Confessions

So much for abstinence.

On Wednesday evening I had another go, I simply had to. I guess I had a good session but I felt unsatisfied. A couple of dry-o's.

I must wait for my body to get ready, not insisting on getting the key to the big vibrating universe..

Well, Thursday morning i woke up early, and how do you spend an hour before you should get up? That’s right. Lube up and go. Again I was too ambitious and fell short. After 40 minutes I went to take a shower. And dancing to ‘Wake up and make love to me’ (Ian Drury) I came in a wonderful way. The shower beams touching my skin. I switched the shower to massage and let the powerful beam massage my lumber region i.e. lower back. That turned out to be the right thing to do, good things happened…

Friday my wife came home from the trip, and I was really trying to find a right time to tell her about Aneros. But I didn’t find the right time to do it. So we went to bed and slept as babies. In the morning I woke up early, and was lying thinking of what to say. And when K woke up, I started to tell that I too had been on a voyage. And then I told her about my adventures with Aneros. I was very anxious to hear her response, and it was positive, she congratulated me and was very happy for me. She wants to share the experience with me, but we have to wait until the mother in law has left. This will be on Monday.

Super-O’s, vanished like a fart in a windstorm

Here I was goin’ along fat, dumb and happy, super-O’s almost every session, was beginning to think I had this Aneros stuff down pat. All I had to do is insert my eupho, breathe deeply and relax for around 15-minutes, start a small contraction and I was in pleasure city. Then IT happened, the last 4 or 5 sessions….NOTHING! Sure, the Aneros felt nice and I got a few involuntaries, but what the hell happened to my prostate? Did it go on a walkabout? Or go on strike? Move to a more upscale neighborhood, something with a view perhaps?

When I first started on this journey I managed to find the Aneros superhighway almost immediately. Now it seems as though I’ve somehow taken the wrong off ramp and am wandering around lost in the desert somewhere. Hopefully I’ll soon find my way back to that superhighway….

SWW

Overdosed

I bought my Aneros on June 5.

And on Friday the 12. I had a breakthrough.

Well my story starts like this:

My wife had recently got fired from her work and she now enjoys three months of holiday.

She went to Switzerland to visit some of our good friends. The wife told about their new sex toys and my wife was brave and suggested that we should get a dildo to spice up our sex life. And so I went to down town Copenhagen to a very nice shop called 'Lust' and had a long conversation with the hot girl taking care of the shop. Since I had never been i a sex shop before, I was pleasantly surprised. A very good atmosphere, and a woman that could give me really good advice.

The dildo was a huge success, and i trawled the net for other sex toys. And went to Wikipedia and followed the link to 'Anaros'.

The content of the wiki convinced me that I had to try the Aneros. And since my wife was going to Spain to walk to San Sebastian (Pilgrim route) I felt that I had to get the Anaros to train with while she was gone.

So I went to Copenhagen’s SM store (sm shoppen) and had a talk with the woman there. And we kind of agreed that the msx was the right model.

Muscle Memory and Fantasy/Imagery as Orgasmic Triggers

These are excepts from a current thread in which Pan and I discuss these alternate methods based on his first post in Sky_Walker's thread The Five Minutes leading up to a Super-O at http://www.aneros.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=4096&start=15.

>>>artform wrote: I have found both the Fantasy method and what I have called the Muscle Memory method to be very useful additional arrows in the quiver. But Muscle Memory may be limited to those experienced with yoga or at least successful inner body visualization: being able to mentally connect with a specific body element, isolate and activate it in an unusual way. For example focusing on a wound, visible or internal and actually being able to accelerate its healing.

I used my MGX, when I had temporarily reached a plateau before any Aneros-induced Super-O, and practised having my prostate and its rectal muscle wall cover reach out to contact the tip of the MGX and have them caress it. I called it "polishing the knob". Mine does this hungrily for mrs. a's finger anytime!

Perhaps that was the key, butt it worked with the Aneros and I could then replicate that sensation anytime at will without the Aneros and launch the energies, the Butt Buzz and P-waves, mini-Os and dry-Os and beyond… anytime. The muscles there actually flex gently when I "recall" that memory and the physical stimulus prostate fuse is ignited that easily. Perhaps it's just the trick of an adept with an unusual background. Or, this might be useful for others needing to "do something", just as the Fantasy Method has wide appeal and application.<<<

Trying again for the first time!

Greetings to all. I first must apologize to the Aneros people for
not giving their product a fair shake when I first bought mine about 2 years ago. I tried it out a few times initially without great success and just tucked it away into the assortment of toys I've accumulated. This morning I received an e-mail from Aneros about their new glass product and I decided to revisit this website for a more detailed look around.
I was very surprised to find a chat area, this blog area and many other things I never knew about. So I decided to get my MGX out,clean it up from the dust of inactivity and follow (or try to) the instructions here on site.
I'm a typical Scorpio personality and not long on patience, so after reading some testimonials about instant orgasms I expected the same…didn't happen. I then reread the instructions and followed them closer. I didn't have alot of additional time to give the MGX to work but I did find myself more relaxed than the first time this morning. I did spend more time concentrating on the anal sensations and found more sensations coming to me (nothing orgasmic yet) and when I had to stop and examined my penis I was surprised to find some precum fluid at the head. I thought maybe it was some urine leakage (I have an inflatible penile implant and sometime suffer urine spotting even some while after urinating) but could tell it was definitely precum by the slickness feel to it.
Tonight when I get back home I will devote much more time to doing this experience right and let you know how this rookie fares.

