Tag: Breathing

A proper wank

The other morning before work I tried an experiment. What if I was truly aroused and having a wank when using the Progasm? Bear in mind all my other solo sessions involved me lying in bed with no stimulation other than my imagination.

So I popped the Progasm in first thing, had breakfast and then selected a DVD. Out of solidarity for the evacuees of Hurricane Gustav I chose Gale Force, about the sexploits of a gang taking shelter in a warehouse during a storm.

Not only was I able to get wrapped up in a good porno, I was in a different position, on my side on the settee. After awhile I stretched across the floor on the carpet, with a cushion under my chest. It wasn't long before some leg trembling started. I also propped myself on my elbows and rocked my torso from side to side, which set off some shivering. The only trouble I found with lying flat on the flat is that the twitching caused me to hit the floor hard. If I'd been on the bed it would've been more comfortable, plus hanging my feet or arms off the bed allows for more leverage in my limbs.

It started me thinking about the way horses are able to shiver a particular part of their body when a fly lands on it. The fly causes an itch and the horse shakes their hide underneath it so the fly takes off again. I wonder if it's all about learning how to use involuntary muscle movements to our favour, like it's the only way to satisfy that itch. Read more »

Equalityboy81's Aneros Experiences

I’m now almost 27. When I first saw the Aneros on the shelf at a local adult store in late 2006 I was excited and bought it right then. I believed what I saw on the website over the years about it. It made scientific sense. I was excited and that night I went home and used it. My ass literally sucked the Aneros right in. I felt it hit my prostate immediately. It was a great feeling. A sweet feeling! I felt like my whole lower abdomen and ass had all this energy surrounding them. I also felt it in my ass cheeks. It felt a little bit like electricity. I had alternated between lying on my back and lying in this position with my legs bent and feet facing down. After about an hour my breathing became deeper and my heart started pounding heavier and I could hear my heartbeat pounding in my ears where it blocked out sound, ears buzzing and ringing, and put me to different level or reality. I felt all the same things when I first inserted the Aneros and lightheadedness and the back of my head was slowly spinning around in circles. It just snuck up on me. My perineum had a nice sensation and my penis had a somewhat numb, tingly, and prickly feeling, more so in the base. Then things were less concentrated in the penis. I felt this warmth, electricity, ringing in my ears, and buzzing through my face, cheeks, and head. I felt like I was floating. It felt so safe, warm, and peaceful. It felt right! This warmth flooded my body like it was shielding me from the cool air around me. It was somewhat like an electrical feeling. My eyes became fixated and vision a bit blurry. I felt in an altered state of consciousness. There was all this sexual energy and emotions. It was like being so horny and submissive. I thought all these sexy/erotic thoughts. It lasted almost a minute or two in all and my penis was unusually, extremely erect toward the end and it spewed out a long string of pre-cum with intense pressure. Then my body felt like it was lowering back on my bed and the stiffness from my back from the experience subsided like I had been levitating and slowly lowered to earth. Read more »

All-Day-Gasm

So on Saturday I took a break for errands and things to do. Plus I didn't sleep long the previous night 🙂 and was pretty tired. However the prostate kept calling and lightly tingling all day. I went to sleep not knowing what was coming the next day.

Sunday awoke with a large erection and proceeded to get ready for things. I wanted a better video recording session and took some time figuring out a setup to get the camera closer to the action. I created a nice 'bed' on the floor and was able to get the camera fairly close without having to zoom in and out of the way so I wouldn't hit it randomly flailing. Extra lighting and materials in place, I made sure to hydrate and fuel up, took some extra vitamins and then another hot shower to stimulate the blood flow. Read more »

Round 2 – the pair of us

X came home that evening and was taken aback by what was waiting on the kitchen table. 'What's that?' he asked. 'A sex toy…you'll see' I told him.

We had a first go that night. We had been feeling romantic and were getting up to some frisky fun in the bedroom. In the middle of a blowjob session I reached over and introduced X to the Aneros.

