A Simple Chastity “Trick”

Introduction
Sometimes, even while wearing a “chastity cup”, I can sometimes fall-into a fantasy where I end a semen retention “run” with a female-assisted slow edging and an ejaculation. If I am not “ready” to ejaculate but do anyway, have I failed in chastity?

The Solution
While starting to listen to a nice track this morning for prostate health, I made sure that my box of tissues was completely out-of-reach. Usually, I put the box close-by “just-in-case”. But invariably (and I am now in Day 6 of SR) I could be tempted to rub-one-out. So I was sure not to have tissues or a towel or anything else nearby with which to clean-up. And guess what? It worked! Following an early-morning dream sequence, I awoke with a very arousing erection and felt like I could want to ejaculate. But still wearing my Mueller cup and feeling the pressure building-up underneath from my stiffening cock, there was nothing I could do but to remain in chastity! It was very frustrating yet at the same time so rewarding!

Conclusion
At any time, but especially in later-day SR, removing all ejaculation “assists” will greatly help to remain in your self-imposed chastity! I know from experience that having clean-up materials nearby can be very risky! So just keep them away! Remove the temptation!

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“An Easy Choice For Chastity”

Background
I write often about male chastity. In particular, the use of an athletic jockstrap with a hard cup, what I like to refer to as a “chastity cup”. It is such a part of my daily “routine” that most nights, I either wear one throughout the night or only part of the night.

Why Chastity?
Wearing these cups assists me in many ways. For starters, they absolutely prevent masturbation with a resultant ejaculation! That is a major benefit with an arousing erection, especially since I have trouble keeping my hands to myself! By keeping my “zone” off-limits, I can’t pleasure myself.

I have tried a “cock cage” for a while; I have a genuine CB-6000S and wear it from time to time. But when compared to the cup, there is much more preparation for use and maintenance required. Aside from the possibility of having a “keyholder” (which I did not do), there is not much more that I can recommend the cage over the cup. Yes, it is probably easier to “hide” a cage out in public (which I’ve done) because wearing a cup can definitely cause a “bulge” which may be noticeable. Also, the cages (whether plastic or metal) are significantly more expensive than a cup.

Another advantage of wearing a “cup” is daily management. Putting-on a cup is as easy as putting on a pair of underwear. Hygiene is simple too: for me, usually a weekly washing is all that is required. With about six cups in rotation, they all stay quite fresh and clean throughout the week. Read more »

[Advice] Anal Training – What is working best for you?

I'[m] moving more and more into anal play,

I honestly think i’m still a novice in this journey (prostate play) but i’m at the stage where fingers are not enough anymore and I might went a bit big on the last toys I got… [Rock Off Bad boy](https://www.amazon.com/Rocks-Off-Bad-Boy-Black/dp/B00CM893HO) and [Aneros Progasm](https://www.amazon.com/Glass-Aneros-Progasm-Prostate-Stimulator/dp/B00AH6TPGW) but not by much. Love how they are filling me but still uncomfortable a bit and not fully enjoying my sessions.

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What worked best so far for you in terms of stretching exercises?

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Ie: Buttplug sessions, relaxation, natural lube (coconut oil VS industrial lube)? etc etc…

not a super o but pretty good ones

after a month or so from my last go, i had a bit of time to try again. I had abut 45 min or so. Once inserted, it only took a few minutes to start… – i have been in chastity on and off since last Friday. I was nn my bed, just doing nothing, breathing and feeling the sensations on my P spot. Slow movements started and flexing trying to find the right area.. and i a had an O. Not a major one, but pretty good. And for some reason i got out of bed and laid on the floor. Knees up and feet against the wall. that felt good.. i could feel it building again , and i laid on my side.. yep… here we go.. it happened again.. i bit stronger, and lasted longer. i was dripping precum pretty good. But i did not ejac. I do know i was out of breath. and it happened. I was a bit tired after.

Is My Erection Distracting Me?

I’ve been using my Helix Syn for about two months or so now, though somewhat infrequently due to lowered libido from meds. Despite that though, I’ve been making noticeable progress with each subsequent session.

Last night, for instance, I had some pretty strong twitches all over my body, though it lacks any pleasure to go along with it. From what I can tell, this is normal, and sooner or later I’ll begin feeling something from it.

The last two sessions, however, I noticed a slight problem: As soon as things begin getting good, I’ll become erect. This wouldn’t be an issue (actually I think it adds a lot to the experience) except that whenever that happens, all pleasurable feelings cease. My best guess as for why this is happening is that when I become erect, my attention turns to my penis instead of my prostate, thus causing me to lose all feeling.