A session that reminds me why I bought an aneros

So, its seems as though when I forget to do my kegels that the aneros isn't nearly as much fun to use.

I recently recalled this missing part of my sessions and started doing them again and tonight they paid off in spades.

It just had my head swimming, me groaning, moaning, whimpering, begging and exclaiming at no one in particular. I'm not sure how but I also managed to avoid a penile orgasm during the session and I'm not regretting it.

So, just take this as a reminder folks, practise those kegels to keep your sessions in tip top shape!

Blowing hot and cold

I mentioned in a previous blog about the wife wanting a toy
and my efforts to find one and get her interested.

She is astute enough to combine this with something she has always wanted so some horse trading was done with an air con unit.
A Feeldoe was duly ordered.

There was a strange occurence one night.
I had a few drinks and was feeling a bit adventerous.
I lubed up my thumb and started playing with her back door.
Entrance was granted to my digit.
She seemed to enjoy that but I did not push my luck.

When she came back from the bathroom I lay on my side
and said it was her turn.
Boy did I get a surprise.
She lubed up a finger and entered me.
What a fantastic feeling that was.
She moved around inside for a few minutes.
The feelings continued for a few minutes after removal.

So needless to say I could not wait the arrival of the Feeldoe.

I decided to include this in my blog even if it is
sort of off the main subject, a diversion on the journey so to speak.

The Feeldoe arrived and we both got a shock. That mother was huge.
I wanted to order the Slim but she insisted on the Classic.
I was thinking what the hell am I going to do with this.
We ordered the vibrating one and that turned out to be a good decision.

Unusual…

So last night I had another session. It was ok, nothing spectacular. I didn't have much luck with getting my prostate aroused prior to the session from looking at porn. I'm starting to wonder if hard exercise can lower arousal levels. As I started exercising regularly outside again since the weather has become nice, and I'm not in peak shape yet. So I'm usually fatigued and sore. Any thoughts?

What was of interest, is that since it has been eight days since I last ejaculated. I allowed myself to have a super-T at the end of my Aneros session. But the joke was on me, as I was not able to ejaculate, and eventually couldn't even stay erect. I ended the session shortly thereafter. Makes wonder about the exhaustion thing from exercise again. Although I did get some really nice involuntaries from stroking my penis.

Later that night I was able to ejaculate without an Aneros inserted. I was surprised at the large amount of ejaculate that came out. I guess eight days really builds it up! LOL

Guess I'm still writin'…

Grinding Away

I haven’t really had a bad session since starting the KSMO. One thing the KSMO really helps with is with the discipline to only use the Aneros three times a week. The Peridise is my weapon of choice since it produces results with a minimum of effort and a maximum of mobility.

I have 4 different kinds of sessions 1) Aneros 2) KSMO 3) The session I like to have when I lay down in bed at night and my prostate starts throbbing and I just relax and focus without either Aneros or KSMO and 4) My favorite, but least frequent, sessions with my SO. Not included are general spousal sex sessions which end in ejaculation and kick off another cycle of arousal building.

All these sessions result in intense sensations that I don’t know how they can keep going without release. And oh how sensitive my nipples have become! The general cycle of orgasm starts out with arousal building with session types 1, 2 and 3 and end when the wife wants it to or I need a good nights sleep – ‘cause otherwise, as the days pass by, the little walnut keeps me awake longer and longer.

Still, despite the constant cycle of arousal building, intense sensations and p-waves there have been no breakthrough moments of mini-o’s, dry-o’s or super-o’s.

Two separate practices?

So as it stands now, I feel like I have two separate but related practices going on. One is the standard Aneros session in bed using my Progasm while laying on my back with knees up. The other is sitting in my computer chair, with no Aneros inserted, while viewing or reading porn. And the interesting thing is that the effects/results are somewhat different. In both practices I do not touch my penis, unless I decide to super-T at the end. But I seem to be getting better at not allowing myself to ejaculate for longer amounts of days. My current best is 7 days.

I so far have had more pleasurable "sessions" without an Aneros in my computer chair. I get these amazing energetic sensations going up and down my torso, and the involuntary anal contractions are incredibly powerful and pleasurable feeling. I generally at some point hold a PC and anal contraction combo. Sometimes slight, sometimes hard, that really jump starts the involuntaries and pleasure. I may have just barely had a mini-O this way last week, but I'm not entirely sure. As I have nothing to really compare it against because I have not been able to experience this sensation again. I just know that it was more pleasurable than what I've experienced so far, and it seemed to have to do with the contractions and involunteries.