Tag: Concentration

Nothing on Doing Nothing and But Buzzin

On Friday night, I had a date with my Helix Syn and after reading several Forum posts about the ‘Do Nothing’ approach I decided this was the night to try it out. I lubed up, inserted and layed down to enjoy the session. Having tried this method before but without the patience, I never really gave it a chance. So, an hour and a half into my session, doing nothing but concentrate on twitches and pulses and sensations which never came, I gave up and spent my last 20 minutes doing a few Kegels and contractions but again not much to write about. I’m not giving up on the concept so I plan to try again on occasion. I know it works, I just need to give it more time.

On Saturday night, another date with my H-Syn but this time with mild contractions and Kegels (usual practice for me). This time, I experienced a lot of anus and anal sensations I never had before. My Helix was just dancing in there. I had read about it from my co-members on the forum but a very first for me. It was GREAT to say the least!

All this to say that my re-wiring is still progressing. I think about this every time I feel a new twitch, tingle, tug or whatever else trembles down there. I have a long way to go and enjoy every minute of it.

I look forward to my next date on Tuesday or so.

Holy shit. Holy. Shit.

Ok, so I’ve been trying to use my Aneros more lately. It’s tricky, being married with two kids, to find time to set aside an hour or so to just lay down, relax, and enjoy myself. I’m also trying to balance hobbies and such, and some evenings I quite simply have to choose between hobbies and aneros time. And I value my hobbies, so the Aneros is only getting love once a week, at most.

However, last night I decided to indulge. Kids went to bed, the wife was watching her dumb shows, and I went to lay down. And it was the best session I had experienced. I’m still getting mostly just P-waves, but it’s amazing how sticking with it has you make some progress, little by little. And I was laying down for about 2 hours, and finally I had to get up. Whew. It was amazing.

Until today.

You see, at work I got a little frisky thinking of my progasm. So I made some flimsy excuse about going home for lunch for errands, and I drove home for lunch (10 minute commute FTW). I got home and it was quiet. I laid down, carefully slipped it in, and put on my headphones with a binaural beat youtube video “designed” for prostate stimulation.

Yes, I realize that binaural beats are, basically, total bullshit, but the noise DOES help me block out outside noises and concentrate on the fun. So they might not sync up my tantric energy, or something else about universe energy, but they help in some way. Read more »

Edging-less Progress

It’s been almost two weeks since I completely stopped my edging and masturbating sessions in favor of concentrating on rewiring and prostate awakening.  Since then, I have had 3 Aneros sessions and daily Aless sessions, to the point of being constant.

I must say that my sessions and Aless have all been far superior to what I was experiencing before.  My brain is now focussing on my prostate and not on my genitals.  I can maneuver my massager (H-Syn and P-Ice) far better.

I’ve not given up on bate/edging altogether but for now, I’m appreciating my progress. I must admit, I’m horny as heck but I will try to continue on my path.

It’s amazing how each one of us is different in every aspect except one; we enjoy what our journey is giving us no matter at what level we are.

Discovery and Reality

In the last several weeks, I have noticed a reduction in my Aneros and Aless session’s progress. In fact, my Aless sessions were no longer giving me noticeable results to the point where I almost gave up on them. I was no longer waking up to a ‘horny’ erection and my A-sessions had plateaued. The only progress I was making was in my edging activities; I was edging at least once a day, sometimes more. My progress in that area took me to MMO but unfortunately, it was consuming most of my sexual energy.

I thought my 2-week absence from my routine would bring things back to the levels they were a month ago but it was not the case. On the positive side, I took advantage of these two weeks to really push hard on my Kegels as suggested by @BigGlansDC.

Following a few inquiries from Experts on the Forum, I came to the conclusion that my high penile activities (in my edging) might be impeding on my prostate reconditioning. Last Sunday, I made the decision to greatly reduce penile activities and concentrate on my rewiring journey. I can always return to these enjoyable activities once my goal has been reached. Of course, once in a while I will indulge in delicious edge/bate/ejac. sessions. Read more »

Porn, an Addiction or Not

I know this topic has been written about many times and there are as many opinions about it as Carter’s got pills so here goes.

Before my Aneros and back door discoveries, porn was my good reliable friend to achieve my pleasurable moments. I reflect on the fact that, probably due to age, my sex drive was forever low. I could always rely on porn to give me back a little of the spark I needed to achieve positive and, what was at the time, my ultimate (but elusive) pleasure.

Along comes Aneros and all the pro & con advises that comes with the Wiki and Forum. The correct answer to this is ‘to each his own’. Now, having said all that, I will outline my own experience.

In my early Aneros sessions, I continued to rely on my crutch and the toy helped expand my pleasures. With limited progress, I eventually realized (referring to forum’s expert opinions for advice) that porn was in fact preventing me from appreciating all the feelings and sensations happening in my lower innards. Pleasure was plentiful but it was mostly externally penile. Eventually, while practicing pornless (is this a word?) sessions, I feel I progressed by encountering feelings I never had before and for me, the proof was evident that my old friend should remain in the past and to be re-invited only periodically for a good masturbate session. Read more »

Superabundant Aless –> Wednesday morning session, 8/10/16 –> Oh, that sweet Aless!

