Author: goldenboy

“Staying Ahead Of The Curve”

I am now in a new Day 5 of SR and thought I would get “ahead of the curve” for prostate milking. So early this AM, I decided to lube-up the PS-NEW and have a quick session. Insertion was OK but not as pleasurable as the last ‘milking’. I did get a fair quantity of prostate fluid (~4-5 drops) in a short time (~30 minutes) but there was a gentle ‘sore’ feeling during the kegels. I have experienced this feeling before.

On a positive note, I am continuing to experience prostate orgasms after this morning’s milking. Even having a significant ‘chairgasm’ as I type this blog. I am doing very slow kegels and the sensations are blowing me away! I am feeling it all the way to the tip of my (semi-erect) penis. This is going to be an interesting day!

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“Aless Extraordinaire”

Boy, was I feeling crappy yesterday. I don’t know if it was a let-down from ejaculation following my 14-day abstinence. Maybe it was a lower T-level. But whatever it was, I’m glad it’s over today! Let me explain…….

I got a good night’s sleep and woke up at a decent early AM hour. I decided to listen to some erotic music. I got the urge to grab a large bath towel and a tube of lube(!) and go lay down. What did I have in mind? I started to lube-up but was having trouble seeing (it was dark!) When I finally realized that I had over-applied too much lube to my scrotal sac, I spent a few minutes “moving it around” everywhere and it felt so good! I could not leave it like this so I got up to wash myself off. To do this, I had to spend some time on my scrotal sac until most of the lube was gone. Then, it hit me: are the testicles themselves an erogenous zone? Now, I know what you are thinking: when guys accidentally get kicked in their “balls” it causes excruciating pain. Why would you want to tempt that? Also, testicular torsion is nothing to fool around with either…..it can send you immediately to the ER. But I was intrigued nonetheless, so I proceeded with an abundance of caution. [Side Note: I hesitated to post this “session” but decided to go-ahead anyway. Please note to be careful!] Read more »

“Back In The Saddle Again”

An unexpected Super-O! Here’s how it happened……

Following the 21-Day Challenge which ended for me on Day 14, I thought I would have a significant refractory period. Perhaps for ejaculation, but apparently not for prostate orgasms! Let me explain……

I awoke fairly early with a rock-hard erection. It honestly felt like I could be headed for an involuntary ejaculation so I placed a towel again beneath my boxers and laid back down. In a little while, I decided to “dose” again on the prostate health binaural which I like. I continued to feel an incredible pulsing in my prostate and continued this for probably 35 minutes or so. I then switched to some relaxing but erotic lounge music. I still had the towel beneath my boxers and it seemed perfectly fine to start a fantasy…….I am with a female companion and she begins to caress all the erogenous parts of my body, especially my underarms, nipples and scrotum. My penis was not particularly aroused at this time. I remember her saying to me that “we have all night” with regard to the tantric cuddling! Since I already had a towel present, I didn’t have to worry about anything! Following about 30 minutes of cuddling, I felt ready and aroused enough to continue this “session” upstairs in my bedroom. Not knowing what to expect, I laid a large towel across the bed, lubed-up the helix, “mounted it” and started this session. I laid down on my right side initially then quickly moved over onto my stomach which felt better. I decided to start this session with a “do-nothing” approach. Read more »

“SR: The 21-Day No Ejaculation Challenge”

I decided to “take” the 21-Day No Ejaculation Challenge. I am now completing Day 8. The first 6 days or so were not pleasant. The hardest part was the “horniness” which was expected. Surprisingly, Day 8 was quite event-free (and horny-free). I don’t believe I had an erection all day which is amazing! I believe my longest previous “record” was 10 days.

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Here is how this challenge works. It is really quite simple. No ejaculation for 21 days. If I experience a wet dream within 21 days, I start over and go back to Day 1. Sex is OK. Masturbation/edging is OK. Aneros with prostate orgasms is OK. Anything else sexual is OK. The only thing that is NOT OK is ejaculation! Simple, right? it probably will get harder as I progress but I decided to take the challenge. I will periodically update this blog to log my progress.

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“Semen Retention: To The Edge And Back”

OMG! This session turned out to be my first SR “edging” session. Let me explain how it happened….

I was up early and dosing on some erotic music, binaurals for prostate health, etc. I was doing this for about 2 hours but feeling nothing in the prostate; somewhat disappointing. I am now into Day 7 of semen retention and I know my testosterone level is up. I woke up this AM with a very powerful Viagra-like erection and almost felt that I could be heading for a wet dream (if I were asleep).

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I wanted to retire back to my own bedroom and I felt a strong need for a Peridise session. So I lubed-up the large one and inserted it fully (I have found that by doing this I seem to stimulate the prostate as well). Anyway, I rolled-over on my side and just relaxed for about 25 minutes or so. Near the end, while doing some kegels, I felt the beginning of a HFWO and when I felt the tip of my penis, it was wet with precum!

Now, remembering my “power” over my ejaculation while practicing SR, I decided that I would END this Peridise session (much to my disappointment in not ejaculating (it would have been so easy)). But that is not the end of this story…….

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“Semen Retention: Who’s In Charge Here?”

