Aneros users blogs and guides
Well I just got myself registered after reading into it a little bit. I must say it sounds a bit too good to be true. But I've read some amazing testemonials that get me excited to finnaly order one.
Does anyone have any suggestions of which model I should get?
Things are moving along in interesting ways … first off, my "sweet spot" has now moved from behind the scrotum to just above the penis. Don't know why. I still get slight tinglies massaging behind the scrotum, but rubbing my finger in little circles just above the penis, along with muscle contractions, drives my prostate into a flutter of loveliness. I can do this in bed, sitting at the computer or watching TV and it gives me the same wonderful reaction.
With this in mind, I set out to do another session of exploring without the Aneros. Last week, I lied on my back and rubbed the sweet spot, seeing if I could "train" it to move up my body as outlined in the Male Deer Exercise. Before I was noticing that I could get it to go about an inch up my torso, so I decided to set aside a couple of hours and try it. Sure enough, the exercise did work. I was able to slowly move the spot up the groin, to the belly button and even higher all the way up to my sternum! It was amazing, to think that you can awaken the prostate by twirling your finger inside the belly button! I remember at one point I was rubbing around thinking "it couldn't have gone north of the belly button." Then I touched the skin above that spot and it sent me into ecstacy (wow). The sensations were less pronounced on the upper belly up to the chest, but they were still there. It's strange to think how this works (mind control?), but it made for a pretty thrilling night nonetheless.
So on Saturday I took a break for errands and things to do. Plus I didn't sleep long the previous night 🙂 and was pretty tired. However the prostate kept calling and lightly tingling all day. I went to sleep not knowing what was coming the next day.
Sunday awoke with a large erection and proceeded to get ready for things. I wanted a better video recording session and took some time figuring out a setup to get the camera closer to the action. I created a nice 'bed' on the floor and was able to get the camera fairly close without having to zoom in and out of the way so I wouldn't hit it randomly flailing. Extra lighting and materials in place, I made sure to hydrate and fuel up, took some extra vitamins and then another hot shower to stimulate the blood flow.
Almost a whole weekend-gasm, still trying to wrap my head around things.
It all started Friday night when I got ready for well deserved session. I took extra fish oil, ate some chocolate, also took some bee pollen/royal jelly vitamins too. Got everything ready then took a hot shower. I read of some good techniques for penile relaxation and potential expansion that involve warm water immersion to help relax the blood vessels to allow for more blood flow. I use a hot shower with a head that reduces to a low flow trickle perfect for aiming the flow right where I want. About 10 minutes of shower its off to the room with the Peridise. I videotaped the sessions to get an actual length of time.
I went through two or three of the Peridise's over about 1.5hrs. Such a sweet and sublime warmup. They danced all around and ended up driving me crazy that I was arching into bridge positions (think yoga) and thrusting around. I find that I don't necessarily get as intense orgasm doing this compared to when I can relax, but I just had to move with the body. I calmed down and took a break, got some food to eat and hydrated up. Then it was time for the helix.
Last night, I had a 60 minute session. I had already had a 90 minutes session earlier. This is my first time using this. I had a lot of sensations my first time (shaky legs, a few pillow biting moments, but no "real" orgasm.) My second session, I ended up with an ejaculation, but I did not have an erection. I found myself rubbing my flacid penis like it was a little clit until I came with the Progasm still pulsating in my ass. Anyone else had anything like this happen? I actually felt like a chick (or how I imagine a chick would feel when cumming.)
I am a straight married guy, but I'm not an anal virgin. I've been shoving a dildo in my ass for awhile and I get me wife to rim me or eat my ass out every chance I get. Just wondering if anyone else has the penis/clit thing going on…not complaining, it just felt wierd.
Since my last post, I've almost exclusively used the 'Slingshot' to get things going. I have found that the ab crunch that involves this technique seems to kickstart my involuntaries which previously took 30 to 45 minutes. I am getting involuntaries within 5 minutes of insertion and after doing a couple of minutes of the 'slingshot'.
I may be wrong, but I feel that I'm on the verge of the elusive Super-O. I also get the feeling that I may never get the Super-O. That being said, my level of satisfaction in experiencing the multiple sensations that I'm getting is more then enough to say that I'm a very satified Aneros user.
