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Chapter 2

Chapter 2
With the erotic image of me penetrating him fueling chains of ecstatic sensation in my anal canal I resisted inserting my cock into his trembling opening. Suddenly I felt a need to engage intimately with him, to savor his erotic essence and taste the steaming thick eruption of his passion in my mouth; I wanted to consume and taste the cream of his desire. There is no other way for me to express my intimacy with a man that to take his manhood into my mouth as he releases a flood of hot semen on my tongue. Although my mind was lasciviously imagining my cock in his spasming anal canal as he savored the sensation of my prong filling him I resisted saving penetration for the crescendo of this meeting.

So I pulled away from him and turned so that I was facing him as I rolled him onto his back. Bending his knees and parting his legs, I knelt between them at the altar of his male sexuality and prepared to take the sacrament of his orgasmic nectar. Lowering my lips to the most sensitive part of his sexual anatomy I kissed his sulcus, the firm cleft under his cock head. I kissed it and licked it tenderly and repeatedly making his cock lurch and drool fat drops of crystal clear precum onto his belly. As I teased the ridge of his firm smooth cleft with my tongue I gathered my own precum on my middle finger; it was being coxed to drool from my own cock by what I was doing to him. With my other hand I pulled on the Aneros in his anus, extricating it with a wet plop onto the bed. Freed of the probing device his anus gently trembled between echo contractions. Read more »

“A Reflection: Stepping Back For The Bigger Picture”

[I took a brief break from Aneros and felt the need for some reflection]

While in the shower this AM, I began to get a thousand things pop into my head regarding my Aneros usage and other Aneros ‘voyagers’ and all other things sexual. Here are some of my ‘random’ thoughts in no particular order…….

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It seems that upon first glance, all of our Aneros use is only about pleasuring ourselves. That is partially true; however, in the bigger scheme of things, we are expressing our ‘manhood’ and our sexuality as males. We will gladly ‘share’ our manhood with our significant other any time, any place. We will even ‘share’ it with ourselves!

Our male sexuality is just one facet of our existence as males but it is a vitally important one. As males, we derive so much pleasure from sexual activities that it is almost second-natured for us, like breathing. It is not that we are ‘turned-on’ all the time (according to women), it is in our very being.

At the end of the day, we are fulfilled as males when we are allowed to express our sexuality in the way that pleases us, whatever that may be (provided it is not against the law!) That would include any forms of self-pleasure such as Aneros and other male ‘toys’.

Our existence as males would be unfulfilled if it were not for sex in all its myriad forms. Thank God for sex! Read more »

first attempt today! I have some questions about some sensations that i’d love your comments on

Background: I am a total size queen and love anal play with large toys, but my anal pleasure has always been VERY dependent on penile stimulation. The pleasure immediately turns off as soon as I’m not touching my penis. so I decided it would be a good idea to go for a Progasm and do a little re-wiring!

After reading the wiki, i spent a good several minutes just letting my body adjust to having the progasm inside, on my side with a leg lifted. then i started doing some breathing and contractions at various levels, occasionally trying toe breath of fire to see how that felt. I eventually got to what i suppose could be involuntaries, i didn’t really have to try to make the contractions happen as much. that was nice and pleasurable and i could really hone in on it pressing against my prostate. it definitely felt like a step in the right direction, but nothing that felt like it would lead to a Super-O (not that im really worried about getting there yet).

What shocked me was the feeling i got when i tried the do-nothing method. i switched to laying on my front and just sitting there. slowly building was this distant feeling that my body and mind told me was something to chase. it didn’t really grow in intensity, but i definitely felt like it could be the roots of something intense.

has anyone else had a similar experience?

“Discovering Tantric Sex”

I have heard of the term “tantric sex” but never really knew what it was. Until last night……

My wife and I had a ‘romantic encounter’ that began in the usual way. She spooned me for a while (which felt really good! — I was hard as rock!) and then we changed positions. However, when I ‘spooned’ her, the most amazing thing happened! I suddenly felt no obligation to climax. Instead, I concentrated on pleasuring her and feeling her sexual energy. Let me explain……

This encounter seemed more than just foreplay. First off, I was in no hurry to get-off nor did I want to. When we spooned, I felt a great sense of sexual energy surrounding my wife and I began to completely ‘envelope’ her physically. I was in no hurry. I concentrated on her breathing which, I know now, is the beginning of tantric sex. Without getting too graphic, suffice it to say that I explored every inch of her body. I took my time and I know that she enjoyed the pleasure. At one point, my erection was strong and I demonstrated that to her without saying a word. She got the message!

As I said before, I took my time and I had no intention to climax. All the attention was on the sexual energy surrounding us in that moment. This encounter, it would appear, lasted well over an hour! It probably could have gone on for another hour. Since there was no expectation of ejaculation, the realm of sexual ‘pleasures’ was almost unending. Read more »

“Eupho Dance & HOWO”

What a session! First, a little background. I had been ‘dosing’ on some penis stimulation binaurals for about 45 minutes so I was hard, wet and horny. Since it still was early AM, I decided to “do” a quick non-stimulating ‘session’ with my Eupho and maybe finish-off with an ejaculation later-on. What could be the harm? As it turned out, plenty! Let me explain……

I lubed-up, got the Eupho where it belonged and turning over on my favorite right side position, I relaxed and waited. Well, about 3 minutes in, the Eupho made up its own mind that IT was going to “finish-me-off” whether I liked it or not. So for the next 40 minutes or so, it was a quiet march for me to the ‘edge–of–the-cliff’! Let me further explain…… Read more »

Oh My! What A “Do-Nothing” Ride!

