First timer here. I have been using my thumb mostly, and have been reliably hitting my prostate with it. I was looking at the Helix Syn T rident model, as maintenance seems to be easy and the size is not too large. My preferred lubricant is coconut oil- is that compatible with the device?
Tag: Trident
First time trying Aneros Helix Trident – orgasm out of this world
Hi there,
Since I used reddit a lot to figure out how to use the aneros and get some advices on how to make my first time memorable, figured I would share my experience with you.
Context:
– I’m a 29yo straight curious male
– together with my wife, we’re pretty much open minded. We’ve been introducing new kinks in the bedroom. I always wanted to experience a prostate orgasm, and she was open to help me achieve this. While we fuck she would rim me with her finger and sometimes put it in. I never really enjoyed her doing it since I myself couldnt enjoy it with my own finger.
– I’ve tried anal play multiple times (by myself): fingers, wife’s rabbit vibrator, benwa balls – I could never fully enjoy prostate play but kept trying occasionally for a year. I did get some enjoyment with benwa balls and finger, but not as amazing as I read on other reddit posts
– I decided to buy a toy that is actually made for my prostate and the guy at the store strongly recommended the Aneros as people claimed to have had 2 hours long orgasm and so on. I was skeptical, but still decided to give it a try.
First time: worth mentioning that I avoided touching the penis as a lot of people suggested. Not sure why so if someone could clarify that would help.
Trident eupho or trident mgx
So upon more and more practice with my aneros helix syn trident.
I’m undertanding that, my contractions cause the aneros to start fucking my ass, I use different techniques at the start, but the end result is almost the same. Im tempted to try one or both of the eupho and mgx. Haven’t achieved any orgasm yet, so still open to trying different things.
Does anyone else have those types if anal contractions, and what toy do you use.
Anyone got any specific instructions for feeling pleasure with these things?
I have the Helix Trident and I’m not sure how to get this pleasure everyones talking about. I’ve been trying for a while now and I don’t even feel anything. I’ve even tried the Lelo Hugo (which vibrates) and I haven’t felt anything.
I know it’s all in the “blah blah just feel it your own way, you’ll get there you have to relax” but can someone at least just give me their experience? I’m just looking for some advice or instructions for when it’s actually inside me. Thanks
looking for advise
I have used a variety of the aneros toys and stopped for about 2 years and recently got a helix trident. any and all tips on using it to get p-waves or that warm body feeling i have read about would be greatly appreciated. advise on how often to use, technique, and positions will be helpful. also i am not looking to use any uppers or other stimulus to help relax.
How to progress from involuntaries
Hi there, I’ve been new to this game and over the last 6 months on and off I’ve attempted possibly 10sessions since I first purchased the helix trident syn.
I’ve attempted and tried a number of the tips that are commonly posted here and have made some progress strengthening the PC muscles etc. The stage I am currently at is that I can (without much effort) cause what I believe to be extended periods of involuntary contractions. These involuntary contractions usually lead to periods where I feel very aroused but that is all. If I focus on these involuntaries sometimes (with my eyes closed and focusing on my breathing) I can cause myself to start spinning but not in a dizzying way. These two results of involuntary contractions are the only progress I have made. I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong, what sensations I should be focusing on to try and achieve p-waves.
I’ve also considered the toy isn’t working for me. When I have tried or my girlfriend has used a finger inside me it has felt like my prostate was actually being stimulated and besides being a nice feeling using the toy and having the involuntary contractions I don’t feel it actually stimulate my prostate or any sort of build up of pleasurable feelings in that area. Where exactly should the pleasure or p-waves originate so I understand where to focus and cultivate them?
Any help anyone can give would be most appreciated.
Upgrading from fingers, would mgx be better than helix?
I like prostate playing, but untill now I’ve only used my fingers. I’ve never went too far massaging the prostate, what really opened a new word to me was laying on my stomach “hitting” the prostate with the thumb or simulating a sort of vibration.
Now I want to byy my first aneros, I’ve decided for the trident version instead of the syn one, but I’m still evaluating if mgx trident would be better than helix, since I read that mgx allows more movement the thelix. On the other hand, I’ve also read that mgx trident may be too short, and as a tall guy I fear that it wouldn’t fit well myself. What are your suggestions?
My first P-waves!
So for context: I’ve lurked a while but decided to make my first post after my first major breakthrough. I owned the helix trident until I lost it on a trip recently like a fool. I never had a great experience with it. Minor sensations, comfort, but nothing crazy. This is entirely due to user error and a poor fit regarding what I need.
Which brings us to Monday. I ordered a progasm and peridise to replace my lost model and was excited to try them out. I warmed up with the peridise by using it manually (just rubbing it on the prostate, not the right way to use it but sue me). This was the first thing that really helped me level up, I wanted a better warm up and I got one. It was easy and felt great.
Then came the progasm. I opted for a YouTube link that hotel guy used for binaural beats, slipped it in, and tried to clear my mind. My plan is usually to do nothing for a while, then start manually operating it with my pc muscles if I feel like it. The do nothing portion was not like my helix sessions at all! Usually, my butt clenches involuntarily and randomly at the beginning of the session. The progasm was so snug that I had more control over what happened, thus no involuntary squeezes. I also felt less sensation at the beginning, which was weird. I felt it helpful to have this new found control because I could also squeeze with more intention.
First toy questions / recommendations
So most of the recommendations seem to vary but I think I’m going to go for helix trident as it’s more of an all around/beginner type from what I can understand.
Is the only difference between the white vs syn the material used? I’m looking for something that requires less maintenance, especially drying before storage which makes me lean towards the white version rather than the syn.
Also open to other recommendations from past experience. I have an njoy wand and want something else to compliment that as sometimes I don’t want to focus on actually moving the device and want something a bit more passive.
Also while i have a thread open, does anyone have experience with prostate play on multiple consecutive days? Does going back to back days make the second day any less pleasurable or more uncomfortable if you’re sore? Are daily breaks recommended ?
Nexus Revo?
Thinking about getting one any one have feedback these? Or recommendations on a toy I currently have been experimenting with the Aneros trident.