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My journey and nice progress this week

Hello everyone,
ive been reading so much usefull stuff here and decided i post my journey too. And sorry for my bad english and spelling sometimes, im trying my best 😉

It started at 1st ocotober (how times flies lol) with a prograsm which was obivous a bad choice for myself. After reading more stuff i got the Eupho Trident Classic, with this toy i got some “results” it was nice but nothing “wow”.

Then after more studying this reddit, i got myself the Helix Trident classic on 1st November and this is where i got better results.

1. I needed to learn to completly relax and kinda embrace these feelings. I was just rushing things and not enjoing the moment. I think everyone needs to learn this lesson^^
2. After 2 weeks my prostata really awakend and had so many good times and nice feelings.
Stomach/pelvic area got warm, sometimes a rush and in between dry orgasms with alot of precum lol
3. And started doing Kegel excercises since 2 weeks (srsly guys do it) Read more »

I’m Stuck, But I’d Like to Offer My Progress.

Hi there, I’m a lurker but I’ve decided to share my progress in hopes of getting some advice in what to do next in order to progress. This could also help others too.

So far the most successful method I’ve done is this:

1.) Put it in and relax completely, not even PC contractions. Remember to breathe deeply and with each exhale let go of all tension.

2.) I keep doing it until it feels like I don’t have a toy up my butt. I heard some get a sort of “tickle” in that general area. I don’t get a tickle but more of a noticeable change in feeling.

3.) Now this is when I start playing with my PC muscles. For me, I keep the same rhythm of breathing deeply and slowly, with each inhale I slowly contract then hold. Then with each exhale I slowly relax. After doing this 10-20 times I’ll relax from a contraction and start getting mild involuntary contractions.

4.) Once I get there I just hold the level of contraction that started the involuntaries. I found that playing with my nipples here had great results.

5.) Now here’s where I’m stuck. Once I’m holding that contraction the involuntaries start to feel better and better. The problem is that once they get to a certain point, my PC muscles start contracting like crazy, and I don’t know whether to just let it happen or to try and relax back down to the point that started them. I’ve tried both, and the feelings never got any better. I’m yet to have a prostate orgasm, that I’m sure of. Read more »

Edging question

If edging in the morning and you reach climax and leave it just a tiny bit late to hold back the spunk and a tiny bit leaks out, does this ruin the mood for the day in regards to prostate play? I’ve not ejaculated for several days to play today, is the opportunity now ruined and I should have just blew my load?

How do I reach an orgasm with my Helix?

Recently got a Helix Syn and I’m just wondering how to reach those good feelings with it. I’ve seen stuff online but it is pretty vague. I have managed to reach involuntary contractions, but all they do is make my penis pulse instead of feeling good. Are there any steps or tutorials for this? Any tips on how to make it feel good? Honestly, the only pleasure I’ve gotten from using it can be recognized when I manually masturbate with it inserted.

what position is best ?

tonight is night 2 of using my helix syn that just came in the mail. it only feels like its barely scratching the sweet spot compared to my makeshift toy i used to use. im going to get some work done with it inside for about an hour and then ill really focus on the pc squeezes. what position maximizes how deep it goes and pleasure for you guys ?

And after 7 years I think I’m getting somewhere 😁

So I had some free time and wass like “ah what the heck” lets just chill and see what happens. No high hopes as it never works. Just relax and enjoy it for what It is.

So I did…..

I set a timer for 45 mins and id stop there.

I lubed up and popped my Helix Syn in to place and layed on my bed. Completely naked and placed my feet up on the wall with my knees at around 90 degrees. Just relaxed for a while taking slow deep breaths.

After I got fully comfortable I slowly started squeeze my PC muscles and holding them for as long as I could as I relaxed I exhaled. I repeated this cycle having a good couple of breaths between squeezing. Eventually I started to feel a subtle warming right behind the pubic bone.

The best way I can describe it and I’m sure you’ll all know. That initial feeling where you’re like “oh, if carry on like this im going to cum” feeling.

