Not getting results, please read, need some help

Pretty much every post here is positive, or is just series of instructions that wont work for everyone. All the “craziest orgasm of my life” posts seem to have some element of luck, and more often have had some form of anal play. These people usually achieve the super o in a very short period of time and they really dont say anything specific that has helped me. I have read countless articles here and on the forum and it seems like there is no silver bullet. I get strong involuntaries that can feel nice but its rare to feel any sort of pleasure for more then a second.

All this talk about letting go of expectations was helpful and I have made headway, but after a certain point you gotta ask yourself, is this actually getting better or are am I just telling myself it is? There is definitely some kind rewiring definitely going on, and I see some kind of potential, but standard penile pleasure is still better by far.

I have tried abstaining from the aneros which has helped before, but I just had almost a week off and had a dull session. I have tried not masturbating for extended periods and honestly it doesnt help, I think I get closer when I have been mastubating more often to be honest because of a higher baseline libido. When I go without ejaculatory orgasms my libido drops noticeably.

Random involuntaries all day long and near aless orgasms

Lately after my sessions, I will get involuntaries, twitches, and quivers at random. If I am sitting down, all I have to do is slowly rock my legs side to side and barely contract my pc and the involuntaries will start.

They are very pleasurable and feel similar to that warm and tingly feeling that you get in your taint when having sex. I almost instantly get an erection and its fucking awesome.

I have yet to have a super o yet, but I already feel an across the board increase in my sexual satisfaction. Stronger libido, stronger erections, stronger orgasms and I am more in tune with my body. I have never been more sexually satisfied in my life.

Early this morning, I had a 40 minute session and even though I didnt orgasm, I find myself very clear and zen after my sessions. Even If I never have the super o, its been a clear positive to my sexual satisfaction.

Not to tute our own horns, but there are very few people on the planet that understand this and their bodies at the level we do. Shit, even the scientific community doesnt even understand it. I know prostate play has been around for a long time, but it feels cool to be on the cutting edge of something that people are apprehensive to. Its like being the first wave of people who got blowjobs in history before it became a standard sexual act.

Is the Eupho an upgrade from the Helix?

Based on what I have read, the helix is usually the most recommended for beginners to learn. I have had mine for 2 months and have used it maybe 20 times. The first week I got it I used it every day, but didnt get anything out of it, but after that I was able to get random short lived involuntaries on occasion, and now I have strong long lasting involuntaries that feel *nice* but are not orgasms. I tend to feel my best sensations when the device is moving. The doesnt hurt when its in, but putting it in and taking it out doesnt feel great.

Im thinking the eupho will glide better because its thinner. I hear many people say the Eupho gives the best orgasms.

I also tend to know whether a session will be a dud or not within a few minutes. My best session was after a week of no aneros. Seems for me that its not as intense with daily use.

Best session ever! Found the “sweet spot”

Have had the helix for 2 months, probably 15-20 sessions in. Today I had an hour session that was amazing. At the peak of my session, I was able to have a 2 minute long p wave that had me moaning.

I was able to prolong this feeling by finding the sweet spot. Whenever you find the right balance of PC/sphincter contraction and start getting involuntaries, try to “hold it in place”. I found this sensitive spot and held it there and the buzzing/involutaries just got stronger and more intense. It felt like something was vibrating inside me and my whole body is shaking. Then while I held it in place with my sphincter, I started very lightly contracting my PC muscle in a waving motion. Every time I would release the sphincter muscle, the muscles would slow down the buzzing but a huge flash of warmth and electricity goes through my lower body. I then lightly squeeze the PC muscle again and the buzzing and involuntaries start up again. I probably went from flaccid to rock hard 5 times. I could feel an orgasm coming on, but not an ejaculation.

The feeling of contractions of an orgasm sensation, but all mainly centered in the prostate, PC, sphincter. Still felt in my penis, but not like a traditional orgasm.

Almost there!

