Tag: Breathing

Beginner who struggled with the Progasm on the first try, found success in the end: a lube and warm sensation question.

So, after a good 2 hours of trying, and mostly just trying to fit the damn thing inside of me, it finally went in after using Vaseline I luckily still had instead of KY Jelly water based lube. I ruined it by deciding “okay, guess I should jack off now” when I felt like I was laying there long enough, and while the end result of that felt really good, I read a post on here saying that I’m not supposed to touch my dick at all for the super O.

Now for the questions: Should lube have been an issue, is a specific type of lube needed for something like the Progasm in general, or was my technique bad/hole too tight out of little use? What’s funny is I took to Pornhub to see how a guy did it, and the dude just slid it right in fully without any issue. Is there a technique to that, or was it my attempt at pushing in and out and breathing for an hour that helped it get in deeper?

As for the warm sensation, when I read about it, it was described in the thread that the best sign that I’m hitting the prostate is a warm/burning feeling in the abdomen. However, what I felt instead felt like it was coming from what I guess was the anal cavity like where I was pushing the Progasm towards. Upon feeling that, I didn’t know if it was my prostate saying I found it, or my brain saying stop pushing it there or something bad will happen. Nothing bad happened, so I guess I found it? I also couldn’t tell if I was shaking and sucking my gut in because of spoiling myself on that happening, or if my body actually did that on its own. Leaning towards the latter, but not sure still. Read more »

Levator Prostatae Muscle Contractions.

In my quest for a better way to strengthen my pelvic floor ie. kegel exercises, a few weeks ago, I stumbled across an article about the Levator Prostatae Muscle. In males it’s the most medial fibers of the levator ani (pubococcygeus) muscle. It extends from the pubis into the fascia of the prostate. Yes!

With a little practice and attention to the sensation, have learned how to isolate this muscle and contract it while relaxing all other muscles in my pelvic aria.

Levator Prostatae Muscle Contractions, LPMC as I’m calling it, is when this muscle is repetitively contracted or “pulled”, my pelvis rotates ever so slightly and I can feel my prostate being lifted just a bit. Along with proper breathing, the feeling I get is like a pair of small, silk gloved hands caressing the sides of my prostate. Oh, Yes! And with this imagery in mind, the white gloves, after a while, I “come” to an incredibly sweet and trembling orgasm. Possibly the best ever. And then comes the wave of dopamine that completely washes over my body. Oh, yees! And now I need a nap.

The beauty of this is that it’s hands free, no ejaculation, no clean up, no cover up and no refractory period. All the fun, no baggage. My only draw back, at this point, is like any other muscle, it gets exhausted after a while and I need a little rest. However, I’ve been able to orgasm seven times in a three day period, so… Read more »

Am I on the right track (ticklish sensation in perineum)?

So I was just laying on my side with the Aneros Helix Syn inserted, reading the Aneros forum on my phone When I took a deep breath and sighed, I felt a bolt of ticklish pleasure in the left side of the perineum that radiated to my left nipple. Was that from the prostate being stimulated? Is it normal that the feeling is stronger on one side?

Mr. Nuts, my introduction…

I am a 67 year old male with an INTJ personality type. Married for 45 years to my high school sweetheart. I have a “virgin” prostate, except for two prostate exams, it has never been touched. (I’ll come back to that latter.) I consider myself as being very conservative and have been told that am too straight lasted. But yet I found my way here.

It started when I was about nine years old. During school months, my parents had us kids go to bed at 8:00 PM, which we through was way to early. After flopping around in bed for a while, unable to fall asleep, I would start playing around with my thing. This would make me feel like I needed to go pee. I used that as an excuse to get up, go to the bathroom and get a drunk of water before going back to bed for the last time.

One night, while messing around, trying to stir up some pee, something different started to happen. My thing started getting really hard and a sensation was going on that I never felt before. My heart started to beat really hard and fast and my breathing was too! This time it didn’t feel like pee, it was something new and it was fun! And soon enough, I ejaculated for the first time!

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Trouble getting over the curve

I’ve been using a Helix Syn for a few weeks now, maybe 8-10 “sessions” and while I’ve felt some good and never-before-felt sensations, I’d like some feedback as to whether or not I’m approaching it correctly.

My last go with it seemed the most productive. I got myself pretty horny for a couple hours before insertion, with no sick touching. Then took a hot shower, laid in bed, did some meditative breathing, lubed up and inserted the Aneros. Tried to let it just rest for a period of time before contracting. After maybe 15 mins of listening to some chill EDM and breathing exercises I started doing some waves of PC contractions.

I started pumping out a lot of precum, but didn’t feel any sense of needing to urinate or any real pleasure sensations.

After maybe 10 minutes of contractions and using my pelvic floor muscles to literally “pull” the Aneros deeper into my asshole, I started to feel some nice warmth in my pelvic region and felt the muscles in my hips, abs, and legs starting to quiver. I could also feel my dick “jumping” and the Aneros felt like it was being pulled in and out by my asshole.

