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Anal play is a lot messier than what I’ve read

I've been messing around with an NJoy Pure Wand and Aneros Helix Syn for a few months now. Sometimes I can get a good feeling, but I haven't exactly had a fantastic time.

Part of that is because how much trouble it is to clean up afterwards.

I take a dump at least an hour before doing anything anal. I wash my asshole really well before putting anything in it. I have not used an enema, although I'm not sure that will change all that much.

When I finally pull either toy out, there are brown stains and maybe even a bit of shit on the toy. The smell is terrible. There's usually brown/watery stains on the towel when I'm finished, a mix of shit and lube. After thoroughly cleaning the Helix Syn with soap and water, it still has a pretty gross smell to it.

Last week, I used the Pure Wand and somehow triggered my system to shit everywhere. I ended up wiping my ass forever. I barely even had it inside me.

It's really hard to get horny and do anal play when I know how aggravating the cleanup is going to be. As you can tell, I'm frustrated, and I almost want to just stick with jerking off to avoid cleanup.

Tried for months, still hasn’t worked for me! Please advise…

So I've tried about once a week or once every other week for months now, and still have yet to have any success. The best I've done was using the aneros hypnosis file – I think having something give me instructions helps. However, I'll keep contracting and pushing and won't have anything like an orgasm. Sometimes it makes my bladder feel full, I will go and empty it and will have lost any desire at that point. More often than that, I will get the worst case of blue balls ever. Even a traditional o won't cure it. I never get erect, have precum or any type of orgasmic sensation, and really eventually just loose my desire. I'm open to any suggestions – unfortunately marijuana is not an option (I've heard it helps).

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Trouble getting aroused with Aneros (Helix)

Ok, so this seems to be my biggest issue or blocker. I am comfortable with it but any erection soon goes away. There's a short period of time when Aneros itself can get me hard and going but then it stops working.

I had some successes but they are quite elusive even when I do the same things. I had a pretty good series of P-waves (early in the session), this was what I was going after when I discovered it with another toy. Most notably I had woken up to a REM sleep boner and pretty serious involuntary contractions but it didn't lead nowhere. That was also my only success by lying on the bed.

Looking at porn doesn't seem to work but I had biggest success and hints of success while watching it. I could easily jerk off to it but it'll be 7 days since my last real orgasm. I don't get aroused easily throughout the day either which I would expect (maybe it's because of release by massaging?).

Any thoughts? I've been doing "do nothing" but sometimes I feel that I should pull my sphincter muscles together and hold to increase the intensity. On the other hand I worry that it actually might be too aggressive for me since I got it going at night with nothing inside and that's what prevents/stops my boner.

New to prostate play, and I had a quick question about lube.

Hi, I've recently started experimenting with the prostate, and while I haven't experienced the super-O, I definitely enjoy it, so I've decided to buy a toy. I think I've decided on the Aneros Helix Syn and for lube, I am thinking about this one. I wanted to run it past you to be absolutely positive that they are compatible, and maybe see if anyone had recommendations for a different water based lube.

Mental baggage blocking super-o?

Recently I've been having issues achieving super-o's, which used to come to me like second nature. I'm thinking either, the form of my "swing" is off (baseball analogy) or my mental state/personal problems are mentally blocking me from achieving the 4th state of arosal.

I'm very VERY bad at controlling my emotions and ignoring my stressors. IRL I suppress my emotions rather than confront them and use them as a strength, and I'm thinking this is stopping me from getting horny enough for a super-o.

From my experiences, my revo 2 or aneros will start stimulating the anal walls by my prostate, and contractions that "stroke" and "massage" the toy feels awesome, and this will awaken my prostate. I can feel when it's happening, and I usually have to "motivate" myself to get a super o. By motivate I mean maintaining heavy breathing, small hip movements, and dirty talk to myself. When these things happen I know I'm at the 4th level of arosal.

But they aren't happening. Instead my mind wanders off.

Any advice on how to let go of my baggage? My real life problems aren't going away any time soon, but I was able to achieve super o's before. Maybe I'm not doing enough "forplay" before the main event?

Thoughts?

Thanks guys

My personal experience with the Aneros Helix SYN

I purchased my first prostate massage toy, an Aneros Helix SYN, one and a half month ago and would like to share my personal journey with you. I haven't yet experienced an orgasm with it, but reading the Aneros wiki as well as personal experiences of other users helped me understanding my body better. Questions, comments and suggestions are welcome.

My pre-Aneros experience

One of my favorite things to do (if time permits) is watching porn without touching my penis. I like the warm, pulsating feeling, the feeling of my erect penis rubbing against the fabric of my underwear and I also enjoy the flow of pre-cum. I guess this started when I was a teenager and couldn't whip out my dick in front of the computer. I still do this sometimes until I got quite a bit of pre-cum in my pants. I have never experienced a hands-free orgasm in all these years. At some point I get so horny that I need to jerk off using my hands.

Sometime around 2008 I discovered a video of someone using an Aneros. Interest in Hand-free orgasms and prostate milking led me to exploring my own anal canal and prostate. I had (and have to this day) severe problems finding my prostate with my finger. I did manage to get a flow of pre-cum running, but I didn't find the whole experience very enjoyable. Although I didn't find a magical button that is giving me instant pleasure, I enjoyed getting to know my body a bit better. Read more »

How I had a (mostly) hands free traditional O using Helix and Binaural Beats (repost of comment from another thread)

This is the Binaural Beats I listened to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7CNhlUEndkc – I listened to it twice – and used the helix syn. The first time, I lay on my stomach, and the second time, on my back. About every 30 seconds, one of the frequencies goes super low and increases for the next 30 seconds. As it increases, I would contract the helix in, and when it resets low, I would relax and even push it out a little bit – and then contract it back in further and further for the next 30 seconds. By the time the 30 seconds were up, I would have the helix sucked in as far as it would go and I would start to shake, waiting for the next 'reset low'. I did manage to fall asleep for part of the time (hey! it's relaxing!, and I couldn't continue to contract and relax for almost the entire hour), but when I woke up, I started the contracting and relaxing again. Near the end of the second time, I pulled the base of my shaft down (stretching the skin) and came without touching my cock except for pulling the skin tight at the base.

Several months later and the Helix Syn still feels like nothing. Could it be too short to touch my prostate?

I've been using this thing about twice a week and still have yet to really feel anything amazing.

I've gotten to the point where my pelvic floor muscles are stronger and can hold tension longer – they used to be so weak I couldn't hold a contraction.

The only time I ever feel anything is when I'm on all fours. I can sort of do this twerking thing (man I hate that word) where my butt and thighs contract, but I can't say it feels great. If anything, it's just tiring.

I bought a glass Onyx the other day to toy around with. Although I could sometimes get it to feel really good, I largely couldn't feel much at all unless it went in really deep. Since this thing is longer than the Helix Syn, I'm wondering if the Syn could just be too short. I'm not tall or anything, just 5'11.

Any help is cool

Hygenic preparation: Is it better to use a full on enema or use the bulb enema?

As the title says, I'm debating whether I should use the full kit-and-kaboodle of an enema (bag, hose, plenty of warm water) or the small bulbous enemas for a quick squirt or two to clean the immediate area prior to playing with the Aneros.

Any suggestions, or personal anecdotes as to which method is better? I've used a full enema kit before where I'd drain the whole bag full of warm water and then immediately release for a more thorough cleaning, though the removal process can take a while. I've never used the bulb enemas before, though I presume they're a lot quicker but probably not as thorough.

Then again, would a full enema be needed considering you're only dealing with the first 4-5 inches of your rectum to reach the prostate?