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Does porn distract me? Where to go from now on?

Greetings everyone,

I bought the aneros helix trident back in august 2018 and have been using it once a week. I also bought the Progasm and my newest purchase the eupho trident. At the beginning of my journey i had mixed results and no orgasm in the first 6 months, so I thought that its because im not aroused for the whole session, just at the start, so I started to browse porn on reddit and sometimes watch longer videos 15 min+ . Because of that I was basically aroused the whole session and had some wet orgasms thanks to the helix and the eupho (progasm is a bit to big for me). Now I can force a wet orgams nearly every session if I want to, but since the holy grail of prostate orgams is the super o or rather a dry orgams im not quite satisfied yet. Of course it feels really good having it inside me and making it move, but i didnt have much progress since that. Last session which was a week ago, i had a suddenly a strong pleasure which was something different. Am I to focused on the porn im browsing? How can i stay aroused even without it? What else can i try? Im thankfull for any help 🙂

Aneros Helix Trident vs Helix Syn (or some other model) to supplement Progasm

I have a Progasm but it isn’t quite doing the job. I am thinking about getting a Helix Trident.

What are the differences between the Helix Trident over the Helix Syn? Is it just the flexibility and softer surface?

I am comfortable with the size and firmness of the Progasm. Am I wasting money getting a Helix?

What other model might be better?

So many models? Which to choose?

Hello all new to this sub! Have recently bought a massager off amazon and while it did feel amazing I don’t think it quite hit the spot. I began looking further into proper toys and aneros popped up.

I can’t even list all the models I have tried to compare. I believe I would prefer silicone. With the ability to use with my partner and not feel poked by stiff abs plastic?

Trident ? MGX syn trident? Helix syn trident ? Which is great for beginner – intermediate. Something that can be easily approached for a beginner and used for intermediate level after?

So overwhelmed. Help? Where is best to order from as well?

Not getting results, please read, need some help

Pretty much every post here is positive, or is just series of instructions that wont work for everyone. All the “craziest orgasm of my life” posts seem to have some element of luck, and more often have had some form of anal play. These people usually achieve the super o in a very short period of time and they really dont say anything specific that has helped me. I have read countless articles here and on the forum and it seems like there is no silver bullet. I get strong involuntaries that can feel nice but its rare to feel any sort of pleasure for more then a second.

All this talk about letting go of expectations was helpful and I have made headway, but after a certain point you gotta ask yourself, is this actually getting better or are am I just telling myself it is? There is definitely some kind rewiring definitely going on, and I see some kind of potential, but standard penile pleasure is still better by far.

I have tried abstaining from the aneros which has helped before, but I just had almost a week off and had a dull session. I have tried not masturbating for extended periods and honestly it doesnt help, I think I get closer when I have been mastubating more often to be honest because of a higher baseline libido. When I go without ejaculatory orgasms my libido drops noticeably. Read more Â»

2nd Helix Trident Session – close!

So I had my second session earlier and it lasted about 3 hours…

Pretty sure I’ve got the involuntaries nailed (ie – I can reliably get them started), but I just need to try and relax into them more as I know I get excited when I feel them start.

However, I did get close to SOMETHING happening…I started stroking my nipples and when I got more aroused I could keep the involuntaries going…I then started to feel a build up to what felt like it would be an orgasm but, again, I think I got too excited by it and lost it before it tipped me over…my legs then started shaking and I couldn’t really get the level of focus back. What was this likely to have been? For about 30 mins of the session it really felt like something was happening, but outside of that, the involuntaries weren’t really leading to anything really pleasurable. Is this normal?

Any tips on how I can get myself to tip over into whatever was about to happen?!

Aneros Progress Notes/Tips

My first post was about how I was a lucky son of a bitch who had success with the Aneros Helix Trident on my second try and was basically on my back for like 5 hours over the course of a day.  I thought I’d give some updates on what has worked and what my process has turned into.

I could do an entire different post on my experience yesterday (another marathon of a day with sex in the middle). Woof.

Anyway, things i’ve realized that help: 

1) Give yourself enough TIME. Men (or maybe just me) are so used to “sex” and orgasms coming and going quickly, that I kept thinking I could squeeze in some Aneros sessions here and there. These have been largely dud-sessions because I’m trying for something to happen and only have an hour or so and I’m preoccupied with checking the clock that nothing happens.

I think the best is giving myself at least 2 hours when I know I can just check out and do my thing with no interuptions. Sounds like a lot, but once the session gets going, time flies. That way I’ve got enough time to prep, get comfortable, get the involuntaries going, and hang on tight for a good time, and eventually wrap it up.

2) Pre-play (foreplay with yourself?) is a must. I knew for my first time that there was a difference between sticking the Aneros in and waiting to get turned on vs. masturbating and getting hard and close to cumming and THEN putting the Aneros in. Like worlds different. Like, make or break the session different.  Read more Â»

Nothing without nipple stimulation

Heey, so I started my journey almost a year ago with a Helix trident & I feel like I’ve been making progress. There have been times where I feel like I was close to something big. However, I recently noticed that if I don’t stimulate my nipples, I don’t feel anything down there. I’ve tried contracting & releasing muscles, but I don’t feel anything. As soon as I start playing with my nipples it feels good down there. While it feels good, it feels like most of the stimulation comes from playing with my nipples & not contractions. Also, it feels like the Aneros is just short of hitting the right spot, like it’s just below where it should be.

I’ve never been able to locate my prostate with a finger & I’m not sure if I ever hit it with the Aneros.

Not sure what to do. I’ve been thinking about getting a different model. Any advice is appreciated!

Used my Helix Syn Trident for the first time tonight…

After giving myself some time to get used to the feel, I tried some anal contractions and it wasn’t long before I started getting some involuntary contractions. I found it quite hard to really focus on them though and let them build before losing them…does this come with practice?

Also, on 2 occasions when involuntaries started, I managed to keep them going for a bit and my dick got hard and I could feel what I can only describe as a warm build up…before I then over-thought it and lost it! What was this and will that get better and eventually take me somewhere?

After about 2 hours, I found it hard to get involuntaries going again so I ended the session.

How did I do for a first time? I’d love some tips/pointers if anyone has any. For reference, the 2 “hard on” feelings I got were when lying on my back…is this the best position?

Progress questions

Hello fellow explorers!

I’ve been messing aroung with my Aneros Maximus Trident for about a year now with mixed results. I think I’ve had a few P-waves in that time and I think no involuntaries, but I’m unclear on how far along I am. Definitely no super-O but I’ve felt like I was on the verge of it a few times.

 

My sessions are typically several hours which are usually “medium eventful” but there is lots of down time between high points. I’ve had the most success with the “do completely nothing” approach, but the success I’ve had feels more related to my heart beat brushing the device against the prostate rather than any device-related movement. In fact today I generated very similar effects (to a point) without the aneros in at all (up to step 5 below).

 

I’ve been using lots of coconut oil recently, but I’m not sure if this is really better or worse than the water-based lube I have tried in the past. The device seems to not move after a certain point (even after re-applying).

 

#### Here’s a list of what I’ve tried so far:

1. Light PC muscle “hold” (30-50%) as long as possible.
* Muscles never seem to tire here or I forget about it over time.

2. Light PC muscle hold and light bear down (push out) with sphincter.
* This seems to help push the device directly onto the prostate and hold it there in some situations, but reduces movement. Read more Â»