Then something new happened; my heart started beating like crazy, my breathing quickened, my eyes were closed and it literally felt like I was floating and spinning and things felt mildly good, but no where near what a normal cumming orgasm feels like. I didn’t cum or experience what I believe was an orgasm, only my usual pool of precum. Read more »

Struggling to feel good feelings

Hello, I’ve been trying to get an orgasm from my Aneros Helix for about a year now, but I have been having little luck.

Recently, I’ve been taking all the measures to get any pleasure from it. I only start a session if I haven’t eaten in a while, I do some cleaning inside with a water nozzle, I use a lube shooter and put plenty on the actual Aneros, and I ensure I have ample time to tune in and relax.

My routine is essentially prep, then insert and do some breathing exercises, then minor contractions, then a baseline contraction, then more intense contractions. I do get involuntaries a LOT, but they never seem to bring pleasure. Well, sometimes just relaxing and letting my body sort of lose control over itself is arousing alone.

I’m not sure if I should not be watching porn while I contract so I can focus more? But what do you guys think? I do precum a lot so I know I’m hitting the prostate, but I just don’t know what I should be looking for and trying to replicate. Sort of getting let down a bit.

Any tips for preparation or contraction exercises? Or what I should be looking for and trying to replicate? Thanks!

HFDO or Super O?

HFDO or Super O?

I’ve been reading this sub for a while and started experimenting a little over 2 years ago. I bought a Rocks Off Cheeky Boy Vibrating Prostate Massager. I thought the massager would do all the work and it’d be a hands free miracle.

After reading this sub, I bought an Aneros Progasm Jr and have been using that exclusively. Also, I use a lube injector (2 doses) and have been playing more the past month or so.

Over the long weekend, I had some extended time for a session and it was so good I’ve had sessions 3 days in a row. One day I did 2 sessions. I also use THC edibles and/or vape before and/or during sessions.

When I first got the Progasm Jr, I tried the “lie there and do nothing” method, mindgasm, music, and PC muscle flexing. All of these sessions had pleasurable results, some twitching and PC muscle involuntarily/spasms. Read more »

fantasy

Been playing for awhile. But last week, with the Jr, something happened. I’m hesitant to share as its a little embarrassing but we’re men and adults.

I wanted a fuller feel but not ready for a girthy toy. From
the Aneros suggestions, I bought the Jr
I cleaned up, locked the door and just laid there enjoying my nudity, my dick and the anticipation of this new toy.

It seemed to be sucked into my rectum as it was waiting for it. I shifted on to my back. And started just relaxing, breathing and letting my mind wander.

I began to fantasize about another man,men, entering me and my resistance was futile. I could feel my P spot contracting in the guy pleasure we seek. My dick, not hard, was dripping heavy. I let the fantasy go where it wanted. Things I would never do creeped into my brain. I let my muscles guide the Jr as I thought about co workers nude , playing Aneros games with them. Took everything not to stroke. Read more »

Losing control

Update at the bottom.

Long post, thanks again to all who read and respond.

Always knew there was something back there, so I finally joined the club about year ago. Great fun, slowly re-wiring since I can’t play often…family, 3 kids, time is not my friend.

Had to travel for work recently, so I finally had some alone time. Took my toys, had a great few days. No super, maybe dry O’s for first time. And I can now HFWO every other time.

I even realized the progasm is the wrong tool for me. Gave me great pleasure, but its a jackhammer, and I end up wet and then sore every time. So I threw it out, and I might do the same with my MGX since it also doesn’t feel like it moves. If that makes sense.

Haven’t been able to play for a couple weeks. Now, the losing control….it’s like my body doesn’t belong to me this week. Almost like I broke a nerve or something. Is this normal?

I ride bike, a lot. Love everything about it, even the tight cycling clothes if I’m honest. I work hard to be fit and it’s a turn on to wear in public and catch people checking me out. I do get the odd erection, but in 20yrs on a bike I have never had an orgasm in the saddle. I’ve had two on my peloton this week, both wet. Yes I know the seat can put pressure on the sweet spot, but this has NEVER happened to me before. Second time I was soft and it was less than 5 min after I got on the bike. WTF? Read more »

Am i making progress towards super o?

I tried the ‘do nothing technique’ while listening to binaural beats from shibby. I relax as much as i can while maintaining steady breathing and focusing on the good plesureble feeling. After few minutes, my penis start to get hard and involuntry contractions happens on it own. It start to clench and squeeze the aneros inside me and it become stronger over time. I tried to focus on the throbbing of my pc muscle inside me as it make me squirming with pleasure a little bit. It lasted long enough for me to enjoy that squeezing feeling but i dont think it is good enough to be called a prostate orgasm or super o. There is some precum flowing from the tip of my penis but not so much. So, any advice experiences prostate player can gives me?