Questions from wife looking to buy for hubby

First- thank you gentlemen for the videos and descriptions, I literally can’t get through a single post without getting off, it’s super fucking hot.
I stumbled upon this sub while I was trying to find the language to describe to my husband the feelings I get when I have multiple back to back orgasms, and the warm glowing orb and waves of intense pleasure that you talk about seems about right. I desperately want my husband to experience this. We are not new to anal at all, and while it’s been amazing, I feel like there is definitely room to grow and explore. So my questions: 1) what model should I get? He really loves the fullness/stretching sensation and definitely gravitates towards large toys. 2) is it worth it to get multiple models? Do they provide different types of orgasms or are they more you might need to try different styles to mesh with your specific anatomy? 3) do any of you use this with a partner? I obviously plan to give him several hours of alone time to explore whenever he needs it, but he’s always preferred I be the person penetrating him as femdom is his kink. It almost seems being alone might be needed to get in the right headspace, but do some of you enjoy using it while being lightly stimulated by someone else (like maybe gently sucking his nipples or nibbling his ears or toes)? 4) any tips? Dirty talk that gets you going? Something you wish you’d have done? I really just want to send him to heaven. Thanks dudes!

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Blood in urine?

Has anyone experienced blood in their urine after ejaculation following aneros session?

My wife and I just had sex, me with aneros in sitting on couch and her riding reverse basically sitting on me. She is BBW and had all her weight down on me. After I felt urge to pee but couldn’t quite, tried to squeeze a drop when I noticed the blood.

Fuck Water Lubricant Review

Every one of us that plays with our prostate needs lube. Lube can be a slippery subject literally and figuratively. What matters for lube is that is slippery, stays where it’s meant to be and is safe. This is where Fuck Water comes in. It’s a water based hybrid, meaning it contains a small concentration of silicone. Meaning it’s safe of silicone toys. The disclaimer by the manufacturer says it’s safe just be sure to test it on a small area to be sure. My wife and I have used this on silicone toys and not had any issues.
I really have to give my wife credit as she bought this stuff. But we both like it and were impressed by it.
Here is what we like. It’s not a full blown gel lube but it definitely has more consistency than a lot of lubes so it stays put on where you need it. This stuff is seriously slippery, and it only takes a little. Especially when using the aneros toys. It doesn’t dry out or get sticky. It comes in a variety of sizes as well.
We have used this lube for quite a bit of bedroom activity. Vaginal sex, no irritation or discomfort for either one of us. We did anal the other night, and the same thing. I will say it made anal more comfortable for her and took only a small amount. We have used It on toys solo and together. But here what impresses me about it. We used it for pegging, meaning I was receiving a fake dick in the ass. It’s so slippery it made it a breeze for insertion and thrusting. Almost no friction build up left me comfortable while doing so. This stuff is to good not to try.

First time is a charm

Posting for other first timers….: it does not have to take months!!!

Lurking here for some time, married man with kids. I explored manually a few times but felt this was really not getting anywhere. Eventually I figured out that walking into a sex shop and buying an Aneros would probably be worth it and would certainly save me the embarrassment from receiving a « special package at home » that I can’t explain to anyone: it ain’t Christmas time yet. Went ahead did It. Also bought a douche following « unexpected results » after manual stimulation. I don’t have alone time often: 5 kids, one wife. But I did this weekend (with only the younger kids around, I waited until bed time). Timing seemed right.

Prepped, showered, and got started. First I put it in backwards and ended up stimulating opposite to the prostate but switched it. Not much although I could feel that there was something to be discovered. Not particularly exciting aside from the novelty and like many others, I am not into gay sex and I had to overcome the « shame ». Well, let me tell you, it was worth it.

What happened is that after 30 minutes I though this wasn’t working so I smoked some weed (legal here). Not much, just a few puffs. I don’t smoke often, only a few times a year. Went back to my room.

When you’re so tired you awaken a monster!

The wife and I had a day to ourselves. We went to the Zoo…then had a bite to eat an nice spot and then did a little light shopping at the outlet mall. On our way back home I decided to fill up on gas. I was soooo beat from the son. I was standing there watching the gas pump run when a short whisper from my butt occurred. It had been a week since my last session. The wife would be home this entire weekend so chances of doing anything were slim.

We picked up something to eat close to home and then had dinner at the house. I was dead ass tired.I popped a THC pill to help me relax a bit and I started to doze off.

40 mins later I opened my eyes to intense waves pulsing through my body. My wife was still up watching TV on the couch across from me. My toes were tingling. The pleasure was mounting. It became so intense I was gripping the couch fabric under me trying not to move or make a sound. This went on for about an hour. Then the wife kissed me and went to bed.

I dashed over to my computer desk door and got the helix syn trident out. Lubed it up and in it went. Went to wash the excess lube off my hands and I literally thought I was going to shoot all over the kitchen. I scrambled back to the couch and laid down. The helix syn gently rubbed my prostate. The pleasure was magnificent. This went on for about 2 hours…with small breaks in between.

Weed or mushrooms?

