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A couple of GGringo’s perceptive comments worth treasuring

I have enjoyed my interactions with GGringo on Aneros.com of late recently. He became an Aneros member in February 2016.

He has given me permission to copy the text of his Forum post last week. It is entitled: “Pushing Edging to the Edge.” He describes his masturbation and edging practice how all this relates to his Aneros sessions and Aless. I treasure his perceptive words and when he gave me permission earlier today, that really revved up my Aless! 🙂

“For weeks now, I was practicing edging or at least I thought I was. I would masturbate and when I felt I was getting close to climax, I would squeeze my PC muscle as hard as I could and stop ejaculation. I was proud of my progress but I never experienced any real orgasms in the process. It felt good and I was thinking, it will come with time and experience.

“In the last few days, I changed my process and finally discovered my way to multiple orgasm without ejaculation! I masturbate, sometimes aggressively and go as far as feeling the coming of eminent ejaculation and then I squeeze the base of my penis as hard as I can and at the same time, push in my perineum just as hard to suppress ejaculation. The first few times, I did not really feel the orgasm as I was more preoccupied with averting the spill. And then, with practice, I get the full orgasms on every set of strokes but without the spill! In one session, my prostate leaked some fluid but it was not semen and still no refractory. I can now achieve this several times (4 to 6 so far) per session and now I give myself at least a few sessions per day. It’s getting easier and with no refractory period, I am not drained of energy. In fact I feel more energetic all day! Read more Â»

A Transendence to a New Level

As mentioned in my previous blog, I have just been on a camping holiday. This clearly was going to present a challenge as far as using my Progasm goes as I’m not sure how tents and Aneros mix!
However opportunities did present themselves as although in a confined space, my wife and I were in separate sleeping bags. She is a heavy sleeper so I just needed to be quiet which is quite a challenge when experiencing the kind of orgasm that the Progasm produces.
My first session took me to a whole new level. Firstly I have come to notice that my orgasms come in sections – so possibly multiple orgasms. I oragsm and then about a minute later it happens again. This happens about 3 – 4 times before I feel that the orgasm has ended. Within the session this can happen about 4 or 5 times with intervals of 15 to 20 between them. The final oragsm in this session was something completely different. I can only describe it as a transendence – I moved to a whole new level. There wasn’t the usual shaking, I felt that I was still but it was a whole wave of happiness and when it was over I had a complete feeling of satisfaction and pleasure above anything that I have experienced sexually. I also noticed that I was not in control of the Progasm – my body and the Progasm were working in tandem. I just lay there and enjoyed the ride.
My second session later in the week was similar, but in didn’t quite reach the heights of the first. I think I was just too tired in the end as I did doze off after one extremely strong orgasm.
Another thing learnt was that I really felt for the first time the P-tab working and providing an extra sensation. I’m glad I packed my Progasm but I cannot wait for my next session which will be somewhat more comfortable now I’m back home.

What my body wants, very early 8/8/16 session *

Hi guys,

Late last night, I was chatting with a straight guy, a Midwesterner, who was sharing details of his sexual life. He is like many married guys who still has a sexual verve in his mid age, while his post menstrual wife doesn’t. So he has found a healthy outlet in his Aneros sessions and having safe sex with some of his buddies. He also work outs at his local gym about six days a week which keeps him physically and sexual fit. I discovered also that we’re both circumcised and thus have large cock heads/GLANS. He enjoys JO with his buddies and having his cock sucked but doesn’t reciprocate.

He lit my sexual fire last night becaise he enjoys masturbating with his Aneros inserted and loves achieving Super-T’s. That poured fuel on my sexual ardor. So I quickly prepped for a session just after mid night last night. I used models Progasm Jr, Helix Classic, and even Progasm Ivory.

It was to be another Super-T shoot. Both Progasm Jr and Helix Classic are ideal partners in my pursuit for a Super-T. I used Progasm Jr last night for that. My chat with the hunky Midwesterner gave me an erection which I tried to use with the Progasm Jr. I found the ejaculatory build up but couldn’t maintain that momentum through beating my meat. So I relaxed and reverted to delicate touches and strokes on my still plump cockshaft and bulbous glans. Again sexual sweetness emanated from my pulsating prostate and sexually charged penis throughout my body. Last night I had to break off from my Super-T shoot because it was not working. So I submitted to what my body wanted and settled for usual Aneros session. Read more Â»

“Semen Retention: If At First You Don’t Succeed….”

