I’m having a hard time focusing on breathing and the aneros at the same time. Also not entirely sure what I should be doing to achieve the “quivering-wave… almost as if one is sobbing” described in the breathing section of the getting started page on the aneros wiki.
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New to the aneros and need some advice
I bought the aneros prograsm because I thought that the size would work for me – and it indeed does! The size seems perfect for me, very filling, I don’t feel I bought the wrong one as I’m experienced in anal play. I just seem to have trouble with the clenching process. My first session wasn’t perfect, but I don’t at all go in with high expectations I just relaxed and did a few contractions. I am just wanting some beginner advice, how long to wait and how much effort I should put into the contractions. Are there any positions which are particularly magical? For me the knees down and lying down seems most effective, but I’d like to try others. Would love to hear if given that my first session was ok (but I had to kind of vibrate the thing with my hand, and rub my dick a bit, so a more conventional orgasm) that it is possible for me to get there?
Lack of sleep
Hi There lately the prostate has been so active particularly at night sleep has been difficult,i am sure a lot of you guys find the same thing,i wonder how you guys cope with a raging prostate when trying to sleep ,i would love some feedback.
Euphos Syn – push/pull
Hey, I’m somewhat new to all of this. I bought a Euphos Syn a few weeks ago and have used it probably 10 times. I love it but I get the most pleasure and stimulation when I manually push/pull it almost all the way out. Is this something that just takes time to find different sensations or should I look into a larger model? I definitely want to expand my collection eventually.
My prostate isn’t sensitive. What can I do?
I’ve had a lot of experience with anal play but I’ve had very little sensation from prostate massaging. Most of my experience has been with large toys trying to achieve the full feeling. Is there a specific aneros model you’d recommend for someone like me with a very insensitive prostate? Any other tips and tricks to increase sensitivity?
Do Nothing. How much nothing is the right amount?
So I’ve been trying the Do Nothing method a lot lately and I’ve had some great results, but I know there’s more, and I also know that I’m constantly over analyzing what’s happening while it’s happening because I’m not sure what contractions I should let happen versus which ones I should be fighting.
For me once the pleasure starts to build at all a number of different things start going on. My PC muscles will try to clench as well as my anus, my left leg/butt tenses up, and my hips start to thrust more and more forward. These are all somewhat involuntary in that they just happen automatically, but I can try to fight them off and relax. But I don’t know if I should.
A lot of the advice is to surrender to the experience, which to me means that I should let these things happen. But a lot of advice also advocates being totally relaxed, which to me means that I should try to keep my body from tensing at all. I’m ver confused.
Is there some tensing up that’s ok? Or should I fight to keep every muscle relaxed? What’s the right way to do this?
Experienced a Dry O but can’t repeat
About a month ago I experienced a true Dry O. It felt just like a penile orgasm but was totally dry. I even posted about it here.
I really enjoyed it because the “regular” orgasms I get with my Aneros never feel like I’m going over the edge and alsways leave me desperate to cum.
I usually get those regular orgasms by clenching more and more as the pleasure builds. But I got the Dry O from more of a Do Nothing method. (I tried to do nothing but some contractions couldn’t be helped).
Ever since then I’ve been trying to have another dry o but it’s just not working out. I’ve been employing the do nothing method and I’m getting good feelings but they aren’t getting me there.
Any advice would be great
My incredible journey
I’m finally here after years of surfing these forums but never interacting, to tell my tale. I, like many of you stumbled upon these little plastic pieces of voodoo while browsing some adult content. I was immediately intrigued when I saw men seizing up with pleasure. I knew I had to do it. I sat on the idea for a year or two until I moved out from my folks house. Then I made my move. They were available at the local adult store. I picked myself up a helix syn. Seemed to be the go to choice for beginners. I remember those early sessions. Sitting with the thing inside me wondering when I was supposed to be launched into this magical euphoria. Nothing ever came. I sat on the toy (no pun intended) for a couple of months and put it away in a drawer.
This is where it gets good. I’ll never forget the first sensations. Suddenly feeling something deep inside my coming alive at the toys will. My roomies had left for the day and I was alone to explore myself. I got close to what I thought were P waves and from there I was hooked. Those first sensations were almost 4 years ago now. And I’m proud to say to you all, that I’ve become a fully re-wired man. The forums don’t lie to you. When you notice patterns in the advice you’re receiving online, follow it. I remember my first super orgasm. I had graduated to the program from my helix syn. I found that it slid into me easier and started working faster and stronger than the other one. The super orgasm I acquired was thanks in part to the amount of videos I’d seen of men bringing themselves to that point. But it blew me away, and only furthered my addiction to my own pleasure. Not long after the super o’s, did I start to experience the Aless.
Any suggestions for male/guided audio for aneros or prostate play to help with arousal ?
Hi everyone, I’ve been finding it a little difficult to find audios for arousal other than random binaural beats and some users aneros audio experiences let me know if there’s anything you would recommend or want to share that helps you with your arousal 🙂
Getting close I think, I came some but did not have any orgasm….
SO ive been paying with the Progasm for a few months now and have had some frustrating times and some really pleasurable times but have not really had any results. This seems normal from what ive gathered, but yesterday I found a position that works for me where I was just bent over the bathroom counter and was using the progasm with my hand and applying a lot of pressure slightly forward and back on my P spot. I looked down as I heard a dribble on the floor and noticed I squirted a bit and it felt really good but it wasn’t an orgasm. Is it normal to maybe cum a bit but not feel a full orgasm?