Most of my sessions have been entirely on my back with my feet flat. I can encourage changes by shifting my feet up or down and/or widening or narrowing the distance between my knees. I am getting best results by just tring to keep the unit in a stationary position as opposed to clinching and releasing. In fact, I have found that instead of focused clinching and releasing, I get better results from putting more or less weight on my feet. I think that this serves the same purpose of clinching as by pushing down on my feet, I am probably clinching the posterior muscles. One important note is that any of these elements are usually very small scale changes (es. ever so slight pushing down with my feet).
X was out with some mates of ours (remember, I had been hungover most of the afternoon) and I spent the evening by myself starting the blog. Typing up my blog entries last night, reading through the comments and looking at some Xtube clips left me feeling frisky.
It's clear that I'm turned on by hearing about other people's experiences with this thing, but putting the gizmo in does not give me an erection, even when I'm feeling aroused.
It's also obvious that some people put a lot of thought into choosing a lube. We've got three:
1 – Palmers coconut butter lotion. Smells lovely, stays slick, does the business whether it's a wank or some bareback bumming (we don't use condoms with each other).
2 – Boots aqueous cream. Thicker and stickier. Good for lubing up toys.
3 – Some nasty water-based lube for use with condoms when we have company around.
Most times I've been using the Palmers, but this last night I used the aqueous cream. I noticed no difference.
All I wanted out of the session was to have a good wank to take the edge off. I had moved the tabs further apart again because I'm still not sure the perineum tab is working the right spot. I experimented with putting it in the wrong way round and although that provided a subtle difference in sensation, I had the same problem with the tab jabbing me and didn't keep with it.
Last night we were down the pub with some mates. It wasn't too hard a session, but after 2 pints of bitter I had to switch to Hoegaarden. My body does not cope with switching, even if it's between different types of beer. I felt all right first thing this morning but then had a relapse and retired to bed around noon.
By mid-afternoon I was perking up (though still not 100%) and is often the case when I'm lying in bed with nothing better to do except hold my head, I began feeling a bit frisky. On one of X's trips out to the shops I popped in the gizmo. I'm definitely getting the hang of it, but again most of the pleasure stayed around the back with my cock not getting hard unless I wanked on it.
Then the headache rebounded and I decided to doze off. The fan was on and it was giving me gooseflesh up and down my bare back. X called in briefly, then went for a late lunch. I perked up a bit, but not much, and wasn't doing much with the gizmo except lying on my front, with one leg cocked and the other straight.
I felt a quiver go down my cocked leg and thought 'interesting' so I purposefully jigged that leg a bit. This set off a strong vibration down the entire leg that lasted a few seconds. It was hard to tell when the spasms were involuntary and when they were just me jiggling it along to see what would happen.
X came home that evening and was taken aback by what was waiting on the kitchen table. 'What's that?' he asked. 'A sex toy…you'll see' I told him.
We had a first go that night. We had been feeling romantic and were getting up to some frisky fun in the bedroom. In the middle of a blowjob session I reached over and introduced X to the Aneros.
One of the things I notice when reading entries on this site is how often guys treat this as a private thing they do on their own. Fair enough not all guys out there have a partner, but many guys who do have a partner don't seem keen on having a session with that person. Plenty of times it even sounds like they are trying to hide what they are doing.
However, I knew from experience X liked prostate massage (but only before with a finger) and I was keen to see his reaction. X had no concept of the Super-O. I had not showed him any of the videos from Xtube or entries on this site. He seemed a bit nonplussed and wanted to know 'how it worked'. I told him to try to suck it in to himself, but I think like me he wasn't comfortable with the K-tab jabbing him.
Another early morning and with an hour to spare before work I decided to experiment further with our new toy.
First up, time for a modification. I wrapped the gizmo in foil (except for the bit that the K-tab is linked to) and held this over the hotplate on our hob in order to push the tab out a bit. I have since learned that the Prograsm doesn't necessarily need heated in order to pull either tab into a more comfortable position.
This time, I had an enema before hopping in the shower. Once soaped up, I stuck the gizmo in and let it 'settle' while I finished my shower. Back in the bedroom, I lay face down like that ArcticWolves in his clip on Xtube. This time I enjoyed more sensation and movement with the K-tab sliding up and down my crack instead of just jabbing into me. I'm not sure the perineum tab is hitting the right spot though and again I had this niggling feeling the bell end of the shaft could do with being larger.
Towards the end of my allotted time I found the best feelings were when gripping the gizmo deep inside, grinding my groin into the mattress while hugging a pillow. I wasn't hard during much of the session and to be honest I can't recall if I wanked or not??!