Tag: Wife

Cast Off

Well it is indeed a strange world.
4 weeks after ordering the Helix and 2 days after ordering the MGX the Helix arrives this morning.
Also an e mail telling me the MGX has been dispatched.

Upon opening the package i was pleased to see the Helix was smaller than I had imagined it to be. I was a bit worried that it would be too big.

So I did the day,s business as quickly as possible.
I told the wife I need about 2 hours of quiet for my forst try.
Gave her some money to get her nails done.

In this part of the world there is a wash down hose by the toilet.
Very useful for a flush out inside.
Shower and lube with KY.

Set the cd going with Hypnareosession.
The Helix slid in nicely, very surprised.

I set my sights low but the burden of expectation will always be with you.
You would have to be a pretty remarkable person to expect a zero result and be happy with that outcome.

There is a lot going on the first time out both physically and mentally.

Trying to follow Alanas instructions is demanding.
Breathing, imagine an ember, projecting images.
Trying to stay relaxed.
It did help having the cd.

The physical outcome was some small drops of clear fluid
and some shaking of my legs.
I had three bouts of shaking, one of which was quite strong.
Also an itching feeling inside. Read more »

Second attempt

Well here I am , 26 days after ordering the Helix.
Still no delivery, the retailer is awaiting delivery.
What to do ?
The waiting is very frustrating.
I read all the new posts and think what about me.
I had another scout around the net.
I found another retailer who has the MGX in stock at a reasonable price.
I took the plunge and ordered it.
The wife was a bit sniffy about this.
Looks as if I will end up being a duel model owner.
Hopefully the MGX will be here by the end of next week.
I listen to the Hypnareosession cd on a night and it sends me to sleep.
Guess you are not supposed to use it unassisted.

3rd Month

August 2008 – Kids go back to school mid month and I’m lucky enough to be a stay at home dad. The first week I get to have a session every day. This is fun and I have some good feelings. I’m also trying to figure out how to tell my wife. I’m pretty sure she’d be OK with it, and maybe even interested. So, typical me, I wait for a good time to have an intimate talk with her – Friday night, at the end of the first week of school for the kids and during a neighborhood block party. She’s kind of accepting – she waits for the end of the party and makes me take a shower with her – she wants to insert it in me herself! After almost two decades together, it’s nice to know we can still share the intimacy and explore the next step together.

J4

2nd Month

July 2008 – Thinking the Aneros product might be mainstream, I drive to a local Adult Toy Store. I guess it’s not mainstream. Nobody carries this product or has heard of it. Being a straight laced kind of middle America guy – there’s not a lot of places where main street meets anal stimulators. I haven’t talked to my wife about any of this. I pull the trigger and order it off the internet. Maybe she won’t notice the credit card bill for a prostate massager amidst all the other back to school purchases.

Next up is the quest for lube and lube delivery systems. I’ve got a couple days and some year old lube for the only other vibrator we ever purchased. I read someplace in the forums that someone used an animal medicine syringe they bought from a pet store. I go out and buy one. I can’t even look the check out girl in the eye. I’m glad I don’t have to tell anyone my lame story about a sick cat.

The Helix arrives and magically the wife and kids go out of town. The first time in eight years I get the house to myself. The animal medicine syringe is a disaster. There is a raised rim around the end to keep a cap on. It hurts and I abandon it (later I try to sand the ridge down but it makes the end too sharp). I find a spare children’s medicine dropper. This works like a champ. I have my first session. Read more »

1st Month

Background: Male, mid 40’s, married with children.

June 2008 – While cruising a web site for couples, I read a couple of threads on tantric sex. One of the threads talks about prostate massage leading to great orgasms for men. A simple Google search on prostate massage leads to a variety of web sites – one of them is for Aneros.

I read the forums and do some product research. My wife and I have a fun relationship, but we do not have a tremendous amount of adult toy play experience. We have previously purchased only one adult toy in the past, a g-spot/p-spot vibrator. I tried it a couple of times solo but I found it awkward to use and didn’t get a lot of enjoyment out of it. It has been on the shelf for a long time.

The Aneros ‘hands free’ feature sounds attractive. Internet reviews point to mixed results. Aneros forum users, however, seem to form a small tight knit cult product following. I make a choice, it’s the Helix.