One of the things I notice when reading entries on this site is how often guys treat this as a private thing they do on their own. Fair enough not all guys out there have a partner, but many guys who do have a partner don't seem keen on having a session with that person. Plenty of times it even sounds like they are trying to hide what they are doing.

However, I knew from experience X liked prostate massage (but only before with a finger) and I was keen to see his reaction. X had no concept of the Super-O. I had not showed him any of the videos from Xtube or entries on this site. He seemed a bit nonplussed and wanted to know 'how it worked'. I told him to try to suck it in to himself, but I think like me he wasn't comfortable with the K-tab jabbing him. Read more »

First impressions

As an introduction, I'm a gay man in my mid-30s. I am in a committed relationship with my partner (X) and we have been very happy together (and sexually active) for 10 years now.

As some straights often ask, 'Which is one of you is The Man?'. Well, sometime the stereotypes are true. In our case, X is a total bottom. He has experimented maybe 3 or 4 times over the past decade with being 'on top' but much prefers being on the receiving end. As for me, I am very happy in the active role and me being on top is our favourite way of having fun.

But it was not always so. The first time I bottomed (many moons ago), I didn't like it that much. The second time, I said to myself 'never again'. The third time, things fell into place so to speak. However, with my partner being neary 100% passive my back passage has been gathering cobwebs!

I can't recall where I first came across the Aneros and the 'Super O' phenomenon. I think it started with a video on Xtube which led me to this site and it wasn't long before I had placed my order. We have a couple toys in the wardrobe, but this looked unique and sounded the business. Read more »

Two more great sessions

I've had two more noteworthy sessions since my last blog. Two nights ago, I inserted the MGX while watching tv in my recliner. I recently removed the tail to facilitate this position. I did the relaxation with deep breathing for about ten minutes. I mentally decided that I would do very small contractions and to focus more on anal squeezes then PC contractions. This eventually produced small 'tremors' that grew in both frequency and intensity. After about 30 minutes of these wonderful feelings, I had an erection and decided to just finish up with a traditional orgasm. I began stroking myself and as I was building up, the 'tremors' started again with even greater intensity. I noticed that I could use a very light touch when stroking myself and could feel the orgasm building deep inside. When I finally orgasmed, it was during the fluttering and involuntary contraction stage and the MGX just seem to bury itself deeper then it had ever gone – WOW. I would definitely have to classify this one as a Super T. Read more »

Sweet Sensations

The last week has brought me a lot of progress in my exploration, starting with the fact that my body has developed a sweet spot that can give me pleasure – without the Aneros! Rubbing or gently pressing on a small area behind my scrotum while contracting my PC muscles produces a nice, low level tingly sensation (not always, however). One night I decided to try playing around with this, and the building sensations brought me to a nice and powerful penile orgasm.

This new sensitivity has been a nice development – it even brought me towards what was the best session ever last Monday morning. Backing up, a couple of nights earlier I brought out the MGX for a little try. Even though I wasn't feeling super horny, I thought it would be worth it to get some practice in. Well, I had it in for about an hour, doing the usual motions, and I wasn't feeling anything at all. Nada. It didn't make me feel bad, though. Mostly it proves that you have to be at least a little aroused going in for it to work. Read more »

Micro-cosmic Orgasm!: A Mirror Intellectual Orgasm?

The following is a recent post I made in Tantricguy's wonderful Forum thread Rewiring & Women's Orgasm:

"Johntrevy, I have come close to what you describe [becoming a disembodied or transformed wholeness-of-being], but rather than the strict geometry of a sphere, it is more amorphous, like a cloud, for me. It can be part of the floating bliss states and frequently is, solo or with my partner.