I’m curious to know if this has happened to anybody else, and if there’s any advice for me, or if it is similar to the spasms in that it will get better in time.

Any and all help is appreciated.

Thank you.

“Ejaculation By Degrees”

Background
While lying in bed early this morning, unable to get back to sleep, I began to dwell on some basic male biology: In particular, the function of the male reproductive system and all that entails: masturbation, ejaculation and orgasm. And what I discovered was not earth-shattering but quite interesting. Male reproduction, by definition, is designed to be portable. So we are able to “service” an available female any time, any place. That is our function in this world. We are all familiar with the basic mechanics of sex. But do we realize just how powerful and portable it is? Let me elaborate….

Taking It Slower
Of course, the end ‘goal’ is an ejaculation, we all know that. But along the way, there are numerous things that can happen. Take masturbation, for example. If I want to, I can ejaculate in probably a minute or two. But if I take my time and fantasize, I can delay that ejaculation for perhaps 20 or 30 minutes. And during that time, a sexual fantasy can transport me to an exotic place where I can bask in the male pleasure of total sexual arousal until my orgasm is inevitable. Of course, with that length of arousal, I would be sure to develop the ‘blue-balls’ if I do not complete the ejaculation. So, once on that course of action, I need to make sure that I do in fact, ejaculate. Read more »

“Keeping It Out Of Reach!”

Background
Yes, only in Day 3 of SR now but still experiencing wildly arousing erections during the night! Last night, I went to bed without wearing a cup; but in the middle of the night, I woke-up rock-hard and honestly felt like I needed to ejaculate! Not wanting this, I quickly decided to put-on my SD Ultra Pro Carbon cup which is quite confining and secure. I went back to bed. After a while, I began to experience that nice, gentle stimulation on my perineum and before long I developed a full-blown erection which seemed to get me closer to the PONR. I enjoyed that feeling for perhaps 15 or 20 minutes, then it began to subside.

Listening Session
After a while, I decided to retreat to my sofa and listen to some audio tracks. The one I selected was a gentle binaural for prostate issues; this was about an hour long and I listened to the entire track. It did seem to gently ‘massage’ my prostate with the sound and I could almost feel another erection starting to develop. But the stimulation was probably not that intense and so I did not experience another erection. Read more »

New high today

Morning. On chest with pillows under hips.

Some lack-luster sessions lately. Don’t know what happened but just didn’t hit the usual highs.

That changed today, big time!

Had a bit of time this morning so I cleaned out, lubed up, and popped in the Progasm. No more than two minutes, really, and I had mt first SO. Second was within a minute. These were about what I’ve been getting lately but, still good. Then the BIG ones started. I mean screaming into the bed pulling on the mattress big ones, and this over and over. I’m easily tall enough to grab the top end of the mattress and hook my toes over the bottom end. I haven’t pulled this hard ever. I bet I’m sore tomorrow. I’d SO then start thrashing a bit on the bed and have another smaller SO while trembling, incredible. Didn’t want to stop but had things to do.

Second session two-and-a-half hours later was the same if not better. NEVER had SO’s like these before and repeating. Got up a couple times to pee but when back on the bed things fired back up. Gave up some afternoon plans just to ride this train for a while longer.

Third session, two hours after the second, was like the first. Fast start, big SO’s.

You think you’ve hit the top and then you find the new level. What an incredible journey it’s been.

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Rumel`s Ruminations – Part III

The following is a copy of the Personal Message I try to send to new Forum members (updated March 3, 2019)
“Hi Guys,:)

Welcome to the Aneros Forums, your best source of information for learning about the multiple benefits and joys of using the Aneros prostate massagers. There is a wealth of information to be obtained on this website. If you are not familiar with the concept of multiple orgasms (dry-O’s), I encourage you to view these two videos by Dr. Joy Davidson discussing “Ways for Men to Have Multiple Orgasms” (Part 1 & Part 2). While she doesn’t mention the use of Aneros massagers as one of the methods a man may employ, the information presented was accurate and informative for men seeking this level of experience and is completely in line with the techniques we discuss on this Forum everyday.
Additionally, you may find these two videos (Learn to Do a Prostate Massage and Learn all the enjoyable things to do with his Prostate) taken from a DVD video, formerly available on the Aneros website, interesting and informative as well.

Finally, I encourage you to listen to the podcast#9: Prostate Massage & Super Orgasms (Seriously) With Forrest Andrews of Aneros. Read more »