F–k, short Aneros login times again, I lost another blog post! 🙁

Yesterday morning I laid off having Aneros sessions altogether. For a week before yesterday, I been having nearly daily sessions with close to five Super-T attempts in the late evenings. With that kind of schedule, I didn’t want to full into utter sexual depletion nor to become an Aneros addict! Moderate Aneros use suggests that you have sessions with days set apart for recovery and relaxation. This approach is analogous to a weight training regimen. Lifting weights every day actually impairs muscular development, so also with the Aneros. Plus one’s body knows what it wants. Pay attention to your body when you use Aneros. You may save yourself from serious injury.

Masturbating your penis with an Aneros inserted is the heart of the Super-T, but also anal contractions are called for in this pursuit. The coveted goal of the Super-T is an intense, sustained orgasm coupled by a monumental ejaculation of semen! Guys on the Aneros Forum have reported to me that Super-T’s hence are exhausting. Many avoid Super-T’s as much possible and concentrate on achieving Super-O’s and MMO’s. That has been my approach from the outset of my sessions leaving my penis out of the Aneros equation. However right now, I feel the unfulfilled, unrequited goal of the Super-T which has revved up even more so my Aless. Read more »

“A Toothpick?—- You Must Be Kidding!”

Oh my!! Just when I thought I experienced it all, this “session” had me blasting-off into orbit! Let me try to explain how it happened……
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I was up fairly early. I had a strong erection just before getting up so I know I was quite aroused. I went to my favorite sofa and proceeded to dose on a binaural for multiple orgasms (no ejaculation). It was about an hour long; I finished it but frankly I did not experience much this time. Oh well……
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I then started to look for some erotic lounge music and proceeded to listen. Now I normally don’t point the finger at the music selection for my success during sessions but this one really did it for me (on YouTube): “EROTIC FLUIDS – MAKING LOVE & Relaxing Romantic Sensual music❀ ,SEX MUSIC MIX BUDDA LOUNGE” It was a full 2 hours long (and I am still listening as I type this!)

Anyway, while listening, I got the urge to just concentrate on my perineum and scrotum during this session. So I got naked, tensed-up my scrotal “package” and proceeded with a slow tantric massage “down-there”. Realize that I did not really have an erection (yet) from this but it was so sensual and satisfying. Then, something quite unexpected happened……

I thought to myself: if my fingers can be so arousing, can I possibly get the same amount of pleasure from……A TOOTHPICK? Read more »

Major breakthrough! With or without Aneros?

Lately, I have been practicing semen retention (18 days now) without any blue balls effect; in fact, it’s been much easier than I thought. I’m doing it simply because ejaculation, however good it has become, is a drain on my system and sets me back as far as mood to explore is concerned. I have also been trying to practice transferring my sexual energy from my genitals to the rest of my body as described by some Taoists in the book ‘Multi-Orgasm Man’.
I have been working my PC muscle pretty hard and regularly. I have been practicing edging and towel bouncing with surprisingly good results.
Last night, I prepared for a session with my Progasm Ice. During my session, while doing light PC contractions and with slow, deep lower abdomen breaths, I experienced some feelings in my penis. These feelings are located just under the cap of the penis, just under the V section where my penis hot-pot is. At this point, instead of trying to grow them (pushing for results) I tried to draw those feelings and transfer them through different parts of my body. I did that by pulling in my perineum and then concentrate on transferring them to, first, my lower body and then up my spine. All this was done with my deep breathing coupled with light contractions while of course fantasizing. I had some level of success in decentralizing some of the sensations as I started feeling twinges in my balls and then lower abdomen and belly.
Unfortunately, time was progressing and I had to call it a night. The feeling were so good, I could’ve stayed all night. Read more »

“Self-Tantra: Erotic Transformation”

OMG! What an erotically-supercharged session! I am eager to put this into words. [But I must caution in advance: this is going to get very graphic]….

This session began with some erotic music which I discovered on YouTube: “musica romantica erotica, compilation rilassante”. Very soothing and it seemed to put me in the right mood. To further accentuate the mood, coincidentally, a thunderstorm was approaching! Well, I decided that this ‘session’ was to concentrate only on my scrotum since it was clear from a previous session that I could experience more pleasure from that part of my body. I began to perform very slight touches, strokes, all-over and under. This continued for I don’t know how long. After a long while, I somehow began to move lower down the scrotum, towards the perineum and continued the touching and light ‘massage’ there. This kept up for a while and I began to feel a distinct bulge in my prostate. OMG! It is feeling amazingly good! ….. Read more »

“Semen Retention: A New Update”

I wanted to give an update on semen retention and how I am progressing. I don’t do this often in the blogs but I found an interesting post online that I want to share. It seems to describe this practice of semen retention very well. Here it is……

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“This is someone’s post I have pulled from a website called TheTaobum”:

“I recommend stopping Ejaculation full stop. It is empty and depleting.
Learn a bunch of circulation/transmutation and sublimation exercises.

And when the energy builds up which it will, get a life.

Find things to put that energy into. do shaking practices, go dancing, make love for 5 hours without ejaculating, work on your dream whatever…

You will slowly also become ‘horny tolerant’, which means you will become comfortable and even start to enjoy the high level of energy you are carrying around. It changes the nervous system over time, and will begin to naturally {even without meditation} produce the higher states of consciousness and bliss. Your mind will become clear and stable. And you wont get sick nearly as often…

The Danger here is ego inflation. people will be very attracted to you, and you tend to become more persuasive, than your flat post ejaculation self. Keep to honor and Integrity as the rule. Read more »