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Had a lot of fun tonight with my girlfriend and a MGX.

Hey Reddit Aneros people,

I just started using an aneros again last night, after having purchased an MGX years ago and using it for a bit with limited success, and then sticking it a drawer to collect dust. I definitely had some pleasure using it, but not enough to keep my interest.

The main reason I decided to bring it out of retirement is that I finally have a girlfriend I feel comfortable enough with to bring up the idea of me using something like that with her.

I had enough fun with her and the MGX last night, that I went only and ordered two more models to try. The Helix Syn and the Progasm Jr. The MGX mostly seems good to me, but the narrow P-tab exerts an uncomfortable amount of pressure. I think I'm going to modify it if I keep using the MGX.

Earlier today we had talked about our thoughts on last night. My girlfriend was totally fine with me using the Aneros, but was a bit disappointed that I hadn't paid much attention to her the whole time I explained to her that I had been focusing on feeling new kinds of pleasure I'm not used to, but that I would be sure to pay more attention to her tonight.

I jump started this by getting us unclothed and starting to kiss and caress her body. I like to have her lay facing away from me like we're spooning. I kiss her neck and run my hands lightly up and down the front of her body. I also breath and whisper into her ear. Read more »

Journeys

Realized that 3 years have come and gone without me logging any events. Time flies. For the first couple of months aneros really didnt do much for me and but kept remembering what I had read in the aneros blogs and discussions so I pushed forward. As most folks the water based lubes were not good for me and took over a year for me to make the change to silcone lubes and now coconut oil. I had a reaction that created digestive problems and flared up gaseous problems to point I thought I was having a heart attack and had difficulty breathing. The doc said I had acid refllex, but after several visits and different types of acid meds it was something else- took trial and error on my behalf to figure it out. So now after using coconut oil it seems better. My aneros days I thought were over.
Now after three years I'm starting to actually have a better feel of the aneros and think I have a better understanding on what I should be concentrating on and when to stop. Starting to have better sessions now. In the past I focused to much on trying to get sexually excited vs paying attention to what the aneros was doing. I also listen to trance music (electronica) while on my knees and butt up in the air so it better hits the prostate and to totally relax and let the aneros do it's thing. I usually stick my helix in the freezer for a few minutes and the apply the coconut oil so the oil stays in place during the session. I also now take t- booster supplements daily and drink with pur-erh tea with maca and ginseng. I'm 56 years old and the sexual drive needs a boost.

Taking cat for a hare

I started to have sessions with a mild sense of good feeling. Had some with that and some sessions with nothing. I had a good feeling going through my spine one time. Also when passing gas and aneros moving in response to that made it good.

I bought the toy looking for an awesome orgasm, but what i got instead )so far( were three effects i wasn't expecting. You guys say " buy a pig in a poke", we here say " taking a cat for a hare". First was on sex: i was harder, and with more cum and pre-cum. The second was that the sessions uplift my mood. Even though i don't have an orgasm, i'm happier afterwards. Third is that i get sensations through my body afterwards when i'm not using it, so the session lingers.

I find that breathing through my belly keeps my focus on breathing and not on what is happening down there. When i am feeling somewhat good i'm usually with a very shallow breathing. Also found porn distracting.

So far so good. Let's wait and see.

Touched for the very first time

I decided to start a blog here so i could someday look back on my experience and also to share with the aneros community how it goes for me. I'm Brazilian so my english won't always be what it might need to be, so i ask for your patience on it.
I'm a 31 years old, straight, married guy.
I bought recently my first Aneros which was a Helyx Syn, and had my first session with it last tuesday.
The forum is very helpful and i understood i shouldn't have expectation as result might take time.
The Helyx Syn is very smooth. i was surprised how bendy the P-tab is. I heard the P-tab could be painful, and i doubt that it is the case with the Helix Syn. Also thought it was smaller than the pictures.
I don't like the whole idea of an enema, and i didn't do one. I won't Wax, won't enema….
I was somewhat aroused by the new experience that i was about to undergo but not highly aroused.
I used water based lube and the aplicator, and lubed the helyx too
I was impressed on how easy insertion was. It wasnt disconforting even though i don't have experience in the anal departament. About half way through insertion it was sucked in by my ass unintentionally. It was like it said "Give me that!!" and i was like "what the fuck?!?"
It wasn´t disconforting with it in me
I tried to breath throught my belly and relax as much as i could but sometimes when i thought my esfincter was relaxed it was really not, it kept coming back to a somewhat tense mode.
The aneros kept poking me inside, sort of like ringing a bell constantly, especially when i relaxed more the esfincter. That didn´t feel neither good nor bad. The orgasm did not feel like answering the door. But i was impressed it did that inside me, as i thoght nothing would happen, i thought it would just sit inside me, i thought to myself "That shit is alive for sure"
Tried some positions and it seemed to move more when i'm on my stomach
I was hard about two times which was dificult lying on my stomach, made a disconfort pressure. It moved faster inside me when i was hard.
There was a moment i thought i was gonna shit myself. Thank god it was not the case.
I tried some light contractions, that did nothing for me that time.
At some point, my ass started to throb a little, quick ones. It was a nice small feeling. Like i get when i stop myself so i won't cum when i'm just on the edge to, or the one when i´m having a dry speel and in need for sex )i don't know if that is common or not(
I thought i did not have any pre-cum, but found evidence otherwise. But it was not much at all.
It was an overwall surprising experience, but i would't call it good. I was happy with it. I wanted to stay with it more time but it was past 1 hour of session and i was a good student. The Wiki said don't overdo it, 1 hour in the begging tops, and i did not want to have bad consequences as i was just starting with that, so i called it quit. Afterwards I did not feel like finishing it off the usual way.
As i did not do an enema it came out dirty, and no matter how much i cleaned it, it stayed with a bad smell. I won't do enemas anyway.
The next day i got a feeling. You know when you are on the see for a while and you come out and you still feel the waves are moving even though you are not in the see anymore? I got kind of a feeling the aneros was moving there. My ass was hangover, it was neither good or bad. I wasn't hurt there either.I did want to have a session that day but thought it would be wise to take it easy, especially with whatever the hell was happening there.
That night i woke up to a feeling of pleasure going from my ass to my balls going through my perinium, when i contracted,)it scared me( it went away. That happened sooo fast that i am not even sure that it happened. did it happened, was it a dream… i'll never know. Read more »