A lot going on right now mentally, so my first thought was ask Reddit.

Wife took kids to in laws and I just grew mushrooms and just got my brand new aneros progasm.

Done solo buttstuff before, but first aneros and am excited to use.

Quick version is I got all prepped, ate mushrooms, ready to go. Then wife came home way early. Then she gets stung in the eye walking in the house. So she’s freaking out and I’m on shrooms just wanted to stick my new toy up on ass.

SMH

(Really hard to type. Shrooms working too well)

In my attempt to salvage something (even if not assplay), I figured I’d ask a question and hopefully learn something.

My question: for my first time ever using an aneros, should I use weed or mushrooms or nothing? Why/why not?

Then after I get accustomed to using this thing, same question: should I use weed or mushrooms or nothing? Why/why not

Thanks everyone. That took way too long to type on mushrooms. Now I’m going to go enjoy them as much as possible.

Im not sure if I’m Fou any of this right but my libido and stamina is amazingly different.

Did I get the right aneros:
nope , too big. I started with the progasm ice

Am I doing keegels correctly?

I’m not sure🤔
I don’t even know how to spell keegels. I just clench and unclench rhythmically for an hour. Last night I did it for two hours. I love it when those muscles down there get fatigued and warm and tight.

Have I gotten a super O?

Nope , not in the first 3 weeks. But it’s like I’m drawing into some other energy source that buzzes through me long after a session or keegel exercise.

Are my erections better?
Rock hard. And lasts longer. I had sex once and didn’t even finish and still really enjoyed it a lot. It’s like I was deriving my pleasure from a deeper source. I was then able to enjoy my wife a lot more.

I think if I have the time and space and privacy that most fathers/ husbands don’t have in my bracket of life that I can achieve a super O. But that’s not even why I like this now. It started off as my main goal but the journey is so much more enriching.

Because my sex drive is fixed, and more controlled than ever before I’m finding different ways to be ensnared by my wife because I can stay at a low – mid level of sexual hunger for a longer period of time. And through that season of ‘hunger’ I get to lust and day dream about my wife’s skin and hair and ….. I can go on about her forever.

[for sale] toy clearance sale

-located in USA

-shipping not included(i can get a price quote for shipping if you provide your zipcode)

-paypal only

-all prices in USD

-toys are very new, most have been used less 3 times

-non smoking, no drugs

-no pets

selling toys wife and i rarely ever use.

list with pricing:

njoy pure plug (large)- 55

njoy pure plug (medium)- 45

njoy pfun plug- 50

tantus prostate play- 45

tantus p-spot- 35

tantus b-bomb- 20

aneros vice- 100

aneros progasm ice- 55

aneros helix- 45

Temptasia Elvira Silicone Dildo by Blush Novelties- 15

Rocks Off 7 Function Big Boy Vibrating Prostate Massager- 50

NU Sensuelle Homme Pro 10 Function Vibrating Prostate Massager- 30

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A Few Days with Aless…Helix Syn Trident…and THC

So my Aless has been on fire the last couple of days. Mostly due to the THC I am taking for my shoulder and plantar. I’ve come to a point on my journey where if I take THC…its a guaranteed couple of hours of Super-Os.

I sat on my couch basking in the feeling and my anus basically engulfing my prostate. My wife sleeping to the right of me…one of my best friends to the left of me. I retired to the bedroom. The minute I did that my aless took over. I had a massive super-O and at that point I had to introduce the helix syn trident. The next 30 mins is a blur but I remember screaming into the pillow. The intensity was soooo much I think I passed out. I just remember waking up 3 hours later with basically a dry aneros in my ass and fairly sober. I popped it out and went back to the living room where my wife and friend were now watching TV. Once they retired to go sleep I stayed on the couch and did a few Aless contractions. Things went back to the intense level and the energy was swirling so much I went to my computer desk squeezed some silicon lube into my left hand and proceeded to release all of that tension.

“Who Are We? Just Play The Game!”

[This blog was inspired by an Aneros member]

Introduction
While listening to some erotic chillout this morning, I began to dwell on this topic. And the more I thought about it, it made perfect sense to me. So I’d like to share it…..

We as men share a unique role in this world. We are the sex who (for lack of better words) penetrates, thrusts and ejaculates. It really it that simple! But along the way, we have developed many other ways, other ‘tools’ if you will, to cultivate and ‘grow’ our manhood, our ‘maleness’, our sexuality. Among these are ways well-known to Aneros members such as myself. I am referring to the practices of semen retention (SR), NoFap ® and Aneros prostate massage. Of course, there are others and one which I endorse and promote is the use of ‘chastity cups’.

Now what do all of these have in common? It really is quite simple, IMO. All of these activities are designed to enhance our sexual pleasure, not only for ourselves but in the general scheme of things, our male ‘vision’ of the world. (Our female counterparts share their own ‘vision’ that is (thank goodness!) completely different from our own). Together, we can make a new world (literally).

How To Play The Game
As I continued to meditate, it became clear to me that all of these sexual activities are entirely and always under our direct control. Here are some examples….