Well, I am able to post a new “test” blog this morning! Will it last? Don’t know for sure…..I’ll try again later-on today!
It would appear that the blog section is again working! Thanks Aneros Team!
Author: goldenboy
“Here We Go Again!….A Test”
After a former ‘false-start’, is this a ‘real rebirth’ of the Aneros Blogs? I hope so! Perhaps I will know in another day or two! Keeping fingers crossed!
Test Blog
Hooray! I was able to change my password and now have access to the Blogs! I hope it lasts!
“Oh, Jock!”
Introduction
I have recently ‘rediscovered’ my regular jockstrap collection which consists mostly of swimmer’s jocks. I used to wear them all the time while swimming daily. It wasn’t so much to control my erections, but rather to remain ‘modest’ if I were to get one while in the pool. About a year ago, I decided to forgo the jocks and just wear my jammers. But some of these jammers will not hide nor hold an erection all too well. I am tempted then to start wearing a jock under my jammers again!
I am currently at Day 3 of SR and Day 88 of NoFap ® PMO. I will discount the recent ‘edging’ session/fantasy I experienced as a relapse since I believe that I had exited my ‘flatline’ and that activity was just a manifestation of my body’s returning back to a more normal libido. That feeling persists today; let me explain…..
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While I still enjoy wearing my jockstraps with cups, I find that wearing my regular jockstraps give me the opportunity to ‘test’ my erection through visual cues of my package and through light, delicate touches on the pouch to see what effect they can elicit. While doing this, I can’t help but fall-into a fantasy that it is actually a lover’s hand doing the exploring! Those light touches, even from my hand, can trigger an erection. This is an opposite, albeit more normal, sexual response than relying on porn or (in my case) binaural beats* for that erection. It is almost as if my cock is on a ‘hair-trigger’ for an erection now and that is the way it should work! After all, when a guy is in a situation where he ‘needs to perform’ with an erection, he does not want to think about whether he will get one or not, it should just be automatic! Any thoughts of ED should be put far-away out of his mind.
“Did I Relapse Or Am I Coming Out Of A Flatline?”
Introduction
A couple of interesting nights! Two nights ago in particular, I went to bed wearing my Mueller cup. When I awoke, I got the urge to remove the cup and put-on my Duke swim jock (Why I did this I had no clue at the time). I did and went back to sleep. I was at Day 8 of semen retention and although I was not experiencing any ‘blue-balls’ feeling (yet), I felt that, sooner or later, it was time for me to ejaculate. But how I did it is another story! Let me explain…..
Edging Session
Normally, I would just try to ejaculate as quickly as possible without much fanfare. That would normally be a therapeutic, no-pleasure cum. But this ‘bate’ session proved to be much more than that. I set myself up with one of my best erotic tracks, about 1-1/2 hours long and went to lie-down on my sofa. At the time, I was completely flaccid. However, with just a little bit of prodding through the jock pouch, I developed an erection. I knew in the back of my mind that I would want to ejaculate from this, but I wasn’t expecting to fall into a fantasy — I am lying in bed with my lover and “she” kept telling me that I could not penetrate her until I was very wet and oozing precum. At some point, I removed the jockstrap and the edging just continued. How long? Hard to say but I would estimate about 20 minutes. By that time, when I felt a large amount of precum, I knew I was “ready” to ejaculate. When I did, it felt much more powerful than usual. And for the rest of the day, I felt so relieved, so “normal”. I thought to myself: did I just relapse in NoFap ® ? At first, I thought so. But then I realized that instead, I may be starting to exit from a flatline and that which I experienced was a completely normal experience. After last night, I am more convinced than ever. Let me explain further…..
Can I “Jump-Start” My Exit From Flatline?
Introduction
Currently, I am at day 6 of SR and 84 days of NoFap ® PMO. I am thinking I should be ‘exiting’ a flatline soon. Is there a way that I can try to hasten the exit? This is what I explored this morning. Let me explain…..
Session
I had a great therapeutic session with the HIH 950. Lasting about 25 minutes, I had put-on my rarely-used Bike hard cup. It just felt right so I proceeded. This was a good, therapeutic session. I followed instructions to the max: relax for about 10 minutes then finish-up with about 30 or 40 anal contractions. When this session was over, I felt energized and empowered to take-on the day.
Exit Flatline?
I continued to wear my Bike cup for a while this morning, but then I got an urge to switch to my “Duke” swimmer’s jockstrap. What effect would this have? I was curious. Fortunately, I did not experience an immediate erection like I thought I would. Rather, the regular jockstrap felt good. I am able to ‘feel’ my package through the mesh. Do I feel any different? Well, yes and no. Physically, I don’t feel any different. But mentally, I am quite prepared for an impending erection and the feelings that accompany it. (This could be analogous to foreplay before sex).
