhat concerned for a split second but quickly pushed those thoughts out. This felt incredible and new and different. I’ve approached this point before and always slightly “fought it” so it always died off. But this time I literally tried to disassociate my mind from my body and let my body do whatever it wanted.
It actually worked and the next thing I knew I was cumming like crazy but totally flaccid.
At this point I stopped, which I’m regretting now, do you think it’s possible I could’ve continued it? Also is this a “benchmark” on the journey to super-o and multiple HFDO?
Tips on how to set mental intentions to really relax and clear mind from expectations?
I have been using Aneros for 5+ years but only the last year been really making an effort to work with my mindset, as I understand super-Os are about being in a calm state of mind.
I’ve found Mindgasm to be really helpful and meditative. What I still want to improve, is to really clear my mind from expectations and let my body fully relax. I still find myself mentally being too excited or too eager to the point it becomes forceful: I get a lot of muscle spasms and tend to want to contract my PC muscles hard. It’s like built-up energy that needs release.
What would you say helps you to get in the right place mentally? Do you set any mental intentions before a session, or give yourself mental cues during sessions? What do these sound like?
Thoughts?
So had my first proper go relaxing and using the helix syn.
So previously had always felt a slight tickle that would disappear but took my time and tonight started to feel a throbbing inside also that became involuntary assuming the prostate. The more I focussed on this throbbing it got quicker and stronger. I lost focus and lost the feeling the first time and then had to relax and focus for another half an hour or so to get it back. The second time around I held onto it and it felt amazing like nothing I’ve ever experienced and a rush of pleasure over my whole body, but I ejaculated when I held onto this feeling when it got super intense.
I might add I didn’t touch myself the entire session and it’s the first hands free ejaculation/orgasm I’ve ever had.
My question being, I’ve read lots of accounts but alot refer to being able to ride it out and keep going? But I came when I felt this?
What do I do from this point?