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Introduction

Hi all,

I'm new to the Aneros experience. I don't remember how I learned about it, but somehow I did, and I've been lurking for the past few weeks, voraciously reading the posts of others. This is exciting! I'm really looking forward to diving in. I'm very grateful to the other men who have generously shared their experiences; I've already learned a lot about my own body and my sexuality/sensuality.

To repay this generosity, I thought I'd start an anonymous blog so that other curious beginners can have another data point to consider.

This first post is just an introduction so you can better understand who I am and where I'm coming from.

I'm in my mid-50's and have been in a committed relationship with my wife for 20+ years. We have 2 teenage children. I had a vasectomy about 15 years ago. I'm 5' 6" and HWP.

I had a pretty sexually repressed childhood, but feel that my mind is liberating itself as I get older; less defensive and more receptive.

I can still get erections, but they aren't as hard or long-lasting as back in the day. I want to see if Aneros can help with this.

I occasionally get hemorrhoids; too much kayaking in cold water. Again, what can the Aneros do about this? I'm considering getting a Peridise, but the reviews for Tempo sound more fun. Read more »

Great New Couples Aneros Practice Techniques

For a number of months I have been under a number of related non-sexual health problems… Nevertheless, on the few better days, my dear wife and I have taken the time to advance our great orgasmic energies exchanging practice, built upon the full awakening of our prostates: mine Male Gspot, hers Female Gspot.

Using manual massage techniques together, in our celebrated Wedding Band Position, we have greatly enhanced my awakening using various Aneros models over past 8+ years. In the 1st session we opened with mutual manual stimulations leading to inserting my Progasm Red Ice!!! mmmmmmm and as we progressed and began me fingering her vagina, I suggested we try as see how my unused Progasm Ivory Ice might feel inside her and contact her Gspot areas… WELL!!! she started getting wonderful sensations and responses throughout her body!!! mmmmmmm and soon we we were sailing and soaring though ecstasies unbound~~~~!!!~~!~~!~~!~!!!!!!!~~!~!~~~!!!!

Her Progasm Ivory Ice now resides in her bedside table and we treat them, almost like our four model Peridise set as our pleasures arsenal on both sides of our king size bed, and along it wide headboard shelf!! Unfortunately, like several other Anerosian wives we know, my wife also finds her EVI bulb too thick to take comfortably yet… We hope that if the current model is in effect the EVI Queen, Aneros may soon produce a slimmer Aneros Princess model. Read more »

Energy

Over the years the subject of energy has been a frequent topic in my study of mind – body connections, sexuality and sexual response. It surfaced many years ago when I was immersed in reading about Zen and Kundalini Yoga. It was also a frequent topic in Tantra. Here in Aneros we always talk about the energy generated by our human biology, spirituality, erotic fantasy and mental imagery. Indeed success in using an Aneros device for me is much more the mastery of or all 4 of the above factors and more than that it is the interweaving of them. It is from their interweaving that I experience the most intense and profound erotic and orgasmic pleasure.

Over the years I have sought metaphorical images to describe my Aneros experience relative to the interweaving of the above four energy sources. The best analogy that I can think of is surfing; only in my orgasmic surfing it is up to me to organize all the four factors and make them into a “wave” in my mind. As in surfing each wave I generate is different. Some are big and some are small. When the right wave comes along and I “catch” it, as Icatch it, it lifts me and propels me with it. It is my skill and ability that allows me to balance on that wave and as I sustain its energy in my thoughts. Read more »

Eating My Own Cum

The moments after an intense MMO session leave me with a slimy cock and aching with arousal. After several days of MMO and no ejaculation I can be almost insane with erotic desperation. The intimate sexual liaisons I have when I am in these intense states of arousal are perhaps the most torrid and the most sensually beguiling erotic experiences I have.

This morning after three days of hard MMO my body was exhausted from 3 nights of minimal sleep but my arousal was roaring like an inferno. It was 5 am when I finished my third session in three days; it is 9 am and I am here at my desk writing this.