Questions after first prostate orgasm

Throwaway for privacy reasons. So all in all, it felt amazing but I'm freaked out because of 3 things: 1) my prostate or something became monstrously, scarily huge and diamond-hard 2) I'm very confused because I ejaculated but I never touched my penis 3) I only used my fingers cuz I'm penniless until payday at the end of the month. So, basically, WHAT THE HELL does YOUR body do when you prostate orgasm? My body really confused and shocked me. Does your prostate or front wall get gigantic and hard? And was it really just my prostate getting that big? Or was it more than that? And do all your muscles down there contract super hard?? I'm still in disbelief that my body could do all those things. And I'm confused because I ejaculated. I read you're not supposed to ejaculate. I didn't stimulate my penis at all. I did my perineum, but I wasn't pulling the penis skin. I was just going for more prostate stimulation. If you have questions on what I did, you can read the story below. Sorry it's so long and… scientifically explicit.

Starting 2 weeks ago, I started seriously trying for prostate orgasm using all the suggestions on the aneros wiki and on these reddits (basically, be very gentle, still, no very vigorous movements, controlled and focused breathing, etc.). My biggest and only variation is I have no tools. Just fingers. At the end of the month on payday, I'm going to buy aneros and nexus revo. But as of now I'm just using my fingers. Read more »

Testicular Orgasm?

Again in my journey I had to arise and blog. Things ended a little different this time and the buzz is so gentle its special.

I began with cleansing out my anus and inserting a large portion of coconut oil. I wanted Maximus to be fluid and the fluid nature of things to last a long time. Coconut Oil does this and has an added benefit of feeling so smooth inside. Well we settled in together and soon max took over.

As I concentrated on his cycle he would touch and squirm inside me. I started to breath much slower and deeply keeping in tune with him. Max started a series of p-waves much quieter than before, so relaxed as he would touch different areas of me. I decided to try moving my cramaster muscles this time just to see what would happen. I soon felt it was just to be a learning experience, but Max decided to reward me.

My balls began to feel as if they were pulling upward into my groin. As the feeling repeated itself a tingling from the very core would radiate from each of them. Each time I relaxed a new wave of these radiating tingling vibrations would hit my scrotum. It felt as if semen were flowing from them yet it wasn't. After at least five or six of these new sensations that were focused only on my balls came to a climax they settled down into a calm and blissful rest. Read more »

My Second Encounter

Last night in a chat with Brine he asked me to do an entry describing my second liaison with a guy. Brine and a few others have asked about my twice venture into male – male sexual intimacy in the last two years. It is difficult to describe the experience without putting it into context. In a recent chat Brine and few of us were explaining MMO / Super O to a newbie. Brine commented that it was an integrated physical – mental – spiritual thing. He is absolutely right.

For the last 20 years I have been engaged in a discovery process to understand my sexuality. I dipped my toes into Tantra, Zen, Kundalini, edging, anal penetration and erotic massage to name a few. There were also workshops, strip clubs, gay bars, books, pod casts and myriad toys and porn. The frustration of all of them was that they all seemed to fall short or they required a life change to really engage. I was not ready to become a monk or a sex worker LOL.

Then 8 years ago quite by chance I was surfing the net looking for porn when I wound up on the Aneros site. I ordered my first toy exactly 8 years ago this month. That following year was dedicated to learning to use it. When I had ben successful for 8 months or so the rewiring process started. I am guessing that by the end of that year I was rewired. My sexual response, spirituality, physical – sexual capability, and mental state were all synched and in a sense I was sexually reborn. Read more »

Launching an A Less Session

I am in my 8th year of Super O – MMO practice. The progression of my experience with super o has been like walking through a carefully contorted maze. Each turn brings me to another unknown place; that place opens to endless other places to reveal kaleidoscopic orgasmic pleasures that flow in torrents. It has been a never ending journey of discovery. Through it all, the most delightful discovery was the realization of my ability to use my mind to drive mmo and generate extreme pleasure. That pleasure is so intense it tests the limits of my body’s ability to cope with intense ecstasy.