J4

Starting

After being in the background for a while i decieded to register yesterday.
I also ordered my firat Aneros, a Helix.
The best price I found was with Sax Fetish in Australia.
I will wait rather nervously for a week or so until it arrives.
When I went on line for the first time last night I saw that the mighty Mayfield was on line at the same time.
I hope that this is a good omen.
I thought about saying hello but I thought that premature.
He will have better things to do with his time.

I told my wife all about what I was thinking of doing.
I found the heading of "A Wifes Perspective" in the Forum very helpful.
My wife read some of the postings.
She told me to go ahead which came as a great relief
as I would not like to do anything behind her back.

Well thats the start.

Rubbing my clit?

Last night, I had a 60 minute session. I had already had a 90 minutes session earlier. This is my first time using this. I had a lot of sensations my first time (shaky legs, a few pillow biting moments, but no "real" orgasm.) My second session, I ended up with an ejaculation, but I did not have an erection. I found myself rubbing my flacid penis like it was a little clit until I came with the Progasm still pulsating in my ass. Anyone else had anything like this happen? I actually felt like a chick (or how I imagine a chick would feel when cumming.)
I am a straight married guy, but I'm not an anal virgin. I've been shoving a dildo in my ass for awhile and I get me wife to rim me or eat my ass out every chance I get. Just wondering if anyone else has the penis/clit thing going on…not complaining, it just felt wierd.

ed's journey

bought a eupho–tried it for a short time yesterday–about the same action as my other models but i didn't have enough time for much of a session–was traveling for several days and haven't had a session for more than a week–i think it will take some conditioning to get my groove back–when i had good sessions i was doing them every day and sometimes twice or more a day–after wife's vacation i will have more time

Tantra and Bio-Electric Sex

We recently acquired Davis and Ellen Ramsdale's book Sexual Energy Ecstasy, a wonderful compendium of information and experience. We were really taken aback when we came to page 304-307, "BIO-ELECTRIC SEX", and found such a detailed description of essentially the practice we have stumbled into intuitively during our explorations with Aneros and KSMO.

Many of the benefits explained here have certainly worked for us, with no prior knowledge or expectations, no "belief" or debate!

The "Scissors" position recommended and illustrated for bio-electric is our favourite over many years, as it minimizes the stress and distraction of pain from my old injuries etc.

After reading about this, my wife and I had a great session of energy generation and sharing based on the techniques I've developed with my Aneros (MGX alone initially) "polishing the knob" and its extensions, and with the Key Sound to trigger, amplify and direct the orgasmic energies tied to the aneros muscle memory training. The reading has helped her sense of this energy generation feeling and she generated significant energy that I could feel happening and that we could share!

This information and the much related material in the book are wonderful help for couples on a Tantric and/or Tao path with Aneros. Here is more detail from a recent post on my KSMO Blog of the same title: Read more »

Early Post of Youth Experiences

For me, Aneros and KSMO quickly became almost inseparable in my practice. Here is my almost year-old introductory post in the KSMO Forum, quoting from a thread posting I had made to a thread here that was subsequently removed for other reasons. As promised recently in current threads here, I am placing this background in the blog. Hope this is helpful.

"As a newbie here, and relatively so in the Aneros Forum, I am energized and curious about combining these two practices. A little like Pan, I have chronic pain and yet have been able to develop a number of techniques to override or evade it to a degree.

I am married for almost 40 years and we have two sons in their mid-20s. Now empty-nesters, my wife and I are exploring our post-parenting sex interests and that has included a successful voyage into her ejaculatory orgasm potential and the flowing waters of the goddess. We have just begun listening to the 4 CD KSMO library and are in very early practising of the KS. We will do some posting in the Couples chat area when they are focused on mutuality.

Prostate centred sex has been part of my world since the earliest teen explorations of my body and sexual responses. I used model missiles for anal stimulation and then to massage my prostate as a teen. Parallel to that, I experienced, without any prostate, anal, penile or any other physical stimulation, vigorous, whole body, orgasmic experiences with vivid visualizations that I call Intellectual Orgasms. I described them on the Aneros Forum as follows: Read more »