In the moments after the spasms stopped, slowly my cock started to stiffen and lengthen as arousal replaced the exquisite agony of MMO. In a few minutes my cock was stone hard and my anus was tingling and quivering. An orgasmic knot had developed deep in my asshole from the extended MMO session I had just finished. My prostate was erect and buzzing; the MMO had packed it with my hot cum and raging desire in equal measure. The glow of arousal was making my prostate twitch in anticipation of a copious release of its steaming contents. I was so fatigued I could have fallen asleep if I had closed my eyes and suppressed my arousal. But I love the erotic tension of arousal, and the sensuality of the moment laying there with J next to me, snuggled to my side so I remained awake. I savored the warm eroticism of the moment as my cock and anus reminded me of the arousal that simmered within me. Read more »

Pleasure Continued

I hadn’t made love to J in 10 days, our schedules had been crazy and we had both been under the weather. Intensely aroused as I was after almost two weeks of MMO with no release, I was desperate for sexual connection. In the past my arousal would have translated to a need for fucking. In my rewired state my sexual response has become more complex and patient. Now I get equal pleasure of experiencing another person’s pleasure vicariously. Sometimes it is the orgasmic contortions of a man culminating in his shuddering ejaculation and other times it is J writhing and quivering in orgasmic rapture. That night I longed for sexually intimate connection with her.

Cunnilingus is by far my favorite way to coax her into cascading orgasmic ecstasy. I enjoy giving her head more than any other sexual activity we engage in. Giving J oral pleasure gets my cock stone hard and makes me drip a stream. So it wasn’t a surprise that that was the connection that we made that night.

After perfunctory after dinner activities, washing dishes we both happily abandoned the mundane routine activities of the day. I am not a big fan of winter snow but I put up with it in my daily routine, accepting its inconvenience and the extra time it adds to getting from place to place and getting out in the morning. But in the evening when the quiet softness of snow and the deep chill of February blanket the village and our house, they impart a sensual quietude to the air and my mood. Read more »

The Start of Something Good

The older I get the greater the number of sexual experiences I have. In my rewired – hypersexual state it seems that I am hyper aware of the bliss and steamy eroticism of each experience. Each one becomes a unique and sensual memory that I get to savor like a special vintage or a breath taking view.

This last Friday was another one of those experiences. As I sit here savoring that experience, I am amazed at the breadth and the diversity of erotic activity so far in my life. Even after all the years of walking this sexual discovery path I am on, I continue to appreciate each intimate and erotic interaction to be compelling, arousing and deeply gratifying. My sex life is oddly reassuring. As it arouses my erotic mind there is a sensual rhythm to it that makes my days complete and oh so sensual.

Friday was a work at home day, there was no rush to get up. At 4AM I awoke at my routine time just before dawn to do a brief but intense MMO session. I slowly sank into that deeply erotic steaming pit of orgasmic delight; igniting the erotic fire of arousal in my anal tract, my balls, cock root, anus and perineum began to pulse in convulsing ecsatsy. The recurring pleasure waves honed my arousal to a keen edge. The shadow of steaming male orgasmic convulsions echoed in my balls, cock and anus all day long as fantasies of my sexy J lingered in my mind. Sometimes it is fantasies of intimate trysts with men that will harden my cock and sometimes it is day dreams of anticipated intimacy with J that makes my penis go rigid with desire. That day it was J who aroused me. Read more »

More Admissions

Two of the most amazing and wonderful things about this orgasmic journey I am on is the awakening of my sexual response and the expansion of my sexual interest, gender wise. For most of my life arousal has consisted of getting an erection when looking at naked women and feeling the desperate need to ejaculate to seek relief from the sweet frustration that accompanies arousal and erection. By its nature arousal for me was 100% cock and female focused. Ejaculation was a much desired but fleeting experience. I remember after I discovered orgasm when I was young I used to fantasize how amazing it would be if I could sustain the sensation of an orgasm for more than those extremely pleasurable seconds of pumping bliss. In the absence of that skill I replaced the fantasy with the reality of unending masturbation; I would tug to orgasm a dozen times in a day. Sadly though, the more times I came the less pleasurable each successive ejaculation became.