“The Dual-Existence of the Athletic Cup: Are You Ready?”
[This blog was inspired by @BigGlansDC]
Introduction
Am I coming out of a NoFap ® flatline? After this latest NPT erection, the answer could be ‘yes’! Let me explain…..
Waking up around 1:30 AM with an erection, I visited the lavatory. Upon returning to bed, I decided to put-on my SD 218 jock/cup and settle back-in for some sleep. Well, probably a couple of hours later, I was awakened, not for the lavatory, but with another moderate erection within the cup. But this erection felt different. You see, with each little ‘twitch’ of the buliding erection, or if I re-positioned my posture ever-so-slighly in bed, I felt very close to the PONR! This is what @BigGlansDC refers to as a ‘dalliance’*—an aptly-named word, for it felt for a while that I was having an affair…with my cock! How long did I stay at the PONR you may ask? I’m not entirely sure but I would bet at least a half-hour. Anytime then I felt like I could (or would) ejaculate….but didn’t. One thing I remember doing quite clearly is…..softly moaning! I mean, how could I not moan from the exquisite pleasure of remaining near the PONR?
“Who Are We? Just Play The Game!”
[This blog was inspired by an Aneros member]
Introduction
While listening to some erotic chillout this morning, I began to dwell on this topic. And the more I thought about it, it made perfect sense to me. So I’d like to share it…..
We as men share a unique role in this world. We are the sex who (for lack of better words) penetrates, thrusts and ejaculates. It really it that simple! But along the way, we have developed many other ways, other ‘tools’ if you will, to cultivate and ‘grow’ our manhood, our ‘maleness’, our sexuality. Among these are ways well-known to Aneros members such as myself. I am referring to the practices of semen retention (SR), NoFap ® and Aneros prostate massage. Of course, there are others and one which I endorse and promote is the use of ‘chastity cups’.
Now what do all of these have in common? It really is quite simple, IMO. All of these activities are designed to enhance our sexual pleasure, not only for ourselves but in the general scheme of things, our male ‘vision’ of the world. (Our female counterparts share their own ‘vision’ that is (thank goodness!) completely different from our own). Together, we can make a new world (literally).
How To Play The Game
As I continued to meditate, it became clear to me that all of these sexual activities are entirely and always under our direct control. Here are some examples….
“I Just Put-On A Hard-Cup Jockstrap: What Next?”
Background
Since its invention in 1927 in Canada, the hard-cup supporter is a vital piece of men’s protective gear for sports like baseball and hockey. The male groin protection the cup offers is invaluable in preventing groin injuries which not only can be painful, but physically and sexually incapacitating for the male. So, baseball and hockey players, among others, regularly put-on their ‘cups’ as part of their uniform. There is not a second thought why. Just look at some videos of guys not wearing cups getting hit by a hard projectile. Not a pretty sight.
Is there another use for a hard-cup jockstrap? Most certainly, I say. Let me explain…..
Use In Chastity
The hard-cup jockstrap can become an instant aid in preventing masturbation for a male. The protective hard-cup becomes a barrier between a man’s penis, testicles and his hands. While wearing a hard-cup and jockstrap, a man is incapable of pleasuring himself to an ejaculation.
I subscribe to NoFap ® PMO, which means that I abstain from porn, masturbation and orgasm (ejaculation). I make an exception due to my tendency to develop ‘blue-balls’ while practicing extended semen retention (SR). But for the most part, I comply with the ‘rules of the game’.
A side-benefit of wearing a hard-cup is owed to the very design of the cup. The cup is anatomically-designed to cradle a man’s penis and testicles and the newer ‘banana cups’ also wrap under the perineum, thereby protecting that area from an inadvertent impact from a baseball, a hockey puck or a kick.
“After All, It’s Just For Prostate Therapy!”
Background
I am only at Day 2 of SR but at Day 80 of NoFap ® PMO. Last night, before retiring for bed, I had a strong urge to “sleep” in one of my ‘chastity cups’. So I selected my XO ProCup and nestled-in; so relaxing and comforting! During the night, as I expected, I felt the distinct pressure of the NPT erections against the cup. But I remained in chastity and slept comfortably through the night.
Earlier this morning, I awoke and upon visiting the lavatory, I had a symptom or two of BPH: start & stop stream and a somewhat weak stream. I think I ‘visited’ about three times quickly in succession. I checked and it had been 5 days since my last ‘therapeutic’ prostate massage session, so I knew it was time.
Session
I selected my Helix-Trident for this session and lubed-up with SSG. I went to lie-down on my side and just relax. I knew the Helix was contacting my prostate right from the start and I began to experience some involuntary contractions. I did a couple of strong anal/PC contractions and could definitely feel its effect. At one point, my entire body reacted with a strong, explosive contraction. I honestly didn’t feel any erections building, but I knew that this ‘therapy’ was going to be effective.