It slowly grew and slowly went away. So I squeezeed again. It it came back.

I had a brief moment where It away went completely. But I stayed with it and It came back again this time every time I felt like it was as much of a warming feeling I was going to get I would squeeze again. And then relax. Read more »

Prostate milking

Hi everyone! I’m curious, do you think prostate milking with bigger toys can help or hurt the learning process of getting orgasms with the aneros (helix syn)? I had two sessions with orgasms in the last three weeks when I decided to invest time with the aneros but nothing more, even though I’ve been using it almost daily. I still feel like I’ve been lucky these two times and I struggle to understand what I did or didn’t do that could have helped, except that I remember humping.

Before I got into the aneros, I was anal stretching almost everyday but I’ve slowed down quite a lot since then. I’m thinking getting back into it more in the next few days to see it if makes a difference. Also, I got into prostate milking too and I’ve had two sessions so far with a dildo and managed to get that cum dripping (without any orgasms though). It was fun and I thought it could help rewiring my brain. I should also add that I’ve got a njoy pure wand and tried it too a few times but little success compared to the dildo. Do you think I should stick with the aneros only or should I stop playing with the aneros everyday, continue to try manual stimulation and go back to the aneros when I’ll be more in the mood? Read more »

Best Aneros + fleshlight combo for a new user?

I recently bought a 6″ dildo for anal stimulation, but it does not do it for me. The amount of preparation require for it not to hurt and the amount of finessing it takes to hit my prostate is just not worth it. After doing a lot of research, Aneros seems to be the most efficient way to stimulate the prostate. I have also been looking into fleshlights, but there are no clear resources for picking out a good one. I have seen recommendations for the Tenga 3D, but I’m not sure what makes it better than others. If anyone has recommendations for fleshlights, or has a better resource to find what’s right for me, let me know. I am also wondering what Aneros model is best for me. I am not very experienced with Prostate stimulation. It will mostly but used solo to enhance my orgasms when masturbating, but occasionally with my girlfriend during sex. The site somewhat walks through the models, but it is hard to find what is right for me. Any help would be appreciated!

EDIT: Also, what are some good reccomendations for lube to use with Aneros? I am purchasing some Sliquid Silk which is water and Silicone based – will that be safe to use with an Anerox silicon toy? I have heard some conflicting things about it. Also, what is the best type of lube to use with a fleshlight?

For my gay boys… Super Os replacing meaningless causal sex?

Speaking for myself… I’m a 31yo gay man who has been very sexual throughout my lifetime. I love sex. Love being a bottom and get compliments from every single man who has fucked my ass before. Some of them said it’s shaped to get docked down, stuff like that.

Ok… let’s move forward. I achieved my first super O about three months ago, which I had addressed in some posts here. YES – It does open a brand new world to you. It’s like cracking that bone you didn’t know you had the power to. Pretty intense stuff

I’m a single man. I used to look for hook ups every time I felt lonely, horny or just in need of some ass fucking. However since my first Super O all that desire for man has gone away… of course I am still super turned on by man. They are trash, but awesome in bed and man x man sex is really incredible. True raw connection

The fact is. No man in the world (and trust me, I’ve been with a lot of them) has ever taken me to the level of pleasure my Aneros does. I achieved super Os during sex with only one man in my life but it wasn’t 10% of what my Aneros provides me. Read more »

Just ordered my first Aneros – Helix Syn Trident!

Hey guys! For years I’ve been fascinated (okay, more like obsessed) with the idea of getting an Aneros toy to experience what I hope to be the bliss of prostate play. Besides the fact that I’ve never had the guts to share this with my wife, it was always the cost that held me back from taking that first step. Well gentlemen, today I found the Helix Syn Trident on sale at Lovehoney at 20% off and I couldn’t resist! If only my wife knew what’s about to land on our doorstep tomorrow. This should be interesting 😉[Helix Syn Trident (Lovehoney)](https://www.lovehoney.com/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/prostate-massagers/p/aneros-helix-syn-trident-silicone-prostate-massager/a24600g74478.html)