For years fantasies of anal penetration intrigued me; occasionally I would watch videos of guys masturbating with curious fascination as I got modest erections. I experimented with home fabricated devices for anal penetration; in the places that I lived, sex toy stores were not around every corner. I could best describe those early anal penetration experiences as not thrilling, except for the visual aspect of seeing an object penetrate me. Read more »

First time use – is it working properly? Caused dry orgasms during sex?

Picked up a knockoff Aneros SGX at a sex shop yesterday (Put them side by side – identical but much cheaper). I am a smaller statured white guy (5'7" 140lbs) so I thought the SGX would be good as it is supposed to be popular with asian males.

So of course I had to give it a try last night. On insertion it created a massive erection and a pretty high burst of arousal – but the arousal faded in seconds, and the erection faded fairly quickly too. I left in in for maybe half an hour, chilling on the bed, but nothing happened. I clenched and unclenched and felt a little something, but the only significant feelings came with pulling it out a little and letting it slip back in.

So far the story is unexciting but then my wife came in to ask how the "butt plug" was working. I told her it was lame so she suggested we try it while we fuck. Of course I was up for this. Once we got started the Aneros seemed to come into play, I could feel some extra feeling perhaps once the prostate started to get aroused. I was ultra hard and had so much lust and drive like I used to have in our pre-baby days, I totally got lost in the sex but after a bit I didn't really notice any sensation coming particularly from the Aneros itself – just a general boost in intensity. Read more »

Introduction

I am a 51 year old married man who is impotent [erectile dysfunction]. Erections began to fail about ten years ago but intercourse with my wife was possible. Mornings helped, as did strong coffee and the right kind of stimulation. But at the same time her libido plummeted so there was little motivation to work to get erect. In the words of my urologist, when erectile function starts to flounder, working it helps to keep it from getting too much worse.

About three years ago my wife's libido came back gangbusters. By then my erectile function was pretty much toast. I tried Viagra, Cialis. They worked, well sort of. These gave me partial erections and headaches. The problem with the partial erections is that it was not enough for penetration.

Sometimes acceptance is a good thing. I have come to accept that I am impotent and there are other ways to pleasure and be pleasured.

When my impotence was first noticeable I saw my family doctor who referred me to a urologist. The urologist performed prostate massage, or that is what he called it when I asked, what are you doing to me! I then googled the subject, found out about the Aneros, and ordered an early model. I think it was actually through High Island Health. Read more »

My Second Encounter

Last night in a chat with Brine he asked me to do an entry describing my second liaison with a guy. Brine and a few others have asked about my twice venture into male – male sexual intimacy in the last two years. It is difficult to describe the experience without putting it into context. In a recent chat Brine and few of us were explaining MMO / Super O to a newbie. Brine commented that it was an integrated physical – mental – spiritual thing. He is absolutely right.

For the last 20 years I have been engaged in a discovery process to understand my sexuality. I dipped my toes into Tantra, Zen, Kundalini, edging, anal penetration and erotic massage to name a few. There were also workshops, strip clubs, gay bars, books, pod casts and myriad toys and porn. The frustration of all of them was that they all seemed to fall short or they required a life change to really engage. I was not ready to become a monk or a sex worker LOL.

Then 8 years ago quite by chance I was surfing the net looking for porn when I wound up on the Aneros site. I ordered my first toy exactly 8 years ago this month. That following year was dedicated to learning to use it. When I had ben successful for 8 months or so the rewiring process started. I am guessing that by the end of that year I was rewired. My sexual response, spirituality, physical – sexual capability, and mental state were all synched and in a sense I was sexually reborn. Read more »