No super o yet, but getting pleasure and zen like state

Have had my helix for 2 months. First insertion was uncomfortable and, but after some practice, this is no longer an issue. I eventually got to point where I could trigger involuntary contractions, but they would only last a few seconds at a time. Then I could keep the involuntaries coming for longer periods but no pleasure. Then I could get intense involunatries with mild pleasure, but no eroticism/horniness. Now I am at the point where I get really horny and warm, strong involuntaries, moderate pleasure, rock hard erections on and off, heavy breathing, tingling, small amount of pre cum, and immediately upon insertion I feel super relaxed and at peace. Its a meditative like sense where every subtle feeling is amplified. After my sessions, I feel very relaxed even not having orgasms. Its like that feeling after getting out of a hot tub and showering off and laying down on your couch. The desire from wanting penile stimulation is different from the desire of prostate/anal stimulation. You kind of have to learn to separate the two.

I also have noticed that my dreams are much more vivid and I dont think its a coincidence. Been having crazy dreams.

Also, If I start with the aneros, I can take it out and go aless once things get started. So I usually go an hour with the aneros, then take it out and I can continue to have sensations indefinitely. I only have stop when my legs get tired.

Helix doesnt have enough movement. Eupho vs Tempo?

Bought a helix trident and have made some head way, but after some experimentation, I think I need a thinner toy with more movement. It is just to bulbous and doesnt have enough movement imo. I think tempo’s stainless steel will feel awesome and the thin base will allow great movement.

I have read that the eupho is slimmer then the helix and that it moves more.

The only time I have had a p wave was with a plug that had no p tab. The p tab seems to not really matter for me and that is was is making me lean towards the tempo. I also like how small it is.

What do you recommend?

Helix trident is too long. P tab doesnt make contact

So I have experimented with the helix and have used it for a few sessions but I am having a few issues.

First, its too long for my anatomy. It goes well past the sweet spot. Second its curving is too aggressive imo and isnt very comfortable removing. Third the p and k tab dont make contact. I feel like it too aggressively makes contact past the prostate which hinders its movement and over stimulates akin to death grip.

I would consider the eupho as its dimensions seem better, but its even longer then the helix. If the eupho was only 3 inches long it would be perfect. Like a eupho “jr” would be ideal for me.

Any suggestions?

Tips? New Helix Trident

So I have had experience with plugs and super ts, but never non ejaculatory/super o. About a month ago, I was using an off brand plug shaped like an aneros and started to get involuntaries. I used it like an aneros and started to get mild pleasurable sensations. One of the sessions I got a single p wave that felt amazing, buy most of the time I get to the involutaries that go up and down in intensity and that is that. I decided to buy an actual helix trident as it was designed for the such.

I got it today and used it for about 90 minutes. You know when you get it about half way in and it just pulls itself in? That sensation felt amazing and the involuntaries came immediately. I laid around and had some mild pleasure, but nothing crazy. I also think it will take a few sessions to adjust to the different shape as it felt different. It is pretty snug. Slight discomfort taking it out due to the shape.

I will occasionally get an erection a few times during the session which feels nice, but more like a traditional orgasm feeling. I have only once gotten a p wave which was like a pulse of electricity through the spine and that small taste of p wave was more pleasurable then any single sensation ever.

Blue balls pain

Rewiring and didnt want to have a standard ejaculation so its been 5 days and after todays aneros session, I started to get that lower abdomen/groin pain just like when you get blue balls. Honestly really uncomfortable right now.

What should I do? Thinking I need to “clear the pipes”

First P wave! Mental health benefits

In the past few sessions, I have learned how to trigger the involuntaries but I would try to force the super o. I would end up getting the full body shaking, but only with mild pleasure. I tried the “do nothing” method when the involuntaries started and it really transferred the buzzing to my pelvis and genitals. I started to get an erection and I could hear my blood rushing. The involuntaries started feeling REALLY good. The buzz of electricity went whole body and all of the sudden I got the most single pleasureful jolt of lightning of my life go through my spine. Things started to ramp down and I wasnt able to get back to that point. Most productive session yet.

Another thing I have noticed is my mental state since using the aneros. I feel so much more clear headed. I barely have the desire to watch porn anymore. It has also changed my outlook on sex and relationships. Casual sex seems so pointless now and I feel like it has removed a distraction in the process of finding a romantic partner. Im not thinking about sex so much. It is meditative, and even on sessions without much pleasure, I feel energized and clear. I dont know if its related, but I have been dreaming almost every night. I just feel more in tune with my body.