I was just driving today when it suddenly dawned on me: when practicing semen retention (SR), who’s really in charge? I know the answer now is obvious—ME! But with that answer comes a lot of qualifications.

I should be able to decide when to ejaculate. The only time my body will decide is if I need a wet dream!
I should have enough self-control to tell my penis to “behave”! Just because I have an erection is no reason to just ejaculate!
When I get aroused, I will make the decision if it will be leading me closer to the PONR. If it does and I want to continue SR, I will “pull the plug”. I don’t have to give-in to an ejaculation!
I have complete control over my sexuality. I can decide how aroused I want to be.

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“Is There A Line Between Sexual Fantasy And Reality?”

Now, before you scoff at this title, I need to explain the background of this amazing “meditation”…..For the past few days, I have been dosing on various binaural tracks for wet dreams and erotic lucid dreams. They haven’t worked their magic yet (or so I thought!) I am in Day 6 of SR and I feel my testosterone level really starting to build. Well, this early AM, I started out again the same way and then discovered a good erotic music track on YouTube: “EROTIC SOUL- SLOW AND SEXY – Relaxing Romantic Sensual music ,SEX MUSIC MIX BUDDA LOUNGE” and was about 2 Hr 20 Min long. (I am still listening as I compose this blog).

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Well, I started out this “session” in the usual way. The volume is low and I am getting into some tantric self-massage which feels great. One hand is cupping my package under my boxers and the other hand is doing some nipple stim (my top is now pulled-up). Realize that I did not get an erection at all during this meditation, probably due to the fact that my penis “knows” it better behave due to my SR! I keep this up for a while, perhaps 20 to 30 minutes or so. Then, something unusual happened……I suddenly found that the tantric massage had stopped but the erotic thoughts going on in my head didn’t! What was going on here? Was I awake? Was I dreaming? Hard to tell….. Read more »

“Semen Retention: No-Spill Zones”

For those of us navigating through “Semen Retention”, know that it requires a great deal of discipline and focus. As noted in previous blogs by myself and others, one needs to “channel” the sexual energy (fire) into other parts of his life. We males do not live in a sexual vacuum, most of us are not celibate and we must cope with sexual stimulation every day of our lives.

Here are some examples how, when practicing SR, we must navigate through the “No-Spill Zones” —-
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First, as most of us males know, we have an average 3 to 5 erections every night. That means that usually at some point in time (in the middle of the night or early morning) we will awaken with a boner. How we manage these erections while practicing semen retention becomes the first test of our focus and discipline. Do we feel the need to masturbate and ejaculate? Do we want to have sex? You bet! But semen retention requires a more focused approach, a rejection of the normal male sexual response if you will, if we are to progress along the path. In time, the erection will subside and we will return to normal.
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“Semen Retention: A Blogger’s Perspective”

Since I am really getting into semen retention (but still have a long way to go!), I am continuing to read about it. One blogger (OldChi) on ‘The Dao Bums’ posted this blog back in 2012. It is an interesting read and I will post it here in my blog. [My Note: He accomplished 100 days of SR and “jing” refers to semen.]
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“I accomplished the 100 days of conserving Jing and thought i would share my experiences on what i feel to be a very beneficial practice. Note this post is directed towards men, i have no experience of conserving jing as a women…at least in this life.

There are three possible outcomes of Jing conservation.

1. You give in to fantasies and release your Jing…thus failing
2. You become a very angry and irritable person for 100 days
3. You become a Dynamo of energy and grow in strength and power in every area of your life

I have experienced all three of these outcomes when i attempted to conserve Jing in the past. Therefore there are 2 qualities that are required to conserve Jing successfully: Mental Clarity and Emotional Stability. Both qualities are complementary to each other.

If you do not have Mental Clarity then you will lose to your fantasies. If you do not have Emotional Stability then you will end up getting very angry and saying and doing dumb shit. Being grounded is very important in this practice. Read more »

“I Am Feeling Amazingly Sexual Today!”

I am feeling amazingly sexual today. Hard to describe exactly. But several things “came together” that have really skyrocketed my sexuality as a male. Let me explain…..

First, I am continuing my practice of semen retention and it is one of the reasons that I am feeling this incredible surge in well-being. I am “connecting” with people more than ever (men and women) and have a seemingly endless energy probably due to the increase in my testosterone. My wife has noticed this energy as well.

I have recently updated my resume and have begun a job-search in earnest. Had a very strong lead yesterday and applied. Hoping for at least an interview! My mood has increased ten-fold!

Listening to some relaxing music this morning and just had the urge to remove my boxers and place two fingers of my left hand on my perineum. Pressed in a little hard and just chilled this way for a while (perhaps 20 to 30 minutes). Oh my! The energy I could feel circling my body into my fingertips, into the lower groin and back around was incredibly stimulating. There was a distinct “pulse” that was not my heartbeat!

All-in-all, I am thankful I was created a male! There is this sexual “energy” pervading the air as well as myself now. If you can tune-into it, it is incredible! Combine this with the 24/7 sexual energy which is inherent in all males (and females for that matter), makes for a world that is “rocking” with sexual enchantment! Read more »