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I don’t feel anything unless I clench

My sessions in the last few months have been nothing short of amazing, and I would say that what I’m experiencing are orgasms. But with each one I’m always in a state where I never really feel like I’ve gone “over the edge” like in a traditional orgasm. I get intense pleasure, a hard involuntary clench that can least for 30s or so and build into another one, but I never have that same feeling of satisfaction I get from a normal penile orgasm or that feeling of going passed the point-of-no-return. And I don’t really get the pulsing feeling that I get when I ejaculate (I keep reading that people feel like they are cumming even though they aren’t). I get some pulsing but it’s not the same. At best it “almost” feels like I’m cumming but not quite.

So I did some reading and what I keep hearing is that people are staying relaxed and not clenching, and that’s what gets them over the edge. But in my experience I don’t feel anything at all unless I clench a bit. And then once the pleasure starts I start clenching even more. It’s almost involuntary. I can force myself not to clench if I try, but it’s not what my body is telling me to do. My body wants to clench harder and harder as the pleasure builds. I’ve tried forcing myself to relax and let go of the clench in these moments but as soon as I do the pleasure stops. Read more »

Wow this made sex so much better? But also what is happening to me lol

I’ve been using an aneros for a little over a year now and had a few orgasms and a couple super os (but only when high and I can’t reproduce it anymore?). I’ve had a few partners in the past year but nobody that I really clicked with sexually and now I’m having the most insane sensations when bottoming with my new boyfriend. The second time we hooked up my abs felt tingly and went to sleep and today my hands cramped up and both my arms and my face went to sleep. It felt insanely good don’t get me wrong but also what is happening and has anybody else experienced anything similar?

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A milestone!

I’ve been on the anal exploration wagon for a long time, but have been more seriously on the prostate pleasure path for 14 months now thanks to lots of different changing circumstances. I’m 34.

A couple of days ago I had a breakthrough moment.

My girl went to the office for the first time in months leaving me for a whole day of me time. I think I used it wisely: I spent the early morning with a coffee and a spliff of c13 haze.

I then made sure i had no distractions or interruptions, post morning bowel movement, for a few hours.

I prepped my bedroom with extra cushions, towels, lube, Noise cancelling headphones, near total darkness and mindgasm. I also hadn’t had sex or touched myself for 3 days.

On my back with knees bent and a cushion under my back/arse, I had the aneros progasm in for about 30 minutes before I focussed my thoughts on it. And then I registered it was there but did nothing and got some very pleasurable sensations after another 20 minutes or so, then it all disappeared. That’s kind of where I’ve been with the aneros for a year. So I took the aneros out, smoked a little more weed and poked around gently with my njoy wand. I found a very pleasurable position but felt like I was forcing it so I went back to the aneros and did some very gentle contractions on my side for about 10 minutes and all of a sudden I was rock hard, starting to feel some very rhythmic involuntary contractions, then I had an amazing dry orgasm. Read more »

I thought I was gona die

Last night I got the closest I’ve ever gotten to a prostate orgasm. I was right on the edge, my entire body was shaking like jack hammer. My heart was beating very very fast which had me a bit nervous. It was pure bliss and pleasure. Then my body started to go numb. I got that pins and needles feeling in my entire body almost immediately. The pleasure kept increasing but I decided to roll over and stop because I literally couldn’t feel my body and that pins and needles feeling is very uncomfortable especially when it’s your entire body. It felt like my body just broke and honestly I thought I might die. I thought I was having a heart attack or something but luckily it calmed down and I tried again, not sure why I tried again after that scare. I reached a similar level of pure bliss, heaven level pleasure but couldn’t get over the edge. It seems like with each session I make considerable progress. Maybe next time it will happen.

I do want to continue with this although last night was a bit scary. I’ve never felt my body shake so violently and my heart beat that aggressively. I’m thinking it may have been from the weed that I smoked. I think weed can increase heart rate. Also that numbness/pins and needles feeling was ridiculous, never felt it before in my entire body all at once. Read more »

Am i making progress towards super o?

I tried the ‘do nothing technique’ while listening to binaural beats from shibby. I relax as much as i can while maintaining steady breathing and focusing on the good plesureble feeling. After few minutes, my penis start to get hard and involuntry contractions happens on it own. It start to clench and squeeze the aneros inside me and it become stronger over time. I tried to focus on the throbbing of my pc muscle inside me as it make me squirming with pleasure a little bit. It lasted long enough for me to enjoy that squeezing feeling but i dont think it is good enough to be called a prostate orgasm or super o. There is some precum flowing from the tip of my penis but not so much. So, any advice experiences prostate player can gives me?

To what degree can you exercise with a toy inside you?

I’m new to prostate and anal play. Picked up the syn trident on Halloween weekend with some water based lube. Been having a fun time with it, but do need to focus more on figuring out how to have fun *without* resorting to normal masturbation. I’m able to get the toy in without issue, though haven’t worn it too terribly long (maybe 30 minutes, an hour tops? Not for pain/discomfort, just doing different things). How long can/should I wear one for consecutive time?

Part of that is really honing in on what arouses me and how to really activate that more naturally.

One of the things which naturally does is most exercise. So I’m wondering if I can safely exercise with it in? Yoga and bodyweight exercises are perfectly fine, though I do also have a kettlebell.

Use during sex with my GF

So I really enjoy using my aneros helix during sex with my gf…I have never used it solo…but really enjoy getting oral while inserted. I would like to incorporate it more during sex…but I can’t stay erect while using it during sex…does anyone else have this issue or any advice.