Tag: Tempo

Musings and Tempo

Over the last 5 weeks away, I’ve been travelling overseas and, during that time, along the Aneros road, learning about my different friends, Helix, Maximus and MGX. Eupho got to hold the fort at home.

It’s been a mind blowing road so far and although I dabled with Tantra, some 30 years ago, I would have liked to have discovered the Aneros ‘training wheels’, which have rewired me in an amazing way.

Seeing my wife for the first time in 5 weeks, our sex was pretty magical. I reaquainted myself with the Eupho while she was out in the morning and I found new pleasures within minutes, which set me up with that familiar buzz all day long. I had bought my wife a new Lelo wand, so in the afternoon we got to try that out. Apart from the fun that generated, I also found that my orgasms were more intense and I was able to last longer before ejaculation. In addition, I had a beautiful dry-O with my wife lightly tonguing my frenulum. What was most apparent was that the ability to relax into the sensations made the feelings far more intense and I could understand that the mental connection with my wife is a major factor in feeling. Before, it was always more physical. Read more »

Riding the Rail

I have had a blog on and off for 14 years. My blogs have been both here and in other forums and on Word Press. Between all 4 blogs I had 10,000 subscribers and 800 pages (single space) of 600 + entries. That 14 year written log was a weekly diary of my sex life, what I was thinking, doing and feeling during that entire time. It also inspired a complete erotic novel and 2 others that are in the works.

That written record has been incredibly useful to me now as a tool to read and reflect on where I have been, what experiences I had and what I learned. All of the times, dates and details I have written here in this latest blog came from that written record. The timeline nature of this blog and the perspective that I am offering in these entries is a summary of lessons learned. In the context of all the entries I came to realization that my 9th year was a turning point in my journey. Read more »

The Tempo is a TRUE treasure

So I woke up fairly early this morning. 5:17am to be exact. I was laying down actually reading through the whole Jeff Bezos scandal with AMI. All the slutty details. My mind started to ponder…if this guy had an Aneros (he could buy the entire company if he wanted)…it would probably solve his problem at 54 years old.

Then I thought to myself…well…I havent had a session in a few days…lets start with some Aless…

Almost immediately I was in a pleasure state. Which basically signaled to me…An Aneros model will be a must to take advantage of my aroused state. Dashed to my top drawer…looked over the models…the box with the Temp basically exploded in my face. I lubed it up and slid it in. Went back to the couch. Closed my eyes and I let the dark of the morning just come over me.

The temp really has a mind of its own. It seems to be the one device that has zero thought of relenting. It stays on top of my prostate and literally I am in a constant state of super-O….the intensity changes…it goes down and just becomes a murmur…and then a moment later it skyrockets into exquisite and intense waves of orgasmic pulsing. It makes me wimper and sweat and my cock twitches ever so slightly when it kisses my prostate. This lasted for an hour. I am sweat drenched…had to change all of my clothes….right down to the underwear…and now as I write this I’m just overcome with Aless waves knowing full well the Tempo and I are not done for today…

Mentorship

In 2013 I was extremely active on line, perhaps too active. Work was really stressful and I used this forum and two others as a means to let off steam with sexual chat and sharing information and experiences with like minded people of both sexes. I also mentored some men just starting with aneros. Here in the Aneros Forum many of the chats I was having in PM were with guys who were just getting on board and were looking for coaching and personal help. That’s how I met my number 2. He was a 29 year old post army college student in his senior year at Bowling Green University. He was single and heterosexual, but had a very open attitude towards sexual relations. Looking back on it after having spent time with him I would say now that he was bicurious.

He introduced himself to me in the chat room in a PM. There was something about him that came through even in instant messages. He was a really nice guy. He had just started Aneros a year earlier and was making outstanding progress; he was having super o’s, but was having trouble with focus. His mind kept drifting off in the throes of ecstatic orgasms. As his thoughts drifted his O’s withered. We chatted about that problem ending in our first chat with me offering a variety of ideas how to manage it. That first chat was followed by many others. Over the course of the six months that followed we began to interact in another IM tool out of the forums here. Read more »

I Get Help With a Personal Problem

One of the benefits of spending so much time on the road for work was that it required between 8-10 room nights in hotels every month, this allowed me to have frequent sessions in private. As a result in 2013, in a given week on the road I would do at least two Aneros sessions, a fair amount of sexting and some camming. To say my libido was on overdrive at the end of a week like that was an understatement. As you all know, an Aneros session leaves you hornier than a he goat.

It was in May of 2013 that I was in Washington DC for a week. Needless to say the warm weather, girl watching on the hill and a night at a gentlemen’s club as well as my normal activities on the road mentioned above left me with an erection on friday that was really hard to subdue. One of the challenges of my expanded libido at the 9 year mark was the reality that I found self masturbation to be minimally pleasurable and very unsatisfying; so although I had a wooden erection that friday morning I woke I didn’t even bother to tug one off.

Setting out on the road north, I saw a number of massage parlor billboards along the road. The first one I saw piqued my interest and got me to thinking. By the time lunch time hit I was near one of the establishments advertised. Exiting the highway I figured I would grab lunch and cruise by the place to scope it out. I grabbed some fast food and followed the directions the billboard gave me. Read more »

Year Nine Milestones, Plateaus and Pinacles

The MMO journey I have been on started in 2005. Along the way there have been so many milestones and experiences, they would be impossible to remember if it were not for the fact that I recorded them in an on line journal I began in 2011. Each milestone or event has been a building block that created a foundation for the sexual rapture I routinely experience now. The building and learning process was precipitous those first few years. Because I was learning and experiencing so much there were literally hundreds of sensations, techniques and changes in my sexual response in the first 9 years. Some of these I have shared here in this forum, but I am sure that if I were to try to relate them all it would be impossible.

