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It really does pay to try different things.

As the title suggests, I cannot stress that changing things up no matter how little may give you great results. Example: For my last couple Aneros-less sessions, instead of teasing both my nipples, since my right arms been hurting, I teased just my left one.

I cannot tell you what a positive difference this has made! I may have been overstimulated with both, as before I was rudely interrupted with a work phone call (always silence your phone haha) I had 3 dry orgasms that all felt great.

So yeah TL;DR: Experiment with different things no matter how little the change.

What was the “aha” that put you over the edge?

I’ve seen a number of commenters talk about something they did differently that caused Aneros play to go from good to oh-wow-super-o. For example: a different model, a different body position, different lube, etc. For those who have had that “I tried this and everything changed” experience, what was the switch?

BTW, I’m enjoying myself with my current progress and experience, not being impatient or pushing for more; I’m just curious if there are any patterns here.

Huge orgasm using Progasm Ice, was it an anal/prostate orgasm or regular from grinding?

Ok so I just had an incredible orgasm. I basically popped in my Progasm Ice and started watching porn. I was wearing some tights and a leotard over it as that’s my fetish. I had it in for upwards of an hour doing the contractions and not feeling too much, but I noticed after a while that sort of air humping / moving my crotch up and down felt nice.

I continued this until I decided to go on my front, at which point I found that grinding my crotch against the bed and clenching my butt felt really quite good. Eventually I end up seeing this girl in the porn I was watching masturbating, she was incredible, and then as I started grinding more I started to get the feeling I would normally if I were close to orgasm.

Eventually it peaked and I came really hard, the whole thing was completely handsfree. The clincher for me is that I have never ever had a handsfree orgasm. I was most likely getting a bit of penile stimulation from grinding against the bed but was certainly getting good anal feelings too.

Was this an prostate orgasm? At least I’m heading in the right direction. What should I try next?

Incorporating a partner

I’ve been really intrigued by prostate play ever since I heard about the possibilities. My girlfriend is pretty uneasy about anything anal but after talking about it for a while she’s willing to try anything that doesn’t involve bare hands in the butt.

I was interested in something from Aneros after I heard the Sex with Emily episode about it, but from what I can tell those kind of work on their own from pelvic contractions. I feel like my big fantasy is for her to have complete control to “give” me these crazy orgasms. Does anyone have any ideas or relevant experiences?

Prostate orgasm or not ?

Hi guys,last night i’m used the aneros practice contraction and relaxation.

In the process of had sexual excitation,will have something feel a little erection and want to ejaculation.

At the same time start playing my nipples,after a while the feel obvious about ejaculation more and more.

Maintain more than 1 minute or more the want to ejaculation feeling.

The body start involuntary trembling uncontrollable.

Take a break of minutes, repeat the same again contraction,relaxation and slightly touch the nipple.

Happen again want to ejaculate feeling continuede.

This feeling very comfortable, don’t want to stop.

Is this Prostate orgasm or not ?

Thanks

First time is a charm

Posting for other first timers….: it does not have to take months!!!

Lurking here for some time, married man with kids. I explored manually a few times but felt this was really not getting anywhere. Eventually I figured out that walking into a sex shop and buying an Aneros would probably be worth it and would certainly save me the embarrassment from receiving a « special package at home » that I can’t explain to anyone: it ain’t Christmas time yet. Went ahead did It. Also bought a douche following « unexpected results » after manual stimulation. I don’t have alone time often: 5 kids, one wife. But I did this weekend (with only the younger kids around, I waited until bed time). Timing seemed right.

Prepped, showered, and got started. First I put it in backwards and ended up stimulating opposite to the prostate but switched it. Not much although I could feel that there was something to be discovered. Not particularly exciting aside from the novelty and like many others, I am not into gay sex and I had to overcome the « shame ». Well, let me tell you, it was worth it.

What happened is that after 30 minutes I though this wasn’t working so I smoked some weed (legal here). Not much, just a few puffs. I don’t smoke often, only a few times a year. Went back to my room. Read more »

First time was… kinda disappointing

So before I decided to buy an aneros, I decided to read up on it first. I read all about getting in the right mood, flexing different muscles (PC and anus muscles, forgive my I forgot the technical term for the latter one)

In the end I decided to buy a Helix Syn Trident and got to town with it. Admittedly I was really stoked to try it out so I couldn’t really get into the mindset of “try to focus on what you’re feeling” and instead focused mainly on the “what am I supposed to be feeling” and “why don’t I feel that”. When I plopped it in it felt nice, and I could feel it brushing against my prostate. But after a while, say like 20 seconds, I didn’t feel anything, it just sat there in my bum.
I tried to flex the right muscles, but still only got the pressure against my prostate sensation for a few half seconds at the time with quite a bit of time in between them. Also I had the idea that I had to flex those muscles really hard.

Sooo I think I’m still doing something wrong (apart from the right mindset) and I have no idea what…
Any veterans with some advice for a beginner in prostate play?

P.S. Don’t get me wrong the orgasm at the end while jacking off felt amazing

Questions from a first timer.

Recently picked up an aneros helix but i’m kinda nervous to try it, and I had some questions.
1) Ive heard things about the prostate “buzzing” wondering how long this lasts, and if it happens when you dont have it in.
2) Also heard about some users reporting sleep problems due to the buzzing or involuntary shaking.
I want to experience new things and new pleasure, but i’m concerned about some of this stuff.