Question: Just bought my first aneros.

Like the title says, I bought the helix syn today (or whatever the red and black one is called) and should be getting it in the mail eventually. I had experimented with prostate play before but could never get *anything* to happen at all. Now that I’ve finally bought it, what are some things you guys think I should know for a beginner? I’m ready to dive into this head first now that I’ll have a proper toy that can do stuff. Should I be watching porn? Should I listen to some erotic audio while watching porn? How long should I hold off on masturbating before using the toy? Should I edge before using it, if so for how long? I just want to be sure I don’t mess up my first experience with it or anything as I will only get the chance to use it very rarely.

Sleepiness, Boredom, and Arousal

Hello everyone,

I’ve been using my Helix Syn for the past 5 months with some decent results.

Relaxation and arousal are often cited as key elements to success. However, I have been having two issues with this. First, I can easily relax, but this causes me to quickly fall asleep in the middle of my sessions, which is not exactly conducive to making progress.

Second, if I instead concentrate heavily on maintaining arousal and focusing on sensations, I become mentally exhausted rather quickly.

Many users report that they require 2-3 hour sessions to make progress, especially at the beginning of the journey. I can barely last an hour without either falling asleep, becoming bored, or becoming mentally exhausted and distracted.

Any tips on how to overcome this challenge would be greatly appreciated. Thanks !

Found it, then lost it! Has this ever happened to you?

Last month, I arrived at my first prostate orgasms ever, after a month or two of really working at it. It was amazing, 10 in a row and all dry. The day after I didn’t have to even try to find the spot, my body just knew what to do. I was even having dry orgasms during sex, it was incredible!

Since that time though it’s like I lost it. Had mild success here and there but I’ve had to fight it. Now I went on vacation for Christmas and returned to find that I couldn’t find the spot at all! I don’t seem to be responding like I did, not feeling p-waves and I’m trying to retrace my steps. Earlier on I could even feel p-waves just during the day while a-less, and I’m currently struggling to feel anything at all.

Could I just be out of practice, that I forgot the common signals? I know it wasn’t a fluke, and I know I’m capable now, but I’m admittedly a little frustrated. I have noticed that I haven’t felt my arousal connect properly, and I have to wonder if that’s part of the equation. But how to become physically horny, and not just mentally horny? I’m not sure. I can get excited from penile stimulation obviously, but it’s difficult at the moment to get excited just by thought.

Wisdom and feedback are welcome. Help me reach that peak again!

estim-electrode?

out of curiosity…. is there a estim-electrode that hits the prosate directly? Is it of use? If there is a anerosstyled electrode, will the estim add to the experience?

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Frustrated (model help)

I started off with the original MGX and it was ok, but I wasn’t getting the prostate stimulation everyone was describing, so I thought that it might be too small since I can take larger other toys, so I bought the program. That was uncomfortable and didn’t really hit the spot at all.
After reading about the new trident series, I just bought the helix syn and was disappointed by its smaller size. I should have looked better at the measurements.
At the price point of these, I don’t want to keep buying different ones. I like the feeling I get from my MGX but the p tab digs into my skin and hurts.
Any recommendations?
I’m 6’ 215lbs

Condoms

Those that use confirms, is it mostly a benefit of easier clean up? Or have you also found more comfort/easier time reaching super O with them as opposed to without?

is a aneros worth it compared to what i allready have

i have a normal $40 massager, which i am still trying to figure out how to use and i only managed to recently find the prostate, but ive never been able to have the experience i did then that 1 time i used my hand and fluked it, after that i havent been able to get the same result with the massager or my hand, its a normal prostate massager

so my question is, is a Aneros likely to help me achieve a prostate orgasm/massage? and would it be much easier then the one i was useing? (note my current one is manual and requires hand movement)

How long did it take for you to feel pleasure?

I’ve started to take the butt training seriously now. Been on and off for 2 months due to stress and personal issues, but I’ve playing with myself every day for the past 3 days.

I’m still weak and still get frustrated in my sessions and touch my pp, but I’m trying not to.

It doesn’t really feel that good. Sometimes I feel more prostate pleasure from touching my nipples than the thing itself!

I feel mild, mild pangs of pleasure.

At the start it felt intense but not pleasurable. Shaking, waves going through my body to my face, but not really pleasure.

Now it feels more like localized, kind of mild pleasure. It doesn’t really feel like much.

I feel weird because I think about inserting things into my butt 24/7 but I’m almost never in the mood for it. Even when I feel butt horny the setup and knowing my sessions don’t really satisfy me get in the way.

I just am finding it soooo hard not to get frustrated. Being a bottom slut (I’m not really a slut) conflicts with the anhedonia I feel from it has been messing with me.

Difference between super o and dry orgasms?

So I’ve reached a point I can have things that seem like orgasms through my dick, and it feels pretty nice but somewhat underwhelming compared to what everyone hyped it up to be. My penis goes kinda numb and I get a decent amount of pleasure. I think this is the dry orgasm? I can have multiple in each session. Anyways, I can now do it without the aneros after some practice, but is the super o different?

Routine

How many guys follow a specific routine leading up to aneros sessions? Lately for me it’s been to insert an nJoy large plug at least an hour before I start and continue to go about business letting the plug warm me up. It also helps me evacuate any lingering bowels for some reason. I then take it out and typically will hit a THC pen, take a hot shower and edge for a bit in the shower, followed up with some casual porn viewing and maybe more edging. At this point I’ll insert the aneros and watch a little tv while I let it settle, then watch more porn but not touch myself at all. I’ll start to get involuntaries about 30 min in at most and at that point I’ll turn porn off and put in some wireless ear buds and listen to some binaural beats. I’ve been doing this for the past couple sessions with some moderate success. Oddly enough the best time has been when I was laying in bed next to my wife.

What have you found works and doesn’t work in terms of routine?