However, year nine was special. I reached a plateau or a pinnacle in my 9th year in 2013. It was a watershed year that solidified MMO and anal pleasure in my sex life. There were several skills – achievements that I will relate here in this entry; there were also some major event – milestones that deserve detailed descriptions. I will focus this entry on the skills and achievements and the next several entries on the numerous remarkable sexual events of 2013. Read more »

The Menagerie Grows and Declines as I Discover Who My Best Friends Are

I was doing a lot of work in New York City in my 8th year. The City offered a variety of stores to purchase sex toys in. The variety of implements I saw in various shops extended from politically acceptable marital aids to somewhat shockingly kinky devices to execute acts that both shocked me yet still caused me to get an erection.

A favorite store I frequented was “The Pleasure Chest”. It became a favorite for a multitude of reasons but the two most significant were they had a large variety of quality products, and minimal cheap breakable imports. The other was the sales people. They were edgy young women who were extremely comfortable talking about the products, and they were equally comfortable talking about my penis and anus and the the nature and charaxcter of the way they might respond to the devices. They also seemed to have used them enough or witness their use enough to describe to me how to use them; this included shaping their fingers of one hand in a circle and then using a finger of another hand to represent a toy or a finger being inserted into the digital representation of my anus. I always walked out of that store with an erection and wet underpants.

Over the course of my 8th and 9th year of Anerosing my toolkit grew to 16 devices. They filled a backpack that I took with me when I traveled. In the mix was six Aneros, five N Joys, two Lelos, a stainless steel Chinese stimulator the size of a pencil with a “marble ” sized head and two dildoes (one glass and another hardened latex). Read more »

Finally the Tempo works for me…

So last Saturday I treated myself to basically an all day session off and on. I started the morning with the Eupho Trident and the Helix Syn and those gave me just what I wanted from them. Very intense super-Os…kind of the norm.

I took a break…like 2-3 hours. Watched some TV…then it popped in my head…the one model I have that I have not been successful with was the Tempo. I decided to pull it out. I lubed it up and slid it in my bum…as normal I expected nothing. I sat on the Comfy Sac we have in our living room and just perused the Aneros boards. A few mins passed and thats when I started to feel a rumbling. This device was different than the others. Because I could sit on it basically…I was able to kind of position my body where the Tempo was nuzzled right up to my prostate. It fluttered and danced and then at one point its as if I lost complete control of it and bounced all around my anus.The intense feeling was devine. It made me completely light headed and breathless.

I enjoyed this feeling for a number of hours…completely lost track of time. It was now dinner time. Instead of taking out my little friend I put on some pants and went to pick up dinner. I’m sitting in my favorite BBQ joint and could barely speak for all the pleasure my body was in. Several times I felt like I wanted to cum all over myself right in the place. I drove home…cleaned up…slipped the tempo back in its box and felt completely satisfied.

Aneros session with an old buddy, Progasm Junior, January 19 with a major discovery!!!

Hi guys,

After my blog entry on jacking off along with a discussion about my theory of The Male Axis of Sexual Press, I became more horny, randy, and HARD!!! I even beat my meat a bit but realized that I had to save my cum load for my Aneros session at sunrise this morning.

You see @Somebody and @Tommygunn were discussing about the Aneros model, Progasm Junior which has enabled @Somebody have some amazing Aneros experiences, even Super-O’s. Their discussion encouraged me to bring my Progasm Junior out of retirement. I believe that I purchased that model when Aneros began marketing in 2013 or 2014. I have enjoyed my rides with Progasm Junior, but they occurred by my major Aneros breakthrough in mid Septembre 2016 during which began experiencing my first sustained Super-O’s and MMO’s. Since after, I discovered the tactile delight that my nipples have for me. But I had to wait until the first ten weeks of 2017 when I learned nipple diddling in a rehab facility after my hip replacement surgery [after a freak accident] learning to walk again.

I had laid out my favorite Aneros models of MGX, Maximus, and Progasm ICE to use with Progasm Junior this morning, but laid the first three aside instead.

Progasm Junior took over and worked his magic. I just let Progasm Junior worked me over through his massage action. He plowed my anal canal and musculature as he massaged thoroughly my prostate. He was both sweet and powerful in “fuck” action. I just submitted to his ministrations which lasted about thirty minutes. Read more »

The Beat Goes On

So looking back to my 7th year of Aneros practice, I can say Aneros made me into a new man. In January 2012, I was 59 years old with the sex drive I had at 30, but I was wiser, more self aware and more patient. When I say I was a new man, my outlook on sex and sexual pleasure had become very open and enlightened. I can objectively say I was made to be a more sensual man. My outlook on life and sexual pleasure became more Zen like. Although my home life was very conventional my career was always just a little outside the box; Aneros made my sex life a little outside the box just as my career was. I really had a more laid back attitude towards success and traditional achievement than my peers and I had a deeper more convoluted attitude towards sex than my friends and acquaintances. I came to enjoy life and my sex life as a result of my shifted mental state.

As for sex, in my seventh year I took the leap to explore male – male sexual exploration with a very safe guy I met on line in a very safe forum. We met once. Like me he was a married – curious guy, but he was 20 years younger than I. It was both our first times. We spent a weekend together in a hotel. That will be another entry. Read more »