Alana, thanks so much again! What a wonderful set of vivid, imagery-enhanced, cosmos connections. These recall my IOs of my youth, which keep whispering from behind some thin veil now, as I/we explore and rewire, or more accurately for me apparently, reconnect the experimental circuits of youth and middle age, from IOs, yoga breathing, inner body visualization and healing, Tao and Tantra, hypnagogic voyaging, "touch-for-health", chi gong, and others to those of a lifetime of periodic prostate massage.

A couple of days ago, the morning after mrs. a and I had another great couple of hours of bio-electric coupling to bliss and bliss union with all, we were reading and chatting in bed. I showed her a diagram of the typical structure of a neuron in a recent article on the huge expansions in neuro-sciences lab results and theories. Aesthetic triggers have worked for me for years to set off erotic energies, but this seemed like just a simple even homey diagram… Read more »

ed's journey

sometimes my prostate or asshole seems to demand that i play with it–this was one of those times–if i lie down on my back and use slow deliberate breathing my prostate will begin to make its presence felt–when this happens i will give it time to see whether it diminishes or increases–if it wants to go away i let it–if it increases i see where it wants to go–i never force it cause that is sure to be counterproductive–yesterday it wanted my aneros–it was a pretty good session but i didn't go beyond p waves and some mini waves–there was no "welding" of it to me as i have described before, but there were a lot of good feelings–still on the search for how to initiate regular super o's, but meanwhile a lot of fun and a lot of new things learned–the one thing i can say is be patient

ed's journey

this is the session where i had the super o–i was talking about the quality of the feelings being different since i had the hives outbreak and i thought that i was a long way from getting back to where i was before the allergic reaction to the lyrica–i thought that my feelings were diminished and that i would have to work at getting that quality back–i was feeling pressure on my prostate instead of a delicious rubbing and no tickling like i had before–anyway on thursday i doubled lubed, about 2 to 3 teaspoons, as i wanted plenty of movement, which i thought had also been missing–i started off with the helix and got the same quality feelings but i could move it around and it moved on its own too–i worked with the helix for about 50 minutes and was getting a lot of response,that is, rubbing and quivering of my legs and a good feeling on my prostate–it felt like it was going farther and deeper than ever before–also my prick felt like it was big, which i knew was not true, but it felt like it was–then i switched to my 16 mm peridise and things went on the same from there–it didn't seem like anything was going to happen but i kept with it, not working but enjoying what was happening and relaxing all the way–no contractions to distract me either–just letting it go–then i started to feel what i call a poking on the right side, this is probably a rubbing on the top of my prostate–this makes my breathing start to accelerate and my legs start to quiver–i'm on my back with my legs bent with my heels on the bed, my hands on my chest–anyway i start to feel it and i start to bounce and my legs go crazy on their own, jumping from side to side and up and down, until some rhythm comes along and everything starts to build–my breathing goes ragged and i moan and pant very loudly–i feel the rubbing on the right and then it shifts to the left, what i associate with the lower part of my prostate, and it becomes more intense –this builds and builds and i feel the peridise dig into me all the way and it gets hotter and it seems to weld itself to me–i don't feel it moving at all but all of me is moving, bouncing and legs swaying and head bouncing and then out of nowhere, it seems as if a switch was thrown or a gear shifted, everything goes crazy, but in a controlled way with the rhythm perfect and i'm off–i just let go–i didn't try to do anything but let go and relax–cleared my mind and panted and moaned and bounced–it was the super o and different than i thought it would be–it just took complete control of me and bounced me around and shook me for what seems like a long time but was probably only 5 or 10 minutes–i couldn't tell the time–my mouth was so dry and i was so tired and it just shook me like a rag doll–it must have looked like articwolves's video–i was completely under its control–i was yelling and screaming and panting and my whole body was bouncing on the bed on my ass while my legs were flying up and down and every which way and my arms were bouncing off my chest and into the air–my head was screwing around and bouncing off the bed in rhythm with everything else–it was great but it was completely different from any sexual experience i've ever had–different but definitely something i want to repeat as soon as i can Read more »