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I have been experimenting with prostrate stimulation for around of year and been using this…
http://www.docjohnson.com/men-s-pleasure-wand.html
Sometimes even getting my wife to use her fingers, and to use a small dido, but haven't experienced the super o.
I feel like it's gotten me to cum, but nothing beyond that type of pleasure.
I am just looking for the right one for me. I know that's hard, but just some help.
Thanks to the guy who gave me my writing bug back…
So I know a lot of guys here are into what some (mostly Americans) find as "alternative" sexual practices. I don't view it as alternative but hey…I'm just one fish in the ocean. I also know there are many men who wish their wives (or spouses or mates or partners pick your word and use it) were more into it with them. Now keep in mind I'm not a doctor or any of that crap. I'm just a woman who has been in enough relationships and talked openly with enough women that at the moment I feel like putting some ideas out there for you all to ponder on. There is no way I can cover all scenarios so this will be pretty general. If you want specifics…hunt me down lol (don't literally use the inbox dummy!!!). So with that said this first part will be on the most fundamental aspect of why a lot of women are hesitant about this topic…themselves…and how they feel about themselves.
I have not done an entry here in quite a while, but I just came off of one of the most exquisite sessions that I have had in a long time. I decided to commit the experience to writing because just yesterday I was chatting with someone in here on the magnetic pull that my desire exerts on my body. When my desire sings in my thoughts I am weak, I cannot ignore it. I have lined my underpants before I sat down to do this entry as I am sure I will be leaking profusely before I am halfway through it.
I have come to realize that my most euphoric, deep and resonant sessions occur when just the right combination of conditions, thoughts and bodily functions come together in a “perfect orgasmic storm” so to speak. Such was the case last night. My sessions over the last few days had been really half hearted and very short. None were more than 30 minutes and I was unable to maintain the mental focus or the erotic inspiration to rise to a pinnacle of sensation. Twice this week my wife coaxed a copious amount of cum from me, once orally and the other when we were in a very intense mutual masturbation session. That masturbation session was two nights ago and it literally drained my balls. Over the last few weeks I have been finalizing my erotic novel to send it to some friends for review and comment. A few nights ago I was editing a part of the story that is in a time and place of a homoerotic exchange between my character and another main character. The narrative describing their sexual liason is particularly steamy. Editing gets me extremely aroused as I can read without stopping too much; as a result I was feeling extremely sexy.
Most Enjoyable Session So Far
Like many others I m seeing less progress than I had hoped for with my Aneros. Especially recently in the last 2 months I have become disheartened, feeling less than when I first started Anerising at the beginning of this year. Even though I tried to have 2-4 sessions a week, most of which were full overnight sessions.
A break of three weeks for holidays has seen me eager to rekindle my relationship with my Helix Syn. Sexual energy has been building up in my body this last week but due to a "crook" back I was unable to make use of this energy. My wife who would certainly disprove of my prostate massaging and milking decided to sleep in the spare bedroom so that I wouldn't disturb her sleep. Yesterday my back seemed to be back to normal so I was looking forward to a night of self pleasuring. In the morning, to prepare for this I trimmed my pubic hair very short and shaving my scrotum and perinium as I often do. I just hate pubes and love to be smooth! I did the same with my chest hair and razored around the edges to reduce the area of chest hair, yucky stuff. I the gain a lot of pleasure from the act of trimming and shaving and just love to feel smooth and hair free . I then decided to shave around the edges of my pubic patch to make it smaller. Anyway the area of unshaved became smaller and smaller until I thought "F" it and shaved it all off.
Before I bought my Helix Syn, I made sure that I discussed it with my wife. I have some BPH issues, and we had discussed prostate massage before. Plus, my wife likes to tease my anus during oral sex. I figured she'd be open to it, but it was still a little intimidating to ask. She was definitely up for the "challenge".
When the time came, I did the insertion of the Aneros. Although, I'm sure as time goes on, my wife will get involved in that as well. Even though I told her to try to focus on kissing, nipple play, etc, she kept going back to focusing on my penis. We were both incredibly turned on, and I just couldn't bring myself to ask her to stop.
So the Aneros session ended rather quickly. I left the Helix Syn inserted while we had sex. This was a new and unique experience, as the device pounded on my prostate in time with each thrust of my hips. When I came in a traditional orgasm, it was extremely intense, and lasted longer. My wife even commented that it seemed like a lot more cum than usual.
We agreed that next time we'll try to keep the hands off the cock a little longer. I think that's going to be easier said than done. I'll also try to get in some solo sessions where I can just concentrate on the internal feelings.
So it has been a while since I have made an entry here. Work has kept me busy and travel too. It has been a very sexy summer for me. It began with a series of very slow and thoughtful mmo sessions. After three years of minimal massager use I began to insert my peridises again. Using the condom method and filling the condom with lube and tying a knot in the opening allowed me to use in any situation and not make a mess. It also allows me to use any lube I want as it all stays in the condom. This allowed me to do sessions with insertion anywhere including in my own bed while my wife sleeps.
