Tag: Relaxation

Looking for feedback

Not sure how to ask what I want to ask, so I thought I’d share my experience and see if anyone had any thoughts/advice.

I bought Helix Syn Trident and Progasm together about 4 months ago. Did some reading and started playing and experimenting on my own. I’m used to ass play, so I don’t think I have any fears or inhibitions in that respect. Didn’t really start making any progress towards a prostate orgasm for a few months (found it difficult not to approach sessions like ass play or edging my cock, i.e. I kept ‘trying’ too hard, trying to pound my prostate fast and hard which I thought would get me there, which it didn’t). I’d play with these maybe every couple of weeks.

About a month ago I started to make some progress. I started using coconut oil, lay on my back with a pillow under each buttcheek (space in the centre) so the aneros wasn’t being pushed or affected outside of the control of my own muscles. Legs kinda spread, soles of my feet together. Made sure my flat was hot, no underwear or duvet touching my cock. I only did seassions when I naturally was horny, watched some light porn at first without contracting then moved to dirtier, louder porn and contracted slowly. I found I got involuntary muscle twitches and the start of ‘waves’ when I felt the aneros pressing into the sweet spot and I just held it there as long as possible rather than contract and release. Read more »

Beginner progress – having involuntary contractions – Some questions

Hi all,

So I have some questions, and hopefully you have answers:

Some weeks ago I ordered the Peridise, as I wanted to try out prostate stimulation. It was very cheap so I thought I would get this, and another Aneros toy. I’ve used it for some days, and it’s really “activated” my butt so to speak, with quivers, twitching, and similar. Some low generic pleasure too. Recently I started doing contractions without the Peridise, those meant to be done with the Aneros toys, and I’ve had quite a lot of success: My PC muscle / pelvic floor will at times twitch and “pulsate” quite a bit after a PC muscle hold, and I’ve been toying around with this and sphincter contractions/holds as well.

When the PC muscle started twitching, after some time, my prostate started twitching as well, and these twitches/contractions instantly generated pleasure, so much so that it was close to moan-worthy, and I know that if I could keep it up, it would keep on surging until finally orgasm. But so far I’ve not gotten there.

Today I got the Progasm, which I also ordered, and I have been doing some light sphincter-pc contractions, followed by pc-holds, then relaxing, if/when pc muscle starts contracting, relaxing into that, and see where it takes me. With the Progasm in, it was a bit harder to get those, but eventually it happened. And then the pleasure was quite higher than without the toy. Still, the problem is that after these involuntary contractions start, they seem to end on their own before it takes me to the next level (either that or I’m doing something wrong) Read more »

Relaxation vs arousal

I just got an Aneros toy (well, two actually, MGX and Helix), I had a session yesterday and was fairly disappointed. I already had some plugs and enjoyed them, I do feel *something* in the prostate with the Aneros toys but nothing very special. I understand it’s normal, and there’s a learning curve different from everyone and I’m fine with that. But I struggled with something in particular, which is to be aroused and relaxed at the same time.

How do you manage deep breathing and self-touching (not the penis) at the same time? How do you relax and excite yourself at the same time?

Thanks!

Unexpected Greatness

Today i experienced my first wet hfo wich was very surprising because i didnt intend on having such an intense session today.

To be fair i was having a great day finally started to get some shit in my life on track and work was good. hit the gym right after work and figured i´d take a shower with the aneros inserted (was quite pleasurable and gives you a change to clean it properly right after).

However nothing great happened there but a bit later i though i´d do some relaxing work with the aneros in but after inserting i could only focus on it hitting that spot. This i didnt expect because i had a session the day before and finished the normal way, lying on the bed one leg bent and up just enjoying the feelings with some tropical house playing. (the calm beats help me focus on the pulsing feelings they often synchronise with the music) After having some great sensations this way i was starting to think there might be more to come so i got out of the bed

Then i stood in front of my desk leaning on it with some porn playing in front of me and i stared to leak but way more than i had ever done.

At this point i used some thechniques from the mindgasm series.

For some reason wachting precum drip out of me makes me extremely horny so this built the sensation. Read more »

Ejaculation with orgasm?

I’ve been practicing with the aneros helix and separating orgasm from ejaculation. I don’t really have time to dedicate to have session, so I’m essentially edging with the helix, pretty much 15-20 minutes in the shower. I’ll start with the aneros in and relax as a wash my body, then breath and focus on PC muscles. When I have ~ 5 minutes left I’ll start to rub my dick, while focusing on breathing and sensation. It feels great and I’ll often feel like I’m close to the edge without getting fully erect. The sensations are inside of me, not necessarily in my dick. A few times I’ve stopped just short of the point of no return(PONR), I’ve then felt muscle contractions similar to an ejaculation and produced fluid similar to ejaculate. It’s felt good but nothing like an orgasm, and I can keep masturbating and quickly get to the PONR in a minute. What’s going on here?

I know general theory is no touching of the penis, but I’m experimenting owning to time constraints. Anyone have similar experiences or successes?