Well, the string has ended at 9! Here’s how it happened……

My wife was definitely in the mood last night. We settled into bed and began to watch some favorite programs. All was well for a while. Then, without my prodding, I noticed she had re-positioned herself next to me. She had laid her pillow across my chest and just settled-in. Before I knew it, she had my package cupped and began to lightly stroke my scrotum through my boxers. OMG! I am starting to moan already and she has just started! (Realize it has been 8 days since we did anything). She ignores the moans and just continues on her way. We continue to watch and she continues to pleasure me. At some point, she involves my nipples into the action. By this time, I have a raging erection that would not quit! I must have been ‘up’ for at least 30 minutes or more (I wasn’t timing it).

When she “finished” with me, she asked me if I am going to finish-myself-off? I said that I have been avoiding ejaculations and that feels good to me (I didn’t explain SR). She seemed a little puzzled. So, we cuddled for a bit more. I could have gone another round but she needed her rest. So we said good-night and I settled-in for what I thought was going to be another day into SR (Day 9).

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Edging Side Effects??

It seems my new-found way of aggressive edging is creating other side effects. In the early hours yesterday morning, I woke up with an erection and I started a few light contractions (as I usually do). This always produces great sensations and I can ride the waives for several minutes or at least until I fall asleep again; NOT THIS TIME!

The feelings got progressively stronger and they would not go away. I felt orgasmic for almost an hour despite my attempts to halt everything. I was afraid it would wake up my wife beside me.
This was a first for me but it would not be the only one for that night. Earlier on (I have no idea what time of night it was), I experienced a light full body orgasm twice! It woke me up. I never had one of those and again, I did not want to wake my wife so I suppressed them both. Who knows, if left unchecked, it could have been a case of full fledged Aless Super-O (I don’t sleep with Aneros inserted).

Be careful what you wish for; it might just happen but only according to your body’s terms and timing. Funny, I have been trying to get full body orgasm but at my discretion in my alone time. Evidently, old prostate has other plans.

New wonders every day! Life is wonderful.

Missed by one stroke! No, not golf!

Missed by one stroke! Yes, my edging exercise was pushed one stroke too far and ejaculation was eminent! There went weeks of successful edging exercises with no ejaculation. I must have gotten cocky (no pun intended).

My point of this post is not about the one stroke miss but rather the effects the ejaculation has on me. Suddenly, even a day after the ‘spill’, it seems my refractory period is still lingering; no sex drive, my Aless attempts are almost fruitless, I don’t look at my wife body with wicked thoughts and I can hardly get an erection for more edging. This is why I keep saying that ejaculation is too draining on me.

I must be getting old or something. Now, the count starts again.

Life is wonderful!

“Semen Retention: Almost In Uncharted Waters”

It’s a new Day 8 of SR and so far I am surviving. But I know the next few days will be critical. I have been avoiding sex (my bad!) with my wife in order to push back the boundary of time between ejaculations. I know that semen retention must initially get “worse” before it gets “better”. By worse, I am not implying that it is painful or anything like that. But yes, it can be uncomfortable and you don’t really know what HORNY feels like until you have walked in my shoes!
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However, there are times when I can “play” with my package for an hour and not feel ANY arousal! That is truly amazing and I would like to think that it is a by-product of the act of semen retention. Other times, I will get an erection just “out of the blue” and don’t know what to do with it! Now, in the past, the “usual” approach (obviously) was a quick hand-job and another blown load! But SR represents a different take–a different philosophy if you will–on sexual release. Guys, It gets harder as it goes…..
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I am ‘dosing’ on some binaurals for wet-dream induction but have not had any results as of yet. I”m not sure how much longer it will take but I sure would WELCOME the relief that will come with it. Overcoming horniness is something every guy practicing SR will have to endure in his own way. Because if he doesn’t do it right, he’ll be right back to Day 1 and I’m sure most guys wouldn’t want that. I sure don’t. Of course, following day 70, or 100, or 200, it can be expected. But not after day 10 or so.
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Trying to keep the horniness in balance is never easy, particularly if you expect to live your life normally (whatever that means). Going forward with SR, I have noticed a new ease in dealing with people, especially women. Women (and men for that matter) seem attracted to me in a greater way than before. I don’t think it is my imagination. Then, when confronted with a beautiful woman with a great figure on top of that—OMG!—that will seem to trigger a horny “attack” right away! It is pleasurable but it is also a pathway up “Horny Hill” and (hopefully) down again!
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[Caution–sexually-graphic content here] One interesting thing as I get into SR more seriously: I notice women’s (and men’s) bodies more, and in a sexual way. I am obviously looking at a woman’s boobs and especially their crotches and fantasizing what it looks like beneath their panties. Yes, their vaginal opening and the hair around it. And yes, how a man’s ‘arsenal’ fills-out his jeans. I know this may sound a little weird but that it the way I feel now. Hard to say this, but even in the men’s locker room after swimming, I find myself “looking” at the guys packages more! Now I normally would not do this at all but perhaps this is a fringe benefit of semen retention! Read more Â»

