One step forward, dozens of steps back

Writing this mostly to vent really, and also for help and advice. I go into some gross details so read at your peril. Hopefully the nice people here can pick out the problems or what I’m doing wrong.

To keep it short, I have been using my Trident on and off over the past 12 months for little to no results. My sessions often have days to months in between due to lack of motivation or not wanting to commit the large time investment to it, but as of recent I’ve been going at it more and more. I have only had one truly pleasurable session, but that was so far in the past now that it might as well have not happened.

I’ll section my process and shortcomings to make it easier to write out.

**Preparation:**

Currently I try to make time for a session after returning from the gym (I treadmill daily) and showering. I make sure to have a bowel movement 30-60 min before I douche with warm tap water using a rather large bulb I bought for the job. I used to fill this bulb as much as I could before douching which was a very big mistake. I would have an unpleasurable session, then find out when removing the Trident that I had residual poo water inside me. It was as gross and messy as it sounds. I figured that out, then started filling the bulb with very little water which ultimately stopped that from happening. Trident removal is now very clean aside from some lube.

Pro-State by High Island Health (AKA the “PS-New”) – for sale – $45 OBO

Howdy! [This massager](https://imgur.com/a/aDHsn09) was acquired in 2010 (gosh, over ten years ago!) but I decided against opening it at the time due to the aggressive angle of its head. Flash forward to several years ago, I opted for an Aneros product, the Helix Trident and it seems comfortable enough.

Have any interest in this unused PS-New? If so, shoot me an offer via PM/chat and if it’s reasonable, I’ll ship it discreetly via First Class or Priority Mail if you’re in the USA where I’m located. My reputation for selling items online [can be viewed here](https://www.reddit.com/r/PMsFeedback/search?q=enderkg). Payment methods considered: Zelle, Cash App, and PayPal F&F.

Edit: Specifications/details are [on the manufacturer’s website](http://www.highisland.com/pm_prostate.php). The company that makes this has a great reputation. Asking $45 shipped (US buyers) – International depends on location – this weighs in at 3.2 ounces (90 grams).

I’m 10 months in with some very nice pleasure and interesting, new sensations, but no pgasms yet – would really appreciate advice.

Hello everybody!

As the title says, I’ve been at this for almost a year. During that time I’ve learnt that my body is capable of a decent bit more than I ever expected and that is amazing, but I’m wondering where I go from here.

My sessions go like this – I try to get aroused, but I don’t touch my penis beforehand, I use a lube applicator about three times, then use plenty of lube on my toy (eupho syn trident).

I essentially try to follow the do nothing method – conscious clenching doesn’t seem to do much for me. My muscles down there are quite twitchy in response to arousal or even just the presence of the toy, so that usually kicks things off. I try to follow those contractions, I used to let my muscles clamp down, but I realised that was a mistake and killed the sensitivity. So I allow the clench then back off on clamping down, this results in a light teasing of my prostate – building the sensitivity up. It can really feel nice after an hour or more of this. I don’t know if this sounds like I’m interfering with the process, but I feel like I’m actually encouraging a more passive approach ironically, stopping my body trying to clamp down. It definitely feels better to do this, so I feel a bit like following _exactly_ what my body ‘wants’ isn’t necessarily the answer for me.

Seeking Guidance

I’m a newbie to Aneros and to anal pleasure in general, but have been frequently exploring for a few weeks now. I’m in a strange place and I was hoping the wonderful butt sherpas on this sub might be able to guide me forward.

My journey started when my wife and I decided to spice things up with a rimming plug for me last Valentine’s day. After a not very successful session, I gave up and it sat into the box until I decided to try again solo a few weeks back. Who would have thought that actually following all of the advice online (lots of lube, loosen things up first, relax, etc… ) would make such a difference. It felt great and I started using it fairly regularly, but every time it felt a little like something was missing from the experience.

Eventually I pinpointed it to a feeling I was getting when I would sit on the plug and rock/bounce. That would make me feel a bit like I needed to pee, but also *really* good. I started thinking of it as my “pre-cum” button because hitting it would make me leak like a sieve ( I know it was my prostate though). After doing this for a bit, I realized the plug was the wrong tool for the job and determined to explore the feeling further, I purchased a vibrating prostate massager with one of those “come hither” rocking arms (this one to be precise: [https://www.adorime.com/products/prostate-massager-anal-vibrator](https://www.adorime.com/products/prostate-massager-anal-vibrator)). This one felt good, but I found the best feeling was again if I were to turn off the “come hither” motion, and rock/bounce on it myself. Whenever it did that I would get that “needing to pee sensation”, but at this point I’d experienced it enough to differentiate it and it started to feel more like a buildup of pressure similar to a penile orgasm.

First time user

I used the helix trident, and it felt sooo good when I put it in. I’ve read a lot of tips and advice on how to use it.

I was actually oozing so much pre cum, I got to a point where I was shaking all over with pleasure, the pc muscles are moving gently on their own almost.

BUT when I feel like I’m about to cum, my Pc muscles squeeze hard for too long and the feeling fades away. And when I try to relax and ease the squeeze, it takes me out of it.

what can I do? just even more relax?

Side lying for first time – not too shabby

Tried the helix syn trident on my side today vs laying on back with feet on ground. Definitely a different series of sensations and although it ended in a HFWO again as in the past, I felt like the waves leading up to it rolled a little more easily. Nipple play was huge for getting things to really connect as well. And after a 10 day hiatus, there was a giant pool of cum after those warm tingly sensations took me over the edge.

Different techniques with different models?

I current have the helix trident and the Progasm and I haven’t had much luck recently with the trident. I have had all of my full body contractions with the Progasm. I was wondering if people used different amounts of clenching or other techniques depending on which model they are using. Many people often give advice for what they do but I wonder if their advice would be more accurate or helpful if it was the same model.

How to use Aneros Peridise?

Hey guys.

I just got a Peridise and a Helix Syn Trident, and I’ve had one wet ‘gasm with the trident. However, I’ve tried both sizes of the Peredise and I haven’t really had anything happen for me yet.

I left the small size one in while I slept, but nothing happened there. I had the larger sized one in for a few hours, but no feelings other than the feeling of just having something inserted.

Am I doing this wrong?

Helix better for beginners (than progasm jr)?

Hey guys. I have a progasm jr, it’s very new. Yes I know – patient and exercise. But it never felt very good (neither bad. Just meh).
So today I read: Beginners maybe should think about trying the Helix, because of it is more likely to move than the pj.
What do you think? Is that right? Should I try this?
And what is the difference between the helix syn and helix trident? Any recommendations? Thank you!

Question regarding Eupho Trident vs Helix Trident and beginners.

Hi, I was just placing an order for Aneros Helix Trident but by mistake I selected and purchased the Eupho Trident since they looked so similar! 😛 Since then I’ve read in some places how Helix is better for beginners.

I am a beginner to the Aneros line but I have had a lot of experience with other Anal play toys – Different size butt plugs (Kinda big size), Vibrating Prostate vibrators, Stronic Drei etc. I have also been doing my kegel etc. for a long time. So, would I still be considered a beginner? And would the Eupho Trident be a complete waste for me?