First time with the Trident Syn

I figured I would share my first experience with you all.

I’ve been curious about my P-spot for sometime and recently have been playing with some of the beginner toy sets. It’s been fun, getting the first P-waves and having my legs shake. After reading such great reviews with Aneros Trident Syn, so I decided to give it a whirl.

I’ve found that taking a bath, smoking some weed, and relaxing beforehand helps get my mind right. Then I drain the tub and have the ability to play right in the bathtub not worrying about getting lube anywhere and some of the beginner toys have a suction cup so it provides a surface for some additional leverage if needed.

So I get in the mood, reading sex stories and watching some videos online. Then slide my new aneros in. Really easy to slide in and no discomfort, almost thought it was two small at first. I started letting it move around a bit, and then it started… my hips were trying to gyrate, legs flinching and heavy breathing. I had a super intense erection, i tried not to touch it but felt like i was going to go mad, forced me to make one grab and squeeze before leaving it alone. As I continue to let it move while I started cumming without really contact. As that happened I caught my breath and decided to revisit this session again later. Read more »

My first Aneros Session(yesterday)

Yesterday my Aneros helix syn trident finally arrived. I was very excited about how it would feel. I lubed up my asshole an shove the Aneros in. I did some relaxing breathing exercise and felt how my ass contracted involuntery. But only for a few moments then it was gone, this happened about 5-6 times. After half an hour I had to apply some more lube becaus my water-based lube dried.
Now I want to try coconut oil for todays session. For future sessions want to use silicon based lube. Is silicon based lube suitable for the silicon finish of the aneros?

Can I Have a Penile Orgasm as a Finish to my First Aneros Session?

Hello everyone, I’ve lurked here for a while but after all the rave I’ve seen over these prostate massagers and the severe lack of physical contact I’ve had with others because of COVID. I kind of went all out though and got two tenga fleshlights in addition to the aneros Helix Trident and some lube. They all came in today, and as you can imagine, I’m very eager to test out the aneros and the tenga, especially since I’ve gone about 4 or so days without jacking off. Additionally, these are my very first sex toys, so I’ve been antsy all day to be able to give them a spin.

I was planning on popping in the aneros for about an hour, or whatever feels right to me, and just relaxing with it in while not doing anything with my penis. To finish off the session though, I really wanted to use my new fleshlight along with the aneros. Will this impede me in rewiring if I finish off my aneros sessions in this way? Is this something that’s okay to do, but only once in a while?

My goal is to eventual be able to reach a Super-O with just the aneros, and so I didn’t want to lengthen this process more than necessary. I understand from what I’ve read here and on the official aneros forum that the best results come when expectations aren’t present, which is why I wanted to use the helix for about an hour or however I can manage to take before I absolutely need to use the tenga. Any advice would be greatly appreciated, thank you!!

Will Aneros work if you have Multiple Sclerosis?

So I’m a widower @ 50yrs old, 5’10” 205lbs and fit, but diagnosed about 2yrs ago with Multiple Sclerosis. Over the past 2 years I’ve developed ED issues and now most recently the inability to cum. I can have erection w/ a pill and I also frequently do wake with a morning woody …harder then if I took a pill, just does not last long enough to “use it.” Only thing I’ve not been able to fix my ability to cum.

I have a GF (also widowed) and she is very “frisky.” It was with her I first discovered my ED issues (NEVER in my life have I not been able to get it up. She was the first one for this to happen to!) What is cool is that she is so frisky and understanding that solving my ED and coming issues has become a “team effort!”

During one of my flare ups I temporarily lost ability to urinate. I had to insert a catheter to pee. This is when I noticed a good feeling as the catheter past by my prostate! I figured if I still felt my prostate w/ the catheter, I could use it to stimulate things. This is when I started researching prostate massaging. My GF and I researched internal massaging my prostate, and as kinky/odd/unlike anything I’d do with someone else, I suggested it to her. She was eager to try, in fact more then eager as I found she too had looked into it! …Anyhow, she tried her best. For the most part I really felt nothing. She could not find that “walnut”…and her finger(s) were at least 4” inside me. It was just nice to be experience such an erotic “first time” event with her. Read more »

Super-O or Seizure?

I’m kind of scared because I’m not sure what happened for sure since I’m fairly new to all of this. To preface the story, I had a 20mg edible, a couple of shots, and did some popper hits intermittently, so I could have just passed out. It was also later in the night so I was also a bit tired. I was listening to some Shibby files, so only audio, no flashing lights.

Anyway, normally after some warmup, I find that my muscles tend to slowly tense up as the involutary contractions build until it reaches a point I have to voluntarily relax and then start over. However, this time everything was preceding as normal until I find myself abruptly tensed up much more than normal. I can’t remember what happened beforehand, not that’s not uncommon with THC and alcohol.

It scared me quite a bit as I found myself unable to relax albeit just for a few seconds. There was no ejaculation nor really any pleasure to it (the extreme tensing for a few seconds that is.) Any else experience this?