Last night – I got there

Last night, before going to bed I inserted my newly purchased Helix Syn. My wife usually goes to bed early, and was asleep by the time I snuggled in. I am fairly new to Prostate Massage, although I have enjoyed inserting things into my butt for a long time. It always felt good, I just had no idea what I was doing. The interest in stimulating the Prostate was made all the more interesting when I heard about men having multiple orgasms and I really wanted that sensation.

Like many other readers who have posted on this site, I thought true prostate orgasms were nothing more than a myth! When I tried, I would feel this fantastic sensation build then fade away. The more I thrust and swirl the object in my anus, pressing against my “sweet spot”, releasing amazing feelings, then they would always “run away”.

I have read about the balance between sensation and mind – relaxation, squeezing the Helix against my prostate and holding the pressure, then slowing relaxing, all the while the sexual energy building. I have read on these blogs the need to relax and breath, focus and squeeze, no thrusting or bashing my arse around. Read more Â»

After years of anal, we have finally achieved orgasm! (X-post pegging)

Spoiler! Oh well the title is already a spoiler, for people who hate spoilers, I’m sorry, not!

We can have a little fun can’t we?

Throwaway for reasons. My wife(also my mistress) and me have been doing anal play for quite a few years. Sometimes I am the one who initiate, sometimes she is. We are very daring and am always open to new ideas…the idea of prostate milking/orgasm has made me curious and we first started pegging 5 years ago.

Let’s just say anal play has improved our sex life by a lot. I am the quite type who doesn’t make a sound during sex, but when she’s got a finger stuffed up my butt it’s like there’s a switch to open my mouth there. It was fun and a finger turned into a butt plug, then into a dildo, strap on and many various things up my ass…

Thing is, I just can’t have an orgasm from my prostate. Anal just makes my ejaculation stronger, but Pgasms? Nope. We have done all sorts of research together, attending munches and seminars, getting advice from various experts even doctors.

And it’s not that we can’t find that sweet spot or anything. Truth is, my wife is very good. She found my sweet spot first try. Before you get jealous there’s a catch: no matter how hard and fast she hits my sweet spot, the pressure just keep building up, but it never gets released. We even tried a relay match with it, but after 30 minutes of building up we just gave up. Pegging is more of a kink for us than an attempt to milk me. Read more Â»

Major breakthrough! With or without Aneros?

Lately, I have been practicing semen retention (18 days now) without any blue balls effect; in fact, it’s been much easier than I thought. I’m doing it simply because ejaculation, however good it has become, is a drain on my system and sets me back as far as mood to explore is concerned. I have also been trying to practice transferring my sexual energy from my genitals to the rest of my body as described by some Taoists in the book ‘Multi-Orgasm Man’.
I have been working my PC muscle pretty hard and regularly. I have been practicing edging and towel bouncing with surprisingly good results.
Last night, I prepared for a session with my Progasm Ice. During my session, while doing light PC contractions and with slow, deep lower abdomen breaths, I experienced some feelings in my penis. These feelings are located just under the cap of the penis, just under the V section where my penis hot-pot is. At this point, instead of trying to grow them (pushing for results) I tried to draw those feelings and transfer them through different parts of my body. I did that by pulling in my perineum and then concentrate on transferring them to, first, my lower body and then up my spine. All this was done with my deep breathing coupled with light contractions while of course fantasizing. I had some level of success in decentralizing some of the sensations as I started feeling twinges in my balls and then lower abdomen and belly.
Unfortunately, time was progressing and I had to call it a night. The feeling were so good, I could’ve stayed all night. Read more Â»