Oh My! Where to start? I found myself alone in the house for at least two hours so I "planned ahead" for an uninterrupted "ride" on Progasm Jr. I had not really used it much to-date since I usually felt that it "filled me up" a little too much. Tonight was different.

I decided in advance that I would make this session a "do-nothing" session and I just planned to relax with Progasm Jr. nicely snuggled in my you-know-what. I lubed up nicely and took my time with insertion. It is a little more difficult than the helix or eupho. Once in, I just turned over on my stomach and relaxed for about 15 to 20 minutes.

Very relaxing so far…..and I got an almost immediate erection with precum. Not a bad feeling!

But then, something happened to disturb this peaceful ride…..

I began to auto-contract ever so slightly. I could feel the Pro Jr. very slightly "tickling" my prostate with P-waves and I could even feel it with every pulse.

Every now and then, also, I began to experience a powerful abdominal spasm. Oh yeah, the moaning, THE MOANING seemed to be non-stop during this ride. Since I was alone in the house (except for the dogs) I didn't have to muffle my moans and I didn't. The moans became so loud at times that I believe that they actually helped increase the auto-contractions. Read more »

“Orgasmic Express”

Wow! What a day! This morning, before noon, I began to get a "buzzing" in my prostate/anal region that would not quit. I needed to go to the bedroom and lay down and I was "greeted" with two (2) Dry-O's! Each one was strong, started up almost without any help from me (felt like an 'auto-f***). I began moaning with each deep breath, and the feeling went on for at least 10 to 15 minutes.

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I swim every day and went to the pool around noon. I usually swim an hour a day now. Everything went well. I bought a new Speedo 'race' jammer and it was really fast! It is almost like a 'second skin'—when I went to the shower, I had to make sure I still had it on, I couldn't feel it!

When I returned home, I got on the PC to check email, etc. and again I experienced some more "buzzing. I needed to lay down and once again, the 'auto-f*** contractions started up and I felt powerless to do anything but ride it out. There were about 1 – 1/2 more dry-O's with moaning. Toward the end of the 'second' one, I must have had a brief 'out-of-body' experience because I felt like I DEFINITELY was not in my bed (but I don't know where I was). I also saw a brilliant 'blue' color in my vision (was this the sky?). I really don't know how long I was in this state since I didn't check the time. It could have been 5 minutes or 30. Read more »

Beginings

This is my first blog. I little about me and the start of my journey. I am a 53 year old heterosexual male. I have been married for 23 years and have loved every minute. I have always had a auto sexual side and my wife has been fine with that. I have "toyed" with anal play during some of my solo sessions – fingers – too awkward – bought a small butt plug – did not care for it. Several months ago I started fantasizing more about anal penetration and I started looking for an appropriate toy. After a lot of research I settled on the Aneros products – but which to get?
I was not sure what size would be good for me so I purchased the Helix Syn and the DeVice – I could decide which to use once I saw them up close.
My purchase arrived over the week end:
First impressions – The Helix Syn seemed smaller than I expected – but based on the reviews I still had high hopes. The Device was larger than I expected and much larger than the Helix – I decided that I would put the DeVice away until I was much more experienced, (glad that I did not purchase that 5.5 inch x 1.5 inch Anal Fantasy model that I was originally looking at.) Read more »

An EMail Never Sent

It has been a while since I have emailed; couple that with the fact that it has also been several days since I have MMOed. My desire is at a fevered pitch. I have been so very busy with work eroticism was forced to the recesses of my mind until there is a lull and then it flares like a blast furnace. When it does erotic thoughts of our anticipated meeting teased my consciousness and tantalized my penis. Guilt has tried to keep my thoughts at bay but moral correctness cannot overpower arousal, desire is a very powerful adversary.

Then last night we chatted and you admitted to me that you think of us being together as the Aneros is inside you unlocking the doors to excruciating pleasure deep in your anus. It is the same with me; as I envisioned us in a steamy embrace cock to cock swimming in the mutual experience of blissful orgasms, my cock started getting hard.

We have chatted about the naked pictures we have sent of each other. The act of exposing my naked arousal to you in pictures transforms my penis into a cock; it gets heavy and stiff with lust. Ultimately the thought of me sharing the vulnerable and erotically embarrassing reality of taking that step beyond virtual nudity and being physical intimate with you made me even hotter. The thought of your eyes scanning my naked body as we stand in from of each other turned my cock into a hot heavy stone. That has been the lingering thought in my mind. Read more »

How to use Helix Syn/Aneros properly?

I just got my Helix Syn and I’ve had 2 sessions so far. I’m confused on what I should be doing to get pleasurable sensations and orgasms. I haven’t really felt any pleasure from either session. I did precum quite a bit throughout both sessions but I didn’t really get any pleasurable feelings. And toward the end of my first session I thought I might have felt a few gentle muscle twitches.

Typically I start on my back with my knees bent since this position is comfortable. Then I spend the first 10 minutes trying to relax, not doing any contractions. Then after 10 minutes I start contracting then relaxing the contraction and then repeating the contraction process. I would also masturbate occasionally throughout both sessions but stop before I cum. Both of my session were a little over an hour long.

I guess I have a few questions. Should I be contracting or should I just do nothing (do nothing approach)? And if I should be contracting, with what intensity should I do it with? Do I need to focus on breathing at all? Should I refrain from touching me penis or masturbating during a session or does it matter? Are there any specific things/actions that I need to be doing in order for the Syn to work?

From the Aneros website forums, it does seem like it takes a while to master using this toy, but I want to make sure I’m doing everything right.