Each session I do I learn some new technique or trick to amplify the erotic pleasure I feel. Often during a session I will drive orgasmic pleasure to a new spot in my body or I will use my mind to guide that pleasure to express itself in a new or intriguing way. However, one of the things that has been really positive for me is the ease in which I can initiate trembling pleasure spasms from a less or inserted sessions.

Last night was one of those A less sessions that followed two days without mmo. Two days of denied mmo pleasure results in torrents of orgasmic spasms that make my legs tremble when I eventually do a session. So last night when J came to bed with a tee shirt and slinky panties clinging tightly to the smooth soft skin of her derriere, I knew that my session later in the soft quiet night of our bed was going to be juicy and sensually surreal. Read more »

Got my 1st SUPER “0”

Since mt last blog i had been having some sessions with the Classic & in between also doing Kegels.I had been away from the sessions for a while & with the Kegel exercises i was enjoying quite strong wet orgasms and noted good & fuller ejaculations.I had wanted to go back to the Classic for more sessions and made a return to it just before Christmas.I was missing that nice “full feeling” experience of the Classic when its inside my anus..& also on the day i was also feeling quite hot & aroused, maybe with all the run-around that happens coming up to the Christmas. I did get a good lie-in on the day and was feeling very relaxed. It was strange but i felt a hunger for the Classic? I had a nice warm shower
and douche but the douching brought on an erection
in the shower. I did not want to cum so i kept cool and soon the erection subsided.It was in the afternoon so i got prepared for my session with the Classic. I have my sessions on the bed lying on my back,so i put out my pillows,towels,and everything else ready to hand. I have a nice comfy “T” shirt that i wear on top but from the waist down im naked. With pillows placed on the bed to raise my back & anus & with my legs apart i lubed up on my
hole and onto the Classic.Taking a deep breath & MMmmmmmmm -so nice feeling the Classic slide in..
My erotic thoughts were going thru my mind and as normal as it happens i got an erection. Wow was i feeling hot! I had experienced some waves of pleasure on my previous sessions but this time they were feeling more intense? I let these waves wash thru me and at the same time i was applying gentle anal contractions onto the classic.Unawares to me this action started to make these “new” wave patterns much more intense? I lay there engorged in this pleasure.As the waves peaked they made me moan. Now they started taking on a “cyclic” pattern
of their own! At peak level I moaned, i really did..
I just lay there -and let things happen! I never felt anything like this before..it kept going…
-the “recycling waves” of pure pleasure going right thru me. They would build deep in my pelvis and “burn-outwards” thru my whole body.. OOOOoooooooo.
The strangest thing then happened the Classic made an “involuntary spurt of contractions” I don’t know how this happened? all i do know is that shortly after this a fookin “HUGH” wave began to build!! My
erotic thoughts went into this “massive” buildup. This monster wave shook my whole being. It felt like an atomic bomb going off! I felt so hot and my face went contorted, my whole body went into an uncontrolled convulsion{s}( I could’nt breath properly? I really felt & thought i was going to suffocate… My tightly clenched fists gripped the bed! It forced me to CRY OUT… AAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGgggggggggg.. I was totally swamped in this so-called “SUPER 0” I remember as the massive waves peak feeling the Classic involuntary pumping inside of me! It was a total “out of body experience” I never-ever- felt anything like this!
With the strength of this “Super 0” it caused me to push my head deep into the pillow.When i recovered i looked to see if i had shot cum but there was’nt any {except some ooozing precum} WoW! Read more »

A few questions about using an Aneros.

I posted this in /r/pegging and someone suggested that I would have better luck here.

I just bought a helix syn and I've had 3 sessions so far. I've read up on the wiki and done a bit of research but I'm still unclear on a few things.

  1. What exactly should I be thinking about during my sessions? Should I work on having a clear mind and just relaxing or should I be fantasizing and thinking naughty thoughts? If I'm suppose to be keeping a clear mind and just relaxing then what's the point of being aroused prior to the session? Doesn't the prostate only swell when while you're being stimulated mentally/physically?

  2. Should I be flexing my pelvic floor muscles as I breath or just breath and relax? If I should just be relaxing, then when should I start flexing my pelvic floor muscles?

  3. I don't feel the peeing or tingling sensation most people describe. I know people have said it takes a while to "re wire", but at what point should I try a new toy? I should also note that I don't feel it when fingering my prostate either.

  4. The location of my prostate. I stuck my finger in and I think I found it about an inch and half in, however, when I compare this location to the helix syn it doesn't seem to match up. Should I be stopping at the first neck? So far I've been pushing it all the way in to the final neck. Read more »