In June I started while visiting my daughter on the West Coast. The sessions were exquisite and as I said very slow and luxurious. Throughout June I was doing up to three sessions per week. By the end of June II stopped using the Peridises and transferred to my Tempo. Again I used the condom method. The onset of full orgasmic contractions after insertion of the Tempo was startling. On the average it was less than 5 minutes to full spasms that were sucking the Tempo in and out of my anus. Mid way through July I began to experiment with suppressing the spasms and orgasms, trying to keep them from happening. The more I denied them the more powerful they became.
Rewind 5 years. I am on my own in a hotel room, still jet lagged from a long flight. My body clock is all over the place. Wide awake at 3am. Feeling horny, with a sexual longing from the lower part of my body that promises something deeper. As I lay there, I can induce gentle waves of pleasure in my pelvic area. They are beautiful but frustratingly faint. It reminded me of the mysterious sexual feelings I had when I was a young boy laying in bed naked without a care in the world. Then, as now, there was a transcendental element to it. The longing increases and intuitively, I know that a traditional release is not the answer, but I don’t know what is or how to achieve it.
Fast forward 3 years. My situation has changed. I still travel on business but have more time at home. I use it to try and fully understand what my longings were and see if there was anything I could do to satisfy them. Have been married a long time and sex with my wife is frequent and pleasurable, but I knew there was more. Then I found the Aneros. It took some getting used to but following the advice and instructions to relax as best I could, new and wonderful sensations developed and I knew I was on the right track.
My wife said she was fine with my prostate play. She liked the intensity of ejaculations. As I started to rewire it was good to share the experience and she could get better feedback on how subtle touches were really impacting me. Nipples, inner thighs, low back, all produced small orgasmic shocks at times.
As we explored this journey, one night, I went for my Helix and she said no, not today. This led to a difficult and powerful conversation. We discovered that she did not ask permission for her vibrator but I was expected to ask permission for my helix or I was sheepish about what I want in bed.
Turns out she was concerned about sexual activity becoming about the orgasm, ejaculation, or the "getting off" and never considered that I might view the vibrator in a similar manner. I don't but she clearly saw her fear and a double standard.
I have some ambivalence about anal play. It is increased along with excitement when we play together.
The techniques of Aneros involve a different type of interaction than straight sex. Guys don't "meditate" to find the zone and orgasm. Women do take a trip in their body and find waves and have orgasms.
As we talked through all these issues we found some important insights. She realized an opportunity to coach me about the orgasm journey. She worked through feeling replaced by a piece of plastic. I am working on sheepishness. Some stuff just makes you horny. The list goes on but you get the idea.
Five months into my journey, I revisited the Rocks Off Big Boy. This was my first prostate massager. It is very large. I have never been able to get the last , largest ball inside of me. Coating it with allot of coconut oil and lubing myself well and with some effort , Saturday I was able to slip the large ball inside. Turned out still to be a disappointment as it was not directly on my prostate. In my experience, both of the Rocks Off products I own cause me to become flaccid, even if I am stroking. I can cum that way and have the overflowing type of ejaculation. They will not stay in place either unless you actually sit on them, which lessens the vibration and minimizes the sensations inside. No comparison to the Vice or Progasm. Both of these usually produce very hard erections and powerful Super T's !.
Had a nice time with the wife on Sunday with the Vice. I haven't used it in a while as I have been experimenting with the Progasm. I had forgotten how intense the Vice can be. She gave me a wonderful blow job before starting to tease herself with her Rabbit. I stroke and watch her bring herself to orgasm. I roll over and slide my cock into her now wet pussy with the Vice still inserted. As I pump deep into her the Vice pumps deep into me. It feel fantastic and I can feel the vibrations in the base of my cock. I pull out and she flicks her engorged clit as I finish myself off and shoot on her stomach and pussy. The Vice is still pounding and buzzing as I sit on my knees and bask in the aftermath. I need to work the Vice back into my schedule :(
Today I had my first session with the wife and my new Progasm Ivory.She started with teasing and a blow job before I put the device in. Several minute of playing and touching to get warmed up.
I coated the Ivory with coconut oil and slowly slipped it in. I got that familiar full feeling as the Progasm slipped into place.
I start contracting on the device, short ones to begin with. I immediately start to notice those powerful little waves and spasms inside of me. She takes me in her mouth and sucks me in deeply. I try to press and contract harder on the device as she sucks me. I start to buck and the contractions begin. I love the feeling of the finish of the Ivory on my prostate. Very different from the Vice.
She teases and sucks on my nipples which causes my cock to harden like a bat. This is something that never did anything for me before, but I now find it quite pleasurable and erotic. She coats my cock with coconut oil and jacks me off . She coaches and coaxes me as I am flopping on the bed.
The animal noises and reactions take over as she drives me over the edge.This time the ejaculation is shooting and almost forced ! Powerful session today and I think the Progasm Ivory is going to be a great addition to our foreplay. It is a very different experience than the Vice.